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It's Been Too Long...
張貼於:2024年 1月 22日 4:07 am
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When of the best parts of a D/s relationship is just reaching out and grabbing someone. the hair, ass, hip, or hand; roughly or sweet and soft: any and all options are perfect because you get that little startled reaction that turns into a smile as they stumble into being pressed against you. And when you kiss them afterward… Slow and sensual? Hard and needy? A little gentle kiss on the tip of the nose or forehead or the sort of kissing that leaves them moaning and grinding into your thigh? It doesn’t matter what kind of kiss it is. The treasure is that smile you get afterward, and the look in their eye telling you they’re yours.

It's been too long...

~lovethythrall
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Feelings
張貼於:2024年 1月 21日 2:21 am
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~Sunday Sway
張貼於:2024年 1月 20日 10:22 pm
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* Have You Seen Me Lately? ~ Counting Crows ~ Live Across A Wire ( Live In NYC)
* Trapped ~ Bruce Springsteen ~ The Essential Bruce Springsteen
* Nutshell ~ Alice In Chains ~ Jar Of Flies
* Cautionary Tale ~ Dylan Le Blanc ~ Cautionary Tale
* Fell On Black Days ~ Soundgarden ~ Superunknown
* Can't Find My Way Home ~ Blind Faith ~ Blind Faith
* Tweeter And The Monkey Man ~ Traveling Wilburys~ The Traveling Wilburys Vol. I
* Ten Years Gone ~ Jimmy Page & The Black Crowes~ Live At The Greek
* That Glow ~ St. Paul & The Broken Bones ~ Half The City
* Hell Come~ Leiliana Wolfgramm ~ I Burn
* Fire ~ Jimi Hendrix ~ Are You Experienced?

Have You Seen Me Lately ~ Counting Crows

Get away from me, just get away from me
This isn't gonna be easy, but I don't need you
Believe me
Yeah, you got a piece of me
But it's just a little piece of me
And I don't need anyone
And these days, I feel like I'm fading away
Like sometimes when I hear myself on the radio

Have you seen me lately?
Have you seen me lately?
Have you seen me lately?
I was out on the radio, starting to change
Somewhere out in America, it's starting to rain
Could you tell me the things you remember about me?
And have you seen me lately?

I remember me and all the little things that make up a memory
Like she said she loved to watch me sleep
Like she said
"It's the breathing, it's the breathing in and out and in and..."

Have you seen me lately?
Have you seen me lately?
Have you seen me lately?
I was out on the radio, starting to change
Somewhere out in America, it's starting to rain
Could you tell me the things you remember about me?
And have you seen me lately?

You know, I thought that someone would notice
I thought somebody would say something if I was missing
Can't you see me?
Come on, color me in
Come on, color me in
Come on, color
Come on, come on, come on, come on
Give me your blue rain
Give me your black sky
Give me your green eyes
Come on, give me your white skin
Come on, give me your white skin
Come on, give me your white skin

'Cause I was out on the radio, starting to change
Somewhere out in America, it's starting to rain
Could you tell me the things you remember about me?
And have you seen me lately?
Have you seen me lately?
Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah
Have you seen me lately?
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Sunrise, Sunrise.
張貼於:2024年 1月 19日 1:42 am
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"There is a moment in every dawn when light floats, and there is the possibility of magic. Creation holds its breath.”

― Douglas Adams, The Ultimate Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy

Photo Taken By : Me

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A Well Read Submissive..
張貼於:2024年 1月 18日 2:26 am
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I love intelligent girls. Absolutely adore them. And I find those who are passionate about reading and writing share a common thread. They all yearn for an equally intelligent Dominant who can reach deep into their erotic “centers”, rip the pages from their fantasies, and give them a lifetime of living, breathing memories.

An intelligent submissive appreciates the beauty of the dance on the fringe. She is a strong, independent, talented, capable woman in her own right, yet she hungers for a Dominant who can fuck her mind long before he touches her body. She needs a man who can respect her as an intellectual equal but effortlessly assume his role as Dominant - the only man she would ever consider yielding to. For her, this need is utterly palpable. She can feel his hands through his words, his voice, and his instruction.

And herein is my secret insight. Intelligent, gifted submissives are the naughtiest, sluttiest, hungriest girls imaginable. They can give themselves completely up to the man they trust and respect and go places they do not yet know they are capable of going. They are insatiable once leashed (note the irony). And they hunger to experience whatever their man challenges them with and sate him with the gift of their bodies and their talents.

*Author Unknown
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Time
張貼於:2024年 1月 18日 1:56 am
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The future is fastidious and punctual. It keeps perfect time and arrives everywhere on the dot. In contrast, its slacker brother, the past has no use for clocks or appointments. It comes and goes as it pleases, in our memory, camping out wherever the hell it damn well wants to in there. Untrustworthy, prone to exaggeration, biased— you wouldn’t lend it ten cents, but it sure can be charming and seductive when it feels like it.”

~Jonathan Carroll
*Archive
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What I’ve Learned As A Plus Size Girl That’s Into D/s
張貼於:2024年 1月 15日 3:49 am
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1. I am not going to be everyone’s cup of tea and that’s okay.
Okay, ladies, it's honesty time. I’m a bigger girl. I have thighs, hips, and large breasts. Not everyone is going to be down with that. Those who do stick around are those who matter. So what if you have a tummy and like to be tied up? I promise some guy somewhere will love every inch of you.

2. I don’t look like most porn photos.
You know exactly what I am talking about. The photos that flood your feed, my feed, and even pictures you may have on your blog. Scantily clad women with svelte, slim bodies, flat tummies, skinny thighs, a tight butt, and not even a hint of cellulite. Let me tell you a little tip though…NO ONE looks like that. Even the models don’t look like that. Photoshop is magic.

P.S. This applies to men too. Not all of you have a six-pack, chiseled jawlines, and perpetually wear a suit…but guess what? You’re still hot!

3. I will get criticized for my size.
This is no secret. I can’t tell you how many times I have been told I need to lose weight or “Sorry but I’m not into fat girls”. Oh well, your loss. Trust me it sucks but as I said before someone will love your tummy, big butt, thick thighs, cellulite, and rolls. Someone out there thinks you are the sexiest thing to walk this earth.

4. I am just as sexy as anyone else. Being plus size is beautiful. So what if you have a few extra pounds? Love the body that you're in, and others will too.

5. D/s is for everyone!
I’ve been told several times that due to being bigger, I will never find a Sir/Daddy/Master. This is simply not true. I have found a few. I’ve been into D/s for about 25 years now and men find no problems with me being plus-sized. Well, some have but they don’t matter. Whether you are a size 2 or 22 D/s is for you.

6. Not all littles are “little”.
I am not a little, I have little tendencies but I have seen so many pics on DD/lg blogs where all the girls are tiny and cute. Well, guess what you can be cute and little and still have a tummy. Daddy will love you just the same.

7. Porn is unrealistic so stop stressing.
Porn is pretty to look at and fun to watch but we all know that it isn’t real. It’s a fantasy. It’s a perfect dream scenario. It can be a guideline and a fun way to get ideas but it will never be 100% accurate. Laugh at your mistakes and imperfections. Sex is supposed to be fun. If you have never laughed during sex you are having bad sex. So what if you can’t twist your body like that? You are a person, not a pretzel.

8. Beauty is only skin deep.
Cliché but true. There is so much more to beauty, love, and D/s than what your body looks like. Men want real—honest, smart, funny, loyal, etc. Yeah, a hot body catches the eye but a charming personality ignites the soul.

9. Love yourself.
Another cliché but an important one. Take it from someone who has been there. Dom’s HATE when their sub talks down about themselves. It hurts them in more ways than you know. 1. It hurts because they love you and you can’t see that you are gorgeous to them. 2. They feel like a failure. When a sub is down on herself, a Dom feels like he has failed her. A Dom wants his sub to feel loved, cherished, and important. If she is upset about how she looks he feels like he has let her down. Also, self-love is important because you know the saying “You must love yourself before you love anyone else”.

10. I’m a confident, sexy, beautiful, plus-sized submissive, and I KICK-ASS!!!
Hell yes. I am plus-sized but so the fuck what? I’m hot as hell. I am smart, funny, sarcastic, strong, and one hell of a conversationalist. I am not what the porn industry would make you believe submissive looks like but I still kick just as much ass as those women do. No matter your size BDSM is for all. Be confident. Be sexy. Be beautiful. Stay Kinky.

*Author Unknown

*Archive
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Your submissive used their safeword: time to R.E.A.D!
張貼於:2024年 1月 15日 2:59 am
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Safewords happen. They are vital to healthy and safe BDSM activity. The first time hearing a safeword, though, can be a panic moment for a new dominant, so when it happens, just remember to R.E.A.D:

React- Stop play immediately, undo any ties or bindings and get your submissive into a comfortable position.

Evaluate- determine whether or not your submissive is capable of communicating and if they are in immediate physical danger. Determine the type of care they need.

Administer care- this can take many forms depending on what kind of care they need, but will often take the form of hydration and cuddling. At this point, you should also be reassuring your submissive that you are proud of them for using their safe word responsibly.

Debrief- once your submissive is capable of clear speech, have an open and honest conversation with them about what went wrong in the scene. Make sure to ask what they felt and have them walk through the experience from their end. Make sure you show empathy and encourage your submissive to speak freely, as these debriefs are one of the ways we learn.

Sometimes these steps happen all at once and sometimes they are spaced out over a relatively long period of time, but always remember to R.E.A.D any time a safeword is used!

Play safe!
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Salvation
張貼於:2024年 1月 13日 1:33 am
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People say it's just sex, but who the fuck wants just sex. I want all the before. All the words. The unraveling of my desires, meticulously noted. Strummed through with care. I want the gentleman and the gentleness. I want the secrets and the little I thought of you. I want someone to break me down slowly. Break me apart from the inside out. Starting with my mind and heart and when they finally get to my body, they know what to do with it. They aren't a stranger. They aren't foreign. I'm familiar and soft and wild in their hands. There's nothing taboo between us because everything about us has been spilled. Shared. They can read my eyes and hear my moans and my whimpers and know the words they equate to. They've memorized me. They've craved me. They've wanted and waited. When we finally strip down behind closed doors, it's way more than just sex. It's salvation.

~her-reconciled-heart
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Women
張貼於:2024年 1月 10日 1:33 am
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I have come across many women in my lifetime. women with alluring eyes, and amazing smiles. women with lovely bodies, and endless curves. I have come across women from all walks of life, that have the exteriors of a goddess. but the women that always remain the most memorable to me, are the women with beautiful minds. the women who cause mind orgasms and stimulate every part of my soul. the women who have plenty of layers to their soul and get more beautiful as you unpeel the surface. the women you can have a conversation with about ideas, spirituality, and art at 3 a.m. the women who can feed your soul effortlessly and share their energy unselfishly. the women who have stories to tell about love, heartache, and growth. the women with more to them than meets the eye. a beautiful face will keep me intrigued for a short time, but a beautiful mind will keep me intrigued forever.

— iambrillyant
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