Asexuality.
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Posted:Apr 17, 2019 6:40 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2020 7:00 am 1702 Views
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"An asexual person (“ace”, for short) is simply someone who does not experience sexual attraction. 's all there is to it. Aces can be any sex or gender or age or ethnic background or body type, can be rich or poor, can wear any clothing style, and can be any religion or political affiliation."
baffled by the amount of people who doesn't know what asexuality is, or better yet, they think they know and try to educate others on the subject.
I've had far too many idiots invalidating my orientation due to their own ignorance.
Their favorite argument is "But you say you still like sex. How can you like sex if you're asexual?".
Simple. Sex can feel fucking awesome.
The asexuality spectrum is huge. Bloody huge.
In rough details on the "pure asexual" spectrum, one can be sex repulsed, sex positive or, like me, inbetween. Sex is okay, sometimes. When not in the mood for it and someone makes a sexual comment etc I just wanna give them a high five to the face with a closed fist.
Other comments I've gotten are;
'How can you want sex if you're not sexually attracted to anyone?".
One does not to feel sexual attraction to enjoy sex. Big difference between sexual attraction and sex drive.
To sex is only interesting when there's certain kinks involved. Pain, for the most part.
I attracted to my man? Of course. Emotionally.
"If you don't like sex why are you on a BDSM-site?".
Exactly. It's a BDSM-site. Not a sex site. If you believe those two go hand in hand get back to the fucking basics.
"Ooh, I know what asexual means, you only have sex with yourself!".
What? I masturbate like most people, sure. I enjoy some two-on-two bedfun now and then, though.
"Asexuality isn't real. It's a result of abuse. You just gotta learn to open and allow yourself to feel sexual emotions".
Thank you, doctor. I'll keep this in mind the next time screaming my lungs out when cumming.
"Oh. sorry to hear ". (When told asexual).
Why are you sorry? Are you sorry for people who are gay as well? It's who I .
"I hope you learn to enjoy sex".
Dude, seriously. I do enjoy sex. I just don't look people and think "I wanna fuck ".
"Isn't it frustrating for your boyfriend you don't want sex?".
Again, I want sex, sometimes. And no, he doesn't find it frustrating. We do this fun thing where we communicate with each other.
"I hope you have found other ways to please your man, since you refuse to fuck him".
Excuse me, princess?
The list goes on and on, and they just keep coming. Luckily I across people who wants to learn and more than to answer their questions.
The BDSM community is supposed to accepting of everyone (as long as they're not participating in illegal shit) and open-minded.
When people invalidate you by saying "you just to meet the right guy", "you just gotta do this and ", it's disrespectful beyond words.
If you don't know, ask! Most people doesn't mind helping others understand.
The fact you've never heard about it doesn't make it any less real.
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