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Posted:Feb 23, 2018 4:09 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2024 2:26 pm 4103 Views
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OK, I have been on this site since 2004! That has to say something about my personality and loyalty. I like both the freedom inside the life style to be what I want to be and the ability to explore other aspects of what makes kinky people tick.
I have stayed with the same name on this site and the sister site AdultFriendFinder although recently moved from Edmonton to Vancouver Island and changed my paid account to simplyislandman. I suspect this should make me a valued online friend to those curious souls that are trying to diover themselves and what they like. Some are just anxious to talk about their fantasies, some actually want to try them out (no commitment) Either way chats online are a good way to enjoy whatever level you want to be at.
Don't be rude online as some of us know there are real people here. I invite people to chat if they like. If we are unable to find the mutual interests there is nothing wrong with wishing an online friend the best of luck and moving on!
Good luck on finding the fun you are looking for.
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Friends forever
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Posted:Jan 17, 2018 1:20 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2024 2:26 pm 4027 Views
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Isn't it nice to have friends that know you are a good person over-all and that your kinks, fantasies and ideas around fun come from your imagination and your desire to experience and enjoy life.
Some times it is just nice to know you can share the depths of your soul without fear of others attacking who you are as a person.
Enjoy your life and find others that appreciate life.
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Find me
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Posted:Apr 22, 2017 12:40 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2017 9:46 pm 5336 Views
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Does anyone else find the new set up frustrating? I have been on the site for as long as I can remember and have recently stopped paying for it because I found out that many of the ladies I have tried to contact were not able to read my messages! I just find that a little strange given isn't that what we are paying for? I don't mind paying for a membership but I want to be able to contact people and know they got my message.
What are your thoughts on this?
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I'm OK are you OK
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Posted:Feb 22, 2017 1:27 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2024 2:26 pm 6485 Views
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Hey there fellow kinkster and those happy with having a little Alternative in their life style. Just because the world does not see eye to eye with you doesn't mean they are right and you are wrong. Let's face you have to go the direction you can live with and if society don't like it tough titty! Now on the other hand if you are going down a kinkster road of destruction and everyone you are with doesn't like it .... maybe you have to ask yourself if ya have just gone to far? Just sayin! Have fun and enjoy.
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Me
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Posted:Nov 11, 2016 5:53 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2024 2:26 pm 8661 Views
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Feel free to drop a note here, following is my profile
Introduction
Kinky fun, Duncan Dom guy, chat first to connect, Come and get to know me, also in Adult FriendFinder same name
As an Aries, I am feisty and know how to take charge when the situation calls for it. I have a youthful nature that helps me to see the world from a childlike perspective. I am a Classy Dominant and not a pig (but I am kinky by nature).
“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”
I am totally discreet and squeaky clean. I have a very kinky mind and dominant . Bi or lesbian ladies are cool but not a deal breaker. I prefer ladies that can think for themselves but also hand over the reins.
I like to explore and support someone that enjoys exploring their kinks and making the adventure happen. I live in the North East part of Edmonton and can escape week days now and again for play. I am usually online for a while in the evening and open to chat and explore our dirty minds. Age, body size and looks are not near as important as your naughty mind and adventurous spirit.
you're probably submissive, a server, love to please, age friendly and have kinks, you'll be open to chat, you want to escape and love adventure and to explore and are discreet.
If you are shy, curious and here, I will guide you but being able to think for yourself is important too!. Enthusiasm is essential as is your want to experience passion.
You can cum and talk to me and we can explore. I'm pretty much open to discuss everything.Come chat, a hotlist means I am interested in a chat if you want to add me to your hotlist I know you are interested. Figure out a way to contact me.
My Ideal Person You must be someone on here looking to let your dirty minded curiosities out but probably is a normal person during the work day. You can have those kinky preverted thoughts but you know how to control yourself when you have to. Talk on line first to ensure we are not a crazy person. Some taboo is ok to discuss and see where it goes, don't be shy.
Open minded, playful person that doesn't do the drama thing. It would be nice if you knew what you wanted and so we are talking about the same things please read the following definitions.
A submissive renews the choice to submit every time a demand is levied upon her. A slave makes a one-time choice to submit, up front, and thereafter it is incumbent upon her to obey.
Information Edit
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Looking For:Woman, Couple (2 women), TS/TV/TGs
Birthdate: April 14, 1956
Marital Status: Attached
Height:5 ft 8 in
Body Type: Average
Smoking 'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use Drugs
Education: Some college
Occupation: business manager
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Spiritual
Male Endowment: Average / Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English, N/A
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Medium
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
Eye Color: Brown
YIM Username: simplyalbertaman
Astrology: Aries (Compatibility)
I think about ALT lifestyle: All the time
Role: Dominant
Level of Experience: Whole adult life
Dress: Casual
Safe Sex: Yes
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SUBjective ALTERNATIVE
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Posted:Jul 25, 2015 6:57 am
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2022 4:19 pm 29819 Views
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I find social behaviour very interesting, especially given our new tools to explore and define our ALTERNATIVE life style choices. This forum provides us with the ability to match what we may call like minded potential partners. However I like to be Dominant and take the lead, I do not do this until there is a comfort level established, We meet on their chosen ground and find out enough about them that it does not turn into the "Ghomeshi affair". Fifty shades opened the eyes of people that felt they wanna be!
Either way, when you are a Dominant and meet a submissive on their ground don't feel allowing them to describe their reasons ...... (not sure if they think Dominant people can read minds and establish parameters) makes you any less Dominant.
Either way life is good and a good Sub will understand, a Dom that lets you speak may have more control than you think.
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live the dream
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Posted:May 30, 2015 6:12 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2024 2:26 pm 30808 Views
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Finding a like minded person, that has that sexual need just under the surface can be both good and bad. The good of course is you can learn how you and the one you are with (or ones you are with) can scratch the itch, the bad part about it is once you know how to scratch the itch you want to as much as you can.
Share your itch??
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SUB/SLAVE/KINKY
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Posted:Mar 21, 2015 8:15 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2024 2:26 pm 35811 Views
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What do you call being a sub?
What do you call being a slave?
What do you call being kinky?
If age didn't matter what wold your ultimate friend and situation look like to help you enjoy those things that for the most part are some kind of combination of those three?
Encourage your openess
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The wolf
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Posted:May 23, 2013 5:25 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2024 2:26 pm 56906 Views
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In a wolf pack, the leader of the pack is the Alpha male. The Alpha is a born leader and by their unwavering devotion to the pack inspire others to follow them.
He must be powerful enough to bring them to heel. In a similar way, a submissive woman can be an "Alpha Sub" in her heart and mind, and submit only to a stong man, a leader, while being quite dominant herself. She needs his strength to temper hers. If he is to mate her, she must be made to submit to him. He will enjoy this contest of wills. Her resistance will make her ultimate submission all the sweeter.
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Edmonton secrets
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Posted:Feb 2, 2013 12:42 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2024 2:26 pm 61912 Views
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Well there are a few Edmonton secrets around and I do believe that there are a few subs that may be looking for a twenty four seven situation with a Dominant guy and another submissive female. Are there couples that have such an arrangement and how does this work for you?
Just thought it to be an interesting subject and worth exploring a little.
Your thoughts?
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