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Spanker/ee Switchback!

Hello again from one with smarting cheeks...
Posted:Apr 15, 2009 4:26 am
Last Updated:Jul 25, 2013 2:51 pm
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Yes hello all again. I sit her with smarting cheeks having just returned from a couple of days in a for once, sunny Newcastle. Well the first day was sunny anyway!

Oh the joys of the expedition, not knowing what to expect and the jitters and nerves of anticipation. Unfortunately I did not get to switch on that occasion but thoroughly enjoyed the spanking, caning, cropping and more spanking. What a turn on!

I can't really understand how just the anticipation gets my pulse racing, butterflies flitting about in my stomache.

Then of course after the event there are a few days of gloriously glowing cheeks to ensure that the event is relived in the mind until the posterior returns to its natural colour.

Not that that has happened yet so I am still careful how I sit down but quietly contemplating where my next treat may come from and whether next time I may get to return the favour if I am lucky enough to find a lady switch - Any volunteers?

Look forward to hearing from those and anyone else who would care to comment, bye for now,

Spanks
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From the Heart of my Bottom! Anyone thinking in Switch dirction, Go 4 It!
Posted:Mar 26, 2009 6:57 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2024 12:38 am
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Hi again switches and switchettes Ok I'm sure we are all switches but don't you think ladies being switchettes gives them their own deserved status? That is a compliment to their efforts so please no sexist debate here.

As a newbie, I was introduced in the most civilised way to what I thought I would be interested in and for as long as I needed to know I loved it! Woohoo!

Anyway this week my bottom and me have been celebrating (while the posterier traffic lights have been changing!) a rather wonderful time in Birmingham last weekend with a special switchette (or if she prefers,switch!) Whatever title you give to a lady like her she is lovely,attentive,sensitive,instructive and gave me what I really wanted when I didn't know what I wanted anyway!

Certainly got my pulse racing and temperature rising to higher extremes than I would have expected (and my optimistic expectations were very high!)Also she was very good in directing me in how to attempt to return the compliment that I have to say I enjoyed a great deal but apologies to the lady if I was not up to expectations on that front.

I am not sure if it is allowed really but I also enjoyed our end game cuddles!

Anyway What a lady! What Fun there is to be had in such a serious kinkfest! MY mood is happy thanks to that special one who knows where she lives.

Thank you hunny
Spanks x
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Fellow Switchers !O
Posted:Mar 3, 2009 4:38 pm
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2013 2:02 pm
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Ok fellow switchers or switchettes!

I think I may have actually located one of your extremely rare and endangered species at last.Yes a female switch and only about 138 miles away! At last!

I would really like to tell you more but switch females are so rare that I'll have to call David Attenborough to catelogue the event!
so my question is still where have all the female switchers gone?

Please tell me am I missing a site for that? Please tell me or I'll spank your bottom until you do tell me?

Spanks XX (thats hot crossed cheeks!)
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Valentines Day Approaches...Heart on Sleeve time....
Posted:Feb 12, 2009 10:14 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2024 12:38 am
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Inevitably on the 12th February I begin to wonder whether I an seeking a pure fantasy that will always be almost within reach but never truly tangible!

I seek a switch scenario but not necessarily within dungeons or indeed with dragons. Is this so impossible? I optimistically think not with so many different types of kinky folk on this site, I know almost anything is available, possible, recommended if not even almost hard sell!

So it is with rather heavy heart that I approach another Valentine's night without prospect of a like minded female switch to share a meal, a glass or two of wine and some relatively low key bottom taming in the bedroom as an aperitif to a vanillery dessert! Oh and maybe waking up mid-morning on the 15th and indulging in further similar tactile adventures with the same lady before preparing a calorie refueling brunch. Same lady confirms that she wants long term relationship with me, W'Hooooo!

Tell me gentle reader are these merely personal delusions or are my thoughts just described achieveable? If possible I really thought that here would be the place such dreams could be realised, but where is the lady who would seek to match my description of this week's Valentine ideal evening and later next day/LTR? and hopefully make a large withdrawal at maximum interest rates from my bank of future fun and games?

Oh well if you or one of your friends doesnot get intouch soon I may have to repeat all this next year so come on you aspirational switch LTRs there must be one for me out there soon, or I may have to leave the continent if I don't hear from you soon.

Not sure what my profile suggests but I thinks a girl who is interesteed in the lighter side of switching should be in here along with everyone else.

Ah go on please! Oh and if not please say why not?
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A BIT OF A SPANKY RANT ! and enough you make an honest chap lose his neopolitan!
Posted:Feb 4, 2009 5:43 pm
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2013 2:02 pm
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Now come on ladies and chaps please! Never mind my neopolitan. I joined this site with high hopes of greeting and occasionally if it felt right meeting female switches, pretty much with the idea of finding the one with whom I could eventually bond.

OK! I will admit I am very inexperienced (alright a complete novice) but I know what I want and it is of the switch variety
{in particular, reciprocal spanking}. My profile name does what it says on the tin!

So far every female spanker I have approached wants to bind, enslave, ridicule and own me; all without me getting as much as a slap-back! Come on now even Tescos give cash back!

OK I am probably viewed as impure on this site because I don't think I would embrace either dom or sub mentality wholeheartedly but hey, surely like all other folk here, switches just want to have fun! I mean ask for what I seek on a vanilla site and I'm too kinky (or neopolitan)! look for it here and I'm too vanilla!

Calling all members (whoops!) I meant subscribers to this site, whatever area of neopolitan ice cream you prefer please advise where does a single switch find his matching switchette?

OK I'm sure that many will wish to pile in with comments and advice and I will welcome all, especially useful ones from switchettes (I'm probably not allowed to use that term so I will rely on alt to edit!).

PLEASE DO LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK,

Spanks (for all...

ps
Really do need your advice on how to deal with my problem asap
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A BIT OF A SPANKY RANT ! and enough you make an honest chap lose his neopolitan!
Posted:Feb 4, 2009 5:35 pm
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2013 2:02 pm
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Now come on ladies and chaps please! Never mind my neopolitan. I joined this site with high hopes of greeting and occasionally if it felt right meeting female switches, pretty much with the idea of finding the one with whom I could eventually bond.

OK! I will admit I am very inexperienced (alright a complete novice) but I know what I want and it is of the switch variety
{in particular, reciprocal spanking}. My profile name does what it says on the tin!

So far every female spanker I have approached wants to bind, enslave, ridicule and own me; all without me getting as much as a slap-back! Come on now even Tescos give cash back!

OK I am probably viewed as impure on this site because I don't think I would embrace either dom or sub mentality wholeheartedly but hey, surely like all other folk here, switches just want to have fun! I mean ask for what I seek on a vanilla site and I'm too kinky (or neopolitan)! look for it here and I'm too vanilla!

Calling all members (whoops!) I meant subscribers to this site, whatever area of neopolitan ice cream you prefer please advise where does a single switch find his matching switchette?

OK I'm sure that many will wish to pile in with comments and advice and I will welcome all, especially useful ones from switchettes (I'm probably not allowed to use that term so I will rely on alt to edit!).

PLEASE DO LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK,

Spanks (for all...

ps
Really do need your advice on how to deal with my problem asap
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Whetting the appetite
Posted:Jan 11, 2009 2:06 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2024 12:38 am
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I just remembered where my first serious interest in this began... It was many years ago and I had a 2nd floor flat that I shared with my girlfriend at the time...

Anyway one night our flatmate was out so we arrived in bed a little earlier than usual. It was a one bedroom flat and my bed was in the corner of the huge sprawling drawing room (or do you call it lounge) neither terms really hit that spot!

Anyway, We had just had a lot of (vanilla)fun in bed and got to that stage where you used to lie back and have a cigarette (and did so) (but of course I would not now because I don't smoke!) when from the flat below there comes this fairly quiet but rapid slapping sound!

It gradually got louder and faster until we looked at eachother and burst out laughing as we realised that in the flat below the couple there had just started a serious spankfest!

Much as we laughed I could not help but be very turned on by that occasion and indeed every subsequent event when the folk downstairs reprised their preferred bedroom etiquette.

Eventually I asked my girlfriend if we could give this a try but for many years she downright refused to consider the idea. Eventually and a while after we married (divorced now!) I did persuade her to at least indulge in a little two way spanking to see if it did anything for us. (Oh yes (I thought) Oh yes!).

Well She said I should start so I gave her beautifully rounded not so delicate rear cheeks a gentle spanking build-up and got to the point where they were just beginning to display a slightly rosey glow when she said she was not enjoying that. (Just when I thought any moment now she will start enjoying this !).

So then I thought, her turn to switch, (although I didn't know the term then)!.

Well she (now ex) took about 4 half hearted slaps at my bare quivering compact expectant bottom and said that also did nothing for her!

Oh well, sometimes whatever occurs in life, remind yourself to enjoy it before your Life ticket expires. Oh and it was not all that bad because my girl friend when she became my wife did give it another go only at me(which I enjoyed more) but I would have preferred 2 way stuff.

Almost all the social contacts I have are great folk (some are much better!), most of the staff I have are wonderful. So really all I need is a reciprocal spankee/er who wants a ltr and is a a happy witty delightful lady.

Still I continue to live in hope and always expect something better soon. I would be very interested to hear how the rest of you became interested in spanking or being spanked.
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Ok Rosey cheeks, Where are you and where are mine?
Posted:Jan 1, 2009 7:12 pm
Last Updated:Jul 26, 2013 12:05 pm
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Hey girls please help me out here, I was lead to believe this site was kinky enough for me to find at the very least a two way very hot bot situation. Looking at what is on the site I have to think that was within the boundaries of reasonable expectations but come on girls, I cannot be satisfied with cyberstuff! Some of you want a good spanking and some would like to give me one but where are the genuine switch ladies? Please get in touch soon as I will leave this site if I don't hear from you very soon!
Happy New Year and I do hope to hear from you soon...

Spanks
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