reflecting me is this Dominance dissertation
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Posted:Mar 30, 2020 9:03 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 3:14 am 2273 Views
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I was thinking this evening about Masters, Dominants, slaves, submissive's and bonsai trees. I am fairly certain most might be shaking their heads wondering what bonsai's have to do with BDSM. It is not so much the tree but the bonsai Master that springs to mind. The Bonsai Master is both kind and cruel, subtle but skilled in his art. He uses severe tools to create a work of art within a natural but in a way that nature never would have achieved by itself. Some people think of the bonsai tree as inspired art. Some think of it as nature cruelly, unfairly, twisted and warped by man. The Bonsai Master uses firm, cold bonds of metal to train the growth of a tree into the he sees in his mind. He carefully prunes just so much and twists the rest to his own will. He spends years watching over this tree, making sure that no aspect of it is left to itself, that each branch and twig, and the very trunk itself are constantly in his hands, being taught to become his vision. He does so with patience, gentleness and consideration for the needs of the tree to live and grow. The art of the bonsai has been handed down from generation to generation. Yet each Master of the art is unique. Training takes one only so far within an art. The rest comes from inside the individual. Each tree is unique because each Master has his own vision for that tree, because each tree itself has its own that influences the Masters decisions. It is not simply an imposition of will. The best Masters of the art work to bring out the unique and special spirit of the trees they are working with. What has this to do with BDSM? For some it might be obvious. For others, perhaps not so. Domination is an art with submission as the focus and created work of art. It can take years to perfect. It takes great will and determination, daily practice, gentleness and force in the right measure. It is unique to each submissive who is the focus of it, unique to each dominant that practices it. It is the art of the bonsai master with human trees. To be able to do it consistently, one must lust for this type of control, live and breathe the desire each day. One must enjoy the careful contemplation of future growth and a hands on role in the manipulation of another's life, not for destructive purposes, but to create a thing of unique and special beauty. This beauty may appear warped and unnatural to those who don't understand, just as the bonsai tree is patently an unnaturally grown tree. There are those for whom kink is only a means of instant gratification in a world that appears devoted to this concept. I understand. I truly do. The moment of conquest, the unexpected encounter, are all very exciting and thrilling. The art of domination is an alternative to the instant thrill. It is a slower growing but deeper kind of satisfaction that comes from watching changes over time and understanding that full development cannot happen overnight. The submissive who has been patiently cultivated, pruned and trained is, will become the most beautiful in the world to him
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BDSM Dinner Party
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Posted:May 23, 2018 7:18 am
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2020 9:07 pm 3264 Views
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Our next BDSM dinner party club. If anyone wishes to join so they can attend needs to contact me to make application. Vetting is required. We gather for cocktails at 7 the girls wear lingerie. Guys can wear special under wear or just dress pants. This is not a jeans and T shirt event. For any girls who need it we maintain a lingerie closet, please arrive a half hour or so early if you are using the closet. At 7:30 we shall sit for dinner. During dinner we will have a discussion of a topic on the life style. All attendees will have the right to suggest topics in advance. At 8:30 the play party shall begin. The rules are simple; 1) all must behave as ladies and gentlemen. If you don't understand decorum, etiquette and manners please do not attend. 2) No loud talk, boisterousness, or making fun of anyone. 3) No smoking in my home and if you smoke outside please limit it severely, if you smoke you stink and it offends. 4) No means no. 5) Couples and single ladies are welcome and the event is free just bring what you drink. We will be serving a four course dinner. RSVP here with name and phone number so we can call and verify. You will be contacted with further information by one of us. I have extra beds for those who want to stay overnight on a first come first serve basis. Party is held in a gated community. There is no charge but bring what you drink. Participants are not required to participate in BDSM No problem, first let me say I think you will like the crowd. It is well mixed doctors, nurses, business men, school teachers, even the largest independent orange grower in south Florida. This is neither a truck driver crowd or motorcycle group. I started these parties so I did not have to mix with the low life crowds and I have run these parties for some 20 years now. I don't ask anyone to contribute as I don't want that, "well I am paying for this" so it is my party, my rules, it is that simple. (people who do drugs, smoke or are 420 friendly move on) only 2 spots left
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Training (part one)
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Posted:Jan 19, 2018 9:50 am
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2018 9:52 am 3184 Views
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I have done quite a bit of training both couples and single girls. It never ceases to amaze me how many people think this life style is only about sex. although sex is a part of it dominance and submission play a large role here.
Now one must ask themselves how dose one get to true dominance and submission. I can sum it all up in two words; trust and respect. If the relationship has no respect and no trust it is nothing special. Threats and aggression only shut off your partners ability to respond to you. However that dose not mean that once you have accomplished your goal all else types of scenes including spanking and caning and such are not part of the practice. They sure are...
When people come here to learn I start them off filling a question and answer sheet. I like to fully understand their likes, desires, tastes and what they wish to achieve. If I understand where they are in life then I can help the achieve their goals.
There are times when one partner or the other has a hard time getting into the scene. I some times use hypnosis to break through. It will not work with everyone we are all individuals and each require things germane to our self's.
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Elite Party January 13
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Posted:Jan 2, 2018 12:16 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 3:14 am 3293 Views
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Next Dinner Elite Party January 13. We gather for cocktails at which time the girls will wear lingerie. Guys can wear special under wear, robes, dinner jackets or just dress pants. This is not a jeans and T shirt event. For any girls who need it we maintain a lingerie closet, please arrive a half hour or so early if you are using the closet. At 7:30 we shall sit for dinner. During dinner we will have a discussion of a topic on the life style. All attendees will have the right to suggest topics in advance. At 8:30 we shall retire to the upper rooms where all the toys are and the play party shall begin. The rules are simple; 1) all must behave as ladies and gentlemen. If you don’t understand decorum, etiquette and manners please do not attend. 2) No loud talk, boisterousness, or making fun of anyone. 3) No smoking in my home and if you smoke outside please limit it severely, if you smoke you stink and it offends. No means no. 4) No means no. 5) Do not touch anyone’s slave or sub without the Doms permission Couples and single ladies are welcome and the event is free just bring what you drink. Only twelve people in total will be accepted. We will be serving a four course sit down dinner. RSVP here with name and phone number so we can verify. You will be contacted with further information by one of us. Check out the pictures here from our previous parties.
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From my friend Retwolf
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Posted:May 16, 2017 7:04 am
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2022 6:40 am 3726 Views
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33rd Tao Te Ching
The Master doesn't try to be powerful;
thus he is truly powerful.
The ordinary man keeps reaching for power;
thus he never has enough.
The Master does nothing,
yet he leaves nothing undone.
The ordinary man is always doing things,
yet many more are left to be done.
The kind man does something,
yet something remains undone.
The just man does something,
and leaves many things to be done.
The moral man does something,
and when no one responds
he rolls up his sleeves and uses force.
When the Tao is lost, there is goodness.
When goodness is lost, there is morality.
When morality is lost, there is ritual.
Ritual is the husk of true faith,
the beginning of chaos.
Therefore the Master concerns himself
with the depths and not the surface,
with the fruit and not the flower.
He has no will of his own.
He dwells in reality,
and lets all illusions go.
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People ask me what is this Code d' Odalisque
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Posted:Mar 13, 2017 12:22 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 3:14 am 4343 Views
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I found this description of Code d' Odalisque on line and I thought I would post it. Code d' Ode (abbreviated name) has been around for over a decade in this part of the country. I was first introduced to it in Boston and later in NYC.
There are now Code d' Oders throughout the world steadily forming a global community of people dedicated to exploring and developing this style of bondage/captivity play for female cock slaves and their Masters.
Code d' Ode is strictly non-violent and does not involve sado-masochistic play or the degradation of women. It offers a viable alternative for adult couples who want a Master/slave role-play relationship without S.M. or themes of brutality and torture.
Code d' Ode combines contemporary hardcore play with the refinement of ancient oriental slave cultures.It is a complete codification of manners and etiquette as well as a system of slave training.
This is the system I use to train new people. It is sophisticated and non-violent. It dose include discipline and flogging but not to desegregate. More over they are an occasional enhancement.
Having a slave is a responsibility not to be taken lightly. I know this is not for everybody but if anyone seeks information or training I have many years experience.
Master Tony
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Finding a sub on Alt
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Posted:Jan 1, 2017 7:22 pm
Last Updated:May 28, 2021 7:35 pm 6553 Views
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So often we forget the most important in our search for a sub. First thing to know is preparation is every thing. Of course we are all different so the first point of preparation is knowing who we are. Are you a true Dom? Do you have switch tendencies? Are you a sadist? Do you seek 24/7 or just scenes? and I am sure there are many more questions you could ask your self but this is a primmer not a point by point guide. Second you must ask your self what you truly seek, now that takes in a vast amount of things, sub? slave? pain slut? masochist? public player? monogamous? BBW? Barbie doll? and a thousand more questions. you should work this out before you ever start to write a profile. Be clear and distinct about who you are and what you seek. Now about pictures....if you have none your probably dead in the water. If you only have your genitalia then you might as well have nothing. Choose pictures and cartoons well they say a lot about you. I hope this helps it has served me well over the years. If you have questions write me here I am on every day. DDCouple4u 
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