Am I wrong or has something changed?
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Posted:Dec 10, 2021 2:41 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2024 11:27 pm 839 Views
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OK, has the etiquette changed in a decade…Granted, I have been away from the community for years but, what is with all these initial messages where I am referred to as Master? I have always thought Master/Mistress reserved for the owner of a Sub; otherwise, the submissive would refer to Doms as Sir or Ma'am.
Maybe I'm getting too caught up in my head, or perhaps a bit wrapped up in tradition with formalities and titles. I just believe that the term Master/Mistress is bestowed on a person that has accepted and taken on a long-term role of responsibility for the submissive well-being.
Granted, there are always beginners that don't know any better, and it seems that there are way more fakes and scammers than there were ten years ago. I just find it slightly annoying.
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The 10 Kink Commandments:
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Posted:Nov 26, 2021 4:46 pm
Last Updated:Dec 22, 2021 7:32 pm 1213 Views
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The 10 Kink Commandments: (My modified version borrowed from a interesting BDSM couple in Germany.)
1. All activity must be safe (Never cause true harm), sane (Only engage in activity when partners agree of said activity), and consensual.
2. One must always be respectful of your partners safe words (red (STOP)/yellow(SLOW DOWN/PAUSE)/green(YES/MORE)) and their hard limits.
3. We only enter into activities after we have gained trust, education, and understanding of each other’s needs/desires, and keep an open mind.
4. Always be polite and ask questions.
5. Do not touch anyone else’s equipment/body without permission. (Subs are not an open market and must be respected as individuals and/or controlled by another Dom.)
6. We always must be clean, hygienic, and mindful of our own equipment. (There are always hard limits to what partners have a desire to eat/suck and STDs are the bane of the lifestyle. BE SMART.)
7. One should always be mindful of aftercare. (If you do not know what this is or the importance of it. Then you may want to reevaluate your role in the lifestyle.)
8. Do not engage in humiliating and degrading scenes/activity for solely one’s own amusement. (It can cause harm to the Sub that is most precious commodity in the lifestyle.)
9. ALWAYS protect one another’s anonymity from the harsh eyes of the vanilla world. (Unless it is agreed that open is accepted in the current environment.)
10. And Most importantly, don’t forget have a good time.
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