My new room.
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Posted:Sep 30, 2023 5:46 am
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2024 9:35 pm 2017 Views
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I just opened a new room for Spanish speaking women. I am explaining this in English to be polite and considerate to english speaking members.
Hola chicas, abri una sala para Mujeres latinas que hablen en espanol. Pueden entrar charlar conmigo, conocernos y charlar comodamente en nuestro idioma en expanol. Espero conocer muchas chicas. Soy Dominante con experiencia.
I do not want anyone feeling left out. I have an all womens room " The Sensual Palace for Women. And i have an all inclusive room for everyone called "Cataleya's Palace Pleasure" Everyone is invited and anyone is free to join my rooms.
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Loss
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Posted:Aug 10, 2021 7:32 pm
Last Updated:Sep 26, 2023 1:20 pm 3416 Views
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Hello, I am a lesbian Domme I want to talk about loss. Loss is part of relationships so in that way it is somewhat related to BDSM. What I write about here are personal observations, personal experiences and the chat I have had with people who have suffered loss in one way or another. I talk about loss including every kind of loss a person may have in their life. We all lose a loved pet one time or another. We may lose a love person in a break up or a close friend. A loved one may pass or die. Loss is a part of many people’s life. And spoken frankly it sucks badly for those who suffer it. I want to talk in specifically about losing a loved person. It may be in the form of losing a friend, a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, submissive or Dom/Domme. Losing a loved one is a very painful and a very difficult experience to deal with. Some People want to hang on to a lost relationship. They do not want to let go. This will only prolong your suffering and make it harder to deal with the feelings. I know I myself am guilty of hanging on to a loved one too long. So, what are the feelings involved in loss, and how to deal with these feelings and process them in a healthy way? Everyone experiences these feelings in a different way. Some of them are denial, sadness and anger. Denial can be very strong and powerful. As long as a person is in denial they will continue to suffer the rejection or the absence of a loved on. The first healthy step is acceptance. It is crucial to find acceptance that you will no longer be with the person you love. Accept your loved one with not be with you anymore. They do not want to be with you and they might have moved on. With acceptance most people might feel sadness. Once you accept you lost your loved one then you can begin to move on. I know how difficult it is to find acceptance. It is difficult to let go. Maybe your brain knows about your loss but your hearth does not want to let go. I have been there. I believe at times we may continue to pursue the loved one for a time. Nothing wrong with fighting for what you want. But keep in mind there is a risk. A risk you may not get them back. I tell people, give yourself a time limit such as two month or 6 months. Be clear about the responses and sign the other person is giving you. Do they respond, do they show interest, did they block you from reaching them on social media or their phone. Is important to realize a relationship is between two people. If one of the persons does not want to be in a relationship. This relationship does not exist. How do you deal with sadness? There is no easy way. You just have to be sad for a while. But you must feel the sadness. Crying is good as it lets the sadness out of you. I like to believe (and this is just me) you have to own your feelings. You have to own your sadness. Feel your sadness, and make it yours. You need to feel sad and cry and listen to romantic music, and remember the good times. Annoy your friends telling them the same story over and over. Do not annoy your friends too much; they will tend to move away. For most people it is awkward dealing with a sad person. If you are in USA you may google your local “lifeline phone number”. You can call and talk to them. I promise you, once you cry and live your sadness (own it) you will feel better in time. And you will be able to love again. If you do not deal with your sadness, you will not be in a healthy and emotional state of mind to truly love others. There are other things you can do while you are sad. Be gentle with yourself. Care for yourself, do things you enjoy, go out with your friends, cook something good, do your nails, your hair. Just do things that make you feel good. And reach out to friends (to have fun not annoy them eternally). When you end a relationship you have a void within you. You feel empty. Try to fill that void with positive thoughts, with other people, and activities. Anger is a special topic of mine. I might discuss anger in another blog. I welcome positive feedback. I have discovered a special technique that helps me get over relationships and it works. I will share it privately with anyone that contacts me privately. This is going to sound cheesy and overly repeated. To love others, you must first love yourself.
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