She Is
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Posted:Jul 16, 2023 1:10 am
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2023 2:01 am 15199 Views
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The kind of sweet that makes you forget about the sour.
That beautiful strand of Christmas lights that shocks the shit out of you.
A cold mountain stream on a hot muggy day.
A quadruple stuff Oreo. With milk.
The verse you can’t stop singing.
Winning the lottery when you were too bitter to play.
A smile too beautiful to bear.
Your kind of crazy.
A cataclysmic collection of perfect imperfections.
Unforgettable.
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Just A Memory
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Posted:Jul 15, 2023 2:17 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2024 1:11 am 14726 Views
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She stood in their bedroom waiting for him. She could feel her body trembling slightly, her anticipation building as she waited. Her arms outstretched, the blindfold eliminating any hope of her seeing what he had in store for her. All he used was his voice. His voice, low and soft, always so controlled and steady. He was deliberate in his method, and slow in his approach. He was calm, always so hard for her to withstand. She didn’t dare move. He had told her to keep her legs wide and her head bowed. She didn’t dare disobey his command, even as she could feel her body shaking, as he spoke of what he had in store for her. She could feel her wetness between her legs. She yearned for his touch but didn’t dare ask him, that would only prolong his withholding of it. She could hear his voice coming closer. Suddenly, it was right against her ear. Her chest rose and fell faster as he kissed her ear lobe, his mouth right in her ear. “Good girl”, her favorite words, filled the air. His hand took her hair, their session beginning, her mind quieting as everything slipped away. Only his body and words were her focus.
~M
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Best Friends With Benefits
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Posted:Jul 13, 2023 3:12 pm
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2023 12:00 am 14241 Views
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I write to you like a lover
but we have never been in love.
It's three am and I'm sending snapshots
of my heart because you are the only one
who isn’t afraid to look at them.
Sometimes we kiss for no reason.
sometimes I go crawling into your bed
because I need a space to belong to
and your hands are steadier
than mine have ever been.
Sometimes you get lost
and you wind up on my doorstep,
but it’s okay–
You’re always welcome here.
I tell you all the secrets I’ve been
keeping from myself while you
peel apart at the edges and admit
to all the soft things you pretend
you don’t know how to feel.
We understand each other, here.
my sheets know all our demons.
We don’t touch like that in the daytime,
but at night you are all hands
and I am all teeth
and we are a double-hinged door
slammed open by the wind.
We work that way.
it’s easy as breathing:
two kindred souls wrapped up together,
settled in for the night,
sharing the same skin for a little while.
**Archive
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Kisses....
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Posted:Jul 10, 2023 9:25 am
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2023 2:21 am 13666 Views
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I want to kiss you. Hold your hands and pin them above your head. To hear that little gasp if the tug at your wrists leaves you on your toes, or straining when you try to kiss me. Would you close your eyes and melt, or keep eye contact? Would it make you whimper when my lips brush yours and pull away when you try for more? Would you whine when I lean in again and again with kiss after kiss, while refusing to let you kiss in turn? Would your body move of its own will when you feel mine draw near? Would you tug at the hands holding you, with your hips moving to meet me? Would you realize their motion? Or would it be something that happened as though they were possessed of their own volition?
I want to see if your thigh's part against my leg when I slide it between them. To discover how you’ll react when I pull away and leave you leaning into the space between us. Would you moan when the tip of my tongue maps your lips? Would you struggle to try to feel it against your own? How would you react to little bites? Would you like it if I sucked upon your lip or tongue? Would you pull away if I grew rough? Or would bruising kisses and the graze of teeth leave your swollen lips all the more eager for more?
I want to kiss you. I want to tease; each pleasure is something you can only return sparingly. I want to watch you melt, need, and writhe until all inhibition flees. I want my hands that hold you, and the leg upon which you grind, to be all that keeps you from sinking to your knees. I want to kiss you until I let go, it’s like you forget everything but your need.
Just let me kiss you. Let me tease you until you feel free.
hisdarkthoughts~
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Overcoming Barriers To Lifestyle Growth
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Posted:Jul 9, 2023 1:15 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2023 12:03 am 14233 Views
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The D/S lifestyle is a consensual arrangement that involves power dynamics, trust, and exploration of one's desires. However, many individuals have held back from exploring this lifestyle due to various barriers. So we should examine the factors that inhibit people from exploring the lifestyle and discuss effective strategies to overcome these obstacles.
One of the primary reasons individuals hesitate to explore D/S is the social stigma associated with alternative lifestyle practices. Society often imposes rigid norms and beliefs regarding sexuality and relationships, leading to shame and fear of judgment. Overcoming this stigma requires education and open dialogue. By promoting accurate information, dispelling misconceptions, and fostering acceptance, individuals can gain the confidence to explore their desires without feeling ashamed or judged.
Another barrier is the limited knowledge and understanding of the lifestyle. People may be intrigued but lack the necessary information to engage in this lifestyle safely and consensually. Addressing this issue requires comprehensive education and resources. Communities, online platforms, and workshops dedicated to educating individuals about the principles, dynamics, and practices of lifestyle relationships can play a crucial role in providing guidance and dispelling misconceptions.
Exploring the D/S lifestyle requires a deep level of trust and vulnerability. For many individuals, the fear of opening up and exposing their desires can be overwhelming. Creating a safe and supportive environment is essential to overcome this hurdle. Engaging in open communication, setting clear boundaries, and establishing a foundation of trust can help individuals feel secure and more willing to embrace their desires.
Effective communication is vital in any relationship, especially in the lifestyle, however, many individuals struggle with expressing their needs, desires, and concerns openly. Developing strong communication skills is key to overcoming this obstacle. By actively listening, practicing empathy, and using tools such as "safe words" and regular check-ins, individuals can enhance their ability to communicate effectively, thereby fostering a healthier and more fulfilling D/S relationship.
Internalized guilt and shame can be significant barriers to exploring D/S. Society's messaging surrounding unconventional desires often leads individuals to question their legitimacy and morality. Overcoming these feelings requires self-acceptance and self-compassion. Recognizing that desires and consensual exploration are valid and natural can empower individuals to embrace their authentic selves, free from the burden of guilt and shame.
Exploring the D/s lifestyle can be a transformative journey for individuals seeking to embrace their desires and engage in consensual power dynamics. By addressing the barriers that hold people back, such as societal stigma, lack of awareness, fear of vulnerability, communication issues, internalized guilt, and shame, individuals can overcome these challenges and embark on a path of self-discovery and personal growth. Embracing education, communication, self-acceptance, and creating supportive communities are essential steps toward empowering individuals to explore the D/s lifestyle fully.
What do you think the community can do to better meet the needs of people who are cautiously tip-toeing around the lifestyle?
©TLK2023
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Waiting
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Posted:Jul 7, 2023 11:48 am
Last Updated:Jul 10, 2023 9:15 am 14048 Views
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Waiting as foreplay. Placed and positioned as he wants me, restrained because he knows that amplifies the feeling.
I hear the creak of his leather chair. He’s sitting, watching. He might appear to be engrossed in a book but I know he is as aware of me as I am of him. Our chemistry arcs between us, electrifying the room.
He’s in my head. He knows me so well. I am no match for his infinite patience, his iron control. He uses my rising anticipation against me, sitting silently until I am nothing but nerve endings and greedy impatience.
He watches as my once even breathing becomes rapid shallow pants, as goosebumps break out on my skin, as my chocolate nipples harden in a blatant invitation. I have to choose now between fidgeting to relieve the throbbing ache between my quivering thighs and the discomfort that movement causes because of the hardwood floor. And still, he waits until my arousal is seeping from my swollen sex.
Finally, I hear him stand, the sound of his shoes as he crosses the room to stand behind me. His large warm hand smooths my hair back and he drops a gentle kiss on my forehead - a tantalizing counterpoint to what is to come.
His breath tickles my ear as he asks “Shall we begin pet?”
“Yes please, Sir.”
💋
~thegentlemansadisttgs
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How Can We Balance Our D/S Desires While Maintaining Our Safety?
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Posted:Jul 5, 2023 3:40 am
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2024 3:57 am 14030 Views
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Welcome back to another edition of The Daily D/S, the writings where we explore all things related to BDSM and the wonderful world of power exchange dynamics and today we're diving into a thought-provoking question: How can BDSM practitioners balance their desires for exploration while maintaining safety?
BDSM, as you know, is an incredibly diverse and dynamic realm of expression and it encompasses a wide range of practices but amidst all the excitement, it is crucial to prioritize emotional safety for everyone involved. Exploration and pushing boundaries can be thrilling and immensely fulfilling for lifestyle practitioners. However, it is essential to establish clear communication, trust, and consent before venturing into any new experiences. Without these foundational elements, the risk of emotional harm or damage increases significantly.
So, how do we strike that balance? Here are a few essential strategies for maintaining physical and emotional safety while exploring and pushing boundaries in BDSM.
Communication and Negotiation:
Prioritize open and honest communication with your partner(s) about your desires, limits, and boundaries.
Establish a safe word or signal that can be used to pause or stop an activity if it becomes too intense emotionally or physically.
Regularly check in with each other to ensure ongoing consent and emotional well-being.
Educate Yourself:
Continuously educate yourself about BDSM practices, techniques, and safety measures.
Understand the potential risks and consequences associated with different activities.
Seek guidance from trusted resources, such as reputable books, online forums, and local BDSM communities.
Start Slow and Gradual:
Take small steps when exploring new activities or pushing boundaries.
Gradually increase the intensity or complexity of scenes or dynamics, allowing everyone involved to adjust and acclimate.
Remember, you do not need to eat the BDSM Buffet in one trip!
Aftercare:
Aftercare is crucial for emotional safety in BDSM.
Provide nurturing and supportive aftercare to all participants involved, addressing their physical and emotional needs.
Reflect on the scene or activity together, ensuring that everyone feels supported and cared for.
Remember, maintaining safety is a shared responsibility within BDSM. Dominants and submissives both have a role in creating a safe and consensual environment and it is essential to prioritize mutual respect, empathy, and continuous consent.
What are your thoughts on these strategies and what would you add to the discussion?
©TLK2023
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Random Xpressions
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Posted:Jul 3, 2023 7:51 pm
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2023 9:34 pm 13942 Views
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Love me in a way, I understand it, I feel it, I experience it, in a way I could see it, in a way I could hear it out loud, in a way I could hold on to it, in a way that I need it. If it can't penetrate my layers then I don't want it. I don't want something to merely touch the surface while my depths remain a virgin. Love me the way thunder roars and lightning strikes, let me feel the awe. Or like the raging storm uproot me from where I stand and take me by force to where I truly belong. Love me with a little violence, love me with a little commotion. Let when morning arrives, it be known that there was a heavy downpour - muddy earth and murky waters, make it a little dirty, spoil my clothes...
Random Xpressions
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The Sex Before The Sex
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Posted:Jul 2, 2023 12:49 am
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2024 2:34 am 12919 Views
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I like to be penetrated long before any physical contact takes place.
In fact, I need to be.
Witty banter, teasing, verbal double entendres—all foreplay for me.
The art of great foreplay is a hint of what’s to come, without spilling everything.
It’s the desire mixed with the uncertainty of whether it will really happen or how.
Who will bring the other person to wetness or hardness first?
Who will be so overcome with desire that they tackle the other person when they get in the door?
In Tantra, we talk a lot about expanding the moment of orgasm.
Instead of orgasm being a few moments of intense, pelvic contractions, we aim for orgasms that last for hours.
The feelings of bliss, the pulsing and throbbing, the hunger you feel, can go on for hours and days.
In fact, it never really has to stop.
Think of foreplay, between-play and simmer in the same way: they ought to go on for a long, long time.
They never really have to stop, either.
You want to keep the sexual energy flowing between you all of the time.
That doesn’t mean you have to have sex every time you rev your engines.
The whole point is to rev your engines and keep them hot.
Or at least warm.
You ought to have some kind of flirty, sexy touch and innuendo going on every day.
The sex before the sex.~
~Kim Anami
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In My Memory
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Posted:Jul 1, 2023 7:44 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2024 7:42 pm 12150 Views
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Afterward, you sleep,
but in my memory... Still...
your hands are moving...
gathering my wrists together
above my head, behind my back...
threading your fingers through my hair,
now pleating, now pulling, now
searching my skin for need...
I move against you, my whole body
asking for more... asking for yours...
asking to be filled... to be emptied...
to be at peace.
- Peregrine
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