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Getting dumped hurts Ok spent the last month talking with someone i had so many feelings for and basically ignored a few nice messages and people on here to focus on him as we made future plans of meeting. .. Only to get pretty much dumped this morning for a 'it's not you its me' kind of reason (i think?), he will probably read this and i hope he does but its hard to move on i don't get a lot of messages or interest in me and when i commit to someone i do it 100% I know everyone goes through this at some point but if i knew what i did wrong at least i could make sure i don't do it again and learn from my mistakes. he stated distance between us, but the distance hasn't changed since we 1st spoke? Then mentioned i showed too much skin in a picture i posted on facebook but although it was skimpy i wasn't showing any cleavage or anything and its been so hot here last 2 days most of the girls i know have posted bikini pics, i wouldn't even do that myself I'l add the pic on here even tho i'm very very self conscious about my body and the size i am so you can make up your own minds.. would you be jealous or mad if your girlfriend or some one you were seeing posted this? |
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Controlling in the bedroom is OK but outside of the bedroom controlling behaviour is a warning sign that usually indicates a insecure person. I would be happy for my lover to post a bikini shot of her. ------------- I can be reached only via my blog pages: Private mail box for messages Private chatroom restricted to girls only: Private room for sub girls
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It's the nature of Alt that you will inevitably waste a lot of time with a lot of people. Don't take it personally - it really is them not you - and just be very careful out there. Relationships over distance can work but they are really not ideal, at your age especially it is much better to find someone local who you can share lots of quality time with. Good luck! Contact me privately via the PM at the head of my blog page
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Bummer. Not a nice feeling I'm sure. Hopefully he'll have enough concern for your feelings that he'll contact you and explain. It won't hurt him, in fact it'll make him look and feel better, and it could do you a world of good to know what brought this about. If you don't hear, however, it's not the end of the world. At your age I got my heart stepped on regularly. lol Looking forward to seeing the pic. Apparently the alt monkeys ate it. They do that a lot. Voracious little suckers. You may have to re-post it as part of the comment section.
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re-posting it now, yeah its strange not sure why it has gone from here? there's no nudity in it and compared to a bikini its hardly anywhere near as bad
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The alt. monkeys seldom have reasons for taking down photos. I think it's more often a programming glitch. Their software does everything for them. I doubt there is ever a human being involved once the program is created. There is certainly never a functioning human brain involved. Your picture is fine. If anything it is modest. Are you sure the guy you were talking to wasn't celibate, or a divinity student? 
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Yeah i'm pretty sure he maybe had met someone else or just decided i wasn't right for him and turned it around and used what he had, which wasn't much, as an excuse to end it
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You will probably go through this a hundred times before you get to go on a date and than they forget their wallet. You are a very lovely young lady and deserve the best. He is out there somewhere. Good luck.
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Peppel play games on here. Perhaps he was married and his wife caught up to him. Perhaps it was a kid playing. Perhaps he had several women on the line and choose one closer to him. Either way, you did nothing to warrant jealousy or his domineering behaviour. He was the problem, not you. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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He was right - It is him and not you. There is nothing wrong with the picture or your decision to post it. You are a very attractive young lady and should have no trouble meeting someone new when you are ready. You are definitely NOT fat, nor ugly. I wish you all the best moving forward in your life and I am certain that you will find true happiness in the not so distant future. Take care and enjoy yourself.
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Wouldn't dump a date with you and as you know I expect you to show off your baby fat  My only point of criticism would be that when you are blonde, a red, pink or white body fits better in my yes, even more so a body/swimsuit that reveals your tummy! P.S.: Dunno how much experience he has with deaf girls but maybe he got scared when thinking of how a real-life meeting would go and how well he would handle it and other people looking at you both.....
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4/5/2018 5:18 pm |
You have nothing to worry about, you look perfect. Don't let this experience prevent you from trying again. Just tread more carefully, try not to fall too hard, too fast. We can't always be sure that people are truthful, especially when reading their words. Wishing you better fortune for finding someone real.
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8/9/2021 7:22 am |
Really lovely picture xx
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1 post 12/11/2021 6:15 pm |
fair enough to complain but i know of at least two people you did exactly the same to - in my case not even goodbye, just silence ....anyway ....
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lovely picture not seen this one before xxx
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