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rosaenaluin 65F
10076 posts
4/3/2024 11:49 am
Dominance, dominant, master, dominance, master?


I am done.
I am too tired,
and have been lied to, too many times.

To be able to open up, ( again ) for someone...
Well,.... Why?
The amount of energy to have to put into that socalled new contact,
never equals the energy, i get back....
Most of the time....

It all starts as lying,cheating, cheap talking....
I just feels there is something off....

Like those bedroom dominants?
I inmediately feel they are playing a game
Not really interested in me, at all

Only in what they can get out of me, or out of my body....

Sooo terrible tiresome...

I am done playing games just to stroke their egos....

There is such a big part of psychology in building a Master_ slave dynamic.
This is, certanly in the beginning, a case of fingerspitzengefuhl
being subtile....

It is not about ticking of some boxes, of wants and needs, hornyness, and the likes?

You have to want to invest time, energy and being sincere is just one very big part of this, too
Having patience, building trust, be réally, réally into that other person?
Both have to want to dig into that other persons personality.

Not!

Not trying to keep a score....

I am done.
I dont mind if i never, ever wil meet a Dominant_ Master in my whole life......
They are not worth the effort....

I am rather happy without them.

Then have to go through all those lies, and game playing....
All the emotional turmoil they create by making believe talk
but never, ever are able to follow that up.

sorry lot!

rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
4/3/2024 11:51 am

And, please, please, refrain from giving "advice"- thankyouverymuch -


NoNonsenseFromU 74M  
160 posts
4/3/2024 11:54 am

On behalf of the reputable Doms in the world, I am sad by your decision, but completely understand it. Best of luck.


rydermantel 69M
25139 posts
4/3/2024 12:43 pm

I have no advice.


DancingDom 74M
22565 posts
4/3/2024 2:20 pm

I am like you, if no one meets the standards, it is simpler to just be alone.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse 53F
5739 posts
4/3/2024 2:57 pm

We all know what is best for us. So do you, dear Rosa.


brandygirasol 55T
9430 posts
4/4/2024 3:36 am

I can't even give myself good advice.. Ha🤪


likeithot19 62M
6007 posts
4/4/2024 5:31 am

Finding someone who really is on the same page, when one is not going to settle, IS looking for that needle in the haystack.


drmgirl622 68F  
26077 posts
4/4/2024 6:09 am

You are worth it......


rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
4/5/2024 10:35 pm

DD,
Yes, indeed...
Although the longing still stays very much alife....😔😌😔


rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
4/5/2024 10:36 pm

Ex,
Thank you, sweet girlfriend! 🙏❤️


rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
4/5/2024 10:38 pm

brandy,
You made me giggle,
But i somehow really dont believe that....


rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
4/5/2024 10:41 pm

likeithot,
Since THIS, what i want and need, is in No way, vanilla..
The search alone, is already totally different..
So, no haystack, no needle....🤷🤪


rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
4/5/2024 10:41 pm

drmgirl,
Aah, thanks, 😍😍😍😊



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