Mutual Wealth, Topping From The Bottom, True Power Exchange?, Knowing & Working For The Relationship
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Posted:Jul 6, 2020 7:08 am
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2020 10:06 am 3528 Views
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Mutual Wealth
I’m a wealthy, Alpha Dominant Woman. I’m living a great life. I’m more than willing with the right person, to share my great life. However, I’m not willing to ‘take care of’ or be a ‘ mama’, to any man. To be with me, you must have some wealth of your own, ‘cum’ to the table with resources. Our combined resources will allow us to live an even better life. But, most importantly, finances (which is the # 1 problem in most relationships) won’t be an issue. We both can completely assume our desired roles in the relationship, knowing that the other’s financial standing has no bearing on, or carries no weight in the relationship. Other than each knowing the other isn’t dependent on it from the other, and it being a tool to facilitate our pleasure in whatever form we use it for.
I find it difficult to label or define me. Simply, I’m a little of everything below prefaced with ‘Alpha’
Cuckoldress, Domina/Domme, Goddess, Mistress, Hot Wife, Princess, Sensualist Cougar, Sadist
The same for my fetishes, they are all encompassing. For me, they are defined or dictated by the energy between the parties involved and what we decide to do together. Boundaries will be set, and challenged, as trust is earned and the relationship defines itself and develops into what it will be organically.
My personal feeling on power exchange and when it happens. You may in fact have the tendencies, or be a submissive or slave. But, until we meet, and there is mutual attraction, and we decide to ‘consider’ each other. You are not my submissive/slave, and I am not your Dominant Mistress. Don’t expect me to make demands of you, nor to indiscriminately allow you to service me. That said, you have choices and free will. We both will have to determine if the other is worthy of receiving the gift of Dominance from me, and submission from you.
Knowing & Working for the Relationship You Want!
I’m seeking a wealthy, Alpha Dominant submissive/slave white . One who isn’t interested in topping from the bottom. One who understands a LT (long term) FL (female led) TPE (total power exchange) relationship bears no resemblance to playing on the weekends, or whenever you have sex, or sessions (paid) whether amateur or professional. One who seeks cerebral intimacy, love and synergy with his Dominant/Mistress/Owner. One who is willing from day one to pursue me, willing to put in the work necessary to have me. I know what I deserve and want. So should you.
In my quest for my new life partner, it’s my experience there are many submissives/slaves who profess they desire, even ache, for the type of relationship I’m seeking. Yet, so far none have stepped up to the plate in a meaningful way that would remotely suggest, they are capable of putting in the work necessary to have the relationship they claim to seek.
Can a wealthy Alpha/Dominant male executive type, with submissive/slave tendencies, who in his vanilla life is courted and deferred to by men and women, do a 180 degree turn and become the enthusiastic pursuer of a Dominant woman? Or, does he revert back to his natural habits? Sitting back and waiting for the ‘women’ to pursue him, as the ‘highly eligible bachelor’ he is, and as happens daily in his vanilla life.
Take the same question above, and preface ‘Dominant Woman’ with ‘wealthy’. If the wealthy sub/slave, finds it difficult to enthusiastically pursue the ‘regular working woman’, the one who’s living from paycheck to paycheck (I mean no disrespect to those women). There’s no way, he’s going to put the effort necessary in pursuing a Dominant Mistress who has financial independence and is unimpressed with his wealth.
Topping From The Bottom
Certain situations lend themselves to topping from the bottom. Can there really be a true power exchange, when the submissive or slave is wealthier than the Dominant, and more often than not, is the provider of the lifestyle they live? Can a Dominant Mistress, who is financially dependent on her sub/slave really control the relationship without fear of ‘losing it all’? This is where subtle topping from the bottom ‘cums in’. One of the ’shiny objects’, the wealthy submissive dangles for these needy or faux ‘Mistresses/women, or women who exhibit the ‘damsel in distress/rescue me trait, is the verbiage ’FinDom’ or something similar, pertaining to ‘allowing’ the Dominant to control the slave financially. That works with women who want or need you for your money
sUBMISSIVES WHO SEEK TO SUBTLEY OR OVERTLY CONTROL THEIR RELATIONSHIPS THROUGH FINANCIAL MEANS, NEED NOT MESSAGE ME!
I am retired and able to live anywhere. But, l live well and love it here. Can live between multiple places if we get to that point. Of course if you're able to relocate that's great as well. I would not be opposed to marriage with the right person/relationship
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** We must address the pretenders. These are the Faux Dommes and faux sub/slaves**
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Posted:Jul 6, 2020 7:03 am
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2020 10:01 am 1451 Views
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Since Fifty Shades of Grey, *everyone is a Dom(me) or Master/Mistress, and every man who wants to eat pussy non stop, professes to be a submissive or slave. Wanting to ‘serve’ you immediately. As if we would indiscriminately share/gift/give our Goddess temple and energy, to anyone wanting it, simply because they profess to be a sub or slave, and want to serve and worship you.
I would hope, we would both be discriminating and not want a Domme or sub/slave, who would give their Dominant or submissive energy to someone who’d yet to prove worthy of receiving the gift of Dominance or submission.
That said, my personal feeling, is you may in fact have the tendencies, or be a submissive or slave. But, until we meet, and there is mutual attraction, and we decide to ‘consider’ each other. You are not my submissive/slave, and I am not your Dominant Mistress. Don’t expect me to make demands of you, to provide online training, nor to indiscriminately allow you to service me. You still have choices and free will. We both will have to determine if the other is worthy of receiving the gift of Dominance from me, and submission from you.
If we have a meeting of the minds on my statement above, please feel free to leave a comment or message me
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