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I like giving but not recieving (am i strange?) I have never liked anyone to lick or put there head between my legs, i feel its a bit gross to do that but i really love to do oral on a man so so much, i know some men say they like to lick a pussy and say its nice but i think most of the time they do it because they want to make a girl happy? i have never liked it being done to me and i dont find it sexy or enjoyable, am i weird, do most girls like it, should i just let someone do it, or should i be honest and tell them not to do it to me? just interested to know what people think and if i'm weird for only liking going down on a man and not them licking me out? ** just a fresh thought. It Would be nice to find a man or have a boyfriend that didn't like going down on me, so i dont have to be mean to someone who enjoys doing it by saying no there most be men out there who don't like licking a girl but love being sucked all the time? ** |
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7/21/2021 2:59 am |
Guess i'm like you lol prefer giving doesn't really do much for me receiving nope we not strange least hope so lol xxxx
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have to admit i like both.but each to their own.what one person may like,another may not like it.hopefully you will find someone that likes your likes and dislikes.
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7/21/2021 3:42 am |
Do what you enjoy and you'll never work a day in your life. 
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As previous posters have said each to their own . I have in the past had subs who both enjoyed and disliked oral performed on them . I do enjoy giving oral but I also respect My subs views on it . PSUK " Its better to burn out than fade away "
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7/21/2021 4:28 am |
come say hello anytime xx
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There must be men out there who don't like licking a girl but love being sucked all the time? I'm sure there are a gazillion men who fit this description or are more than willing to forego eating pussy. At least a gazillion .... I'm sure you will have no problem finding one. Make Women Female Again
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Girl you are not alone I always give ORAL but I have zero interest in receiving... 
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I am not comfortable with a Dom going down on me either, but like you, i do love to give oral 
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I reaally like being given a blowjob but don't like licking pussy. I tend to be rather selfish in getting my pleasures
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I DO enjoy licking and sucking a woman's body. Is there anything you like a man to do for you, other than just lay there and groan? 
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Dear DJ, there are many kinks in this lifestyle, and rarely will you find yours lining up with other people's kinks totally, except for perhaps the basic ones of anal/oral/rough sex/spanking, but even with these basics, there will at times be disconnects. So don't worry that you don't like being on the receiving end of a good tongue lashing and masterfully forced orgasms. Be aware though, that just as you love giving oral, so do some men. I absolutely love feasting on cunt and edging or forcing orgasms with my mouth and tongue. If you are going to stay in this kinky lifestyle DJ, then I saw to you, "Have an open mind and be willing to experience and explore". Do not discount a new kink after just one session because for that first session you may have closed ideas towards it, so you don't relax and don't get the benefit of the activity. You should always give a new kink 3 tries before you say with any certainty that it is not for you. Stay healthy and safe my gorgeous little friend.
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being up front about your preferences is the right things to do. Some may argue or try to convince you that you just have not had it done proper on you; but that is not likely to actually occur and would be a waste of your time. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Sweetie, if you don't enjoy it, then that's all there is to it. I suggest that the first time your partner offers or starts to go down on you, tell them that it isn't something you enjoy. If the person is your dom, they might also use that as a form of power play.
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8/9/2021 8:08 am |
It's not strange, demijade; any more than preferring apples to oranges. It's your personal preference, slut. I tend to agree with all the replies you have received thus far (which makes a refreshing change), especially those of NoNonsense_Dom and owned_one. Personally, I love to rim my slut's ass before I fuck it...the more so when I hear her beg me to assfuck her. As a Dom, I do not find it demeans my dominance to perform the act on her. I wouldn't do it if it did.
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Hi, You can give me oral anytime you like!!!
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8/17/2021 2:35 pm |
I am just like you (man version). Be honest with your partner. Men like me live soley to pleasure a woman. Absolutely anything goes. That's why I love eating pussy for hours and hours and hours. I've been in situations where me eating her is all that happens. I've expanded on this in other posts, but, here's a summary: the only thing that matters to me is her sexual pleasure. I derive my pleasure from pleasuring her. As such, I don't even need to cum (I can do that any time on my own. What I can't do on my own is have a pussy on my face for hours, my tongue in an asshole, my cock in an asshole/pussy... etc). If I was with a woman who didn't enjoy being licked, I'd respect that and find out what she wants. I've met some over the years. For many, it's a hygiene issue (human mouth being kind of dirty). Many guys I know don't like eating pussy. They think it's gross, smelly etc. Some of them feel obligated to do it. How stupid that would be if he did it despite not liking it and she hated it but went along with it.... Most guys I know love having their cock sucked. I enjoy it (like I do every manner of sexual activity) but, it's not a deal breaker for me. I make sure women feel relaxed and know there is absolutely no expectation of felatio on my part. Some women enjoy blowing but aren't keen on swallowing. In that case I have her spit my cum in my mouth and I swallow it for her. Anything goes. One reason I am a little reluctant to have my cock sucked is !. I exist to serve her. 2. after cumming, I lose some of my sexual adventurousness. Until that point, nothing is too kinky for me and I'll do anything she orders me to do. When I cum, I'm suddenly a little shy. As such, I like to delay cumming for as long as possible: hours, days or weeks. 3. sexual performance. I'm not a teenager anymore and not capable of cumming 15 times in a day. After cumming, I need a bit of time to get back in the game. Besides, it's not about me.... I don't matter. I exist to pleasure her and give her an object to torture for her amusement. That's why I love eating pussy so much. If I cum, I have to do something to bridge the time needed to be ready again. Therefore, I enjoy licking her to orgasm. Fuck her until I cum in her. Eat her cum-filled pussy until I'm hard again (hopefully she cums again). Fuck her until I cum in her again then eat her cum-filled pussy again until I'm hard.... Getting a BJ throws that off. Unless, like you, that happens to be her pleasure. Maybe swallowing cum is what she loves best. If so, I'm happy to oblige her.
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It’s all about the fit and yes demi, your cock hungry mouth would fit perfectly 
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8/31/2021 7:53 am |
A man would be very lucky to find a woman like you. I love to give and receive but the giving is much more about reciprocation, if you do not enjoy it, there are many other ways to pleasure you.
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Its your body. Thats why people have likes and dislikes. Being honest and upfront is best way which means you not disappointed with sex life. Thsts how relationships work always being honest and communicating with each other.
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Hi, you are a very sexy lady!! your pics are great, wish I could see more xx
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But then again if you submissive you should allow your dom to do what he wants to do to you.
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10/21/2021 8:46 am |
If you enjoy cock worship I'll watch you lick my balls, sucking my dick while I hold your chain - sounds like fun PS: love the feeling of tits on my thighs as you suck me dry
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is it worth my while adding you to hangouts? That is the question as we both in Sunderland
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I feel that a dom should NOT go down on a sub, but a sub could go down on a Domme.
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Is it the licking in particular you don't like? Is being tied spreadeagled and having a vibrator used on you something you would enjoy for example?
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