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Posted:May 24, 2023 8:52 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2024 6:42 am 2413 Views
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Add 5 years to the listed age; Alt refuses to fix my DOB.
Medically retired military. Full fledged lifestyle Dom. Almost anything here is somewhat flexible- If you think you're not "eligible" but wish you were, try anyways.
I like guns, girls, and God, and on that order. Guns are part of my life; I am a veteran. If that's a problem, move along.
I don't do scat, urine, blood, or human ashtray. Excepting body modification (piercings', tattoos, brands, etc.), I do NOT do, and will not allow, permanent injuries- Never a broken bones, no stitches, etc. Unlike SOME of the punks running around in these circles, I'm not just some wife beater with a license. Fear, pain, humiliation are all PART of it, but they're NOT an ends unto themselves. It's a GAME- Not a war.
The site will NOT "allow" me to post pictures of my time in the militry (because all of them have "weapons," as if that's some big surprise or something), and my dress uni pics disappeared a long time ago.
It's not JUST about sex; True submission is about the whole-life experience.
I never say, "Holler back." If you're that sort, well I'm not interested. Reply back is merely a mark of sufficient RESPECT to acknowledge attention given.
A holler back girl talks too much, and while I have a way of shutting anyone up, I don't need THAT sort.
HARD LIMITS:
I don't do breath play, knives/needles, or anything that may result in permanent injury. DON'T EVEN BOTHER ASKING. (I can't believe I have to say that out loud.)
Relocation assistance given if requested. (Don't be afraid to ask; my way of saying yes is very nice. And that might be the 1 time I'm just totally nice.)
== Oh Wow, I Got My Updated BDSMTEST.Org Results… ==
100% Master/Mistress, Sadist, Rigger (you’d better believe it- I was a Boatswain’s Mate, what you call rigging is what I did all damned day long, and then a lot more), and Degrader (worse, I expect you to degrade yourself)
98% Dominant and Primal Hunter (ya, I’m pretty bad about that, I literally snarl during sex if I’m really liking it)
93% Brat Tamer
87% Owner
70% Experimentalist
60% Exhibitionist
57% Voyeur
37% Masochist
29% Non-Monogamist
23% Switch
20% Degradee (I really don’t mind “a little” backtalk, and both of my safewords are insults “honkey” and “f4gg0t” so your insults aren’t that big a deal)
18% Vanilla (wow, it used to be like 25
17% Pet
16% Primal (Prey)
11% Mommy (HUH? I'm physically incapable of being a Mommy... I ain't got no tits any sort...)
9% Submissive
0% Boy/Girl, Brat, Rope Bunny, Slave, and Ageplayer (sorry, no, I don’t even like it when she acts like she’s young- I don’t care about one little hobby, like “likes coloring books,” but if you mind is stuck on 20 years ago at 25 years old, go away I’m not interested).
The personality Profile thingie says I'm an Introverted iNtuitive Feeling Perceiver (INFP) personality commonly referred to as "The Idealistic Philosopher." (Idealistic? Not so much anymore, my idealism died in 2017.)
I am a moderate, but I am a slightly right-leaning moderate.
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Starting Kit.
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Posted:Feb 26, 2022 9:27 am
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2022 11:23 pm 2350 Views
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This might come as a shock to some, but just moving in ISN’T the end-all/be-all. No, you will need a kit to start out.
This kit will be yours permanently- You need these things to work, to live, to be the thing I need you to be, even though you generally won’t need them day to day.
Of course your collar and cuffs are part of that kit, but you sleep with those on. Beyond that are:
Multi-tool. A basic multi-tool.
Googles. Two pairs, one clear lens and one tinted, to protect your eyes while working.
Gloves. Very light-duty work gloves.
Sleeves. Long-armed fingerless gloves to protect your arms, mainly from the sun and wind.
Mask, In the post-pandemic world, we all must have masks in certain situations, and while I fully believe the crisis has been brazenly exploited and abused to advance certain people and group’s agendas, it changes nothing in practical day to day life- We wear them or we get kicked out of stores. It’s wrong and it is what it is.
This is the basic starter kit, all of which I already have except the gloves and sleeves (I am waiting to order those once you are here, since they need to fit YOU, not ME).
Scarf. To cover the collar when we’re out and about, and thus avoid trouble (yes, it’s happened).
Once you’ve been here a couple weeks, two major events happen; The first is your leash gets released. You’ve shown you can be trusted enough to have a little bit of freedom. The second is you will be issued your knife, a basic folding knife (nothing remarkable). Any knife is dangerous, and this is another physical manifestation that you have proven you can be trusted with a little bit of freedom.
I regret I can not upload the photos of the kit here, they’re very helpful in understanding, but that is what it is.
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Follow up on my BDSM Test Results Summary from Ø5 May 2Ø21.
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Posted:May 22, 2021 5:31 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2024 6:42 am 4445 Views
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Follow up on my BDSM Test Results Summary from Ø5 May 2 Ø21.
1ØØ% Master/Mistress
Masters/Mistresses receive complete control over the life of their slave/s, and all responsibilities that come with it. They go a step further than dominants in the sense that their power exchange is present 24/7 and in all aspects of their life (except for negotiated exceptions such as during their office jobs). Their primary focus is to create a stable and safe environment for their slave/s, to allow optimal servitude.
Masters/Mistresses typically pair up with slaves.
1ØØ% Sadist
Sadists enjoy inflicting (certain types of) pain on their partner/s, usually in a sexual context.
Sadists typically pair up with masochists.
1ØØ% Rigger
Riggers like to tie up and restrain their partner/s, using rope and/or other attributes (chains, cuffs, spreader bars, etc.). Whether for sexual enhancement, for art or just for fun, they enjoy having their partners completely at their mercy.
Riggers typically pair up with rope bunnies.
1ØØ% Degrader
Degraders like to degrade and humiliate their play partner/s, either by acting upon them in a degrading way, or by or by forcing them to do things they consider degrading.
Degraders typically pair up with degradees.
98% Primal (Hunter)
Primals are mainly focused on their natural instincts and they enjoy letting their inner animal during sex. The key part for primals play is that the participants show their raw, emotional sexual feelings during play. All of the labels, roles, and protocols go the window, and the prey can become a snarling, growing, clawing animal hell-bent on getting away from its predator (you).
Hunters typically pair up with primal preys.
98% Dominant
Dominants like to be in charge. Some like to have their partner obey them without questioning, others like some resistance while taking it their way. Some are dominant in the bedroom, others are dominant throughout their daily life as well. Unlike the top roles (giving pain/bondage/degradation), being dominant is more about who decides what happens (and takes the responsibility that comes with it) than about the contents of what happens.
Dominants typically pair up with submissives.
93% Brat Tamer
Brat tamers are, in essence, dominants who enjoy handling bratty submissives. They find disobedience a form of playfulness from the side of the submissive, rather than a form of rudeness. They will take no offence to it, but will still teach the sub a well deserved lesson (because, of course, that is why the bratty sub shows such behavior in the first place).
Brat Tamers typically pair up with brats.
87% Owner
Owners own pets/properties and take responsibility over them, on a 24/7 basis. Sexuality is not necessarily involved; in some cases role play attributes are also provided (e.g. a cage for the pet). There is no link at all with sex with animals (which is simply not on the BDSM spectrum), and many pets don't even feel like they're playing an animal, it's more about the typical relationship between an owner and a pet.
Owners typically pair up with pets.
7Ø% Experimentalist
Experimentalists want to have tried it all. An open mind and an insatiable curiosity are their key features, and they will rarely form an opinion before they have gathered first hand experience. They often have plenty of fantasies and will actively pursue to try them out.
Experimentalists typically pair up with other experimentalists.
6Ø% Exhibitionist
Exhibitionists enjoy showing their naked body or a sexual activity to other people. Consensually, of course.
Exhibitionists typically pair up with voyeurs.
57% Voyeur
Voyeurs enjoy watching the nakedness or sexual activity of other people. Consensually, of course.
Voyeurs typically pair up with exhibitionists.
37% Masochist
Masochists enjoy receiving (certain types of) pain from their partner/s, usually in a sexual context. Masochism is independent of pain tolerance: it is purely about the ability to enjoy (or get aroused by) certain levels of pain.
Masochists typically pair up with sadists.
29% Non-Monogamist
Non-monogamists do not see sexuality as necessarily a 1 on 1 thing. Whether this means they will have several relationships or just see other people outside their relationship (or have even more exquisite constructions) depends entirely on the person and the situation, but they all have one thing in common: their sexuality is more than just between them and one fixed partner.
Non-monogamists typically pair up with (several) other non-monogamists.
23% Switch
Switches like to… Well, switch. Always taking a dominant or top position is not for them, neither is always taking a submissive or bottom position. Some prefer to switch with the same partner or partners, others have a dominant play partner and a submissive play partner, but in either case they do not fit on one end point of the spectrum.
Switches typically pair up with other switches.
2Ø% Degradee
Degradees like to be degraded and humiliated by their play partner/s, either by being acted upon in a degrading way, or by being forced do things they consider degrading.
Degradees typically pair up with degraders.
18% Vanilla
Vanilla people enjoy regular, standard sex and relationship models. Nothing wrong with that, as long as you're having fun!
Vanillas typically pair up with other vanillas.
% Pet
Pets are property of their owner in daily life. Sexuality is not necessarily involved; in some cases role play attributes are also provided (e.g. a cage for the pet). There is no link at all with sex with animals (which is simply not on the BDSM spectrum), and many pets don't even feel like they're playing an animal, it's more about the typical relationship between an owner and a pet.
Pets typically pair up with owners.
% Primal (Prey)
Primals are mainly focused on their natural instincts and they enjoy letting their inner animal during sex. The key part for primals play is that the participants show their raw, emotional sexual feelings during play. All of the labels, roles, and protocols go the window, and the prey (you) can become a snarling, growing, clawing animal hell-bent on getting away from its predator.
Preys typically pair up with primal hunters.
% /Mommy
Daddies/Mommies take on a caretaker role in the relationship, being a guide as much a dominant. Daddies/Mommies dominate their little treasure submissives with an iron fist in a velvet glove: much cuddly and affectionate on the outside, while being as sturdy and hard on the inside as other dominants. Using subtle psychological mechanisms rather than brute power, they nurture their littles into obedience. Sexuality is not necessarily involved, and there is no link at all with pedophilia (which is simply not on the BDSM spectrum).
Daddies/Mommies typically pair up with girls/boys.
9% Submissive
Submissives like to follow. Some like to give the control away to their partner/s, some like to have it forcibly taken from them. Some are submissive in the bedroom, others are submissive throughout their daily life as well (usually with limitations). Unlike the bottom roles (receiving pain/bondage/degradation), being submissive is more about who decides what happens (and takes the responsibility that comes with it) than about the contents of what happens.
Submissives typically pair up with dominants.
Ø% /Girl
Littles (girls/boys) are submissive spirits with a strong flavor childlike innocence. They long for a nurturing loving dominant who plays a guiding, almost parental role in their lives. While they require a softer approach to be dominated than most other submissives, their submission can be just as deep as that of other submissives or slaves. Sexuality is not necessarily involved, and there is no link at all with pedophilia (which is simply not on the BDSM spectrum).
Girls/boys typically pair up with daddies/mommies.
Ø% Brat
Brats are, in essence, naughty submissives. They find disobedience a form of playfulness rather than letting their dominant down, and require a compatible dominant who will not teach them a lesson, but also accept that any of lessons might still not necessarily change this behavior.
Brats typically pair up with brat tamers.
Ø% Rope Bunny
Rope bunny likes to be tied up and restrained, using rope and/or other attributes (chains, cuffs, spreader bars, etc.). Whether for sexual enhancement, for art or just for fun, they enjoy being totally at the mercy of their partner/s.
Rope bunnies typically pair up with riggers.
Ø% Slave
Slaves completely hand over the control and responsibilities over their life to their master/mistress. They go a step further than submissives in the sense that their power exchange is present 24/7 and in all aspects of their life (except for negotiated exceptions such as during their office jobs). Serving their master/mistress is their primary focus in life and they rarely have limits for them.
Slaves typically pair up with masters/mistresses.
Ø% Ageplayer
Ageplayers like to play with age as part of their kink. They typically take on a much or older age than they actually are, or prefer playing with a partner that does so. Attributes and behavior changes (such as pacifiers, coloring books, speaking in more childlike language, etc.) are commonly paired with this, to enrich the context and make it more appropriate for the played age. Sexuality is not necessarily involved, and there is no link at all with pedophilia (which is simply not on the BDSM spectrum).
Ageplayers typically pair up with other ageplayers.
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The Slaving Process.
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Posted:Jun 30, 2018 9:19 pm
Last Updated:Jul 18, 2021 9:48 am 5084 Views
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Some people seem to mistakenly believe that enslavement is as simple as a hookup. It’s not. It’s not even close.
The Slaving Process:
1ˢᵗ Step: Enslaved. Shot with a paintball gun; When you’ve had enough, you drop like a rock. (This is a vast improvement over “the good old days” when we used rubber batons.)
2ⁿᵈ Step: Cuffed. While laying down, you’re cuffed. I say the ‘magic’ words “S/He will make a fine slave.” Then you’re ball gaged and led away.
3ʳᵈ Step: Branded. Once on the right ass cheek, once on the left breast (maker’s mark and owner’s mark respective).
4ᵗʰ Step: The Crucible. You are whipped until you surrender. (I have only had ONE person ever beat me on the crucible, and that was because he was 30 years old and had been getting whipped and otherwise abused since he was TWO. Horrible life to be forced to endure, absolutely horrible, enslavement really WAS a vast improvement in his life.)
After this is basic indoctrination: How to stand, to kneel, where and how to sit, how to speak, how to comport yourself around your Master, household chores, and how to deal with outsiders.
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My Ideal.
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Posted:Apr 27, 2016 11:01 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2016 1:16 am 33758 Views
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I'd like to find a female switch first, an Overseer; A Dom to some, a slave to me. She obeys me, and in turn controls the slaves as HERS to command by my authority.
After that, to find as many slaves as my Overseer thinks she can handle, be it one or fifty. (My experience says, at most, three.) They can be lesbians for all it "really" matters to me- They obey my Overseer. As a general rule, if I MUST even acknowledge their presence, it's to either tell them to get out of my way (in which case I'll probably forget to punish them), or they've either fucked up REALLY bad or done something OUTSTANDINGLY worthy of praise- Too much so for the Overseer to keep it to herself.
This isn’t “50 Shades” of not jackshit; It’s more like the Thomas JEFFERSON/Sally HEMMINGS “affair,” except that I won’t NEED to deny the relationship.
It’s KNOWN that Thomas had sexual relations with HEMMINGS- DNA means “Do Not Attempt” to deny it. But, in his OWN time, he had to- To discourage the rumor mill circulating about the matter, Thomas had HEMMING whipped, ostensibly over her role in the death of a prize winning bull, but most historians believe he only did it to maintain the façade (slaves weren’t usually whipped in front of friends and neighbors who weren’t involved in the matter).
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Modern slave/Master Relationships.
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Posted:Apr 25, 2016 3:48 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2024 6:42 am 34109 Views
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All too often in life, we learn more from failure than from success.
I'm fortune that I learned from other people's failures BEFORE they became my own failures; Although I "can" deal with drug addiction, I choose NOT TO now. (I didn't actually treat for addiction; I rode roughshod over my slaves who had addiction issue to MAKE SURE they attended councelling.)
More recently, a case out of Louisiana has come to light, in which a consentual MM/s (M/O/s?) relationship shifted from consentual to non-consentual. I don't know the details (some are being with held fir various reasons), but it's pretty clear that the situation went "wrong."
Lessons Learned:
1. Ensure continuous consent. I had thought to perhaps use a perpetual contract. I've decided to drop it.
2. Safewords are your friends. I actually have a safeword, it's the ultimate "nuclear option," that is used ONLY to mean, "I want to walk away. NOW."
3. Ensure beforehand you've given a candidate an open eye entry.
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