Attraction and Love
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Posted:Apr 14, 2022 9:15 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 8:32 pm 1429 Views
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I think attraction starts as a set of signals that you recognize inside your body. It's that first signal you get on the inside that lets you know you are attracted to this person. Now with me, I think what happens is that a lot of things go deep inside you. Now it's kind of like a switch that just goes click and turns on inside your head and it just happens. With me I think that's how it happens. Kind of like a light turns on in your body and just glows. It's almost like there is this power being generated by some mysterious machinery far, far away, just wanting to be let go and be unleashed. Now, it's like that electricity, all that power, shoots through all of your circuitry and sits there waiting to be released with this person. When you talk with them you listen carefully and really , and hang on every word, as you experience the power and the warmth of that connection.
When you find yourself loving someone; now you go inside and you find all the values that are the most important to you in a relationship and you start to link those up and discover them in the person you’re considering, in such a way that you become utterly fascinated, totally absorbed and want to give yourself over to this connection that’s taking place.
Now, you go inside and you think about all the ways this person touches you in those very special places, in all those special ways. Maybe in ways you have longed to be touched, maybe ever since you were very . Maybe this person touches you in ways you never even knew you could be touched...deep inside your mind...deep inside your heart of hearts...deep inside that special place...where things are good, where things are true. And when you connect with that place it's almost like those thoughts become compulsive. Sometimes that takes months, but sometimes the entire process can seem to take place instantaneously. It would be like you could just at them and really feel that growing connection. With me, I think it can work in a lot of different ways, but in any case, I think what happens when you really fall in love with someone; I think what happens is you go home and you picture this person in your mind. You begin to imagine being together in all sorts of ways. Maybe you imagine introducing them to your friends, you begin to mention this person’s in conversations and you just want to create an opening for this person. You imagine being very intimate and you allow those pictures to run over and over again in your own mind. That feeling begins to grow more intense. I think what happens then is you begin the process of recognizing the things you really want right in this person, you begin to link all these values, all these qualities to this person who you’re talking with and you identify all of those, and let that process take place. You begin to those qualities to your self. You begin to really feel that connection growing, sometimes to the point where you can just stop, and imagine a time in the future, say years from now, still feeling connected to this person, as you realize this moment as having been the start of it.
Now that is awesome. it will happen in time. I can be alone,yet not be lonely. I'm open to being friends until love blossoms. Now, I invite you to write and tell me about you.
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Posted:Apr 14, 2022 9:12 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 8:32 pm 1414 Views
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I have this friend who went camping in New Mexico and she told me she was camped out on the foothills and having the best time. She was enjoying those foothills and smelling the mountain air, roasting marshmallows on an open fire and looking up at the stars at night. But every once in a while, she would glance up and she saw the mountain top, and she knew "there's a mountain that remains to be climbed"..."And when you get on top of the mountain, you know you are on top of the mountain. It feels like you are on top of a mountain. You out and your vision changes...Suddenly you can see things that you couldn't even imagine down there in the foothills because I think your commitment depends on where your vision is at the time. And as your vision changes so do your commitments."
I thought isn't that the way it is in relationships with people? I mentioned that to her and she agreed. I then asked her what's it like when you're really connected with someone who you really want to be with, where you can't wait to feel their touch?
She said, "It's like you can imagine what it would be like if these hands were as smooth and as flowing and as powerful as this voice." She said, "You can imagine this tongue probing. Imagine this tongue flicking...thrusting. Imagine these lips tasting. She said, It's like you can hear this voice resonating in you're mined." She said, "It's like you can hear this voice inside, this voice of adventure, this voice of deserving, this voice of desire, that thunders in your mind, and races through your veins, and flows through your every nerve...Now you hear this voice thunder in your mind saying, I deserve it, this is for you! Let's go for it now!"
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