Men
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Posted:Apr 20, 2023 1:17 am
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2023 5:11 pm 8514 Views
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With age and experience, she realized there was a difference in all men. There were those that only knew how to talk about the things she craved. There were men that followed thru on all the things they talked about, but more importantly, there were men that actually knew what the fuck they were doing when they pulled you into their darkness. Into their bed. Selfless. Intentional. Methodical men that took their time and gave you everything you could ever want. Men that when you left them, you knew owned every part of your body and heart and soul. Men that ruined you for anyone else after them.
~her-reconciled-heart
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Like A Friend
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Posted:Apr 18, 2023 3:37 am
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2023 6:25 pm 8591 Views
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She wondered whether there would ever come an hour in her life when she didn’t think of him; didn’t speak to him in her head, didn’t relive every moment they’d been together, didn’t long for his voice and his hands, and his love. She had never dreamed of what it would feel like to love someone so much; of all the things that had astonished her in her adventures, that was what astonished her the most. She thought the tenderness it left in her heart was like a bruise that would never go away, but she would cherish it forever.
~Philip Pullman, from ‘The Amber Spyglass’
Two weeks ago I lost one of my best friends to pancreatic cancer. He found out he had it, and three weeks later he was gone. I met him here, and I wanted to tell you all that you can meet truly amazing people on this site. He was proof of that. I will miss him terribly. Please forgive me in advance if it bleeds into my blog.
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This Is What I Know .....
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Posted:Apr 17, 2023 3:08 am
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2023 2:43 am 8866 Views
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“This is what I know: in this life, a steady love and a place to call home are far more precious than all the earthly possessions and wealth in the world.”
“Falling for someone isn’t a process. You can’t plan for it in advance or anticipate its arrival. Love strikes in single moments. Anywhere. Anytime. Some day you catch them gardening in the sun, or singing dreadfully in the shower, and you think, ‘Oh, I could spend all my life with you.’”
“I need to move around a bit. To shuffle my surroundings. To wake up in cities I don’t know my way around and have conversations in languages I cannot entirely comprehend. There is always this tremendous longing in my heart to be lost, to be someplace else, and to be far far away from all this.”
“I am deathly afraid of almosts. Of coming so close to where I want to be in life that I can almost taste it, almost touch it, then falling just a little short.”
“I like to think that loneliness is just the echo of missing a person you haven’t had the pleasure of meeting quite yet.”
“There are people who you will love until the end. Certain feelings are too powerful to perish and quietly survive on, in the heart for a lifetime. No matter how much we change or drift apart, in some small way, you will always be mine, and I will always be yours.”
“Everyone you meet has a part to play in your story. and while some may take a chapter, others a paragraph, and most will be no more than scribbled notes in the margins, someday, you’ll meet someone who will become so integral to your life, you’ll put their name in the title.”
“I plant roots so deeply in the people I love that I always lose a piece of myself when they go.”
~Beau Taplin
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Saturday Sway *Lighthouse Edition
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Posted:Apr 15, 2023 4:05 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 1:24 am 8654 Views
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This Sway goes out to my best friend. She is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the out. I don't know what I would do without you, Darlin'. Oxo
* More ~Sisters Of Mercy
* Somebody I Used To Know ~ Gotye
* I Know ~ Gabby Barret
* Midnight Sky ~ Miley Cyrus
* It's Ok ~ Nightbirdie
* What's Up ~ 4 Non Blondes
* Glamorous ~ Fergie
* ~ In This Moment
* Finish Line ~ Skillet
* You're Gonna Go Far ~ Offspring
* Under The Milkyway ~ Church
* Piece By Piece ~ Kelly Clarkson
* I See Red ~ Everybody Loves An Outlaw
* Million Reasons ~ Lady Gaga
* Lighthouse ~ The Waifs
* I Got A Feeling ~ Black Eyed Peas
* Something Just Like This ~ Chainsmokers & Coldplay
* Heroin ~ Lana Del Ray
* Tusk ~ Fleetwood Mac
* Hangman's Jury ~ Aerosmith
* The Waiting ~ Madonna
* You Get What You Give ~ New Radicals
* Eminence Front ~ The Who
* Sex ~ Berlin
* Pleasure And Pain ~ Divinyls
* The Grand Illusion ~ Styx
* Wicked Game ~ Chris Issak
* You'll Think Of Me ~ Keith Urban
* Beer, Wine, Whiskey ~ Little Big Town
~ In This Moment
I'm the girl you've been thinking about
The one thing you can't live without
I'm the girl you've been waiting for
I'll have you down on your knees, I'll have you begging for more
You probably thought I wouldn't get this far, you thought I'd end up in the back of a car
You probably thought that I'd never escape, I'd be a rat in a cage, I'd be a slave to this place
You don't know how hard I fought to survive, waking up alone when I was left to die
You don't know about this life I've led, all these roads I've walked, all these tears I've bled
So how can this be, you're praying to me
There's a look in your eyes, I know just what that means
I can be, I can be your everything
I can be your
I am the dirt you created
I am your sinner, I am your
But let me tell you something, baby
You love me for everything you hate me for
I'm the one that you need and fear, now that you're hooked it's all becoming clear
That all your judgments that you placed on me were a reflection of discovery
So maybe next time when you cast your stones from the shadows of the dark unknown
You will crawl up from your hiding place, take a look in the mirror, see the truth in your face
So how can this be, you're praying to me
There's a look in your eyes, I know just what that means
I can be, I can be your everything
I can be your
I am the dirt you created
I am your sinner, I am your
But let me tell you something, baby
You love me for everything you hate me for
I am the dirt you created
I am your sinner, I am your
But let me tell you something, baby
(Scream) You love me, you want me, you need me
I can be your
I am the dirt you created
I am your sinner, I am your
But let me tell you something, baby
You love me for everything you hate me for
If you've never seen this video, here's the link. I think you'll enjoy it.
youtube.com/watch?v=GurkREc-q4I
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What’s In A Number?
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Posted:Apr 14, 2023 9:25 pm
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2023 4:46 pm 8242 Views
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Recently someone asks me if sex in my 50s was the same as sex at 20. The question itself made me smile as if I was some wise old shaman who the unenlightened scaled sheer cliffs to question and, in turn, gain the wisdom of the ages.
But back to the question. In essence, what the OP wanted to know was “Does sex get better or worse with age.” Such a simple question on the surface. Kind of like what it means to be submissive. Yeah. There are no simple answers to either of those questions. Trust me.
The act of sex itself has not changed since I was 20 years old. At least I am not aware of any changes and I do attempt to stay up-to-date. (My work ethic in play.) However, what I am both able to participate in within the physical acts and, more importantly, what I find most enjoyable have changed quite a bit in three and a half decades. My limbs no longer appreciate being held in awkward poses (with or without the assistance of bondage aids) for long periods of time and will now repay my erotic enthusiasm with pulled muscles and stabbing pains. On the other hand, I’ve learned to do things with my tongue that 20-year-old Ginger would never have attempted, much less enjoyed.
And let us not forget that sex is only partly about the physical act in the first place. Age, and thus experience, help us understand the true role of emotional connections without which truly amazing sex cannot occur. At 20, I was more about running my hands and mouth over a firm body. At 52, I am more interested in knowing what makes the mind of my man tick. And that knowledge when used properly gives me the ability to offer him more fulfilling erotic experiences than a mere hot tongue can ever achieve on its own.
By the way, this idea is the same in every facet of your life as you age. With time and experience, you change. This is not meant to mean that you are withering away and just can’t do the stuff you did as a . Trust me. If I WANT to slip my butt onto a piece of cardboard and slide down a hill screaming and laughing, I’m going to do it. If I WANT to pick up a 20-ish bodybuilder at a beach bar kissing contest and take him to the hotel for a one-night stand, I will. The difference is that now I realize it’s my choice. All of it. And with choices come consequences – some awesome enough to write stories about and some you’d love to wipe from your memories forever. Knowing enough to match consequences to actions BEFORE I do them is the beauty of age and experience. Not caring about them because you have a lifetime to get over it is the beauty of youth.
Be who you are. Revel in the glory of your experience – vast or shallow still. Live for the day whether you are 20 or 80. As long as it’s SSC (and your muscles allow it), the world is yours for exploring.
In the end, we only live once. But if we do it right, once is enough. *winks*
thegingerpowers~
*Archive
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Erotic Intelligence
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Posted:Apr 12, 2023 8:57 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2023 6:06 am 9543 Views
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Erotic intelligence stretches far beyond a repertoire of sexual techniques. It is an intelligence that celebrates curiosity and play, the power of the imagination, and our infinite fascination with what is hidden and mysterious.
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~Art Break
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Posted:Apr 10, 2023 1:07 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2023 7:58 pm 9629 Views
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©Artwork by "Jack Vettriano" - Scottish (b1951)
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Truthful Things
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Posted:Apr 10, 2023 6:26 am
Last Updated:Feb 11, 2024 1:02 am 10044 Views
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* You can be a kick-ass submissive and not own a single piece of lingerie.
* You can kneel in slip-on Converse just as well as you can in heels.
* Wanting to be wanted can lead to seriously poor decision-making.
* You can love someone and not be a match.
* You deserve as much pleasure as they do.
* Liars and cheaters will always lie and cheat.
* Not everyone likes the spotlight; it’s ok to live D/s very privately.
* It’s ok to make things like rope bondage and tickling hard limits; it’s ok to make anything a hard limit.
* Dominants can use a safeword or otherwise stop an activity.
* Submissives can walk away; you don’t have to be ‘released’ from shit.
* Moving quickly rarely leads to longevity.
* Your gut is never wrong; listen to it.
* It’s ok to not look like a fetish model; most people don’t.
* Sex can feel good even without orgasm.
* If the effort isn’t there, in the beginning, it never will be.
* You can defer to someone and respect them as a leader even while watching. Netflix and eating steak nachos with your fingers.
* Dominants can get sick and be huge babies and still be worthy of obedience and respect.
* Not every Dominant is an executive with an expense account.
* Submissives can make more money than their partner.
* You don’t have to say ‘Daddy’ to feel it in your bones.
* Toxicity isn’t gender-specific.
* You can’t always educate yourself out of raised-with-it bias, but you have to try.
* It’s ok to demand more for yourself; having standards solidifies self-worth.
* Strength is a process.
* Self-esteem requires active management.
* Submission doesn’t cease to exist when you’re single.
* Submission doesn’t just end when you hit 30 or 50 or 70.
* You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do.
* You can change your mind.
* You can use your voice.
* You have to use your voice!
**Author Unknown
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D/s & Kink
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Posted:Apr 8, 2023 3:44 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2023 3:22 pm 11053 Views
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So the thing about BDSM is that I want both - but I’d choose the D/s part over the kink part any day of the week. People talk all the time about needing to be beaten and fucked and all of that… And, don’t get me wrong, I need those things too. But I need the dynamic more.
The two can - and often do - go hand in hand. But they’re not one and the same. And without the dynamic, I don’t want the kink.
~dirtylittlebookworm
* I chose this photo because I thought it was lovely.
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Nice Sadists
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Posted:Apr 8, 2023 1:11 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2023 5:56 am 9342 Views
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Nice sadists are so, so underrated.
If someone told me they loved that I suffer for them?
Tenderly caressing my cheek, then slapping it? Beautiful
That fake pity voice? 10/10
When they give you a break between spankings to play with your pussy? I’m in love
On that same line of thinking, when there are playful spankings, and you’re giggling and trying to get away until they’ve had enough of your squirming and they make you stay still? Literally, ughhh
Orgasm denial because they love hearing you whine?? YES
Making you come so many times you cry because they love to see you cry? Please, please, please
Don’t even get me started on humiliation.
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