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My Blog

Welcome to my blog!

This is me in a nutshell....
Posted:Nov 26, 2021 9:18 am
Last Updated:Nov 26, 2021 7:26 pm
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https://youtu.be/Mb1Rufxem_4
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Going back to basics......
Posted:Nov 24, 2021 11:10 am
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2021 7:54 am
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So, those who know me, know that I turned to BDSM after losing my hubby. It has been 5 years this year, and although I enjoyed the lifestyle. But now, I have found a vanilla man, who I feel I can give my heart to, one that I can once again allow to love me. All the BDSM relationships I have had, was always with Sadists, all I needed then was pain, and it worked for me. Now I am ready to move on, ready to let a man love me for who and what I am, and in return, give my love. Does this mean that I will give up on BDSM, no, but gently into the night I will go, we all have a lot to teach each other in relationships, and God help this man, kitten has a whole new world to show him!
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ALT YOU FUCKING SUCK! YES I KNOW BORING BUT!!!
Posted:Sep 7, 2021 11:54 am
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2021 11:47 pm
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For the first time in nearly a year i decided to cam... Gee the cams are not working!! WTF ALT, are you just a site full of scammers and fakes??? Fuck i am pissed off, i worked up to caming, it does not come easy for me, and for what>><

Sorry, just had to put this shit out there!!...
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Is BDSM still in the dark ages?
Posted:Aug 24, 2021 6:00 am
Last Updated:Oct 4, 2021 8:33 pm
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Why is it that I have access to so many "Doms" yet, they are unable to give me what I want. I have always been open and honest with all around me as to who and what I am, I do not hide that I am into BDSM. Along comes a Dom, and he ticks all the boxes, except one, he has to hide who and what he is. I ask the question why? Are we any worse than anything else that is out there? Do we do anyone (besides me of course) any harm?
I am frustrated, and pissed off, due to this i have lost a Dom who was perfect in every way, but he was not able to let go, everything had to be planned around his vanilla life, and I was not willing to do that.

Seriously, we live in the 21st centuary, there are way worse things in life than BDSM...
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Doms
Posted:Aug 3, 2021 11:17 am
Last Updated:Aug 18, 2021 8:00 am
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See . Beware, this is a RANT...
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OH GOODEE, SOMEONE WANTS TO FUCK ME!!!!
Posted:Jul 25, 2021 11:18 pm
Last Updated:Jan 10, 2022 12:34 am
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This conversation took place between someone i have never spoken to before:

Want to fuck you sexy
26/7/2021 6:52 am

Gee, i guess i should say, thank you
26/7/2021 7:42 am

Love to fuck you sexy
26/7/2021 7:44 am

Yea, you said that already
26/7/2021 7:45 am

Say it again want your pussy love
26/7/2021 7:45 am

Best forget it, never going to happen......
26/7/2021 7:46 am

OjK
26/7/2021 7:47 am

So classy!!!
26/7/2021 7:53 am

Suck me
26/7/2021 7:53 am

Ok, let me state the following for you.
1) Just because this is a BDSM site, it does not give you the right to talk to someone you do not know the way you are.
2) Would you walk up to a random lady in real life and say these things? If so, i can assure you that you would get BITCH SLAPPED (But you would probably like that)
3) Seeing as we are friggen oceans apart, it is obvious that you are just looking for "wank fodder"

SO DO ME A FAVOUR AND TAKE A LONG WALK OF A SHORT PIER, thank you.
26/7/2021 7:57 am
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Time to move on......
Posted:Jul 21, 2021 8:42 am
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2021 11:00 am
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It will be 5 years this year that my hubby passed on. It is the main reason why i turned to BDSM, i was not interested in a romantic relationship.
Of late, i have found myself feeling the need for someone in my life, so yes, i think i am finally ready to move on.
Now of course the person that i do eventually get romantically involved with will have to be a sadist, God only knows, i could never ever do vanilla again.
Anyways, not pushing the situation, what will be will be.
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South Africa
Posted:Jul 13, 2021 8:57 am
Last Updated:Jul 15, 2021 6:10 am
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It all started with our ex President Jacob Zuma being sentenced to months in prison for contempt of court. Midnight last Tuesday, he handed himself over to the Mooi River correctional services to begin his sentence.

That is when the trouble on the streets started, protests on the streets to #freeJacobZuma.
The protests started in Durban, my hometown which is a Zulu nation, and then spread to Johannesburg.
It did not take long, before the looting and destruction started, and has been going on since Friday, right now, i can still hear gun shots from my flat.
They have destroyed countless shopping centers, stealing anything and everything. Midnight last night, the army were deployed to Durban and Johannesburg, but they are purely there to "assist" the police!

Right now, the shops that are open, are fast running out of essentials, as the trucks that deliver, have been stoned and burnt.

Our constitution allows for peaceful demonstrations, yet what we are seeing now, is total mayhem. God only knows how or when this will end!
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Regretting The Past
Posted:Jul 11, 2021 7:16 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2021 9:44 pm
2871 Views

So, i posted a blog with this title three hours ago, and then poof, it was gone.
I went looking for it, and found this note attached.

Your post has been denied due to the following reason: Banned Topics (hate/weapons/under age). Please update your post to get it re-reviewed.

To those who read my blog, can you give me any idea how anything in this blog was banned topic substance???
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Regretting The Past
Posted:Jul 11, 2021 3:36 am
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2021 1:12 am
2786 Views

A blog written by a Dom here, has taken me back to better times and regret for losing that "one special" Dom.
Sometimes we as subs can be so stupid and not see what is right in front of us till it is to late. All we are left with then are memories of someone who made life worth living.
To all those subs who have a Dom presently, look after and treasure what you have, take nothing for granted..........
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