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8/17/2019 7:25 pm |
it's called edging or teasing and it can be done with men or women, during bdsm or vanilla sex. it takes a very sensitive and attentive partner who knows how to sense the other person's state of arousal and, also, how to slowly back off. i had a gf once who was awesome at this; she could keep me hard for a long time. she knew exactly when and how to back off without diminishing my arousal. it's simply a matter of experience and attentiveness.
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8/17/2019 7:26 pm |
great pic, btw. very beautiful
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First off, those who are sort of skilled at such, don't take you that close. And, thrre are ways to slow things down.Some are bragging, no doubt about what might happen. There is no 100^ in anything "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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One way is with a very firm spanking of her pussy. She will immediately bring her knees together with that type of impact play and will stop most orgasms.
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8/18/2019 4:50 pm |
It takes a lot of experimenting to get it right. This is not something everyone can do with just anyone, especially when the relationship is new. There is a learning curve
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8/27/2019 10:13 am |
its possible i just dont do it i get statisfaction on making my woman orgasm uncontrolably
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Nikki, the writing is not my forte, let's move on to the practice!
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9/7/2019 7:40 am |
I'm with you sweety... And you are absolutely Gorgeous sweety
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9/22/2019 8:02 pm |
Orgasm control requires that the Dom know the Sub well and knows well when she is on the edge. There is orgasm denial and forced orgasms. Orgasm denial requires more knowledge of the sub's sexuality allowing the Dom to take the sub to the edge and then throttle back. Forced orgasms is less of a challenge, but also requires knowledge of what makes the sub tick sexually. I prefer forced multiple orgasms using a variety of restraints and toys...either way, orgasm CUNTROL is lots of fun. xoxo
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1/27/2020 2:27 pm |
I have often wondered the same thing as I often have people want to "bring me to the edge" on cam then they get made when I can't stop it from squirting. Maybe i am going past the edge, or missing the point somehow, or maybe I am just not strong enough mentally to hold back. I am not sure, but it makes me feel better to know others are in the same boat.
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1/30/2020 7:26 am |
just stop at the right moment,, if you are a good team you know when that is..
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2/13/2020 8:12 am |
Dear Ms Run Away train. I imagine your are ultra sensitive and once you feel an orgasm going, its going to happen. I good lover/Dom would know your body and can sense how far her could take you to that edge. This can't be done over night but it is possible. And if for some reason he can't control you or you control yourself. ....well LOL. What do you think should happen? Marcus
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2/19/2020 10:53 am |
If you're getting what you want then do nothing. If not, perhaps better communication is in order. If he is not listening or gets it, then you are with the wrong partner. It takes great skill to control a runaway train. But at some point you have to let it derail and loose control. Question is... How far do you want the conductor to take you down the tracks?
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2/19/2020 10:57 am |
And to answer your question. I guess you wipe up the mess and try a little better. Or with me and effective punishment would keep you in line.
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11/13/2020 8:02 am |
It’s definitely something that needs practice eventually you build up control
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I've made a post about this, then go on to read it ... So your imagination begins to fly ...
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'Orgasm Control'...for myself, it is or can be part of the journey or process. Most the time she has to earn it. Or understand that it is ONLY part of a process.
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I was looking at your picture....you mentioned orgasm....I lost focus...imagining tat face aboard the runaway train...
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hehehehe ur too sweet DirtyGardenMan!!! Idk, I hope I have a cute "O-face" but idk, I've never seen myself make it ;-p <3 Nikki
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When we started a wife led marriage in 2010 Queen wife immediately forbid masturbation and limited me to one orgasm/month. andy
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love to use an abuse your young body definatly love to make you orgasms over and over i dont control my womans orgasms i try to make her cum over and over
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When we started a wife led marriage in 2010 Queen wife immediately forbid masturbation and limited me to one orgasm/month. andy
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Been a while but I practiced edging with a gal pal, both of us edging the other. Exactly as others here have said the trick is to slow down or stop before those dominoes start to fall LOL. Might take a bit of practice but it's worth every bit and a lot of fun along the way! Then there's the whole area forced orgasms which intrigues me somewhat also. Challenging in some ways to do to a man since once those ball sacks are emptied of semen that's the end of the ejaculation part. However if one studies ancient Tantric sexual practices, men can have an orgasm where there is no ejaculation but all of the other sensations are there! Talk to me about that one sometime. Love you kid
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It's important to note that the whole reason behind edging is that it can result in a massively more powerful orgasm. So yes coming uncontrollably repeatedly it's is totally hot but now and then so is having an incredibly explosive climax. It's all a matter of how much you really want to please your partner.
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I've heard of orgasm control/denial too. I've read about it in stories and wouldn't dismiss it, it's just not my cup of tea. I'm all about making a woman cum as many times as possible not forestall it. I hope you get some good information, and when you're ready to experience crashing waves, look me up.
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Ur so sweet! And thank u for sharing ur info with me 
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