The Sun Is Coming Up....
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Posted:Oct 23, 2023 3:43 am
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2023 6:02 pm 17110 Views
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“I miss the sound of your voice”
There’s something inside the anatomy of the soul, some tone that we can all replicate, the excitement we feel when we finally see someone or hear from them after so long. I know you told me to be safe, and I am. I guess it gets a little bit lonely. It’s the strangest thing. Isn’t it? Having people to talk to, but not always wanting to talk to them. Having people to be around, but not always wanting to be around people. I’ve been thinking about myself, and I had a fascinating thought about our emotions and memories of one another. I realize that my thoughts are a wild series of an apartment inside, of another apartment. Sometimes I have to split myself into many pieces, each living and breathing, all me, peeking out of the window into another set of myself—a watcher of watchers. There’s something intimate about watching yourself behave. What a beautifully torn creature, full of ideas and denials, happiness and rage, sadness and longing. Full of myself and empty at the same time— There’s something beautiful about the way we craft our mannerisms to fit in or to stand out Maybe, it’s a hypersensitive need for someone to love us openly, freely, and genuinely, or to tell them to stay the fuck away. Either I’m weird enough for you to love me or weird enough for you to stay out of my way. Either way, being me is all I’ve known, so I guess when I say
“I miss the sound of your voice”
it probably just means that I miss that piece of myself that laughed when I didn’t need to and smiled when I didn’t need to. I just felt like it. It was never forced. It was natural just to be alive. All of that spark in my eyes. That fire in my belly— I miss that part of myself too.
~M
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The Soul
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Posted:Oct 22, 2023 2:17 am
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2023 3:14 am 14017 Views
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They say that a woman loves with her ears... Do not believe this banal phrase, dear men! A woman always loves only with her Soul... It is the female Soul that has absolutely everything: ears, eyes, and heart. But even if you are not interested, for some reason, in her female Soul, and just want her Body... Then I'll have to disappoint you. Even the path to a woman’s body always lies only through her Soul...
Give your woman emotions, let her feel desired, loved, and protected, let her feel like a woman, and in return, she will make you feel like the best man in the world...
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~Rainy Day Sway
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Posted:Oct 20, 2023 9:07 pm
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2023 3:17 am 20902 Views
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* Long Time ~ Blondie ~ Pollinator
* Captain ~ Dave Matthews Band ~ Busted Stuff
* Sunday Morning ~ Maroon 5 ~ Songs About Jane
* Cherry Cherry ~ Neil Diamond ~ The Bang Years
* Hell In A Bucket ~ Grateful Dead ~ The Very Best Of The Grateful Dead
* Flower Power ~ Greta Van Fleet ~ From The Fires
* Hearts And Bones ~ Paul Simon ~ The Essential Paul Simon
* Your Bright Baby Blues ~ Jackson Browne ~ The Pretender
* You Took The Words Right Out Of My Mouth ~ Meatloaf ~ Paradise By The Dashboard Lights
* Happiness Is A Warm Gun ~ The Beatles ~ The Beatles
Captain ~ Dave Matthews
Crazy as I may
make my way through this world, oh
it's for no one but me to say
what direction I should turn in now
Well, I am the captain of this ship
curious hands and fingertips
day after day
how I long for you, my love, how I long
Strange, but it seems
like there's a mutiny brewing inside of me now
but I don't want your pity
only the promise that you'll stay with me tonight
I am the captain of this ship
curious hands and fingertips
but day after day how I long for you like crazy
I know, my love, how you do me
how low, my love, come on, let's go again
oh, no, I love everything, oh, won't you
play me again, we got all night
The same old song, won't you come stay
Oh, my love, after all
But how could I even try to fight
after falling into your arms
oh, mesmerized by your smile
the way it lights up under your eyes
how could I even try?
love, won't you stay with me?
Well, love, how you do me
Oh, my love, come on, let's go again
my love, my love, everything
oh, won't you play with me again?
we got all night
The same old song, won't you come dance
my love, after all?
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Twenty Years Of Kink
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Posted:Oct 18, 2023 6:35 am
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2023 3:30 am 16815 Views
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I don’t remember the day or even the month, but I remember the feeling vividly. I was wandering aimlessly, searching everything and nothing, and then of a sudden there it was. I couldn’t believe my eyes. The things they were saying were things I’d thought, things I wanted, things I was too embarrassed to admit to anyone. And here they were - men and women - talking about those feelings I had, one darker than the next, and giving it - of it - a name.
D/s.
Dominance and submission.
I started reading and couldn’t stop. I flitted from room to room, watching the conversations roll by, the experiences people shared with me, and other anonymous faces behind a screen. They were open honest and raw. I don’t know how much time passed before I took an effective breath, but with it came the realization I was not alone. I was not a freak. What I wanted - no, what I needed - was something other people wanted and needed, as well.
It was 20 years ago. Now I look back and cringe quite often, but I wouldn’t trade those years for anything. I have a lot of ‘If I knew then what I know now…’ moments, but I wouldn’t go back and do it again, because you have to go through it to learn it. You just do. Because your track is different than the next person’s, and to learn what you need to learn takes living it yourself.
So what do twenty years teach you? Here are some things I’ve learned:
*Not everyone likes the spotlight; it’s ok to live D/s very privately
*It’s okay to make things like rope bondage and tickling hard limits; it’s okay to make anything a hard limit
*Dominants can use a safe word or otherwise stop an activity
*You can be the one to walk away; you don’t have to be ‘released’ from shit
*Liars and cheaters will always lie and cheat
*Moving quickly rarely leads to longevity
*Your gut is never wrong; listen to it
*It’s ok to not look like a fetish model; most people don’t
*Sex can feel good even without having an orgasm
*Squirting orgasms are a bit of a parlor trick, and they don’t always feel as good as other types of orgasms
*You deserve as much pleasure as he does
*If the effort isn’t there, in the beginning, it never will be
*You can kneel in slip-on Converse just as well as you can in heels
*You can be a kick-ass submissive and not own a single piece of lingerie
*You can defer to someone and respect them as a leader even while watching *Netflix and eating steak nachos with your fingers
*Dominants can get sick and be huge babies and still be worthy of obedience and respect
*Not every Dominant is an executive with an expense account
*Submissive’s can make more than their partner’s
*You don’t have to say ‘’ to feel it in your bones
*You can love someone and not be a match
*Toxicity isn’t gender-specific
*Wanting to be wanted can lead to seriously poor decision-making
*It’s ok to demand more for yourself; having standards solidifies self-worth
*Strength is a process
*Submission doesn’t cease to exist when you’re single
*Submission doesn’t end when you hit 30 or 50 or 70
*You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do
*You can change your mind
*You can use your voice
*You have to use your voice
Every time I start to think about how things have changed over the years I have to stop and remind myself: Nothing has changed but you. Sometimes I think about the 27-year-old, the 34-year-old, hell - even the 40-year-old, and I cringe. The mistakes she made. The positions (literally and figuratively) she put herself in. How much mental, and emotional energy she would expend on a Dominant. How much she didn’t know.
How much more she still has to learn?
But I’ll tell you what: If the next twenty bring as much joy as the last twenty, I’m in for one hell of a ride. And I want all of it - every bump and swoop and whirl. The twists and turns are what make you who you are.
*Unknown
*Archive
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Kneeling
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Posted:Oct 17, 2023 12:42 am
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2023 3:37 am 20011 Views
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Nothing has ever quite spoken to me like kneeling for the person who owns me. I love being spanked. I love asking permission. I love obeying orders and following rules. But there is a special magic in kneeling.
I am often naked when I kneel, but it’s not exactly sexual. I strip because I am property, and property does not get privacy or dignity. I strip because nothing should come between my Dominant and what he owns. I strip to reveal my true self to the one who knows and sees it all.
I position my body to be most pleasing. Sometimes I hold these positions precisely, according to instructions. Hand placement, back arch, eyes pointed downward or straight ahead. The crop traces over my curves, checking to ensure every element is in place. Sometimes I kneel for a purpose—to undress him or serve with my mouth. Sometimes I simply kneel before him and rest my head in his lap. Fingers running through my hair.
No matter the position or purpose, kneeling feels like an act of love for me. It reminds me that I chose to submit to this person. I chose to put myself at his feet, to put my heart and my life in his hands. I chose him because he earned it. He is the kind of man who takes responsibility seriously and cares deeply for those around him. I chose him because his dominance speaks to the core of my being. I chose him because he feels at home.
Sometimes I need to kneel. When the world feels heavy for me, I long to drop to my knees and know that I am safe in his arms. But I also long to kneel when the world is heavy for him. In those moments, I long to kneel quietly at his feet, my naked form displayed for him in exactly the way he desires. He doesn’t have to speak. He doesn’t have to touch me. I want to serve with my quiet presence. I want him to feel my energy and know there are things that make sense in this world. I want him to know that I am with him. I kneel to offer myself to him—to remind him that I chose him and that I will keep choosing him, again and again.
cherishedproperty
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Happily Submit
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Posted:Oct 16, 2023 4:49 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2024 12:55 am 18158 Views
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Forgive and forget. Let go. Don't dwell. Don't recite all my wrongdoings till the cows come home. Don't blame all of our failures on me. Don't yell at me. Control yourself first. Own your mistakes.
Lead. Take responsibility. Make me feel safe and secure. Protect me. Watch me. Don't let me go by myself after dark. Don't encourage harmful habits.
Laugh with me. Read with me. Watch me dance. Leave silly notes for me. Cook with me. Share a meal, not food.
Don't put tomatoes in the fridge. Don't try to sneak a pair of black socks into the white laundry. Change that lightbulb without a gentle monthly reminder.
Tell me, I got you. Call me a good girl. Take care of me like no one else before.
Braid my hair. Pull me onto your lap. Hold me tight. Fall asleep with me. Kiss my forehead in the morning. Check on me. Don't let me drop.
Look me in the eyes. Hold my chin to look into yours. Touch me for no reason. Pin me.
Buy me an almond croissant once in a while but not too often. Make me presents that money cannot buy.
Listen to me. Support me. Inspire me. Lift me up. Don't refer to anything I'm into as crap or bullshit. Believe in me. Cheer me up. Root for my success. Be proud of me. Cherish me.
Accept me for who I am.
Then, I will HAPPILY SUBMIT.
~three-red-horns
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Here's The Thing....
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Posted:Oct 16, 2023 4:18 am
Last Updated:Feb 9, 2024 12:55 am 17870 Views
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Here’s the thing that some people don’t seem to understand about sex & kink. You have to respect boundaries before you get to push them. You have to show people they’re safe before you get to make them feel scared. You have to respect people before you get to degrade them. You have to be normal with people before you get to be dirty with them. You can’t be skipping steps. Treating them like a person always comes before treating them like a toy.
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Don't Let Go
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Posted:Oct 13, 2023 12:09 am
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2023 3:38 am 17926 Views
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It’s so rare to find someone that is your “safe place” in life. A person that you can break down in front of. Your confidant. Your place of peace. Your keeper of dreams. Your partner to dream and build with. The person who encourages you to invest in yourself. The person who helps you figure out a way to accomplish things in life. The person who wakes up early or stays up late to be with you. It’s easy to feel like someone could be that, but it’s harder to find someone who actually is that. Finding people who are attractive who turn you on or who flirt well, that’s easy. They’re everywhere. But finding someone who sticks around? Who stays? In the dark days? In the deep shit? Rare. Maybe a once or twice-in-a-lifetime thing. Hold people like that tight. Don’t let go.
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Black and White
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Posted:Oct 10, 2023 5:38 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2024 12:55 am 31236 Views
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For every person who thinks you're "too quiet," there's one who thinks you're an amazing listener. For every person who thinks you're "too clingy," there's one who loves how much and how openly you care about others. For every person who thinks you're "too weird," there's one who admires how you dare to stand out from the crowd. For every person who thinks you're "too sensitive," there's one who respects you for being so in touch with your feelings. For every person who thinks you're "too confident" there's one who thinks your self-respect is an inspiration. What's a negative trait in one person's eyes might be exactly what someone else is looking for. It's not black or white
~M.
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Nipple Clamps & Torture
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Posted:Oct 10, 2023 4:40 am
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2023 6:48 am 16626 Views
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Safety First!
It’s safe to say we’ve all engaged in a little titillation at one time or another! But, as with anything, there are varying degrees of intensity. Of course, here at UberKinky, we’re all about the extreme. So in order to protect your puppies, we have carefully devised this safety section.
If you’re new to nipple play, start by using your hands. This is the most basic way to tease and please. Breast/chest tissue tends to be more sensitive than other areas of the body and will lacerate much quicker than the bum cheeks, for example. However, nipples are more resilient than you think, particularly women’s. After all, they’re designed for breastfeeding. So, just take things slowly and monitor reactions.
Inverted nipples are at a greater risk of infection and irritation in the small folds of the skin. As such, any form of nipple torture that causes abrasion or breaks the skin should be avoided at all costs. That includes piercing and cutting.
As always, cleaning and sterilization of tools is vital. This is of particular importance when it comes to edge play, such as piercing and cutting. Wear sterile gloves and take all of the necessary precautions to stop disease transmission any time that bleeding is a possibility.
Now, to ensure you don’t make any serious boobs, follow these simple dos and don’ts;
Safety
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Go slowly, gradually increasing pressure and intensity
Check for circulation and numbness often
Make sure any toys are cleaned and sterilized thoroughly
Wear sterile gloves when bleeding is a possibility
Stop immediately if you notice any discoloration on the nipple
Safety Don'ts
Leave nipple clamps on for more than 10 minutes to begin
Use abrasive techniques (or those likely to cut/break the skin) on inverted nipples
Be quite so brutal as with other parts of the body, such as the backside
Engage in breast suspension bondage unless you have been trained properly
Nipple Orgasm
No, we’re not pulling your tit; it is possible to have an orgasm from stimulating the nipple alone!
Playing with the nipples stimulates the genital sensory cortex, the same part of the brain that is stimulated when we play with our downstairs department. Although, shorter and sharper than a genital orgasm, nipple orgasms offer greater intensity and supreme sexual sensations. So, we assure you, it won’t take long to get to grips with the idea.
Of course, preferences vary from person to person; what does it for one won’t necessarily do it for another. Some love to have their nipples twisted and bitten, while others find it far too painful. In addition, women’s breast sensitivity will vary throughout the month, so bear in mind what she enjoys one week, she may loathe the next.
Now, stop being a tit and try it for yourself!
How To Have A Nipple Orgasm
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ATTENTION!
After this step, nipples will be standing tall, proud, and ready to receive. So, make them hard with anticipation and give an all-new meaning to ‘getting a raise’. Do this by gently squeezing the nipples with the fingers, but do not pinch or twist at this stage. After they are raised, you or your playmate should begin massaging in a circular motion with increasing pressure. Come on; it’s time to raise your game!
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LEARN A NEW TONGUE!
Of course, you can only enjoy this particular task if you are playing in pairs. It could be quite entertaining for solo players to try licking their own nipples, but it will probably ruin the mood! With the tip of the tongue, lick the nipple in circular motions, using the finger at the same time to trace the nipple and keep it erect. Suck, lick, and flick the nipple with the tongue. Try nibbling gently too. You’ll certainly get a taste for it!
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PREPARE TO SUCK!
Not like that; rest assured, you’ll be doing everything just right. It’s time for suction only; lips should be pursed around the nipple for a gentle suck. The pressure is gradually increased creating an environment similar to a vacuum. That powerful suction will increase sensitivity and size, magnifying the supreme sensations being felt. If you’re alone, try using a pump. It’s certainly one time when being a sucker is a good thing!
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IT’S GOOD TO TALK!
In order to ensure a successful nipple orgasm, it’s vital that you communicate with one another. That way tops can focus their attention on what feels good and really get the juices flowing. Don’t worry if it doesn’t happen the first time around, nipple orgasms take time to perfect. You’re going to really enjoy it when it does, and we’ll be here to say, “Told you so!”
Nipple Torture
The thing of nipple nightmares; tit torture will give you a sensational wake-up call when it comes to sadistic satisfaction!
Ranging from light to extreme punishment, nipple torture can incorporate a variety of different ways to play, delivering all new and unique sensations. In response to the applied stimulus, the body does not have time to recognize what is happening and processes it as pain. The result is waves of pleasurable endorphins (the body’s natural painkiller) being released into the bloodstream. Endorphins inspire an elated state and an intense natural high. In addition, the psychological aspect involved with power exchange is a huge turn-on for many.
~ UberKinky,
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