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Sunday morning Still in the bed... I am not "allowed" to go downstairs,  Until my sister comes and gets me.... Total madness, But i am fine with that. Dont mind at all. She has to clean out soooo much mess!! Every corner in the house is full of "stuff"- he NEEDED to HAVE! and more and more... 3 dinner tabes. And what about all his cothes!! Too talk about total madness! It is a mental decease, you know? There is even a very fancy word for it. Onio manie. The uncontrolable need to buy, To try to fill that void, Inside you. One other aspect of this mental disorder is, To isolate yourself, from others, But also other members of your family. Out of fear, to be found out.... And that is what he did, too Try to isolate my sister, from having a normal social life. Contact with her family, friends, be a member of the social life, in this little village. Fff criminal behaviour, HE, could have choosen, to go and find help, With this "problem".... It overtook every part of their living, And that of their , too there was never any money, for out of school activities, Because he NEEDED to spend it all. No summer camp, no sportsclubs, for their daughters.. He could have choosen help/ therapy....? bully, creating fear, manipulate is what he choose.... You do understand, why i never liked him? Burn in hell, is what he should, for what he did to my sister and her daughters... On the other hand... She could have demanded divorce, Because of him being not capable mentally, to have a family etc?! Always both sides.... to any story.. Still, there is this ONE thing, And that is; having, always having your OWN responsibility. No matter what! Anyway, my sister is healing from this mental ...A ^- b^- use... every day, bit by bit... |
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It is a cold rainy day, I am sleeping in this room, filled with his mess!! It is every were i look, in the other rooms, in the house, too. Sighs... Lots of work to do, for my sister... I want to clean it all out, NOW! hirea big container and throw it ALL away!! But, my sister rules, So she will do it, herway...
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We call people like him, hoarders here in the divided states of America. LOL glad you're able to help your sister, I'm sure she appreciates it.
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It will take time for her to heal but she is lucky to have you by her side to help!
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glad there is healing 
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It will take time for her to heal but she is lucky to have you by her side to help!
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glad there is healing
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