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Jibber Jabber

Reflections. Thoughts. Ruminations. Observations. Kvetches. Complaints. Compliments. Apologies.

Are Pictures from the Internet Permitted on Alt?
Posted:Mar 12, 2024 3:48 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 12:1 pm
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It has been my understanding that it is counter to Alt policy for someone to use a fake picture as part of their profile. Sometimes these pictures are of adult movie stars and models; and sometimes they are provocative ads; and sometimes, well, it could be anything, I suppose.

I have reported these as a matter of course as I find them intentionally misleading.

Am I wrong? Are some pictures downloaded from the net acceptable? If so, I might owe at least one person a sincere apology.

But if so, then doesn't Alt have a responsibility to take some action against the person reported? (Rhetorical - the answer, of course, is Yes.)
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IM - So many Questions - Well, Two, Actually
Posted:Mar 12, 2024 3:42 am
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2024 11:51 pm
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I see more and more Altizens on IM and not in rooms (at least, not those I frequent). I understand that for many, IM has the advantage of being private, of not leaving a digital scroll that has to erased, and so forth. So, what are the rules of civility on IM? Is a polite introduction sufficient, such as, "I read your profile and think we might get along - would you like to chat and find out?" And after you send such a note (or you receive such a note) how long do you typically wait for a polite reply? Just curious. Thanks.
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On Closing Rooms - Kept Hostage Going Away
Posted:Mar 11, 2024 5:49 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 12:1 pm
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We all have reasons to keep rooms open; heaven knows, I will until the bitter end. But it is important to know/recognize that end. This could happen for any number of reasons. (Talk among yourselves.)

For me, if people aren't going to interact in Chat or contribute via the discussion board then there is no reason to keep the room going. And I have no problem in just saying No. I have rooms to share writing and the truth is that I can do this writing pretty much anywhere and choose to do so here because a) this seems like an appropriate forum and b) being a good Altizen means contributing in some way.

So, Kept Hostage will live through the end of this month and then will be disabled. The writings that are there will move to NNFU's Fantasy Writing Room. And the Kept Hostage playroom will be renamed to something more generic on the off chance someone wants to live/scene one of the existing fantasies or create one of their own.
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Caught - Updated 3/13/24
Posted:Mar 7, 2024 6:12 am
Last Updated:Mar 13, 2024 4:28 am
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This one is called "caught" - there are now five parts done - the three most recent told from her perspective - and it is on the discussion board at my room "NNFU's Fantasy Writing Room".
As always, constructive comments and suggestions are welcome.
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Putting Affairs in Order
Posted:Mar 7, 2024 6:09 am
Last Updated:Mar 14, 2024 3:45 am
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I wish I were referring to systematically organizing the many affairs I have had - virtual and real life - but, no, as much fun as that would (and as quick a project, alas), I am referring to the grimmer connotation of the phrase.

There comes a time when we have to do this: wills, executors, physicians' directives, etc. even if there doesn't seem to be a imminent need to do so. But, at an age, and I am at that age, there is always always an imminent need to do this. Because while we never know how long we have to live, we understand that the older we get the less time there is. I am 74. My parents lived into their 80s. There is no reason to think I won't as well. But why not be prepared (rhetorical).

And, so, I have put my affairs in order. The special people in my life know all there is to know in order to carry on after I am gone. It saddens me to think of this - as I am sure it did my folks and my first wife - and yet it is such a kind thing to do for them. I think I find some small comfort that the last thing the people I love might appreciate about me is this act of kindness. Well, I hope so.

Sorry for such a grim beginning to the day.
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Insomnia - Poor sleep
Posted:Mar 6, 2024 4:25 am
Last Updated:Mar 7, 2024 6:22 am
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I used to be a great sleeper - to bed at 10pm and up at 6am - 8 hours of deep, restful sleep. But something has changed and now I rarely if ever have such nights and that is even with he help of a sleeping tablet. What does one do in the middle of the night, awake and restless? A default is to watch something familiar on television and hope that it will lull me to sleep; another is to read something that is sufficiently dense that the effort of trying to concentrate will knock me out - Will and Ariel Durant's History of Philosophy used to do this for me; or, maybe, a snack of some kind; and there is always the obvious standby for this group of logging on to Alt and scanning for messages or comments on my writings (there are rarely any so this doesn't take long) or doing some new writing (which is often what I do). At some point, my little eyes get heavy and I retreat to the couch and et voila I am asleep for a little while longer. But when I wake again I am not rested or refreshed and am in a funk for the rest of the day.

I know - who cares? But I warned you - writing is a way I segue back to sleep. Forewarned is forearmed, right?

Yawn. Once more unto the couch, dear friends.
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Borrowing Photos -- Some Things Don't Change
Posted:Mar 3, 2024 8:17 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 12:1 pm
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Glad to see that the practice of borrowing (stealing) photos and using them on Alt hasn't changed. This is one of those, If I can run a quick search on the picture, why can't Alt as part of their authentication process? (Rhetorical)
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Just One of Those Meh Days
Posted:Mar 2, 2024 2:39 pm
Last Updated:Mar 2, 2024 5:33 pm
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We've all had them, right? You wake up and are just meh - and you aren't able to shake it. That's my day today. I woke up feeling meh - had my morning coffee and donut - usually a morning brightener - today, meh - and then I decamped to the couch where I encamped and have been slug-a-bed (slug-a-couch) every since. Ah, lucky Altizens that I have this forum to share such nonsense. Oh, well. As the redoubtable Scarlett O'Hara eloquently put it - "Tomorrow is another day."
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Room Ownership - How Often Should I (or you) Be There?
Posted:Mar 1, 2024 7:16 am
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2024 8:53 am
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I have a room - well, a couple of them. These are not really play rooms - one is for me to post writings and the other is to talk about music. People are invited to drop in and chat and contribute or just hang out - there are no expectations beyond polite behavior.

Now, does it matter how often I am in these rooms? I mean, if I were there more, if people saw the room(s) were occupied, would that encourage more people to visit? I have no idea.

This is true of other rooms, too. The owner is not present very often and/or at unpredictable times. Does this matter? Or does the room draw people based primarily on their shared interest in what the room offers?

As for me, on those days when I am able to do so, I will perch myself in my rooms. If someone stops by, great; if not, well, that is quite okay too.
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On Aging - Sort Of
Posted:Mar 1, 2024 4:20 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2024 8:27 pm
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This year I am celebrating the birthdays of two friends who are *80*, one who is *70*, another who is *50*, and two couples' *50th* wedding anniversaries. It doesn't seem possible. And, yet, here we are, older in some ways; still young in others. And to those enjoying milestone events - that end in d'oh or any other number - I wish you the best - health, happiness, laughter, love - and will try to do the same as my calendar pages turn to similar celebrations.
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