Ghosted By a Woman - Again - Damn You
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Posted:Aug 29, 2023 7:22 pm
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 8:7 am 2342 Views
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There are men on Alt - bad men on Alt - who are deservedly called out - although usually as a group.
Well, there are women here - rude, inconsiderate women - who think it is a game to initiate a chat - encourage a visit to a room - and then - poof! - gone- like a Ghost. In high school we called such women (girls) teases and, later, cock teases (ct). Turns out some of those girls CTs grow into women CTs.
As with the bad men who spoil Alt for the (mostly) good guys, these women spoil Alt for those women who don't need to be defined by the number of men they lure and leave.
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Caring Sadist - An Oxymoron?
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Posted:Aug 28, 2023 5:29 am
Last Updated:Aug 29, 2023 4:41 pm 2032 Views
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I have learned that here - on Alt - not only do I like to write about putting women in helpless positions/circumstances where I can play with them as I choose - but I also enjoy inflicting pain. Turns out I have a streak of sadism in me. But it is circumscribed by the fact that I want to direct it to a specific end - pleasure for me and my (somewhat) masochistic partner. That means I have to be attentive and caring even as I inflict pain. So, a caring sadist? Oxymoronic? Possibly. But that's me - at least I think it is.
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Equipping a Dungeon - What Should Be There?
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Posted:Aug 19, 2023 6:52 am
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2023 3:47 pm 3056 Views
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I write stories in which the victim ends up in my dungeon to be tortured, abused and humiliated.
It goes without saying there would be wide array of restraints - handcuffs, shackles, zip ties, ropes, and places to secure them fixed in the walls - gags, blindfolds, collars, leashes, nipple clamps, labia clamps, electric tools such as cattle prods, tasers, violet wands, and floggers, whips, canes, etc.
Plus: St. Andrews Crosses; Adjustable gallows; cage; Regulation prison cell; Suspension gear; Piercing needles; Candles; Dry ice (burns as badly as heat); Fresh Lemon juice (or other astringent); Spanking bench; Vaginal speculum; Dildos of various sizes and shapes; Butt plugs; Tattoo gear; Branding iron; "figging" substance (ginger); Medieval rack; Pear of Anguish; Iron Maiden with adjustable spikes; Modified breast ripper (to wound and gash, not to take off); Dunking bench (a device that can be used to lower her head into a bucket of water to simulate drowning and which can be used for waterboarding which also simulates drowning - d'oh); closed-circuit TV to keep a video log.
Other ideas? A bed, for instance.
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No Pulling from Room - an Ethical Challenge
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Posted:Aug 17, 2023 5:56 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 8:7 am 2480 Views
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I understand the rule about no pulling someone from a room or not even mentioning another room. In fact, I have the same restriction on the room(s) I have created. But sometimes you want to have a "date" someplace else. What to do?
I have tried to address this by sending a DM to the person I am interested in to see if they would like to meet. ("Hi, I just saw you in the [blank] room and wondered if you would like to meet someplace else to get better acquainted.") If the response is favorable, we can discuss the where and when - again, via DM (or, I suppose, IM).
Does this qualify as "pulling?" Technically I suppose it does but it is not the overt "Let's go to [blank] room" in the room where both people are and where others can bear witness to the "pull".
So, to all, and especially room owners, is my strategy acceptable and sound or merely an exercise in sophistry and rationalization?
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Simon Says - A Kinky Variation
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Posted:Aug 16, 2023 4:34 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 8:7 am 2468 Views
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We all know the game - something can only be done if preceded by "Simon Says". Why not play this with your sub/slave? You already give him/her commands, right? So, you agree that for some amount of time during the day, s/he may only do something you command if you first say Simon (Master/Sir/Mistress) Says. If s/he doesn't you will inflict the appropriate punishment of your choice. It could be fun to see how often s/he willfully disobeys for a chance to be struck by a cane, for example. Have fun.
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Safe Haven Interest Group - Back Under New Management
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Posted:Aug 14, 2023 4:56 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 5:40 am 2399 Views
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I have tried to start a variety of interest groups and have ruthlessly ended almost all of them. I am about to end another - Safe Haven to Ask a Dom. My thinking was that it would be nice to have a safe space for Subs to come and chat among themselves (and with me) and with no limits on what what could be talked about.
There were a couple of wonderful conversations right off the bat but lately the interest group has been me and my penchant for making puns on the word "haven".
So, poof! - away with this interest group. Thanks to everyone who participated. I wish we had lovely parting gifts but, alas, we don't.
Turns out this room is back and under new management - Good luck, Momokatze.
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The Glory of a Great Play Partner
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Posted:Aug 9, 2023 6:34 am
Last Updated:Mar 7, 2024 3:42 am 2877 Views
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I have whined and kvetched for ages but today want to tip my hat and give kudos to a truly great play partner. We agreed on a fairly long and complex story arc and have worked with one another to be sure the narrative unfolds as we want it to. The end is predictable - she, the ingenue, will concede to what is demanded of her - but how we get there - slowly, incrementally, over time - is what makes this so much fun. I can't wait for the next chapter.
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Note to Self: Stop Whining
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Posted:Aug 7, 2023 3:01 pm
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 8:7 am 2488 Views
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Poor me. Alas. Alack. Not the center of the Alt world of Doms; not even on the periphery. Oh no. What to do. Woe is me.
Really, self? Get over it. Stop whining. You've met some nice people. Had some very nice play encounters. Written some things that people like. And learned some things about yourself along the way - some good and some not so good - and that's the way of the world.
So - Snap out of It and move forward. Carpe Diem. And so forth and so on.
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An Apology for Visiting and Not Staying/Participating
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Posted:Aug 5, 2023 2:50 pm
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2023 5:57 am 2258 Views
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I like to visit rooms that I am a part of and, when the circumstances are right, to chat and even to participate. But sometimes I drop in and drop out - even when there are people there to spend time with and interact.
>This is NOT a reflection on you.
But sometimes I am in a situation when I don't have the privacy to do more than drop in; others there are r/l factors that require me to leave sooner than I would like; and in some cases the room is too crowded for me to have a scene with someone and so I leave (because it is unethical to pull someone to another room or to even mention another room).
That's my story. And to anyone I have offended by disappearing on them, my apologies.
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Room Hopping
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Posted:Aug 1, 2023 7:57 pm
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 8:7 am 2307 Views
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I seem to be spending a lot of time lately "room-hopping" - joining an interest group, leaving, joining another, going back to the first - whew. I don't know why I am doing this, what I am looking for, or if I will know it when I see it. On the other hand, I am getting my virtual steps in.
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