Money Can't Buy It
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Posted:Mar 8, 2024 4:11 am
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2024 7:59 am 12284 Views
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Money Can't Buy It ~ Annie Lennox ~ Diva
Money can't buy it, baby
Sex can't buy it, baby
Drugs can't buy it, baby
You can't buy it, baby
I believe that love alone might do these things for you
I believe in love alone yea yea
Take the power to set you free
Kick down the door and throw away the key
Give up your needs
Your poisoned seeds
Find yourself elected to a different kind of creed
I believe that love alone might do these things for you
I believe that love alone might do these things for you
I believe in the power of creation
I believe in the good vibration
I believe in love alone yea yea
Won't somebody tell me what we're coming to
It might take forever till we watch those dreams come true
All the Money in the world won't buy you peace of mind
You can have it all but you still won't be satisfied
Money can't buy it, baby
Sex can't buy it, baby
Drugs can't buy it, baby
You can't buy it, baby
Now,
Hear this
Pay attention to me
'Cause I'm a rich white girl and it's plain to see
I got every kind of thing that the Money can buy
Let me tell you all about it
Let me amplify
I got diamonds?
You heard about those
I got so many that I can't close my safe at night in the dark
Lying awake in a sick dream
I believe that love alone might do these things for you
I believe that love alone might do these things for you
I believe in the power of creation
I believe in the good vibration
I believe in love alone yea yea
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Something Beautiful
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Posted:Mar 6, 2024 4:49 am
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2024 4:50 am 12497 Views
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Exhaustion can make a woman appear beautiful. Her wet hair clings to her skin and her arms are tied in place in case she regains consciousness. She is drenched in the rhapsody of his orchestrations.
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Write This Down
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Posted:Mar 5, 2024 9:18 pm
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2024 8:00 pm 11566 Views
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Dominance is not about control over a submissive. Dominance is about leading and the submissive following. These words have been said thousands of times by thousands of people. I suspect it will continue to be said for many years to come.
Submissives do not seek people to control them. They seek a leader that proves time and time again that they are qualified to follow.
Mistakes happen. Wrong decisions are made. It’s how you handle those decisions that make you reliable and trustworthy.
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Surrender
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Posted:Mar 4, 2024 8:05 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2024 8:30 pm 10422 Views
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Surrender [ suh-ren-der ]
Verb: to give oneself up, as into the power of another; submit or yield.
"The word surrender has significant roots, in which 'render' has the meaning to melt and 'sur' means super or highest. In other words, the true meaning of surrender is to melt into that which is higher than yourself."
- Margo Anand
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Speaking Up About The Silent Treatment
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Posted:Mar 2, 2024 1:48 am
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2024 4:27 am 10489 Views
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In dominant-submissive relationships, the dynamics between partners can often involve correction and discipline. However, one practice that must come under scrutiny is the use of the silent treatment as a means of punishment or correction by the dominant partner. While some may argue that silence can be an effective tool for teaching a lesson, it is crucial to distinguish between healthy forms of silence, such as silent reflection or corner time, and the detrimental effects of silent treatment.
The silent treatment, when used by a dominant to punish or correct their submissive, involves intentionally ignoring or refusing to communicate with the submissive for a prolonged period. This is often emotionally damaging and erodes trust and communication within the relationship. Instead of fostering growth and understanding, it creates feelings of rejection, isolation, and insecurity in the submissive partner.
One of the key differences between silent treatment and other forms of silent correction, such as silent reflection or corner time, lies in the intention behind the silence. When a dominant imposes a period of silent reflection or corner time, it is typically done to provide the submissive with an opportunity to reflect on their behavior and understand the consequences of their actions. This form of correction is accompanied by clear communication from the dominant about why the punishment is being administered and what the submissive can do to improve their behavior in the future.
In contrast, the silent treatment is usually employed as a way for the dominant to exert control or manipulate the submissive. Rather than fostering understanding and growth, it serves to create a power imbalance within the relationship, with the dominant holding all the cards and the submissive left feeling powerless and confused.
Furthermore, the silent treatment can have long-lasting effects on the emotional well-being of the submissive partner. Being ignored or shut out by someone they care about can lead to feelings of worthlessness, anxiety, and depression. Over time, it can damage the foundation of trust and intimacy upon which healthy relationships are built.
The silent treatment should not be used as a form of punishment or correction within a dominant-submissive relationship. Instead, partners should focus on open communication, mutual respect, and constructive forms of correction that promote growth and understanding. By avoiding the use of the silent treatment and embracing healthier forms of discipline, dominants and submissives can cultivate stronger, more fulfilling relationships built on trust, respect, and empathy.
©TLK2024
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Leap Day
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Posted:Feb 29, 2024 9:09 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2024 5:45 am 9911 Views
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Every four years, we are given one extra day. One more stretch of hours to do whatever we want with. Use them. Be productive, be lazy, or how about a bit of both. One extra chunk of 24 hrs to fill with kindness and gratitude perhaps. Maybe reach out to someone you maybe haven’t talked to in a long time. Or do something so outside your safe little box of comfort, you’ll remember it forever; really amp up your weird. Skydive nude. Or don’t, it’s your day. Maybe use your bonus day to build something, draw, write twaddle, cross stitch, paint, or do ridiculously difficult origami. Blindfolded. Get crafty. Get sweaty. Get horizontal. Get a tattoo. Get drunk. Get on the road and drive somewhere you’ve never been. Get cultured and visit a gallery or museum or see a play. Eat something you swore you’d never put in your mouth. Do it alone or with your partner in crime. Just don’t let this day slump into the pile of all those other mundane, forgettable, run of the mill days. Today is rare. Use these unique hours with purpose and intent. You can be boring tomorrow.
@daily-esprit-descalier
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Sweet, Desperate & Erotic
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Posted:Feb 29, 2024 4:35 am
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2024 5:44 am 9640 Views
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My heart races and I'm breathless before his lips ever meet mine. I feel him pulsing inside me and he hasn't quite touched me. It's his hand on my chin. How he pulls my mouth to his and I'm on tippy toes and my body melts into him when we start. My lips meet his kiss for kiss, for bite. It's sweet and then it's something else. Something else in between sweet and desperate and erotic and I bend to his will. His hands have moved to my neck and below and I can't hide my need for him because he can feel it on his fingertips. He can see it in my eyes. He can smell it. He can hear it and he swallows up my moans with his mouth. I bite his lip and my nails dig into his shoulders. Concerned with nothing but pulling pleasure from the center of my soul and holding it in his hands. Between his teeth. It's reckless kisses. It's fire. All of me begging for more. To never stop what he's started. My pleasure is his sole purpose. My impossible hunger was sated by him a thousand times over. And I'm left in awe of so many things in these moments, but most of this complete contradiction of sweet and savage and how perfectly they blend into these beautiful colors upon my skin.
her-reconciled-heart
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Kissing
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Posted:Feb 28, 2024 5:04 am
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2024 5:38 am 8592 Views
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“We kiss again and this time, it feels familiar. I know exactly how we fit together, his arm around my waist, my hands on his chest, the pressure of his lips on mine. We have each other memorized.”
— Veronica Roth, Divergent
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~Love
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Posted:Feb 28, 2024 1:41 am
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2024 5:18 am 7752 Views
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Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness, errors, and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, witherings, and tarnishings.
~Anais Nin
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No Lifestyle Wishing Well
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Posted:Feb 27, 2024 1:45 am
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2024 12:44 am 7594 Views
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In exploring the D/S lifestyle, newcomers often exhibit a sense of idealism, particularly those embarking on their first foray into seeking a lifestyle relationship. Despite the presence of realists, some individuals possess an overly romanticized view. They may believe that D/S relationships offer a remedy for past vanilla relationship woes. Here are some truths about real-life D/S relationships:
Finding a compatible partner is no easy feat. While simple kinky encounters may abound, seeking a deeper connection can resemble chasing the end of a rainbow. The search for a suitable partner demands patience, as the pool of potential candidates is limited.
Disagreements are inevitable. Contrary to a common misconception, securing a partner does not ensure smooth sailing. Like any relationship, D/S partnerships experience highs and lows.
Effort is essential. Just like vanilla relationships, D/S dynamics require ongoing work, especially during challenging times. Despite tales of effortless bliss, the reality often involves confronting issues head-on.
Dominants are not infallible. Despite perceptions of perfection, they, like submissives, are prone to mistakes. Acknowledging imperfection is crucial for maintaining realistic expectations.
Strength is not constant. Every dominant will face trials, necessitating support from their submissive. There are instances where the submissive must lead during periods of adversity.
Communication is paramount. While a deep connection may foster a sense of telepathy, effective communication remains vital. Misaligned communication styles can hinder long-term compatibility.
Not all relationships last indefinitely. The dissolution of a D/S partnership can inflict deeper emotional wounds than a vanilla breakup. Despite the pain, healing and new connections are possible.
Those new to the lifestyle must understand that while D/S relationships differ in many aspects, they are still subject to the challenges inherent in any relationship. With dedication and the right partner, these relationships can weather life's storms and flourish.
©TLK2024
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