Letter to a non spanko
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Posted:May 6, 2024 11:50 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 12:04 am 172 Views
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Look, I hate the term “spanko”, but it is widely used to describe a person with very specific experiences. If your partner has a spanking fetish, it’s been with them their entire lives. They probably looked up “spanking” in the dictionary by the time they got to 3rd grade. Then they probably looked it up many times after that, without really understanding why. They might have reread those scenes in the Little House books that featured spankings, or else watched with rapt attention if there was a spanking in a movie. Then, one day, they probably typed “spanking” into whatever search engine was popular at the time (I wonder, did anyone ever ask Jeeves about spanking? Surely they did).
It can be hard talking about the spanking bug. Here are some things you should know.
1. It's almost impossible to talk about
I don’t think that I am the only spanko who blushes just to hear the words “spank”, “discipline”, “punish”—or anything related. And forget about saying them aloud. Somehow we learn early on as that we cannot talk about our weird fascination with spanking, and then it becomes a secret that we carry with us for decades. The longer we carry it with us, the harder it is to speak. I didn’t tell a soul until I was in my late 30s, and I still can’t talk about it aloud. I can’t even type it if I think that it will be read by someone I know. It’s difficult to communicate what we want and unfair to you. I’m sorry.
2. It's not a sex thing. Except when it is
When we tell you we like spanking, you’re probably thinking foreplay. That’s not what we mean. For many of us, spanking is a drive that runs parallel to our sex drive. The spankings that we want can be entirely non-sexual. Many of us look for spankings that are disciplinary or therapeutic in nature. A good spanking is a cure for many things: stress, grouchiness, attitude, sass.
But spanking and sex aren’t entirely unrelated, either. If we don’t have spankings in our lives, our sex drive plummets. Spankings outside the bedroom can have a very real effect on what happens inside the bedroom, even without a single sexual spanking. Personally, I’d rather live my life without sex than without spanking.
3. Spank harder then you think
Obviously, this differs depending on the individual. But in general, I know mostly spankos who would much rather get spanked a little too hard than be left feeling unsatisfied. A good way to do this is to start spanking with your hand, not too hard, maybe over their clothes, and progress to spanking their bare behind. Maybe you use a hairbrush or other implement as the spanking reaches its climax.
There are a lot of people who are into spanking a little bit—like a couple of smacks on the ass during sex—but spankos want a real spanking. That’s a lot more involved than what normal people want when they say they like being spanked. Spankos want to you take them to a straight-backed armless chair, tip them over your knee, and spank their behind red. And they probably want you to scold them while you do.
Lots of spankos would love to cry from a spanking. Some of us just can’t no matter how painful it is. Some of us (ahem, me) cry from two swats with a paddle. You’ll just have to make your partner tell you their limits. Consider using a safeword if they want to be able to resist the spanking without stopping it.
There are so many things that your partner is trying to imply when they say, “I’m into spanking.” I know that I haven’t covered all of them, but I hope it’s a start. Dig deeper into what they mean. Ask them specific questions. Make them answer in writing: it will probably get you more detailed answers. And know that you are doing your partner a huge service by participating in this deeply-rooted need that they have.
Note: Not all of this is true about me but spankos in general. Could help a fellow spanko out. I'm pulling for us all to have that special partner
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Poem For Spanko's
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Posted:Jul 11, 2023 6:05 pm
Last Updated:Oct 5, 2023 11:04 am 2864 Views
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I've read it all, it's black and white
The spectrum made any shade I like
Her crimson cheeks are ruby bright
What the hairbrush did is a beautiful site
I want red, there's no substitute for red
Paint it red, green ain't me compared to red
You don't know what it does to me
My crimson sin intensity
I'm haunted by the mystery
The mystery of red
Knocks 'em dead
Some like it hot, I like it Red
Red is my lover, got it covered
Red is my number, she tried to cover
Red is my drummer, and I hear red thunder
Move over brother, She's going to get another
Thats' what I said, that's what I said,
Now naughty girls go to bed
As she laid over the covers
Her ass shining red
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A Good Girl Spanking
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Posted:Jul 5, 2023 1:08 pm
Last Updated:Oct 5, 2023 11:05 am 4917 Views
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Have you been a good girl? Do you need to be taken by the hand, your pants and panties pulled down as I pull you over my knee for a spanking. As I take my leg over to lock you in position with you over my one knee with your ass straight up in the air, knowing you couldn't espace if you wanted to. The first one stings, leaving your senses alert and ready for the next one.
But it doesn't come quickly, instead you can feel me getting hard with anticipation and with a fist full of hair, threats of more spankings to come being whispered in your ear; you get wet with excitement and then you feel the next one and the next one after that.
Slowly and methodically, we build up a nice, sensual and punishing rhythm. With your ass wiggling with each gratifying smack, you moan, whimper and bite your lip as you sink into that intoxicating subspace. Your ass is flush and red and your cunt is aching to be touched.
So I play with your pussy, with just enough tension on your clit that you feel you could explode at any moment. But just as you begin to shake, I say not yet and continue to spank you hard with no remorse. Knowing that you're well worked up and in heat and could take whatever I dish out.
You try to block one of your spankings with your hand and I simply knock it away and tell you put your hands back in front of you or I'll get the hairbrush out. The threat makes you even more turned on than before. You do as your told and then I make you cum and squirt while across my lap, soaking my leg as your legs shake, feeling as if you could fall faint at any moment and I give you a couple of more spankings for good measure.
I then gently guide you to the couch where I cover you up with kisses and a blanket and give you the aftercare you deserve. Loving on you ever so sweetly and you thank me for your spanking.
I tell you that you're welcome and that I can't wait to do it all over again. Because I love giving you a good girl spanking and sometimes it's just what she needs to make the day perfect
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