Don't be mistaken
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Posted:Dec 11, 2015 2:32 am
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Don't mistake my kindness for weakness. Just because I am a kind person does not mean I will let you walk all over me. Just because I show kindness to others does not mean I will allow myself to be used. I am not weak- I do not take crap- I will not be used- I am a kind but cautious person- who stands her ground on her own two feet and demands (and deserves) respect.
Don't mistake my respectfulness as submission or acceptance of a lower status. Don't think that because I treat you with respect that you have earned or will be granted my submission. Don't ever believe that because I respect other I am admitting that I am am a lower class of person. I was raised right- to always show the proper respect to those who deserve it. I want to be respected by others so I will always show you respect until you prove to me that you don't deserve it. I'm old fashioned in that manner and I believe in respecting my elders, men, women, friends and acquaintances in the manner in which I would want to be respected. I will give you my respect but that does not give you the right to abuse that respect or to disrespect me.
Don't mistake my caring big heart as an invitation to leave foot prints on it. Don't think that just because I care about you gives you the right to control my emotions and make me sad or unhappy. Caring is a part of human nature and I really enjoying caring about others and the immense joy it brings me. Showing and telling others that I care makes me happy and is a big part of my personality. I try to care about the people in my life the same way that I want to be cared for by them. Caring makes me different then many people and I do give myself to others openly- but this is not an excuse or invitation to hurt me or to abuse my caring nature. My caring is a special gift and it should be cared for as such.
Don't mistake my helpfulness for act of submission or for a way to control me in any way. Don't think that because I offer to help you that I want to sleep with you, play with you, be submissive to you, or be your property. I have had many ups and downs in my life and various people have been there to help me when I needed it. I truly believe that we should all pay it forward and I am honored to help my acquaintances and friends whenever possible. Helping others brings me inner joy from the act and even more joy from the persons happiness and gratitude, However this does not mean that you should rely on me for everything, abuse my help, or mistake for anything more then what it truly is- one person giving a helping hand to another who clearly needs it.
Don't mistake my innocence and optimism as a sign of feebleness. Don't think that because I choose to see the best in the world and in people that you need to "teach me a lesson" about how big bad and scary the world is. I have lived, I have experienced things, yet I choose to look at the world through rose colored glasses. I believe that there is good in everyone and people deserve a second chance. That does not mean that I will allow your abuse, negativity or drama invade or ruin my life. I enjoy my happy little bubble and the way that I see the world. It is not because I feeble- it is because I want to be happy and I choose to be happy. Don't come into my world and try to pop my bubble, you will be the only one who is saddened and disappointed from it.
Don't mistake my honesty for stupidity. I believe in being honest and upfront in every aspect of my life where that is possible. I am not stupid- I know I can get ahead or get what I want by lying but that's not me and that not how I want to live my life. Being honest doesn't make me stupid- it makes me braver then most people out there. I do not believe in sugar coating things, playing semantics, or putting a spin on things to make the answer what you want it to be or what I think it should be. So don't think I'm stupid because I am honest and be sure that you don't ask me a question unless you really truly want a totally honest answer- because that is exactly what you are going to get from me- like it or not.
Don't mistake my open sexuality with an invitation... For anything. Don't think that just because I love sex and I love to play that I want to do these things with you- especially not right away. I have learned to love and accept myself and my sexual desires and to be open with them. I flirt and I tease but I'm always upfront about my intentions- if you want to know if we are going to fuck or play or date- just ask me and I will tell you ( bit I am going to tell you the truth even if it may not be what you want to hear). But just because I am open with my sexuality does not give you the right to touch me without permission, to assume you can have me, or to treat me as only a sex object. I am a person- a very sexual and honest person but I'm still a person. My openness and outward sexuality does not mean that I belong to you and is not an invitation to treat me like I do.
Ok so I'm a submissive in a kinky world which can get pretty scary for submissive sometimes. On top of that I am kind, big hearted, helpful, honest to a fault,, forgiving, accepting, innocent, optimistic and sexual- more things which make this world even scarier. But I'm not weak, feeble, stupid, naive, easy or willing to be used and abused. Don't mistake me for one of these things- I am who I am and I know that this lifestyle can leave me open to hurt and disappointment. But I'm always watching my own back too (and have some good friends helping), so if you mistake me for one if these things and don't treat me right- you will be the only who is sorry because you are the one missing out on having a great person in your life! Don't be mistaken!
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