Nipple Clamps & Torture
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Posted:Oct 10, 2023 4:40 am
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2023 6:48 am 16637 Views
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Safety First!
It’s safe to say we’ve all engaged in a little titillation at one time or another! But, as with anything, there are varying degrees of intensity. Of course, here at UberKinky, we’re all about the extreme. So in order to protect your puppies, we have carefully devised this safety section.
If you’re new to nipple play, start by using your hands. This is the most basic way to tease and please. Breast/chest tissue tends to be more sensitive than other areas of the body and will lacerate much quicker than the bum cheeks, for example. However, nipples are more resilient than you think, particularly women’s. After all, they’re designed for breastfeeding. So, just take things slowly and monitor reactions.
Inverted nipples are at a greater risk of infection and irritation in the small folds of the skin. As such, any form of nipple torture that causes abrasion or breaks the skin should be avoided at all costs. That includes piercing and cutting.
As always, cleaning and sterilization of tools is vital. This is of particular importance when it comes to edge play, such as piercing and cutting. Wear sterile gloves and take all of the necessary precautions to stop disease transmission any time that bleeding is a possibility.
Now, to ensure you don’t make any serious boobs, follow these simple dos and don’ts;
Safety
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Go slowly, gradually increasing pressure and intensity
Check for circulation and numbness often
Make sure any toys are cleaned and sterilized thoroughly
Wear sterile gloves when bleeding is a possibility
Stop immediately if you notice any discoloration on the nipple
Safety Don'ts
Leave nipple clamps on for more than 10 minutes to begin
Use abrasive techniques (or those likely to cut/break the skin) on inverted nipples
Be quite so brutal as with other parts of the body, such as the backside
Engage in breast suspension bondage unless you have been trained properly
Nipple Orgasm
No, we’re not pulling your tit; it is possible to have an orgasm from stimulating the nipple alone!
Playing with the nipples stimulates the genital sensory cortex, the same part of the brain that is stimulated when we play with our downstairs department. Although, shorter and sharper than a genital orgasm, nipple orgasms offer greater intensity and supreme sexual sensations. So, we assure you, it won’t take long to get to grips with the idea.
Of course, preferences vary from person to person; what does it for one won’t necessarily do it for another. Some love to have their nipples twisted and bitten, while others find it far too painful. In addition, women’s breast sensitivity will vary throughout the month, so bear in mind what she enjoys one week, she may loathe the next.
Now, stop being a tit and try it for yourself!
How To Have A Nipple Orgasm
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ATTENTION!
After this step, nipples will be standing tall, proud, and ready to receive. So, make them hard with anticipation and give an all-new meaning to ‘getting a raise’. Do this by gently squeezing the nipples with the fingers, but do not pinch or twist at this stage. After they are raised, you or your playmate should begin massaging in a circular motion with increasing pressure. Come on; it’s time to raise your game!
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LEARN A NEW TONGUE!
Of course, you can only enjoy this particular task if you are playing in pairs. It could be quite entertaining for solo players to try licking their own nipples, but it will probably ruin the mood! With the tip of the tongue, lick the nipple in circular motions, using the finger at the same time to trace the nipple and keep it erect. Suck, lick, and flick the nipple with the tongue. Try nibbling gently too. You’ll certainly get a taste for it!
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PREPARE TO SUCK!
Not like that; rest assured, you’ll be doing everything just right. It’s time for suction only; lips should be pursed around the nipple for a gentle suck. The pressure is gradually increased creating an environment similar to a vacuum. That powerful suction will increase sensitivity and size, magnifying the supreme sensations being felt. If you’re alone, try using a pump. It’s certainly one time when being a sucker is a good thing!
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IT’S GOOD TO TALK!
In order to ensure a successful nipple orgasm, it’s vital that you communicate with one another. That way tops can focus their attention on what feels good and really get the juices flowing. Don’t worry if it doesn’t happen the first time around, nipple orgasms take time to perfect. You’re going to really enjoy it when it does, and we’ll be here to say, “Told you so!”
Nipple Torture
The thing of nipple nightmares; tit torture will give you a sensational wake-up call when it comes to sadistic satisfaction!
Ranging from light to extreme punishment, nipple torture can incorporate a variety of different ways to play, delivering all new and unique sensations. In response to the applied stimulus, the body does not have time to recognize what is happening and processes it as pain. The result is waves of pleasurable endorphins (the body’s natural painkiller) being released into the bloodstream. Endorphins inspire an elated state and an intense natural high. In addition, the psychological aspect involved with power exchange is a huge turn-on for many.
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A Satisfying Orgasm
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Posted:Oct 8, 2023 1:43 am
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2023 12:48 am 15845 Views
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In truth, a satisfying orgasm is a spiritual realization more than a technical accomplishment. The flesh is not apart from the spirit. The body is an ecstatic creation of many beings vibrating on other levels of consciousness. A deep orgasm is a realization of love on many levels, including those which many of us now think of as ‘animal.’ Love, getting into the same space or on the same vibration with others, is the ground of our being, and takes an infinity of forms. As in all other experiences, we always have the sexual experience we deserve, depending on our loving-kindness towards ourselves and others.
~Thaddeus Golas, The Lazy Man’s Guide to Enlightenment
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Something Powerful
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Posted:Oct 5, 2023 9:34 pm
Last Updated:Mar 1, 2024 6:38 am 15980 Views
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When a woman strips herself bare of not only the clothes that cover her body but also the shackles of a lifetime of conditioning and insecurities, finds the strength to kneel before another and ask to be taken, it is truly the most powerful moment in a BDSM relationship. Oh, there are many, many other powerful moments and experiences, and I routinely feel a sense of awe and gratitude as she continues to find new ways to display her submission and desire to learn and grow. But none for me can compare to the power, majesty, humility, and grace that I feel when the right woman holds out her trembling hand and heart and asks to be taken.
~chris-pr-ds
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Unowned
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Posted:Oct 3, 2023 4:31 am
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2024 2:06 am 16533 Views
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The word itself implies a sort of default state—a way things should be. A state is described by the absence of something important. But the longer I am single, the more I wonder about this word.
It’s been nearly 15 months since my last D/s relationship ended. At first, “unowned” described perfectly the aching void left in me without the structure of our dynamic. I had no one to ask for permission. No one to make sure I went to bed on time. No one who craved my ever-deepening submission. It was the absence of so many things—not just ownership or love, but truly a loss of identity. What is a submissive when they are unable to serve?
I used to say that I’m a relationship person—that my happiness depends on my connection to another. And frankly, I never bought into the idea that you have to be happy as a single person before you can be in a healthy relationship. Some people just aren’t meant for a single life. As a submissive, part of me has always felt incomplete without ownership. When your sense of purpose and fulfillment relies on serving and obeying another, being single can feel empty. It’s right there in the word. Unowned.
But over time, the aching void of "unownership" faded. I learned to live as a single person. And now I just feel…fine. No, really. At first, I knew I wasn’t ready to submit. Now I’m just not sure I need to. Submission feels like another me in another lifetime. That girl was so sure of her needs that she turned her life upside down for a chance at fulfilling them. Have my needs changed, or have I just been unfulfilled for so long that I’m numb to them? Am I walking around, unaware that the color has drained from my world? Am I actively looking away from the color, too terrified of what it might mean? Too afraid to get hurt, too afraid to make the wrong choice, too afraid to feel so deeply and give so much of myself.
Either way, my submission feels so far away most days. It feels abstract. I have rebuilt my life and my heart so much in the last 18 months that I nearly feel like I new person. But maybe under all of this newness, there’s still a little girl waiting for the right moment to kneel. A friend once told me that these things are like balloons—you can hold them under the water, but they always fight their way to the surface again. I guess time will tell.
But that word—unowned—no longer feels like part of me. I am not defined by the absence of something; I am the presence of many somethings. And I have to trust that those "somethings" will lead me down the right path, whether I am meant to kneel or not.
~cherishedproperty
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Here Comes The Sun
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Posted:Oct 1, 2023 1:29 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2024 12:53 am 14332 Views
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Here comes the sun, here comes the sun
And I say it's all right
Little darling, it's been a long cold lonely winter
Little darling, it feels like years since it's been here
Here comes the sun, here comes the sun
And I say it's all right
Little darling, the smiles returning to their faces
Little darling, it seems like it's years since it's been here
Here comes the sun, here comes the sun
And I say it's all right
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes
Little darling, I feel that ice is slowly melting
Little darling, it seems like years since it's been clear
Here comes the sun, here comes the sun
It's all right, it's all right
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~Saturday Sway
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Posted:Sep 30, 2023 2:15 am
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2024 1:48 am 12756 Views
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* Why ~ Annie Lennox ~ Diva
* ( I Know ) I'm Losing you ~ Rod Stewart ~ Every Picture Tells A Story
* Lullaby ~ The Cure Disintegration
* The Girl From Ipanema ~ Astrud Gilberto, Stan Getz ~ Work From Home
* Rebels ~ Tom Petty And The Heart Breakers ~ Southern Accents
* Short Skirt /Long Jacket ~ Cake ~ Comfort Eagle
* Hard To Concentrate ~ Red Hot Chilis ~ Stadium Arcadium
* Romeo And Juliet ~ Dire Straits ~ Making Movies
* Karma Police ~ Radio head ~ OK Computer
* Let's Dance ~ Davie Bowie ~ Let's Dance
~Romeo And Juliet ~ Dire Straits
A lovestruck Romeo sang the streets a serenade
Laying everybody low with a love song that he made
Finds a streetlight, steps out of the shade
Says something like, "You and me, babe, how about it?"
Juliet says, "Hey, it's Romeo, you nearly gave me a heart attack"
He's underneath the window, she's singing, "Hey, la, my boyfriend's back
You shouldn't come around here singing up at people like that
Anyway, what you gonna do about it?"
"Juliet, the dice was loaded from the start
And I bet, and you exploded into my heart
And I forget, I forget the movie song
When you gonna realize it was just that the time was wrong, Juliet?"
Come up on different streets, they both were streets of shame
Both dirty, both mean, yes, and the dream was just the same
And I dreamed your dream for you and now your dream is real
How can you look at me as if I was just another one of your deals?
When you can fall for chains of silver you can fall for chains of gold
You can fall for pretty strangers and the promises they hold
You promised me everything, you promised me thick and thin, yeah
Now you just say "Oh, Romeo, yeah, you know I used to have a scene with him"
"Juliet, when we made love, you used to cry
You said 'I love you like the stars above, I'll love you 'til I die'
There's a place for us, you know the movie song
When you gonna realize it was just that the time was wrong, Juliet?"
I can't do the talks like they talk on the TV
And I can't do a love song like the way it's meant to be
I can't do everything but I'll do anything for you
I can't do anything except be in love with you
And all I do is miss you and the way we used to be
All I do is keep the beat, the bad company
All I do is kiss you through the bars of a rhyme
Julie, I'd do the stars with you any time
"Juliet, when we made love you used to cry
You said 'I love you like the stars above, I'll love you 'til I die'
There's a place for us you know the movie song
When you gonna realize it was just that the time was wrong, Juliet?"
And a lovestruck Romeo, he sang the streets a serenade
Laying everybody low with a love song that he made
Find a convenient streetlight, steps out of the shade
He says something like, "You and me, babe, how about it?"
"You and me, babe, how about it?"
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Questions To Consider When You Are Considering
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Posted:Sep 30, 2023 1:55 am
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2023 6:38 am 13028 Views
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The concept of training is on my mind, however, it is not training in the business world nor the faux dominants who lurk on the internet trying to prey up on new submissives to be their personal BDSM trainer but it is occurring to me that many submissives fail to ask some very important questions of dominant they are interested in. So here are ten questions I feel submissives should ask potential Doms.
When it comes to implements of ‘fun’ (crops, floggers, whips, plugs, and I could go on and on), ask how the d-type was taught about safely using them.
With those same arousing bits of equipment, ask the dominant if they have had them used ON them. Quick news flash, even if the d-type was not a fan of how it ‘felt’ they should have experienced them so they can understand how they will feel for you their submissive.
Inquire about how the dominant continue their education in the lifestyle.
Find out where the d-type would go if they had a question/concern. Do they have mentors/friends or would they fire off an anon ask to a blog?
Inquire about mistakes they have made as a dominant.
When discussing errors with a d-type, listen to determine if they share life lessons they have learned from their failures. Be wary of anyone who claims to be mistake-free or struggles to know/share the lessons of their missteps.
How much time are you able to give to building a relationship? It is important to ask this upfront as many people expect more and more time as things grow and develop. Make sure there is an understanding of how much time can be invested and where/when life will infringe upon this time.
If they are a new(er) d-type find out what things intrigue them and those they would like to explore. Remember that exploration is no guarantee these things will become likes, wants, or needs but it will give an idea of the interests lurking in the dominant’s mind. You can even ask this of an ‘old dog’ to find out what ‘new tricks’ they are interested in.
In a long-term relationship, how will you use the lifestyle (and vanilla items) to keep the partnership from becoming stagnant and/or routine?
If at any point you have ‘assumed’ anything about a dominant, make it a point to ask about it, no matter how trivial it may seem. Remember every assumption, even the small ones, can quickly make an ass out of you (or them).
When it comes to asking questions and getting to know a prospective partner, please always ask the same questions in different ways on different days. I know it may sound rude like you are intentionally trying to trip up the d-type, but what you are doing is reassuring yourself that the answers are consistent. This consistency will help both of you build trust in each other and this is important in any relationship but especially so in a lifestyle partnership.
Finally, never feel that as a submissive, you cannot ask something because of the role you are identified with. If you, as an s-type, have something on your mind, always feel comfortable expressing it. I believe that any supposed d-type who would say “A submissive should never ask this” is simply looking to avoid a line of questioning that would lead to unflattering revelations coming out about that person. So, if you think about it, ask it!
Remember the only bad question is the one you are afraid to ask.
©TLK2023
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No Such Thing as Vanilla
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Posted:Sep 25, 2023 6:51 am
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2023 7:26 am 15480 Views
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He’s moving slowly inside me. One of his hands holds one of mine. His whole body presses against me, rocking back and forth slowly. His lips are on my ear.
“You won’t come again for a long, long time.”
I nod my acceptance softly as he sweeps my hair out of my eyes. He kisses my temple.
“You’re mine.”
“Yes, Sir.”
He maintains his slow pace. It’s soft and sweet. Even so, I’m excruciatingly close to orgasm. An orgasm he won’t allow me.
If you took away his words, this sex would look so vanilla. There are no cuffs or chains or clamps. He’s not pounding into me. He’s not even fucking my ass as he often does. There was a time when sex like this would make my skin crawl. The slowness and the sweetness made me restless, and I wanted it over as soon as possible. Vanilla sex was never that great at holding my attention. I needed more. I needed hair pulling and nails digging into my hips and primal fucking.
Or at least, I thought I did. I needed ownership—the mental calm that comes from being controlled by someone who craves my obedience. And here, I feel his ownership in every single moment. I know that I am a girl who doesn’t get to choose. I don’t choose when he fucks me or how, or whether I will be allowed release. I don’t even think about it. I just do what he chooses for me to do and feel what he chooses for me to feel. That’s it.
At this moment, his slowness and sweetness feel deliberate and controlled. They are part of his control over me. And I find myself needing it—his soft kisses and caresses and his slow rocking back and forth inside me. Every touch feels like a reminder that I am his.
He gives me a soft shhhh as I begin to whimper.
“I know little one. I know it’s hard, but you’re so beautiful when you struggle for me. You’re such a good girl. The best girl.”
He kisses my neck as he keeps a steady rhythm inside me. I am calm and present at this moment with him. It doesn’t feel vanilla to me at all. I’m not even sure that’s possible when he is him and I am me. Owner and property. I am his in all ways, even the soft and sweet ones. There’s nothing vanilla about that.
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Sunday Reading
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Posted:Sep 24, 2023 6:39 am
Last Updated:Feb 5, 2024 3:09 am 14355 Views
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It's a rainy Sunday, perfect for reading. I just started reading "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius and it's enlightening. I love reading and highly recommend this book. It's amazing how Marcus Aurelius was able to convey such profound thoughts and ideas in such a simple and concise manner. I feel like I'm gaining a lot of wisdom from reading this book and it's definitely worth checking out if you're looking for something insightful and thought-provoking to read on a lazy Sunday.
So, What are you reading?
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Oh Don!
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Posted:Sep 22, 2023 5:36 am
Last Updated:Feb 11, 2024 12:59 am 14434 Views
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Boys Of Summer ~By Don Henly
Nobody on the road,
Nobody on the beach.
I feel it in the air,
The summer's out of reach.
Empty lake, empty streets,
The sun goes down alone.
I'm driving by your house
Though I know you're not home.
But I can see you,
Your brown skin shining in the sun.
You got your hair combed back
And your sunglasses on, baby.
And I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
After the boys of summer have gone.
I never will forget those nights.
I wonder if it was a dream.
Remember how you made me crazy,
Remember how I made you scream.
Now I don't understand what
Happened to our love.
But, baby, I'm gonna get you back,
I'm gonna show you what I'm made of.
But I can see you,
Your brown skin shining in the sun.
I see you walking real slow and you're
Smiling at everyone.
And I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
After the boys of summer have gone.
Out on the road today I saw a Black Head
Sticker on a Cadillac.
A little voice inside my head said:
"Don't look back, you can never look back."
I thought I knew what love was.
What did I know?
Those days are gone forever.
I should just let them go, but…
But I can see you,
Your brown skin shining in the sun.
You got that top pulled down,
And that radio on, baby.
And I can tell you my love for you will still be strong,
After the boys of summer have gone.
I can see you,
Your brown skin shining in the sun.
You got that hair slicked back,
And those Wayfarers on, baby.
And I can tell you my love for you will still be strong,
After the boys of summer have gone.
Photo By: Me
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