being an adult isn't always easy
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Posted:Jan 13, 2024 7:25 am
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2024 9:30 pm 1625 Views
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as adults we should accept responsibility for our actions. if you hurt someone purposely >i'm not talking about consensual paly< the damage to our mental and emotional state sometimes will never heal fully. in every relationship be it platonic, sexual, power exchange,,, Communication, Honesty, Moral Fiber, Taking Responsibility >Dominant as well as submissive, Top or bottom, etc< has to be in that relationship. if it is lacking? then you are not due any respect nor trust if your rationalization for your action/s is,,,because i wanted it, and i was going to have it my way. 99 times out of 100,,,you would be wrong.
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words and actions
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Posted:Jan 5, 2019 5:10 pm
Last Updated:Nov 13, 2021 2:29 pm 2724 Views
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words are written on water. actions are carved in stone
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an awesome person
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Posted:Aug 30, 2018 3:28 am
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2021 2:59 pm 5894 Views
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a beautiful face will age a perfect body will change an awesome person will always be an awesome person
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the meaning behind the answer "nothing" when you ask what is wrong
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Posted:Jun 9, 2017 5:40 am
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2023 4:32 am 9406 Views
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As time goes by in all relationships there are times that you >the female< is asked if something is wrong. The typical answer many times is,,, nothing. This answer has been known to strike fear in the hearts of courageous men. We know that there are several layers to the answer of "nothing" 1) everything is fine and there is nothing wrong. 2) we are not sure if you did something wrong,,,not sure if we have a reason to be cranky. this by itself is upsetting to us. so,,,the answer really is nothing for this one. we are just going to mull it over for a bit. 3) you did/said something that hit a nerve with us. it isn't something that is really wrong. but it did upset us. 4) run for the hills. there really is something that is wrong. our mind is trying to decide how to tell you what is wrong so that you will understand exactly why we are upset with you. or we could just be deciding on just how long will it take karma to catch up to you or taking it into our own hands and be madam karma.
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if you want something to last forever
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Posted:May 21, 2017 6:00 pm
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2018 4:28 am 9548 Views
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If you want something to last forever,you treat it differently. You shield it and protect it. You never abuse it. You don't expose it to the elements. You don't make it common or ordinary. If it ever becomes tarnished, you lovingly polish it until it gleams like new. It becomes special because you have made it so, and it grows more beautiful and precious as time goes by. Elder F. Burton Howard.
I found this and the truth in it is so simple. We have become a throw away society. We have forgotten how to care for something or someone,,, and keep it forever.
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a bird in the hand
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Posted:Nov 12, 2016 7:26 am
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2017 12:45 am 14569 Views
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there is an old saying,,,a sparrow in thy hand is better than a thousand sparrows flying
there are so many times i will see that someone has a person who cares about them. is loyal and honest. yet they are so certain that there is something better,,,different,,,etc that because they are so very special,,,they want to throw away the good person who is devoted to them, to run after something that is only their ego wanting to be stroked. they may end up "catching" one of those sparrows only to find that what they had was a thousand times more worth and that it is now gone.
why is it some people never grow up and see what they are blessed with?
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Just a thought
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Posted:Feb 6, 2016 11:46 am
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2016 2:51 am 46722 Views
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I can remember seeing an elderly couple out shopping one day. I’m not sure what it was about them that caught my eye. But as I watched them standing in front of a store window, they reached to each other and held hands. What passed thru my mind was, how wonderful, to have a bond and affection that is so strong that it has weathered countless years, countless trials and tribulations, and yet is strong and vibrant.
Since seeing that, I have lived thru the loss of my husband. Struggled alone to rais our to best of my ability. Have traveled the pathway of life alone, learning to survive and to enjoy the small wonders and happiness of life.
There have been many times that my thoughts have gone back to that couple. In this “life style” is it not the purpose to find the right fit. To find that one person that you would live or die for. To be able to trust without a fraction of doubt, to honor, to obey, to respect?
Each of us has our own views, our own answers. Yet, I find that as I visit alt I see all of us share something. We are looking, searching. Actively or not, we are trying to find something that is fulfilling to us. be it just companionship to help fill the lonely hours, or to try to ,,in all dreams and hopes to perhapse,,,just perhapse be that lucky to find the answering heartbeat that we know stands just on the other side of the door waiting to be opened. To be lucky enough not to find the liars and users, the cheaters and the destroyers of dreams.
With all grace and fortune, may we all find our heart’s desire.
*~listen to your heartbeat and dance~*
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empty
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Posted:Nov 2, 2009 11:19 pm
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2011 2:22 pm 53387 Views
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she leaves the safety of her tree, walks to the center of the flower strewn glenn, the satin of her skirts moving against her legs as she walks. stands quietly looking up at the stars and moons in the night sky. Her mind turning inward. thoughts deep and strong. she listens to the wind singing thru the trees, to the music that is nature itself. Her body begins to pulse with the life around her, the harshness of nature mixing with the fierceness of her thoughts. slowly her body dips forward, arms reaching down then swooping outward, twisting at her waist, then slowly straightening, coming to her toes. Rises and stretches, fingers reaching towards the stars, mind wishing she could fly to those stars, away from the troublesome earth. Slowly she spins then comes back down onto her feet, arms still held wide pointing to the heavens, head tilted back flame kissed tresses falling against alabaster skin. fire against snow, ice rimming her heart, the echo a torment felt within her. desires so strong and hot that they singe her soul. Feet carry her around in circles within the glenn, her body flowing with the rhythm within her. slowly her steps become faster, leaping across the raised roots of trees, her wings flair out as she streaks into the dark sky, swirling with the gusts of the wind. Skirts fanning out like petals on a flower, body arched and pointed, slowly she comes back to ground feet touching the sweet green grass, breathing quickly, heart beating hard and fast. slowly she walks back to the shadows of her tree, stormy blue eyes still looking to the night sky. mind still searching for the calmness flight usually brings. fighting the feeling of never being good enough,,,of never being enough. sighs and climbs back into the safety of her tree.
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