Extreme spread-eagle, preceded by capture
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Posted:Sep 22, 2015 9:27 pm
Last Updated:Aug 18, 2019 8:37 am 39590 Views
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me: So, why do you like forced multiple orgasms better than teasing with orgasm "denial"?
her: When I have orgasms, especially multiples, my body contracts. If I am tied, I pull hard against the restraints. I tend to close my legs when I orgasm, and being forced to keep them open makes it much more intense.
me: Got it! I have plenty of experience with this problem, and I have a very good solution : )
her: And what is your solution?
me: Can you imagine my queen-sized, -poster bed?
her: Yes I can
me: A typical "spreadeagle" tying of you to the bedposts would have your head toward the headboard, your hands tied to those posts, and your ankles tied to the posts the footboard, right?
her: Yes
me: Instead, I prefer to tie you with one hand to a headboard post, the other hand to a footboard post, and similar with your ankles, thus spreading you WIDER and even more vulnerable - got ?
her: Omg yes please continue
me: Well, I wouldn't want to keep you up past your bedtime... : )
her: Now you have me wet, I will have to before bed time.
me: And are you going to tell me as you get close to orgasm, as well as *when* you come?
her: I will if you continue
me: Well, of course it starts before all .
her: How does it start?
me: Are you imagining you're here with me right now?
her: Yes I am
me: What are you wearing?
her: When I am there, a white silk button blouse, and a tight knee-length skirt just a thong, 3-inch -heeled shoes.
her: Lacy black push up bra it
me: Nice.
me: If 's an outfit you own, send a picture of you in it sometime.
me: So, I'd take you the hair and drag you over to the wall, facing it.
me: With your hands up against the wall, like a cop I'd shove your feet apart with my foot and search you.
me: I'd take you the hair again and right in your ear, tell you to put your hands behind your back.
me: I'd strap on my tight leather cuffs and padlock them together.
me: Are you with me so far?
her: Yes I am.
me: And?
her: Omg my pussy with my dildo.
me: And?
her: My pussy is wet, feels so good to be at your mercy.
me: Do you own such an outfit?
her: No I do not but I can shop for you.
me: Good answer!
me: Do you mind if I copy and paste what we're writing here (and edit it down, no names of course) for others to enjoy?
her: 's ok with me.
me: So, where were we in your helplessness?
her: Hands bound behind my back.
me: And how close are you to coming? Or have you already had ?
her: So close.
me: I shove you against the wall again, facing it.
me: I strap more leather cuffs around your ankles, and padlock them together as well.
her: My tits pressed up against the wall.
her: So helpless now.
me: I grab another fistful of your hair, pull your head back and give you a whack on the ass with my other hand.
me: I spin you around, with your ankles bound together. you almost fall but I catch you, and smile at your wide-eyes helplessness.
her: Oh yesssss! love the sting on my ass!
me: Still holding you your hair, I put my in yours and ask, "Are you ready for more? Or shall I untie you and send you home?"
her: I am ready for more.
me: I take a wide black leather belt, and cinch it around your waist, tight enough to make you gasp a little with surprise, not so tight as to restrict your breathing a lot, but just a little.
her: Yes, more please more!
me: And what's your orgasm status?
her: Almost there! I have slowed a little, do not want to yet. more, I beg, please more!
me: I turn you sideways, and padlock your wrist cuffs to the belt the small of your back, so your elbows are bent a little and your hands are away from your ass.
More to come....
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What's "predicament bondage"? Oh honey, you are missing out!
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Posted:Aug 29, 2015 6:23 am
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2021 5:28 pm 39262 Views
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Predicament bondage - the basic idea is: Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Two examples:
1. Here's a fun evening I spent with a delicious, eager, and willing lover:
- She's tied in a standing spreadeagle, naked and blindfolded, to the upper and lower hinges of two doorways about 8 feet apart.
- I've mounted a vibrator on a tripod in front of her, teasing her clit.
- She leans her hips out from the wall, pushing her clit into the vibrator, starts to gets aroused.
- I spank her ass with a leather belt.
- She immediately pushes her butt back against the wall to block me from spanking her.
- I move the tripod an inch further away from her and the wall.
- She says, "I know what you're doing!"
- I laugh and say, "What's it going to be?"
She then has to decide whether she wants an orgasm and a spanking, or just be endlessly teased and get neither.
Which do you think she chose?
2. Here's a game that we could play:
You're naked, tied to my 4-poster bed, face-down on all fours, ass up, legs far apart, with one of my big vibrators roped to to your clit. I control its intensity - up, down, uuup, dowwwwwn. You don't have permission to come. If you do, you'll get a severe spanking. Then, I start again.
How does this game end? : )
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straight poly kinky childfree
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Sexy kinky messages I've sent to women
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Posted:Jun 13, 2015 10:00 am
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2021 5:35 pm 40154 Views
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I just sent this message to a woman's online ad that said "life is about 'insurmountable challenges' ":
Ok, here's an insurmountable challenge for you:
You: Naked, tied up, blindfolded.
Me: Teasing you with my firm hands, my mouth, and a well-lubricated vibrator.
Your challenge: Not to come until I give you permission.
This is going to take a while, I like going sloooowly....
Of course, I don't start there. I start with an appropriate conversation about limits and desires.
I'm a strong, smart, attentive, dominant, discreet man. I've got sparkling brown eyes. I'm local, straight, experienced, sane, trustworthy, devious, and in no hurry. I have a busy but flexible schedule. I live alone so I can host. I'm also a great friend. Let's talk!
M
straight poly kinky childfree
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Making the most of this site, whether you're a free member or a paid one
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Posted:Apr 28, 2015 4:23 pm
Last Updated:Oct 27, 2020 9:31 am 42389 Views
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How make the most of a membership on this site, especially if you're a FREE member:
Assuming that you actually want meet someone in real life, you need treat this like a marketing effort. Why should I (and then hopefully send a message) your profile vs. someone else's? Get my attention, actually SAY something!
- Write something in your profile! "Ask me" is a COMPLETE waste of my time. Don't be so freakin' lazy! Surely you have SOMETHING say--an opinion regarding whom you seek: Their age, race, height, distance, singles vs. couples, cyber only vs. in-person, race, straight/bisexual, beards, pubic hair vs. shaved, oral, anal, bondage, spanking, etc. Express it! Why are you here? What do you want? What DON'T you want? I shouldn't have ask you! Are you looking for a play partner? A top or bottom? A Dom or sub? A Master or slave? Are you monogamous? Polyamorous? Look other people's profiles, you'll see great examples emulate, and terrible ones that could inspire you do far better. Write whole words in whole sentences, don't be lazy or obscure. If I can't understand you, or you across as someone who just doesn't care how you appear the world, gone. Would you leave the house looking like you don't care about your appearance? Then make your profile presentable, too!
- Update your profile! When I see " 45 years old" in the but the system (which calculates their age based on the birth date they entered) displays 52, then it's clear to that they haven't updated their profile in YEARS!
- Post a photo! Even one that's cropped only to your eyes or your smile is better than no photo. If you have issues with how you , go deal with that. Yes, I get that you can't post a photo showing your whole if you're a teacher or public figure or a cheating spouse. You could still post a cropped one.
- And, if you post a photo that shows someone ELSE (like a position or spanking or scenario that you enjoy or find beautiful), you should LABEL IT as such, e.g., "This is not me, but something I'd like to try." Otherwise, you across as a fake.
- Start making "blog posts" (My Stuff->Add A Blog Post)! Do you have an opinion about stuff on this site? This is where you can express your creativity, rant about the obnoxious messages you've received, rave about that toe-curling spanking or licking your lover gave you, etc. You don't have to be a great writer. Also, put a link to your blog into your main profile , and give your blog a more interesting name than "Username's blog." Why bother? You'll give people visiting your profile some additional things to read and learn about you, you may spark visitors to write comments, and your profile will probably be shown more often around the site.
- Read other people's blogs. Comment on what they've written.
- The more often you visit the site and click around, the more you'll be shown to other members on the site. Even Reloading/Refreshing the web page will count as "being active." If you want to automate this, search for a browser extention that will Refresh a web page for you every few minutes. I use "Auto Refresh Plus" for Google Chrome, and set it to 0 seconds (every 2 minutes).
- Open the Instant Messenger () window and leave it open. This is one way that free members can talk other members on the site.
- Contact the members who View you, Flirt with you, and Hotlist you. They might be worth the effort to contact, or least Flirt or Hotlist back. Unfortunately, some of those "Views" may be triggered by the other person merely waving their mouse around and briefly hovering over your photo, and not actively clicking or expressing interest in your profile. You have to decide what's worth your follow-up time.
- Visit the discussion Forums, comment on other people's posts, post your own thoughts, start a topic with a compelling question.
And yes, some of the time you'll get crappy, creepy, obnoxious messages from real members and fakes. Deal with it! Learn how to block them, report them for abuse, and delete their messages. No system is free of jerks and scammers.
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Making the most of a PAID membership on this site:
- Don't sit around waiting to be contacted by Mr. or Ms. Perfect, go hunt them down! Search for members that match what you're looking for - Age, location, gender, etc. Then, don't bother with Flirts, send them a message! Or if you don't have time right then, Hotlist them so you'll know who to send a message to later.
- If your membership qualifies you for the Activity Bonus, take advantage of it! With a small effort on your part every month, you can extend your membership by another 50%, e.g., a -month Gold membership becomes 18 months! All you have do each month is:
a) Sign in,
b) Send 3 messages (not replies), and
c) Write something in your blog or post something in a . You don't have make a new blog entry, editing an existing one also qualifies.
- Pay extra to allow free/standard members to contact you for free, and then SAY THAT in your profile and in all of the emails and IMs that you send. Many free members will assume that they can't view your profile and will say so in their replies to you, so be patient and tell them that, in fact, they can because you paid extra for that.
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Can you say Yes to this?
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Posted:Jan 28, 2015 7:54 am
Last Updated:Sep 20, 2021 5:55 am 54053 Views
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Are you a woman who is looking for a dominant man to submit to IN PERSON, both physically, sexually, and mentally?
Do you find yourself excited at the prospect of being treated like a sexual plaything, stripped, bound and spanked, having your helpless naked flesh caressed and whipped, brought *close* to orgasm, only to be held there for as long as I want, and *maybe* permitted to finish, maybe not?
Are you going to be patient through a proper in-person conversation about your limits, likes, dislikes, experiences, desires and more, since I am not a mindreader, and trust, safety, information and more are supremely important to me, as I hope they are for you?
Are you willing to meet in person in the near future to discuss this and get to know each other, probably more than once, before any play takes place?
Are you going to be as clear and communicative as you can manage, including telling me things that you both do and don't like, both before and after each session, as well as during the session if possible?
Can you see yourself not only as a "student," learning new things about you and your submissive side (and me and my desires and limits), but also as a "teacher," whose job it is to teach me about you?
Are you willing to keep talking to me, even if something occurs that you might find challenging or upsetting or scary, or that reminds you of a past hurt or injury or abuse?
If you are a normally dominant woman, are you willing to accept that my style as a dom and how I treat you as my sub will be VERY different than yours?
Are you going to call me "Sir," and like it?
Are you interested, assuming this works for you and I, in experiencing a series of sessions with me over time, not just as a one-time thing?
If your answer is "no," or you only want "cyber" or an "online dom," then beat it, I've got better things to do with my time.
If your answer is "yes," then send me a message about the following, using proper spelling and grammar:
- Your desire and yearning to experience this, and
- any past submissive experiences, kinky or vanilla, (not just the facts, but also how you *felt*) and
- the *specific* elements in my profile that interest or excite you, and
- include whatever first name you want me to call you by.
Do I make myself clear?
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Tied to a doorframe, blindfolded, straining to come, but...
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Posted:Mar 19, 2013 9:51 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2016 10:45 pm 59959 Views
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her: so, tell me about your last all-time favorite play session
me: most recent or all-time favorite?
her: either one I suppose
me: before I start, how wet are you right now at the prospect of my restraining & spanking you?
her: pretty wet and tingling - tell me details of your favorite play session....that may help push me over the edge
me: I couldn't pick just one, but here's one I'm fond of: she's naked, leather cuffs tightly strapped on wrists & ankles - I lock my leather collar around her neck...
me: then I clip her wrist cuffs together behind her
me: and her ankles together as well
me: and clip a leather leash to the collar and lead her (hopping/hobbling) over to a nearby open doorframe
me: I unclip the leash, and attach a leather strap (already looped around the upper door hinge) to the back of her collar
me: I take a wide black leather belt and cinch it tightly around her waist
me: and another leather belt and cinch her knees together
me: how are you doing so far?
her: Dying inside....I think you sound like a fun lunch date
me: ready for more?
her: always
me: I open her mouth and strap in a mouth-filling silicon ball gag, pulling the leather strap snug and latching its roller-buckle
me: I put my best blindfold on her, which very thoroughly blocks out all light even on the brightest day
me: I then start running my hands over her body
me: her breasts
me: her nipples
me: her belly
me: her thighs
me: her hips
me: her ass
me: I slap her across the face
me: I suck on one nipple while pinching the other
me: I lube up a finger and start to touch her *near* her clit, slowly
me: how are you doing so far?
her: i'm doing pretty well.
me: what does that mean?
her: It means I am locking my door and touching myself
me: good!
me: rubbing my finger from side to side, I slooowly move my finger uuuuup her inner labia, then dowwwwn, uuuup then dowwwn, each time passing over her clit but not spending much time on it
me: I hear her breath sharpen as I cross over her clit, then soften as I move away
me: I switch from sucking her nipple to gently biting it, and switch from pinching the other nipple to fondling/flicking it
me: still rubbing sideways and uuuup then dowwwwn with my other hand, buzzing her clit for just a few seconds every few minutes
me: she starts to wimper
me: then moan
me: I stop touching her pussy, put my finger under her nose so she can smell her own juices
me: then SLAP her across the face again
me: then resume sloooowly rubbing from side to side, uuuuup...then dowwwn...
me: still there?
her: yup, touching myself with one hand
me: you like this? you like the idea of me doing this to you (with obvious adjustments for your limits)?
her: yes pls
me: if you'd like to indicate to me *how* turned on you are, when you type back you can repeat your last word's last letter, e.g., yessss - "more letters" tell me "I'm more turned on"
her: yessssssssssssssssss
me: so then, keeping my finger at the same height from the floor, I move it away and tell her to come and find it
me: are you cooling off? I don't see many s's
her: on my back, right hand rubbimg my pussy
me: as much as the leather straps permit, she thrusts her hips and pussy forward to find my finger
me: you can lift your ass off your bed to pretend you're in my bonds and striving for my finger, too
me: and tell me when you've done that so I'll continue
her: yessssss
me: I tease her by saying "a little farther," "that's good" (touching her again), then "oops, a little farther" (moving away slightly)
her: yesss
me: then I hold my finger at the same horizontal position and tell her to do the side-to-side rubbing, but I continue the sloooow up and down movement
me: her knees buckle once from the intensity, but the collar reminds her of the position she needs to maintain, and she regains her position (I'm ever-vigilant, and I've set the strap for easy quick-release in case she falls or passes out)
me: eventually I narrow my up & down span, spending a little more time on her clit
her: i'm going to be using both hands. you may not hear from me.. keep typing
me: it is *so* sexy having her swaying/grinding her hips left and right
me: her moaning is continuous now
me: her scent is powerful
me: she's up on her bare toes
me: hands still bound behind her, pushing against the doorframe
me: grind left - grind right, my finger passes up over her pink clit and beyond
me: then down over her clit and below
me: her drool from having the ball gag in her mouth has dripped down over her belly, and I use some of it to re-lube my finger
me: she gasps at the newly-wet touching, starts to tremble
me: I finally stay on her clit, letting her move it back and forth across my firmly pressing wet finger
me: I suddenly point my finger down so she rubs her clit across the edge of my fingernail
me: she cries out
me: but doesn't stop
me: then I straighten it again
me: and she keeps going
me: then she's coming and coming
me: she pauses, then jerks
me: and I'm holding her and finishing her off
her: well, you certainly gave me a lot to work with.
me: always happy to be of servicing
her: i do thank you.
her: i would absolutely love to continue this conversation, but I have to go
me: ok - enjoy!
her: thanks!! It was fun!
me: I'm glad!
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He wants to leave his wife with me, for me to train//hurt her??
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Posted:Feb 9, 2013 12:19 pm
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2013 10:21 pm 59012 Views
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Here's an instant message conversation with a man in his 50s who approached me online (on a different site) last week. He and his wife are in Florida, over 1,000 miles away. I think he approached me having only seen my username, not having read my profile. Note that he figured throwing sexy photos of his wife at me would convince me, and how he completely ignores my sane (and mocking) advice.
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him: dom my wife?
BondageLover617: well, I'm not a big fan of travel, so unless you visit the Boston area, it's not going to work for me
BondageLover617: still there?
him: yes
(sent me sexy photo #1 of his wife)
BondageLover617: yes, what?
him: still here
(sent me sexy photo #2 of his wife)
BondageLover617: did you read what I wrote in response to your question?
him: could visit and leave her for training
BondageLover617: you would leave your wife in the hands of a complete stranger?
him: yessss
BondageLover617: I don't understand why you would do that?
him: for and pain training
BondageLover617: and how do you know I can be trusted?
him: could sign her over
(sent me sexy photo #3 of his wife)
BondageLover617: that doesn't answer my question
him: i don't know maybe you will hurt her
him: even better
BondageLover617: and how do you know that I have any skills in this area?
him: i dont
him: do you?
(sent me sexy photo #4 of his wife)
BondageLover617: and how do I know that you or she won't have me arrested for kidnapping, assault, false imprisonment, or ?
him: is exacly what she needs and just how it will happen at first
him: can i be there for her initial ?
BondageLover617: I think you need to spend about a month thinking about this - I suggest you find a local professional dominatrix and hire her to teach you
him: have you done this before?
BondageLover617: yes, I have talked to crazy people like you who have no idea what they are doing
him: she was drugged, beat and ass about a month ago
BondageLover617: and how did that work out?
him: was bruised up nicely and wants it again
BondageLover617: then I suggest you go back to that person; on my planet we think about the risks and the consequences of our actions
him: yea its not for everyone, thanks anyway
BondageLover617: good luck, I hope everyone involved stays out of prison
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Flirts from fake profiles? Seriously?
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Posted:Jan 21, 2013 10:32 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2013 10:33 pm 59983 Views
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What is it with all these people with fake profiles sending me Flirts or Kisses?
Do they really think I wouldn't notice that:
- They haven't viewed my profile first.
- We are mutually incompatible regarding Age and Distance - For example, a 22-year-old in Seattle is flirting with me? Seriously?
- Their profile description is not only poorly written (not uncommon here on Alt), but is also clearly incompatible with mine. You're here on Alt to find a man to love you, and only you, for the rest of your life? Seriously?
I usually immediately report them as Suspected Fake Accounts. Some of the time their accounts have already disappeared before I can take action, which probably means that other members have already complained--excellent!
I can only imagine what level of scams they're here to run on unsuspecting, vulnerable, lonely people.
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Forget knife play - Scissors are more fun!
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Posted:Nov 18, 2012 10:02 pm
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2021 5:37 pm 60868 Views
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From a recent online conversation:
me: I'm imagining doing something with you that I love doing
her: that is  ?
me: oh, sorry, I thought you were heading to bed (he said with a manipulative smirk)
her: ah... you could share what you were imagining though.
me: I'm imagining you naked, on your hands and knees, and...
her: ... ?
me: I'm running my fingers very lightly over your skin...
her: I like that. Imagining.
me: then I take my scissors and *very* lightly run their sharp tips over your skin...
her: mmmmmmmmmmm
me: over your upper back
me: over your lower back
me: over your ass
me: down one thigh
me: and up the other
her: mmmmm
her: It is 10:15. Time for bed and imagining what you are imagining
me: keeping your attention on that one sensation as it moves around your body
her: oh........... yes.
me: lightly following the curve of your breast
me: tickling the tip of your nipple with the sharp tip of the scissor
her: oh my.
me: moving half an inch away and making "snip-snip" noises in the air, so close you can feel the air move around your nipple
her: mmmmm...... I can't spell the sounds I am making.
me: then on to the other breast, ever-so-lightly stroking with the sharp tip, knowing that if you move even slightly...
me: are you touching yourself as well?
her: No.... but I am planning to.
me: tell me how much you like what I'm describing
me: and why
her: I love the cold sharpness against my skin and focussing on the sensations you are giving me. I am excited that there is danger, sharp
her: The lightness is teasing.
me: no problem, I'm glad you like the scenario, it's just "scratching the surface" of what I have in mind for you
her: Oh.
her:
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