How to get the D part 2 etc
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Posted:Dec 6, 2023 12:10 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2023 12:22 pm 2609 Views
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Honestly I'm not expecting any response to my original blog..
Cause I know it's a hard topic to talk about
And more guys are into it or would like to get with other men..
Than they are willing to admit.
But I find it funny how society wants to villianize the male sex drive.
Why is it wrong for men to desire sex,think about sex..be sexual..
Why is the male sex drive contrasted against the female standard ( ours being judged as " too high").
Why not theirs is too low
Without rambling on and pissing someone off..
My point today's wasn't to make men sound like immature sex freaks..
Rather male sexuality..is well..normal..
And if your having issues connecting to/ with women
Maybe you have considered men..
And hopefully realising
That being " sexual" doesn't have to be a bad thing..
It's okay to finally be
Horny
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How hard is it to get the D...as a guy
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Posted:Dec 6, 2023 9:22 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2023 5:09 am 2567 Views
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I'm off..the coffee is flowing..
I read an ad on fet where this 40 yr old guy was begging for help,tips on why he wasn't connecting with women,etc..
Honestly I could have given him some. I doubt if he would have really processed it..
CAUSE at 40..he was still acting like he was 20..
You want younger,younger don't want you..
You want sex..they want chad,that 10 percent of the male population..
Your not chad
Wash,rinse,repeat..
So maybe you've been in a similar boat..And as you turn 40,50,60..hell 70..
Maybe the thought of men has crossed your mind..
Maybe you wondered how hard it is to be with a guy.
If so then pull up a couch and let's talk...
I don't like to stereotype or generalize people..
But the 40 yr old man " looking" is a common occurrence.
And the 40,50,60,70 etc yr old man " looking" for a man is becoming more common.
I think the biggest difference in my opinion is ALOT of women from say 30 up are very relationship focused..
Maybe she's never been married or just got divorced or has etc.
The 30 something man on the other hand most likely is either bored or is divorced himself and suddenly wants to be that movie " old school"/ wants to go back to his former 20 something.
He wants to fuck..anything adult..not nailed down..
And some guys never want to get back on the relationship train cause..
Available women of a certain age come " prepackaged"...they come with ,they come past issues,baggage..
And I'm not bashing women here...a lot of guys/ divorced guys have issues too.
It's like asking for the big mac...but finding you have to get the combo...
Men? There are single men out there sans ..
So what's it like being with a guy??
No I'm not getting into that sexually...unless you really are curious..
But I'll say what guys are like in my next reply
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Married men? How do you handle the situation
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Posted:Dec 6, 2023 7:22 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2023 8:23 am 2857 Views
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I chose to blog about this topic instead of just replying to another members posting..
I figured I need the room to air out this topic..
Cause it pops up more than you think..
And obviously you can swap out married man for married woman..
But you'll find it's usually the man doing this...
I'm not even talking about cheating...
I mean a married guy ( both straight,bi,gay) will post an ad looking for..
And they will say it's all good..their partner knows,they have permission..or even..
Gay couples ALOT of times play seperate..
You'll find these ads in both the vanilla and kinky lifestyle..
So how do you broach this topic when a married guy contacts you?
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World's best lifestyle hack? Talk to an older person
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Posted:Dec 6, 2023 6:42 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2023 7:03 am 2385 Views
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I'm really suprised this generation of slackers,influencers,don't wanna work 9 to 5 generation doesn't pull the greatest life hack...
Lean on the older mother f ucker with the wrinkles,the scars..the people with knowledge and experience..for advice
Cause some things don't change.
I commented on this tiktok vid on YouTube and this young dude was flexing...
Literally boasting about how much he could " straight curl" a barbell with his back against a wall.
And while everyone was stroking his ego..
I laid the smack down..
Not because I'm jealous...of what..his youth or ability to lift a " heavy weight"??
Your boy is a forktruck...
Anyway it's hard for an " old guy" like myself to just sit back and let someone do something incorrectly..
And you know there will come that light bulb moment...down the road
Where everyone says..
I wasted x amount of years lifting incorrectly..I never got " big"..or I hurt my shoulders..
Or now I got bad knees..
I wish I would have listened..
Young buck? Your talking with a guy that has been lifting on and off for like 35 years..
He and I had a back and forth in the comment session..
Finally he wrote..
I see your point...but my way works best for me.
I replied
And your way is wrong..( I dime dropping it right there)
Someday you'll sit back and contemplate life..
You'll ask yourself where has time gone
And you'll say...
I wish I wouldn't have wasted all those years
Lifting incorrectly..
Then after a torn bicep or back back..
You'll finally be ready
To listen..
I'm not a guru..I'm not influencer..I'm not here to sell you supplement..
Or merch..( but hey imagine me on a t shirt or beer cosey)
I'm am scared, I am wrinkled, I am tired...
This is what you look like when the world
Has beaten you down for 54 yrs
This is what
Experience
Looks like.
So hey keep doing what you think is best for you..
Just saying..But this old motherfuck
At 54.. can squat,over head press,bench..( my knees,my back,my hips,my shoulders are fine..never been injured...w/o any pain)..
And hopefully when you reach 54..you can say the same..
For such a slacker generation I'm suprised they don't use this hack..
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Do people really want the experience or just the fantasy
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Posted:Dec 4, 2023 12:41 pm
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2023 6:48 am 2803 Views
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I posted this after reading something on fet..
69 yr old guy is looking for some to tie him up,explore bondage,orgasm control..
Soooooooo if your cynical like me...
Your thinking..good luck..
No way in hell does anyone really reply..
Nope,nada,zilch..not a chance
Then a slightly younger guy replies,explains he's a novice etc..
And then the 69 yr old literally dumps the fantasy barrel on this dude..
Detailing the whole thing ..in ALOT of detail
And I ponder
Bro your 69...you brought up bondage..
Got someone to actually reply
Dumped the equivalent of your literally load on this guy..
You bukatted the fucker
And most likely ghosted him..
But that's my guess..
I ponder
Do people really want to connect
Or are they just living vicariously
Hey no sweat off my brow..
But what if you were that other dude and was sincere
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What is your biggest lifestyle fear
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Posted:Dec 4, 2023 9:54 am
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2023 1:06 pm 2556 Views
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By now
Maybe you've guessed
That I missed my calling
In life..
And should have become a therapist.
I think part of my strength is
I can hold back judgement,not trying to instantly solve your problem,
Give you a wall to lean on and
Just simply listen..
So I was curious as to what holds you back from your lifestyle dreams and fantasises..
Why arent you that Big daddy Dom or super sissy slave...
What holds you back from being that kick ass Domme..
Why don't you have what you secretly desire...
And in the end
Would you be happy?
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A tinder experiment
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Posted:Dec 3, 2023 8:16 pm
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2023 8:49 am 2400 Views
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Watching this YouTubers vid where he had his female friend
Use his actual pic and sign up for tinder as a dude..
Did she have any luck getting dates???
Fyi this guy in real life is good looking..maybe an 8?.. in good shape and she listed his occupation as a psychologist in the profile...
So you tell me
What's your gut feelings on this one
I'll give the results in the reply..
So spoilers
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Should things like gender/ orientation/ age( adults im talking about) matter in bdsm
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Posted:Dec 3, 2023 8:40 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2023 5:01 am 3090 Views
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Im curious as to what different people think.
I'm not here to judge..I'm certainly not woke.
But should gender,sexual orientation,people of any age ( adults),body size,etc
Matter
When it comes to bdsm..
I understand attraction,I understand appeal..
But people see this through a sexual lens
I'm talking about bdsm,control..
And could it really open your eyes and help you find the person you seek?
I ask this because people are quick to plaster themselves with labels..
I'm straight or I'm wrapped up in the rainbow flag..
And I wonder why we automatically dismiss this other person..this whole group of people
Straight dude...have you ever paddled a f*g's ass..???
I can use that term cause..duh
I ask this in all seriousness because
Straight guys do make up a good portion of the members in m2m spanking groups and websites..
Cause it isn't sexual.
I think men turn to men for discipline for a variety of reasons.
1. Lack of resources...the straight guy is probably 40,50,60..married..
Single females want a guy,a master of their own..
So that severely limits his access to playtime..
And if his wife is his slave..
Playing with another female could cause jealousy issues.
Issues he's not gonna have with one of the boys
2. Women probably are better at pain..but I think there is this societal hesitation/ guilt/ hangover when it comes to discipling a female..as men we don't want to hurt her/ see her in pain.
But lucky for us...Men seem more attracted to discipline and being disciplined..
And any hesitation we had disciplining a woman..
Goes out the door when the submissive is male..
Plus I feel there is this societal approval for a male being disciplined..We luv watching a male idiot on YouTube eating hott stuff or getting his balls struck..we luv those americas funniest home vids and seeing dad get that wiffle ball to the testicles.
So people in general feel freer to discipline a male.
3. Guys are just bigger...and we feel like a man could take more or physically dish out more..based solely on size.
Plus his size may prompt a man to spank someone..
4. There is also that bro mentality..your with the guys..without being with the guy.
So yeah you can put sex out of the way and just play..
Once you get past gender,orientation,age ( adults),body types etc..
It actually is very refreshing and does open up alot of avenues..
And sure I get a cross dresser,a gay dude,a 60yr old, a bbw..
May not be your thang..
But I also believe your thang...
Maybe the thing that is keeping you from finding your best lifestyle match.
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