Disappeared ??
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Posted:Jun 11, 2016 10:45 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 11:22 pm 6392 Views
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I have a conversation with someone. I make the last post so I assume they are done.
Then days later, I say hello. They accuse me of disappearing. Then they block me lol.
Another woman in town makes all sorts of promises. Wants to meet right away. Then the next day I don't hear from her at all. Doesn't answer her phone, text , nothing.
Then hours later says "Oh, you aren't what I was looking for"
She had no plans to tell me anything. Just bail out. That just not an honorable people.
This is why you just can't trust too many people.
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I'm an asshole
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Posted:Aug 5, 2015 6:35 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 11:22 pm 10370 Views
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Can't say you weren't forewarned.
That's all.
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End of the road
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Posted:Apr 26, 2012 10:56 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 11:22 pm 31456 Views
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I am done with this place. Friends I used to have either went off to some fet place or disappeared or I found they weren't friends at all.
This place used to be bustling with activity. Now, its a ghost town. People know how to reach me and they haven't. Now, that door is closed. It seems real life beckons me after all.
So long 
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Mountain man
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Posted:Aug 26, 2010 11:44 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 11:22 pm 30131 Views
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Beautiful people, inside and out. Some of the nicest people you could ever want to meet. And terrible things happen to them, things certainly not their fault. And they look at the road ahead and all they see is black darkness.
I have looked down that same tunnel and saw that same darkness. While there may have been those thoughts, I always continued down that path. I am stubborn like that. Literally a decade + later, slivers of light could be seen. Took a long time. To the point where I stopped looking ahead.
The light isn't exactly bright but, I can at least see it. And I can see it in others also. My challenge is to get them to see what I can easily see. Maybe I had to take that path so that I could show others. Like those mountain men who trekked across the west, giving tours and helping those who chose to relocate in the wilderness
They would tell of hot springs and geysers (Yellowstone) and no one would believe them. All of nature's wonders. I can see the wonders of life in the eyes of my friends who are in pain.
I just haven't learned how to convince them that its there.
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Its all about me
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Posted:Jul 29, 2010 11:30 pm
Last Updated:Aug 3, 2010 6:21 pm 30611 Views
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Too many times at sites like this we see profile after profile telling what we want, our hard limits, goals and all that good stuff.
But, rarely do I see anyone list what they have to offer to the other person. How they can become a value to them. And that's about as important as anything else I would think.
If you really want a relationship to last, you have to think of the other person as much as you think of yourself. You have to make yourself valuable to that person. So that a break up would mean he/she would lose a lot. And miss you.
If its only about him doing things for you, in time he will tire and get bored. Because nothing is coming back his way. People like to be cared about, thought of. Know that they matter in your life. And when they don't they lose the reason for being in a relationship.
Maybe freedom is best for some. If they don't have it inside them to care about the partner. Maybe they should be free ?
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Sometimes enough is enough
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Posted:Jul 26, 2010 12:42 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 11:22 pm 29735 Views
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Sometimes two people can try and try and it just doesn't work out. Effort simply isn't enough.
Maybe its best for birds to be free no matter how badly they wish to be caged. Maybe its just their way.
When your world is spinning a million miles a minute, its not easy to focus. But, without that focus, what is left for the partner ??
I do know a relationship is like a flower, neglect it and it will wither.
We'll have to see...
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Not cruel enough ??
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Posted:Jul 11, 2010 10:28 am
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2010 11:55 pm 30821 Views
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This is what someone said about me.
I thought it was quite funny actually. As if I have to portray something on a computer screen that can only happen in real life.
One cannot see body language or facial gestures through words on a screen. I guess doimg some sort of cyber would be helpful but, some of us simply aren't into that.
I never really thought about it. How would one "prove" cruelty ? Not that I care one way or the other about proving anything. But, how does one accomplish that ??
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Cage Rattling
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Posted:Jun 21, 2010 12:09 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 11:22 pm 29830 Views
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Many times we do things and don't even realize why we do then. They just seem natural to do I guess.
I know I have to be the one to rattle the cage, poke a stick in there or something. Even if I have to put the person in that cage so I can mess with them  .
I need them to struggle, fight back. I love the challenge of it all. I can't stand a cold fish or what they call the "doormat". I have met slaves as submissive and docile as one could imagine yet, there is a level I can reach with them where even they think twice.
Or I can see the look in their eyes that says "I'm doing this but, I don't like it!" Knowing they would resist if they could but, they are resigned in the fact they can't and won't and I do have the ultimate control over them.
But, in the meantime, expect me to be a bit....difficult !!
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Just another day
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Posted:May 10, 2010 10:32 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 11:22 pm 29621 Views
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For some of us, that's what Sunday was.
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