Talked to my Boss
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Posted:Mar 26, 2006 1:09 pm
Last Updated:May 28, 2024 2:51 am 3272 Views
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I told my boss about my "situation". She said that she didn't suspect. But she wasn't shocked. She said she had a similar experience with her first husband. She was cool.
This is how I thought I thought she would be, supportive, offered to be a phone call away. She understands how difficult this is. She is a friend.
I feel better getting this off my chest to someone.
Since 3/31 is her last day with the company I figured that this was a safe thing to do.
This is a big step for me. Testing if my people sense is correct.
Amy
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March 16!!!!!!!!
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Posted:Mar 19, 2006 2:15 am
Last Updated:May 28, 2024 2:51 am 3261 Views
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Thursday 3/16 I had somewhat of a preview of going out. A TS friend that I met on-line through the local TG support group invited me over her house. I took a vacation day and spent from 9:30-5pm (wife was out of town). We talked, I cried, She gave me one of her hormone pills (a symbolic event), and she made me over from makeup to shoes.
With my friend, her partner and two mor friends there were five of us to form this little social group.
We almost made it out.
There'll be another time.
But it was a memorable day. Unfortunatly Friday was a return to reality.
Amy
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March 11
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Posted:Mar 14, 2006 2:32 am
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2006 7:14 pm 4441 Views
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An eventful day. After a long "talk" last night that wasn't productive and ended at 3am. Today's was.
I admitted to my wife that I am a transsexual. Up to this point I had been telling her that I was not sure meanwhile I was sure more and more. It was good to get that out in the open.
Last night (this morning) I was reading the book True Selves and I fell asleep on the sofa. Today my wife found that book and thus started a dialog.
We still have a long way to go but she is more understanding. You can't stop a moving ship.
Amy
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Friday March 09
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Posted:Mar 14, 2006 2:31 am
Last Updated:May 28, 2024 2:51 am 3357 Views
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To add a little more change to my life my boss, who has been good to me to allow visits to the therapist, has given her notice and will be leaving at the end of March.
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Mood Swings
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Posted:Mar 1, 2006 7:29 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 3324 Views
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My darling wife is going through menopause. (I'm sure she loves the ides I told everybody that). Therefore her mood swings are really swingin.
As goes here goes mine.
A few days ago she thought it was a good idea that I move out of the house.
The next day she recanted and was willing to support me through therapy.
Then she was down and resigned to that fact that our marriage wouldn't last.
Then she was very upbeat and wanted to renew out wedding vows.
She has me thinking one way then yanks me back again.
I'm too fragile to keep this up.
Amy
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Mood Swings
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Posted:Mar 1, 2006 7:28 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 3388 Views
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My darling wife is going through menopause. (I'm sure she loves the ides I told everybody that). Therefore her mood swings are really swingin.
As goes here goes mine.
A few days ago she thought it was a good idea that I move out of the house.
The next day she recanted and was willing to support me through therapy.
Then she was down and resigned to that fact that our marriage wouldn't last.
Then she was very upbeat and wanted to renew out wedding vows.
She has me thinking one way then yanks me back again.
I'm too fragile to keep this up.
Amy
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Coming Around
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Posted:Feb 13, 2006 8:42 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 4291 Views
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Wife will accept me dressing in private when she is not home.
This is not what I wanted but will accept it for now.
Amy
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Told Her
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Posted:Jan 28, 2006 11:03 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 4356 Views
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I have not updated my blog in a while.
I told my wife about CD about three weeks ago.
I Don't think it was a mistake. But she didn't like it. Basically told me to stop or she would leave.
But now she hasn't changed her mind she wants to understand and do anything to help.
I found a transgender support group so that's where I'm going to start. I don't know what the outcome will be but going to try.
Amy
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Emotional Breakdown
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Posted:Jan 4, 2006 9:56 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 4291 Views
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I had an emotional breakdown this morning about my anxiety about telling my wife. I cried at home this morning and half way to work. Been holding it in for so long. Calm for now.
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Basics
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Posted:Dec 27, 2005 8:19 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 4489 Views
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I have been cross dressing for the past few years. But I have really done it on and off all my life. I'm married and my wife does not know about this side of me. I don't know why she hasn't guessed my male clothes are some what flashy. My problem is how to I tell her.
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