What to expect when your expecting another dude
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Posted:Dec 9, 2023 10:17 am
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2023 11:14 am 5787 Views
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First off I'm gonna say..a lot of you are probably thinking
Okay okay..you got me...
I've always had an interest but didn't know how to really process it,put it into words or even go about it..
Perhaps you wonder if your too old or what this desire really means..
In all reality it could mean nothing.. maybe your lonely,maybe your horny,maybe you'd like that friend... Which could truly be that friend.. Yet also satisfy other needs.. Which is completely fine.
Like I said before men aren't women..we aren't a substitution cause you can't pull a girl at the bar.. Men are just built different.
I think at times people get the wrong impression of m2m. People assume it means your gotta fall in love,buy a house and get married.
But it could be as simple as. ..being older on the treadmill at the gym. You enjoy watching the younger guys press the heavy weights,like the look of their tight muscular bodies. But you never had the nerve to act on the desire.
Until you do. Maybe you walk over to the rack and start to make light conversation with that guy. Afraid of what he may say..so you keep it about lifting. Ask him for advice You find he is easy to talk to,super friendly,He's super chill..
Might make a great trainer or work out bud.
You complement his body and gauge his reaction..there is that pregnant pause
Waiting for the freak out that never comes.
Your both giving off some vibes.. So yeah...you get embolden and press your luck..
And ask him if he wants to just hang out at your place..
And your shocked when he says cool.
He's hot and sweaty from the workout and asks if he can use your shower.
You shyly slide in with the offer of fresh towels.
He pulls the shower door open...he's completely naked and hard before you...
Er..hard all over.. He smiles
You look away and offer up the towels..
Only to find his aroused penis now in your hands..
He ask if you wanna join him
And soon your scrubbing his body..the dudes cock in your hand..
You towel off and ask the guy if you should move this into your bedroom..
And yeahhh....fun story..but it's that easy to find yourself balls deep into a guy.
Without it having romantic or emotional overtones..
It can be purely sexually fueled
You wanted sex,you wanted his bod,you filled him up good..
All had fun. So why stress
The next day ? you could fist bump the guy at the gym
And your cool. You could just leave it at that,you could ask him out..or just have a regular workout buddy
No need for texting,no need to be clingy or ackward..
Unlike women men don't need ALOT of whistles and bells..we don't need to be wined and dined...we don't need to go on multiple dates with you to see if your worthy of physical contact/ sex
We don't need you to be Prince charming..we don't need you to earn x amount of dollars,we don't need you to be a "boss"..
If there is attraction..there is attraction... And ALOT of attraction really starts..
For me..being honest...starts with a guy just making contact.
Willing to walk up to a guy..especially a public place and feel him out..
Just talking with him is..sexy..it's shows ALOT of confidence
you shoot your shot and see how he reacts.
And no I'm not suggesting the gym is a good place to meet men..
Another attractive thing for me is desire...your being into me is fire...so who care if your not a weight lifter etc..
I'm not saying be creepy..but desire gives off it's own vibes..
Unlike women...guys hanging out means sex...
If a dude is popping over to play videogames,listen to records,watch Netflix and get to know you better..
Your gonna get to know him ALOT better..
Especially if your confidence, perhaps suggestive or forward..
Grabbing a knee,touching my body goes along way to getting us into the bedroom.
My point of this blog....don't obsess over your desire..
It's not wrong and your not broken..
There is nothing wrong with wanted to get laid
The best way to get with a guy..is to get with a guy..get on that Harley and ride
Maybe you are that lonely guy on the treadmill...
Maybe he is that lonely guy you watch on the bench...
The easiest way to break the barrier is to take that first step..
Say that first word...
And if that scares you..well this is 2023 and there is thing al Gore invented called the internet..
Where guys gather and list...literally every sexual thing they are into..will gladly list their role, if they are into kink,their hobbies...their pics
So it's easy to find a guy that gets your dick hard..
Ironically you'll find you spent more time setting up a profile,writing an intro,taking a great pic and searching..worrying you need to be your best to pull a man
Than the time it took to have a guy come over,hang out and now your having sex.
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The difference between a male and female " bottoms" in my opinion
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Posted:Dec 9, 2023 7:35 am
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2023 1:35 pm 5316 Views
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By now you've seen me throw around the term " bottom"..
ALOT..
But that usually applied to men..
So you might ask...how about female bottoms?
That is a te
To be honest I thought that was something primarily found in the lesbian community..
It's funny how we base our theories on male behavior and then simply think it applies to women..
In this case ..yeah in m2m...physically you need a top and a bottom...it's pretty clear cut..not saying a guy can't do both...but He's usually one or the other
With lesbians...??? Think about it...it doesn't have to be.. Both can be tops or bottoms. It's not based on a sexual organ.
I'm not suggesting there can't be female " bottoms" in lesian/ lesbian lifestyle relationships..
But I think it's more mental,emotional,physical..
Then being purely sexual like men.
So why the difference?
Traditionally the bottom guy have been stereotypically portrayed as being smaller,slight of build,perhaps even a bit effeminate or nerdy
But in reality a male bottom doesn't have to be a fanboy.. He could have tons of swag,could be a chad. He can be big or buff Be masculine AF and just enjoys it in the ass.
Female bottoms operate more like the lil sister, the tag along.
Why? Because women interact as a collective and operate best as a group.
Usually everyone is equal...so nobody is assertive or Dominant..your all " friends"
But within each group there will be that girl that is just more popular,prettier,more assertive,more overtly sexual..A leader
And she will be the standards for the rest.
Sooo yeah you might have other girls..fan girling over her..may develope feelings for her
If your not as bold..just one of the group..you might see yourself as a bottom..
And that girl boss as..
A Dommy mommy..
She might be that girl bold enough to kiss other girls..
And you wish you could
I honestly think that is why a lot of women are attracted to the girl boss character..say a rhea Ripley (wwe)..
I think it allows women to safely test sexual boundaries ..but they are also attracted to this woman's boldness/ her confidence/ her swag.
Probably the reason most women want a chad..
He is the male version of the girl boss,that leader of your group.
So I think female " bottoms" do exist. But we don't openly label women like men.
See as a man I list myself as a bottom to clearly attract a male top. Two bottom guys really don't mesh..so I'm quick to advertise my sexual position... Or else I could meet a wonderful guy,waste a bunch of time and find He's a bottom too
And like I wrote previously I can't get this from a woman.. Kinda hard to find even in the lifestyle.
But female bottoms can be concealed in plain sight...hell maybe in your own bed
Cause a woman can be passive to a man.. And also passive with a woman/ girlboss.
.I'll post a few pics of rhea Ripley.. Show them to your wife,gf... And most likely.. She'll " like" the pics...will say something along the lines like she'd sleep with rhea..
Yes in that context she would bottom to her..
Cause..(and yes the wwe uses this promo with rhea..)
You call her..mommy or more receintly papi..
And fyi Rhea Ripley in real life isn't gay..
Neither is her character..but I think women get this sexual pass..they can like,be attracted to,sleep with another woman..
And as men...yeah..that's cool.
Flip the script..have cm punk suddenly demand everyone call him daddy..
Have you hubby look at a cm punk pic..
And say..yeah I'd bottom for him..
And you might have some explaining to do
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The myth of " bob".. bent over boyfriend..can we stop the cap
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Posted:Dec 8, 2023 8:53 pm
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2023 5:10 am 5024 Views
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I thought it's friday..why not slip this in.
But honestly a myth is a myth..
And you can saddle up and go on this unicorn hunt..
But brah..
No straight lady I ever known is gonna peg your straight ass..
Unless it involves the lifestyle.
The closest your ever coming to seeing a real life unicorn..
Duh? Is your host blogger..so breath it all in I luv women to death...but I don't top..I'm a bottom bottom bottom
Probably making me the ultimate giga chad.
I've never met that tom boy straight girl that just wants to top
And yeah I even tried playing the lifestyle games..
And lost
Your barking up that wrong tree if you think your gonna find that in vanilla town.
So if you wanna bottom..you gotta move to boytown..
And I'm not saying that to be mean..
I've been with straight,bi,curious,gay,lesbian,trans..
Not a boast
And never ever found my match.
I've given up hope of a female unicorn..
Cause I feel she doesn't exist
It's a myth..
Bros your wasting your time even with Dommes..
The best woman to ever strap me on was a black lesbian dyke..
And even then she freaked..
Cause your boy is sensual.
I'm a real unique unicorn..
And if I didn't find it.
I doubt you will find it either.
Bob doesn't exist unless it is lifestyle driven..
And I've probably been the closest male example I ever came across
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A Domme vs a male top..how do they compare
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Posted:Dec 8, 2023 10:46 am
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2023 5:02 am 5431 Views
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if you've been reading this week's blogs,you might have wondered..
Why doesn't a guy just get himself a Domme. .what's the real difference between a Domme and a top dude
From my experiences..
I'd say for most guys there are few settings when it comes to women..
It's either Dominatrix or mommy blogger?
We can't process the thought of a strong powerful woman without sexualizing her.
If a woman is assertive...well she is either labeled bossy or a girlboss..
Neither label really helps..
Instead guys need to look to groups like the FLR ( female lead relationship) ones
Guys will join and immediately think it's femdom or female supremistry..
But if you stick around awhile you'll realise ALOT of women in the group don't want that..
Instead they want various levels of control of a guy in a relationship..
Levels they want to define..
Cause men cant/ wont..
So in essence it's like that old sexist saying
Men want a chef in the kitchen,a lady in public and a ...in the sheets..
Well you can add dominatrix to that list..
For some men there's just kinky and vanilla..
But if you think about it there are usually only 2 types of women..
Those you bang...and those you dont..it's like if you have a female friend,your not gonna sleep with her.. And if you wants sex with her...you sorta slide her out of the friendship slot.. You most likely never gonna have a female FWB situation.
With a m2m top..?
I feel there are ALOT of slots he could easily slide into..
Starting from A dude you met for a hookup Friends to FWB Your regular Lover to calling him your bf Your daddy to your Dom
Various setting for a m2m top .. From just hanging out to Him collaring you/ owning you.
With a woman I feel a man expects that whole package... Which truly is unfair..
With a m2m top? I think the changing of the slots will happen naturally
And most likely won't suprise either one of you.
Unlike the Domme where the male has slotted her into that spot..
Yours is flexible..he could see you in ALOT of roles
Not saying you will Dom anyone..
But then again you might suprise yourself
And want that bottom guy as a slave.
With m2m I don't see it as forced
Like I said..
The real issue is men ..
With a strong woman we expect a girlboss..a Domme..an ass kicker..
With a dude? We just expect a strong man,someone confident, someone to lead/ guide.
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The separation of worlds..nilla and kink
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Posted:Dec 8, 2023 9:41 am
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2023 9:45 am 5142 Views
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I think a problem between straight and gay is The overall acceptance of the lifestyle.
Sure there are ALOT of kinky straight people..
But it's like they need to keep the two worlds seperate..
And put gandolph the grey on that bridge..
Motherfucker...you shall not passsssss!
And on the other side..in gaytown..
Yeah it's not such a big deal..
Gandolph is having unicorn sex in the porta potty and telling us To cum...one and All..
Perhaps there is a need for kink to become more mainstream..
??? Loosen society up???
I find it refreshing to watch twitch/ YouTube streams of v tube girls collaborating..
And using terminology like...
I'm such a bottom..
Or referencing most bolder,toppy streamers as
Mommy dommeys..
I think there needs to be this merging point where the lifestyle stops craving attention..
And nerfs from omg fetish..taboo..sexual
To foreplay..
And becomes a regular thing..
I think some people luv that divide between the two worlds..
Yet..walk a few miles in gayland...where guys have no problem posting personal ads of themselves in gear ( not on kink sites..i mean on regular nilla gay personal sites).
Guys can be into anal fisting...without the taboo..or even lifestyle/ slave association..
Gandolph could walk up and ask if I'm into goldenshowers..
I doubt if I would be offended.
And even the most out there fetish...besides of course the obvious..
Say being a " urinal"...
I don't automatically associate getting on all fours and opening my mouth..
As a " slave" thing..
And even if that thought of a urinal blows your mind..like omg..how gross..
I see it as a " dude" thing..
Something guys might actually do together.. Maybe something I might do..
Let's be adults here..once you had his dick in your mouth or his load..
Is this really that taboo??
Not trying to gross anyone out...just trying to say when you remove the taboo from a fetish..
Is it really that big of a deal..
Like who cares if gandolph is getting his ass fisted..
Your thoughts
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Why not use the lifestyle to get a man
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Posted:Dec 8, 2023 7:44 am
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2023 8:59 am 6258 Views
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Originally I was against this principal because I felt women were abusing it..
And by abusing it I mean they had no "real" interest in Domming someone.
Her focus seemed to primarily be the relationship
A lot of times it's like...is she looking for a boyfriend..or a slave..
And for some women it's like that...she treats the dude as a dude..until she's ready to whip it out.. And then it's like she becomes another person or she is afraid to be a Domme in public They do a scene and it's back to being jim,bob,Tim the boyfriend.
I feel this is wrong because he needs to be submissive,express himself,have a ying to his yang.. Submission isn't something you can just turn off and on.
But like I said in yesterday's blog men are different...
We aren't relationship forward...not saying we can't desire a relationship. But there is that getting know someone stage before we get serious.
In the meantime men are very sex and play fueled.
I think it's okay for men to use the lifestyle to get guys ..
Why?
Unlike women ...even if a guy isn't very Dominant..He's still a top.( most guys new to m2m are) He acts like a top..he gives off top energy... (Not sure if most guys realise this..)
And yeah that is very attractive,appealing,satisfying to a bottom,slave like myself
So there isn't that same constant need for him to be Billy bad ass..
He can treat a dude like a dude..but you both know whose in charge,whose the " daddy" ... And the more you fuck him.. The more that concept is driven home. You both know your natural roles.
Now you might say....hold up couldn't a woman also top..whether sexually or otherwise...couldnt she just strap it on
Yes...but then your not treating him just as a dude.. If your pegging him etc....isn't that being channelled into his submission.
A regular dude will view pegging as kink....I viewed m2m as sex..that any guy can do
My point is guys you don't have to be a Dom to get slaves,bottom guys..
I said it before..if your new,curious,straight..leaning bi...chances are you top.
And you literally can be the nicest,most affection,cat loving topman in the world..one that wouldnt hurt a fly.
But every time you crawl in bed with your bottom, you reinforce the pecking order,your showing him who is in charge,your reminding him of his role in the relationship.
And you don't get that with m/f sex...your not " dominating" her.
But with a dude,,,your happily filling that ass..hoping to shoot your big load,you want to breed him,etc
And unlike women..
A top doesn't have to be skilled in bdsm in order to satisfy a bottom..
Why? I feel if a woman ties me up..my brain processes it as kink. So you still have that start and stop reaction of his submission. He views this as " kinky" because there isn't that top vibe in your day to day.
If a man ties me up naked in bed...I don't view it as " kink:
It's more like a natural extension of our roles as top and bottom.
The rope,the handcuffs,the gag become an extension of his cock
He doesn't need to break out the toy box to show who me whose in charge.
Plus I feel there isn't that same dynamic..
With a Domme there will always be that pressure from the male to play/ topping from the bottom..which tends to burn ALOT of Dommes out
With a man...? I feel within a meeting or two ..yeah your having sex..
Hopefully that doesn't suprise you...and yep even the nicest,cat loving top,wouldn't hurt a fly is getting laid..hes balls deep in the dude.
The bottom,the slave may be able to chill because he already is getting a natural power exchange from the sex..So it may temper the need to flex on a Dominant.
And the real bonus of using the lifestyle to find a guy
The male is already into ALOT of things...
So it makes it " easier" for a top...esp an older guy to bring up a fantasy,a desire...
Without the other person freaking the fuck out.
Let's be honest..if your all ready fucking him..and that isn't cap
Is he gonna get pissed if you express a desire for say...
Just an example...feet..
There you blurted out your hidden fetish..you love feet
And he turns around and says..
Cool..
And you find yourself happily sucking his toes.
Honestly it hard to shock a lifestyle bottom like myself
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What if your 65,think no guy is into me,have no game m2m
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Posted:Dec 7, 2023 12:36 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2023 5:49 pm 5632 Views
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This is what I've been trying to say...
M2m mimics the lifestyle to a certain degree...it works on the same sorta principles..
When you have a Dominant/ top fullfilling their role.. It allows the male to step out of that slot and take up one that is more natural
There is a huge reason a 65 yr old Dommes mail box overflows
She offers that safe space,that oppertunity, that void..
She offers that space for the male to finally express his submission, reveal his true self, to surrender
Well a 65 yr old top also has a similar power...he offers up a space for the bottom to fully express his passive nature,surrender,just let go.
Being a bottom is ALOT like being a slave..it's not something readily available in straight town... He has needs that aren't getting addressed.
But one can be 40,50,60,70 and still find a nice bottom guy because you as a top fulfill his biggest need..
He can't be a slave without a Dominant..
He can't bottom without a top
He can't be passive without an active..
And it's not like a dude just turns this on and off at will..
It's more like you draw this out of the guy,you nuture it..
That is why he is drawn to you..
So don't think your too old,have no game,nobody would be interested etc..
And ironically it's not like you have to change yourself.
If your just getting into,are curious,straight ,etc..your probably a top.
You just have to understand the mindset of a bottom male and use it to your advantage.
Meaning a bottom is basically looking for that take charge guy..assertive..confident..basically that guy that wants to lead,
Which also could mean Dom,authority figure,dad,mentor...but doesn't have to..
It could be as simple as a top that is comfortable putting his arms around a guy.
But I stress...
It's the same thing with a Domme...There has to be that ying/ yang principal for this to work.
Meaning the more controlling she gets... The more passive he gets..
One plays off the other.. but there has be some level for this to work..
She can't be controlling one day and the next? She wants to switch. He can't be the top one day..and then next? A do me bottom
So if a bottom is searching for a way to express his passive self
Then the strong,confident male figure is going to attract him..
The more active/ forward you get The more room he has to be passive. The more he'll be into you.
And I'm not suggesting crazy,drill sergeant control freak sorta active..
I mean literally more like you initiate the sex,you initiate the contact,you make the decision,you lead and have him follow/ you guide him.
The nice thing with men is it doesn't have to be one or the other approqch....m2m or bdsm..
You could easily introduce elements of bdsm into the mix..
Without it being...omg😲😲😲😲😨 bdsm
Because kinky elements are already quite common in the gay culture.
And the bdsm elements also help play into his passive nature.
I'm not suggesting you run out and buy a whip ( which is fun)..
But chances are a bottom isn't gonna freak out if you wanted to introduce certain things in the bedroom
Like say bondage..or edging or cbt
My point? If your a top..looking...and having problems..
Just remember your true power..
The bottom guy needs that release..
And is looking for that guy
That understands..
If He's passive..then be active...initiate contact with him..ask for his social media,chat him up.. Ask him out..order for him
And I think you'll find age doesn't matter as much as your personality.. Active attracts passive.
Like I said..
Your a top...either sit their like a lump on a log and we can continue talking about sports or movies or books..
Or you can be active..slide your arm around me..touch my knee..
Notice this draws out my passiveness...instead of stopping and telling you No..
This is my way of saying Go.
And once that ice is broken..
It's easy to just be more active
It's easy to suggest things that would get his passive nature aroused..
Like now your gonna tie him up in bed..before fucking him
Which isn't asking..it's guiding him into the bedroom and telling him what your going to do to him.
Like I said..There is a reason a 65 yr old Dommes mail box overflow..
Apply the same logic
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What attracts a bottom m2m
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Posted:Dec 7, 2023 10:45 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2023 11:04 am 4157 Views
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I thought I'd give some insight into bottom guys.
I think there is this odd feeling that tops either try to treat them like women/ use that female template..
Or see a dude as..just a dude..like some guy off the street..they fuck and then play y2k with him.
And I feel that is the wrong mindset
Instead I feel like you need to view this in lifestyledynamics
No matter how you slice it... There is a natural power exchange between men. One has to bottom... Which I really don't feel is present during m/f sexual relations.
You chose to top,be the active.. Which allows me to bottom and be passive. The more active you are The more passive I can be.
And just like with Dom/mes...tops give off a certain energy
Just like with slaves...bottoms give off vibes
Which attract one another...
So just like the lifestyle..
You need the yang..to have the yang
To be Dominant..you need the submissive to be submissive.
You need that top to take that lead role.
I'm not suggesting he treat a bottom like a woman.
I'm saying a bottom guy likes being passive,guided,
He wants you to make the first move etc.
I'm not suggesting you need to be a Dom..
I'm trying to get you to understand there is more to the dynamics of m2m than just sex..
ESPECIALLY if this becomes a regular thing between you.
Deep down a bottom wants that guy so much into him that..
The top just reaches over and grabs his knee or brushes his thigh..
The bottom enters a more relaxed stage and the top gets bolder.
Slowly removing the bottom guys shirt or pulling off his pants. The top then pulling out the bottoms c ock.
The bottom wants a bold guy that likes to be in charge..it not only attracts him but I feel completes him..he can be his natural bottom/ passive self
So the dynamic sorta is lifestyle based.
So yeah...If you want to attract a bottom...don't forget to be a top
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The real reason your initially not going to enjoy m2m
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Posted:Dec 7, 2023 7:25 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2023 10:52 am 3784 Views
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Let's be honest...your voyage into guyland initially will be bumpy.
Your not gonna just slide into the deep end..
Well I did...but more on that later..
Your gonna be nervous, your not gonna want to touch the guy,kissing is the furthest thing from your mind..
Hell you most likely didn't even bring lube or condom..
Youve banged women but never had to discuss whose topping who.
Hopefully you at least had that talk with the dude.
If your both new to the game then yeah the fucking
Is gonna be rough.
Literally...no lube.. you have no clue that you have to prep the bottom guy with your fingers,no clue that you have to give him that moment to adjust to your girth..
What...you thought you'd just slam it in..
It will be an experience the bottom guy soon won't forget..
A painful one..
So let's say you got it in and now are pumping away...
Feels pretty good from your end... probably as good as a woman..
But the sensation your really lacking is the bottom guys reaction..
It will be akin to a woman that just lays there in bed..
You'll end up with a dude that is in pain from your thrust..and most likely won't know how to process it...and his hole will clamp down,tighten. Meaning it is harder for you to thrust
This is why some guys try their hand at bottoming and never go back
And since your inexperienced ..you won't know the difference between this guy
And someone like me..
Who went fucked.. enjoys it and will start to moan, groan,make sexual noises as you thrust..
So you'd get a completely different experience with someone like me.
Another reason it might initially suck is your afraid of touching the other guy.
So your just...dick/mouth..and maybe anal . But your missing out on alot of ways to turn a man on..
To which your probably ignorant of cause you never explored your own body..
But you can caress his skin, pull his nips, use your mouth on his body like you'd a womans..
You do that with a woman..right?
When there is more than just your penis involved,it's just a better experience all around.
Okay let's say everything is gonna great, you got the plane in the air,the passenger is enjoying the flight..
But have you given any thoughts on how are you gonna land the plane..
To which you most likely don't even think of where your with a woman..
Do you nut up in the guy? Is it rude?
Do you pull out and shoot on him? Is that rude?
Can you finish off in his mouth? Is that rude?
Is it rude to even ask? Or should you just do it..
Even odder . And for the love of Pete...
Please don't make this mistake...cause your most likely be a top..
After you orgasm...
Please..please.. please do feel like you owe the bottom guy one..
I had way too many tops reach over and start to jerk me off..
It's like they can't process that it's very enjoyable being a bottom..your get a lot of wonderful sensations back there .
So I'm good ..I had fun
Meanwhile they are rubbing my dick so hard you'd think they are trying to start a fire..
anything anal sort overrides sensations to the penis for a bit
And you just rode me hard...it's gonna take a minute to prime the pump..
Meanwhile we both feel silly as you constantly work the handle and nothing comes out..
You feel like I'm missing out..
If you want to see me cum..then engage me as the bottom..stick your fingers in me when you jerk me,put a toy in me and suck me off etc.
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There is no " brokeback mt" moment
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Posted:Dec 7, 2023 6:10 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2023 9:01 am 3435 Views
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The real problem with basic m2m is how it's stereotyped.
I really don't believe 2 dudes cuddling and more in a tent ...
leads to them being gay and regretting their marriages..
There is no...I can't get over you ..
Moments..
Now the book or the tone of the movie may have implied both were initially gay..???
Whatever..
My point is you doing m2m suddenly doesn't make you gay..more or less want to leave your wife..
Chances are your not going to fall in love with a bro
You may fall in love with say sucking a cock though..lol
But still...you like dick and not the dude attached to it..
Which is surprisingly common.
And if you luved banging an ass.. Yeah your still gonna love banging your wife..
I disagree with the notion that people were born gay
Cause there are people like myself that have flip flopped.
So I ..me personally
consider it a preference...much like you should..
You can fuck a blonde,brunette, redhead..
Why not a woman or a man..
Without it defining or labeling you..
Let's be real...if you were shipwrecked on an island for years with a dude..
You'd bang him..right,
So what's holding you back now?
The funny thing about straight,curious,bi guys is there literary is no change..
It's not like..wow I fucked a dude and now I want to be " flamboyant"..put on some ladygaga..
Your the same dude..you most like top...Will go back to your wife tonight and then top her..
Nothing really changed..
So guys there is no reason to fear m2m..
And perhaps your married and your fear to tell your wife..
Well afraid to tell you..but yeah some women are into gay porn,m2m.
They feel like it's raw sex without the love.
Like I mentioned previously..if you add the lifestyle into your interest in men, then it's just easier for you/ for both of you to process this as a power exchange/ domination..
Your not fucking an ass..your taking his ass.. Your rejoicing at how much the bottom slut wants your cock,your load in him..
So you stop seeing this in negative terms..your not " gay".. Your dominating your slave..
Either way...
There won't be a broke back moment
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