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Eventually everything connects

It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves..

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Posted:Oct 25, 2022 9:13 am
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2023 11:51 am
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Happy Lohri!
Posted:Jan 13, 2023 4:52 am
Last Updated:Mar 17, 2023 10:04 pm
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Lohri marks the end of the winter. Crowds gather around large, teaming bonfires to celebrate the passing of the winter solstice. Rabi crops are primed for harvest as farmers look forward to a new season.

One of Veer Zaara’s most popular songs Lodi re-popularised the tradition of dancing and singing as everyone circles the bonfire. Not just in Punjab, but other parts of North India, people celebrate by charring wood and playing songs on the radio.
Lohri signals the beginning of the happy sunny days.


What is Happy Lohri?

Happy Lohri is the conventional greeting on Lohri. Rather than go to each other’s homes to exchange sweets or mithai, like during Diwali, Lohri calls for everyone to meet at a common place. The community comes together and wishes each other a ‘Happy Lohri’ signifying the beginning of a new season. The word Lohri is derived from two words til (sesame) and rorhi (jaggery), which are traditionally eaten during the festival. The terms til and rorhi together used to sound like 'tilohri' earlier in history, gradually morphing into the term ‘Lohri’. One the fire dies out, dinner includes crowd favorites like makki di roti te sarson da saag (cornflour pancakes and mustard spinach) and lassi (buttermilk).


What is the significance of Lohri?

Lohri celebrations mark the beginning of the harvest season. It is celebrated to offer thanks for making a bounteous harvest possible. Lohri night traditionally falls on the longest night of the year known as the winter solstice. Lohri festival indicates that the biting cold of the winter is ending and happy sunny days are arriving.


What do we do on Lohri?

Bonfire is the top highlight of Lohri. Traditionally, families used to gather around bonfires and sing folk songs like Sundariye Mundariye Ho. Nowadays, most people plug in a speaker to play songs off of YouTube or other music apps.Dishes made of rewri, gajak, peanuts and other seasonal products are snacks — as well as bonfire fodder.


What do you put on a Lohri fire?

People sing and dance around the Lohri fire and throw foods like gajak, popcorn, puffed rice and others into the fire as ‘tributes’ to the gods in exchange for blessings. Lohri is also considered especially auspicious for newlywed couples and parents with newborn babies


Why do we burn fire on Lohri?

Folklore of Punjab believes that the flames of the bonfire lit on the day of Lohri carry the messages and prayers of the people to the sun god to bring warmth to the planet to help crops grow. In exchange, the sun god blesses the land and ends the days of gloom and cold. The next day is celebrated as Makar Sankranti. For some, the bonfire symbolically indicates that the bright days are ahead of the people’s lives and acts as the carrier of people’s prayers to the sun god — it's just a really good excuse to party.


May the bonfire on Lohri burn away all the sadness and bring warmth, joy, happiness, and love into your life!
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Stress Buster!
Posted:Jan 13, 2023 2:01 am
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2023 9:50 pm
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The real stress buster is a free tight hug!

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The bells are jingling.......
Posted:Dec 24, 2022 8:49 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2024 2:47 pm
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The bells are jingling.
The balls are rolling.
The stars shine bright on the Christmas tree.
May this sparkle always brighten your life!


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New Door Opened up
Posted:Nov 24, 2022 6:31 am
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2023 3:32 am
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Every Accomplishment Starts with the Decision to Try.....and today i agreed to something new, today i agreed to serve My Owner and slave brother by drinking their pee....i am scared and nervous but more than willing to try it in order to make them proud...wish me luck!

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*Gulps*
Posted:Oct 25, 2022 9:04 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 6:03 pm
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I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, ALWAYS over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding. I don't mind being an object of pleasure for him...His Toy, His slave, His pet, His doll, TOTALLY HIS
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Diwali
Posted:Oct 24, 2022 4:43 am
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2023 9:28 pm
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May the supreme light illumine your minds, enlighten your hearts and strengthen the human bonds in your homes and communities.

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