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Submission I am a submissive. I don't think I'd even begin to know where to start as a Dom/Top. I enjoy being this way for many reasons. It is truly freeing to the mind, soul and body. But in order for it to be this freeing my Dominant has to be someone I can trust fully. Someone whose going to do all that is necessary to ensure safety and well being. A true Dominant understands that this is part of their role. This doesn't mean they cannot inflict pain or "take" the things they want of and from my body. It doesn't mean they cannot "force" me to do things I otherwise would not. It simply means they know and understand limits but also know they can test and push them in a safe manner. For as much as the Dominant is in control, so is the submissive. I know this sounds ironic but that is how trust works. The Dominant gives the sub a way to communicate and understands that communication as what it is: stop, slow down, or keep going. Just as a woman has a right to say no to sex a sub has a right to say stop as well. It may be agreed beforehand that if "stop" is applied then some type of punishment may apply. This doesn't need to involve pain it could be as simple as no sexual teasing or gratification for the sub for a time while the Dominant may require service from the sub. This can lead a sub to re-examine whether or not the "stop" was premature or fully warranted but even so should still be discussed by both parties to see how it may have been done differently. Submission is a gift given to the Dominant. A submissive is not weak nor ignorant. A submissive is certainly not a doormat to be walked on with no care. Just like any other person we do have thoughts and feelings. If we give you our submission we do so out of love and respect and will do all in our power to please you. We understand this takes work on our part just as our safety and security takes work on Yours. |
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very beautiful text, and everything is said for an obedient submissive and a respectful dominant 
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