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I got 20 points, so he said....? In this conversation about dominance, submission, master, slave he told me at one point, that i just won 20 points? HUH? What? I did not know, i was in a game of winning points? I was under the impression, we had some sincere conversation about what being in a D/s- or M/s all is about... scoring points? He never mentioned that before in our conversation, That i had to collect points, for what ever reason? So, i finished that contact. Points?? WTF? anways, good riddance. |
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I know, there are people in a dynamic, who do get or count points, for good or bad behaviour, so the d type has "a reason" to "punish"his submissive. To each their own.. Or, that submissives have to count the amount of hits for the d type, when he is using a whip, paddle, or some sort of other implement...
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Who says things like that? As you say, this is not a game. Ignore foolish statements and the ignorant and uninformed dolts that utter them. Don't get strung along by them.
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ryder, just because i did not wanted to go to private mail, after just 6 message exchanges, i got points for that!  amp;WTH? May i puke! please! And can someone, anyone bash his brains in, he does not use them, anyway! 
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I am so sorry for your bad, nay, terrible experience(s). There are on this site reasonably intelligent, mostly thoughtful, true and honest Dom(me)s (and Subs) but it can be such a challenge to separate them out from the fakes, frauds, and bad actors. The wonder is not that people don't meet; the wonder is that anyone does. Best of luck, Rose - I believe there is a lucky person out there waiting to meet you.
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Just keep on being you, Rosa!
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I know, there are people in a dynamic, who do get or count points, for good or bad behaviour, so the d type has "a reason" to "punish"his submissive. To each their own.. Or, that submissives have to count the amount of hits for the d type, when he is using a whip, paddle, or some sort of other implement...
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I AGREE with 'drmgirl622', Rosa, 'Just keep on being you, Rosa!', that'swhen you're at your BEST, and that's who you are!!
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I'd take those points. Can't do shiiii here without them
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ryder, just because i did not wanted to go to private mail, after just 6 message exchanges, i got points for that! amp;WTH? May i puke! please! And can someone, anyone bash his brains in, he does not use them, anyway! 
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ryder, No, it was his way of saying, he liked my refusal on his proposal, to go, that fast, onto private mail.. !?  Was he testing me...? Not a smart way.....
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rosa Good riddance but good blog fodder! It is a shame you wasted your time though  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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TheSubWithBrains, Exactly, especially when it is not discussed, beforehand. I would NEVER enter anykind of dynamic, where i constantly have to be aware that i can loose or gain points... by what ever i do... Manipulation comes to mind, with that... Some seem to like it... use it... though... i see it as a game, no commitment, playing around...
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jenny, Thanks, Aah, well... you know...?!  I am totally done with those timewasters/ vanilla's.
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NoNonsenseFromU, Indeed, that is the biggest wonder, at all.... Yes, that is my believe too.  😊🤗😚
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1benquick, Thank you, 🙏😊🤗
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drmgirl, Sometimes i wish i could, but THIS is what i have to work with! 😚🤣😇
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brandy, Thanks, but being on IM is even worst, then the insults i get into my inbox.... On a good day, that is...😝😝😝
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Face, That is not what this is about....
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I'd take those points. Can't do shiiii here without them
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So what is the point system? Do you know? I am not concerned about how it works. I just want to know what it is about. Thank you. 
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Ryder, There are people playing the bdsm bedroom game. And in their contact, the d person likes it, when he can give the s type points for good or bad, behaviour. After some time, say 1 week, he then "collects" this/ his points, by giving her some kind of punishment, or funishment(?) For her "bad" or _ good_ behaviour. Say she has been bratty??? So he has a "reason" to give her some... physical sensation... Also, some d types, like it, when he gives the s type some actions with say, a paddle, that the s-type counts the amount of hits. And when she makes a mistake with counting, he has ' a reason' to start all over again... To me, that is sooo terrible tiresome... To me, a D type does not NEED a reason to want to use his slave, in any way he feels like, because THAT is what they both agreed to, in their dynamic.... But to each their own And, my kink is not your kink , but your kink is oke (too)... Or something like that..
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Ryder, To me, that is a game, they play....
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There seem to be a lot of game players on this site.
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Daddy, When you look at it, from a negative viewpoint, you would think so. There are some real fine people on here, those who write blogs, are most of the time, great real people. Yes, about the "status", on your profile, cruel, so very cruel.... 
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Very nice read thank you.
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