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Posted:May 20, 2024 12:56 am
Last Updated:May 20, 2024 6:07 am 852 Views
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With age and experience, she realized that all men were different. Some only knew how to talk about the things they craved. Some men followed thru on all the things they talked about, but more importantly, some men actually knew what the fuck they were doing when they pulled you into their darkness. Into their bed. Selfless. Intentional. Methodical men who took their time and gave you everything you could ever want. Men that when you left them, you knew owned every part of your body and heart and soul. Men that ruined you for anyone else after them.
~her-reconciled-heart
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My Mind
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Posted:May 16, 2024 8:03 pm
Last Updated:May 19, 2024 8:57 am 3463 Views
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My mind is, in my opinion, my most valuable asset. My submissive soul and the hardwired need in my core to serve and please mixed with the depths of my imagination provide endless opportunities for exploration. Most men can make a woman’s body respond and elicit orgasms, but the rare man with the insight and ability to lead and control her mind will own something much deeper.
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Sex
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Posted:May 14, 2024 10:53 am
Last Updated:May 20, 2024 1:42 am 5772 Views
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The Consistent Thread
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Posted:May 13, 2024 4:45 am
Last Updated:May 15, 2024 11:11 pm 6977 Views
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Consistency stands as a cornerstone in the dynamic of Dominant/Submissive relationships, playing a pivotal role in fostering trust, stability, and growth within the dynamic. For the dominant partner, consistency is not merely a choice but a responsibility, as it lays the foundation for the structure and guidance essential to the submissive's well-being. However, the onus of consistency does not rest solely on the dominant's shoulders. The submissive, too, must demonstrate unwavering consistency in their submission, aligning their actions with their commitment to the dynamic. Together, both partners must uphold consistency in their devotion to each other, ensuring a harmonious and fulfilling relationship.
In a D/S relationship, the dominant assumes the role of providing structure and guidance to the submissive. Consistency in
enforcing rules, protocols, and boundaries is paramount, as it establishes a sense of security and predictability for the submissive. Without consistent reinforcement, the structure may falter, leading to confusion and insecurity within the dynamic. Therefore, the dominant must demonstrate unwavering consistency in upholding these aspects, thereby fostering an environment conducive to the submissive's growth and fulfillment.
For the submissive, consistency manifests through their unwavering dedication to their role. Consistency in submission involves more than just obeying commands; it encompasses a mindset of devotion and obedience in all aspects of the relationship. By consistently honoring their commitments and fulfilling their duties, the submissive reinforces their trustworthiness and reliability to the dominant. This consistency not only deepens the bond between partners but also strengthens the foundation of the dynamic, allowing both parties to thrive within their respective roles.
Beyond individual consistency, the true strength of a D/S relationship lies in the mutual devotion between partners. Both the dominant and the submissive must consistently prioritize and nurture their connection, recognizing it as a sacred bond built on trust, respect, and mutual understanding. Through open communication, unwavering support, and shared experiences, they reinforce their commitment to each other, fostering a relationship that transcends mere roles and titles. It is this shared devotion that sustains the dynamic through challenges and trials, ensuring its longevity and vibrancy.
Consistency serves as the bedrock upon which successful D/S relationships are built. From the unwavering guidance of the dominant to the steadfast submission of the submissive, and the mutual devotion of both partners, consistency permeates every aspect of the dynamic. By prioritizing consistency, partners create a stable and fulfilling relationship characterized by trust, growth, and profound intimacy. Thus, in the realm of D/S relationships, consistency is not merely a virtue but an indispensable necessity for enduring connection and fulfillment.
©TLK2024
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Sunrise , Sunrise.
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Posted:May 11, 2024 10:23 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 10:13 am 8524 Views
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“Sunrise.
Nature is more beautiful than dreams.
So wake up early”
― Mohammed Zaki Ansari, "Zaki's Gift Of Love"
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Undress....
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Posted:May 11, 2024 1:31 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 4:08 am 8743 Views
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There was a pause after he said the word.
“Undress.”
He didn’t ask. He didn’t make it easy by simply stripping the clothes from her body, paving the way for his hands to touch all the places she’d longed for him to touch. He merely gave the command and sat back, watching her with hot, hooded eyes to see what she would do.
The pause seemed to stretch out into minutes, hours as her shaky self-confidence warred with her instinctive desire to please him. Each button slipped from its hole was a fragile victory; each creamy inch of skin bared another triumph - his, over her.
Her fingers trembled. She fought to suck in her tummy, to keep her pretty smile in place when the weight of his eyes made her want to pull her clothes back on and hide. When the dress slipped from her shoulders to pool around her ankles, leaving her standing there in her lacy bra and skimpy panties, her teeth worrying her lower lip as she fought the urge to cover herself.
He waited while she worked out the conclusion that she was not finished with his request. He didn’t hide the growing bulge in his pants or the hunger for her in his eyes. He refused to let her turn away or look down, holding her gaze even as her slender fingers unhooked her bra and let it fall away, then pushed her panties down impatiently, as if eager to finally be done with the process.
“Lovely,” he said, bringing a flush of pleasure to her cheeks. “Kneel.”
And for that request, there was no hesitation at all.
*Author Unknown
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Life
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Posted:May 6, 2024 3:32 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 9:35 am 13529 Views
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There’s so much more to life than finding someone who will want you or being sad over someone who doesn’t. There’s a lot of wonderful time to be spent discovering yourself without hoping someone will fall in love with you along the way, and it doesn’t need to be painful or empty. You need to fill yourself up with love. Not anyone else. Become a whole being on your own. Go on adventures, fall asleep in the woods with friends, wander around the city at night, sit in a coffee shop on your own, write on bathroom stalls, leave notes in library books, dress up for yourself, give to others, smile a lot. Do everything with love, but don’t romanticize life like you can’t survive without it. Live for yourself and be happy on your own. It isn’t any less beautiful, I promise.
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Sunday Sway
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Posted:May 5, 2024 5:49 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 4:15 am 13849 Views
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* Miracles ~ Jefferson Airplane ~ Red Octopus
* Losing My Touch~ Keith Richards ~ 40 Licks
* Have A Cigar ~ Pink Floyd ~ Wish You Were Here
* Mandolin Wind ~ Rod Stewart ~ Every Picture Tells A Story
* You Can't Put Your Arms Round A Memory ~ Johnny Thunders ~ So Alone
* Gimme Danger ~ The Stooges ~ A Million In Prizes
* The Battle Of Evermore ~ Led Zeppelin ~ Led Zeppelin IV
* Time And Time Again ~ Counting Crows ~ August And Everything After
* Dreaming ~ Blondie ~ Eat To The Beat
* Oh ~ Dave Matthews Band ~ Some Devil
* Set Adrift On Memory Bliss ~ PM Dawn ~ Latest & Greatest
* I Am The Moon ~ The White Buffalo ~ Darkest Darks, Lightest Lights
Losing My Touch ~ Keith Richards
Ain't it funny how things happen
Just as we think we've got it all straight
Everything seems to be moving forward
But instead we just sit around and wait
Seems things are in a lock down
Nervous looks all around
Everyone is speaking in whispers
No one wants to make a sound
I'm losing my touch, yeah
Losing my touch
Losing my touch baby, way too much
Baby, get me out of here
It should be clear
Keep an eye on on your front door, baby
I'll be slipping in round the back
I just need a little, a little cab fare
And then I'll let you hit the sack
Cause I'm losing my touch
Losing my touch
Yes I'm losing my touch way too much
Baby, get me out of here
It should be clear, yes
I ain't going to keep it long, baby
But just long, long enough
I've got to pick up my passports
And I've got to get my stuff
Cause I'm losing my touch
Just losing my touch, baby, baby, baby
I'm losing my touch way, way too much
Baby, get me out of here
Well it must be clear
Losing my touch
Yes I'm losing my touch
Yes I'm losing my touch way too much
Baby get me out of here
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Beyond The Bare
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Posted:May 1, 2024 6:40 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 11:47 pm 18383 Views
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Social media throws a constant curveball: nudity equates to intimacy. Sizzling swimsuit pictures? Connection. Shirtless selfies? It must be true love. But hold on a beat, everyone, because author Joanna Lannister just delivered a truth bomb that will rewrite the rules of intimacy.
Joanna declares:
Do you think you've seen her naked because she removed her clothes? Tell me about her dreams. What ignites her passion and what brings tears to her eyes? Tell me about her childhood. Better yet, tell me a story about her that does not include you.
Mic drop. Joanna redefined intimacy for the 21st century, and it is about to get serious.
Consider this. You can see someone stripped bare, but have you ever glimpsed the vibrant tapestry woven from their hopes, fears, and wildest dreams? Do you know the stories etched into their soul, the ones that shaped who they are today? Have you ventured beyond the physical to explore the landscapes of their passions and vulnerabilities?
Because true intimacy, friends, is a journey into the depths of another human being. It is about unraveling the layers that make them unique, the stories whispered in the quiet corners of their hearts. It is about witnessing their tears and celebrating their triumphs, even when you're not the center of attention.
The next time you believe intimacy is achieved through seeing some skin, ask yourself: Can you narrate a story about them entirely separate from yourself? Can you navigate the labyrinth of their dreams? If not, then perhaps it is time to crack open that fascinating book you have been skimming through and truly delve into the depths of who they are.
We can rewrite the script. We can redefine intimacy as a profound connection that transcends the physical. Celebrate the stories that make us human, the vulnerabilities that bind us, and the dreams that ignite our souls. Because that, friends, is where the real magic happens.
©TLK2024
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Limits in BDSM
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Posted:Apr 25, 2024 11:14 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 11:47 pm 20640 Views
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In every new relationship, at some point, the topic of limits will be discussed. What are your limits?
Everybody has limits, in fact. It could be for health reasons, phobias, fear, safety, triggers, or any other reason that is unappealing or disliked. If it is unacceptable, unappealing, and unwanted it will be a limit. There will come a point in a relationship when something will become a limit. Think about this hypothetical scenario; a Dom suddenly decides he wants to see his sub-gang banged by a bar full of guys. Is that perfectly acceptable for him to do this without her consent? With no discussion or thought of her safety and well-being? What about her morals and ethics? Still okay with this scenario? She claims she has no limits, right?
For those who are uncertain or confused about what limits are, there are two main types - Hard and soft limits. A soft limit is something that may not be what you think you want at this time but are willing to try in the right circumstance or with a particular Dominant. Or you would be willing for your Dom to persuade you in a scene if the conditions were suitable. A hard limit is something that should never be done under any circumstance. The line in the sand is never to be crossed. As the relationship develops and a greater amount of trust is established, limits may very well change. What was once a hard limit may become something that is now pleasurable and part of a scene or may become a soft limit. Likewise, a soft limit may become a hard limit. In time, your risk levels will expand. For this reason, limits should be discussed from time to time to establish these new boundaries.
To establish limits and discover what your limits are, discuss what appeals to you and what you find unappealing. Whether or not you like or dislike an activity is a matter of personal choice, taste, and experience. For the new submissive, it’s important to look inside yourself and discover what your boundaries and limits are before searching for a partner. This could be absolutely anything you do not like, want, find appealing or whatever. Maybe you hate your feet being touched? Maybe being enclosed in a tight space because you suffer from claustrophobia? There are also unwritten or obvious limits that need no written contract, which is anything illegal, animals, minors, etc. which are far outside the ‘moral’ code of human behavior and a D/s relationship. Basically, anything that is of no interest to either partner will be outside their boundaries and will not come into the dynamic and become absolutes.
Pre-arranged limits are different from personal limits. These are mutually agreed upon by both partners before a D/s relationship is entered into. These could include; no third parties allowed into the relationship, maximum number of people allowed to join a scene, etc. These lines are never to be crossed without a prior discussion at the very least.
Limits are also used to help determine compatibility when searching for a partner. A little may search for a Daddy Dom, but if the DD has a hard limit RE ageplay and that’s your kink… or maybe you don’t like pain and your new Dom has a limit that insists on sadism towards the sub. Again, communication is the way forward.
Limits can also be positive with regard to D/s. For example, a submissive may only enter into a scene (or relationship) with the strict instruction that a lot of spanking is to be included or she is not willing to participate (or enter into a relationship).
In a long-term, well-established D/s relationship there very well may be ‘no limits’ because both partners have established enough trust within the relationship and stay within the boundaries of their dynamic. To them, they play safe, safe, and consensually, and never step outside of their comfort zone. They know what is and is not acceptable. They know their own kink is in sync and want the same experiences. There is a level of trust that exists between the two partners that they can say ‘We have no limits’ because every part of their relationship is tried and tested, they are in tune and they know each other extremely well. There is no ‘outside the box’ to their dynamic, everything remains within the confines of what has already been established. Technically, they both have limits. It’s just that they are so in sync together it just ‘appears’ that they have none.
Never say you do not have any limits. Would you like to be suffocated? Tortured? Sleep naked outside? Maybe have your Dom's name tattooed on your forehead? Or branded? Now or somewhere in time, there will be something that you do not want or like or do not want to do. Know your limits and express them to your partner.
For the benefit of the reader. This article was written with the BDSM mantra of SSC, safe, sane, and consensual in mind. It is for information purposes only. Take from this what you will. This is also gendered universal.
–-Dominant Life
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