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absinthe boy's discoveries...

I'm still discovering aspects of my sexuality...here I intend to share thoughts and experiences...I am lucky that my wife is happy for me to enjoy different scenes with different partners - a perfect open marriage as she has her lovers too!

Long time coming
Posted:May 17, 2008 6:38 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2014 3:35 am
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Well its been a long time since I was able to indulge...but I now have a Mistress. So I expect in the coming months to be posting more here as Mistress and I explore our new relationship, and the myriad ways she can gain pleasure from my pain.

I must thank my Mistress for finding me, as far as I am aware she is not on this site or any other....we had a chance meeting on a social network site. And I must thank my wife for giving me the freedom to explore this with Mistress. Most wives would not be so understanding.

Just a quick update, that burn mark has almost completey gone, you'd only notice it if you were looking for it.

AB
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more ouch
Posted:Aug 29, 2006 10:50 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2014 3:35 am
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nearly 4 weeks on...and that burn (3rd degree) still isn't totally healed.

Not what we had in mind but I am proud that I withstood such pain without crying out, or more importantly uttering the safeword...
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Ouch! :) ;)
Posted:Aug 4, 2006 2:49 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2014 3:34 am
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I'm writing this with a huge plaster on my left inner thigh...it is protecting a large blister, the type you used to get when the froze off verucas!

I'll explain.

We had a break in Bournemouth and in a mostly gay sex shop we found a great piece of kit. It is a set of straps and restraints that turn a bed into a really great "bondage playground". I have it configured to keep the user spreadeagled, and the wife was good enough last night to give me a real going over.

I was blindfolded, with both wrists and ankles cuffed...heaven! Oh and my nipples were clamped for 30 minutes of the 70 minute session. I was flogged with two whips and slapped with a leather slapper, all on my inner thighs as I was lying on my back. She even slapped and beat the bottom of my feet and..surprisingly painful...attached rubber bands to my big toes, pulled the bands back and let them snap!

But the worst I endured, a nearly boiling tea bag fired at me which landed on my right thigh...it was all I could endure not to shake it off or to cry out in pain...and my reward later is a huge blister.

Not what either of us intended but I suppose some testimony to my increasing tolerance for pain.

All in all a great session, she finally wanked me off as I'd been hard for the entire session...
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Bite me!
Posted:May 22, 2006 11:05 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2014 3:34 am
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Well, I knew enjoyed my nipples being bitten hard but the wife tried something new last night. Totally in the dark she began biting my upper arms and my chest. To add to the sensuous pleasures she pulled my hair (especially when I was going down on her) and dragged her sharp fingernails across my arms and chest.

Wow, the effect it had on my cock was amazing. Not sure its ever been so hard for so long, she said she could instantly feel the difference inside her.

I can definately say that I enjoy being bitten in various parts! Still have some red marks and bruises especially on my right arm...a nice reminder of a great evening's fun.

It ended with one of the most explosive and enjoyable orgasms I have ever had.
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Disappointments...
Posted:Apr 9, 2006 10:30 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2014 3:33 am
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Well, the kinky Saturday night didn't happen. My wife wasn't feeling well, nor up to a night of fun so we sadly cancelled our bi male contact...but since this meet was all about fun for BOTH of us (and him!) it was the right thing to do. She wasn't going to enjoy herself while feeling unwell, and I wouldn't enjoy this experience without her directing the action.

My ultimate submission, taking a cock while my wife watches, still waits...

And in any case...my Dom side stirrs...
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bi time
Posted:Apr 5, 2006 5:10 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2014 3:33 am
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Well, the wife and I have booked a hotel room to meet a bi guy this weekend. The idea is both us guys will fuck my wife...after which I shall be blindfolded, cuffed and made to take his cock too.

I'll be sure to post here how it goes! I suppose that is what one calls "enforced bisexuality".

My sub side is getting plenty of attention, but I need a nice round bottom to spank and whip...some tits to clamp...oops think the Dom inside me is voicing some opinions!
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first watersports
Posted:Apr 1, 2006 5:48 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2008 6:40 am
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Last night I tried watersports for the first time. A few years ago it didn't interest me at all, I'd seen it in porn and it neither turned me on nor off. But my sub side now enjoys the thought of being peed on.

Last week I was chatting online with a friend who attends the sex parties my wife and I enjoy every month...turns out she had a desire to try peeing on a man so we decided we'd give it a go.

I was told "its now or never, I've been drinking and I'm ready to go"...so I lay in the bath, as my friend straddled my face...I stroked her inner thighs and backside a bit as she relaxed and began to pee on my face.

Mmmm...it felt good, nice and warm...I let the piss go over my face and hair, opened my mouth and drank some...she must have peed for a good while as I took three large gulps of the stuff and was totally soaked. There was pee under me in the bath tub, I was writhing and massaging my hard cock in a bath of warm piss!

We both enjoyed that more than we expected...she kissed me after, which was really hot.

After, standing in the bath rubbing it into my chest and cock it actually began to sting just a little...so I masturbated til I came and showered off to be clean.

That's something I'll do again, maybe as part of a more S&M orientated scene. I like the idea of being cuffed or somehow restrained and pissed on...maybe after a good flogging
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