Shocking good results..why aren't certain styles of play ever discussed here
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Posted:Nov 15, 2023 10:41 am
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2023 5:09 am 4424 Views
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I was curious as to why certain styles of play rarely are discussed on this site..
I mean a lot of things aren't extreme.. it's not like downing red bull/ vodka and shooting fireballs from your butthole
..or what i call
Tuesday night
( apologises to some readers that don't get..
This is sarcasm/humor...Americans aren't doing this).
But you know damn well someone in Korea is turning to his wife and saying..
Fireballs??
So I wonder why no one blogs about or replies to certain styles of play..are they niche,are they taboo,are they just too damn expensive??.
I'm gonna bring up the topic of electrical play because I feel it needs more respect.
First of all gone are the days where one dude in the lifestyle had a 1000 dollar tens unit with all the attachments,cables,assessories etc..
That he would bring out during play parties to show off.
Now a days?...it easy to find a cheap tens unit/ shocking devices online etc.
Second..electrical play seems like a great compromise between Domme/ Wife/ Sensual Domme that isn't into discipline,big time pain..
Yet would love a style that is effortless,easy to use,gets great results and instantly gets the slave under her control...
And the hubby,the boyfriend,the slave that desires something a bit harder.
Third..electric play seems well suited for the male slave..
Esp when it is used on his fun parts..it can be placed/ used on his balls/ cock with no real damage/ side effects..
And yes.. they also make sounds that be inserted into his penis or bulbs that go into his ass..
So it's possible to really shock him in the funniest ways possible.
And if you really aren't into pads and electrical connections..
You can simply use a remote control and a shock collar on his testicles..
It's very basic though and there are many devices designed specifically for the penis like shock cages..
I'm just saying..I think electrical play gets this odd old school rep..
But it's needs a modern make over..
It's very simple..turn a dial,push a button on a remote..
And depending on the devices setting she chooses
You either got his attention or his instant and complete submission ( as the brief shock temporarily puts him on his knees at your feet)..
The thing I really luv about electrical play is it can be mild to wild..
And she still probably has a higher setting or two to use on him.
Plus unlike say whipping or most discipline styles of play..
Electrical play is literally a hands free device and constantly sends waves into the slave to endure..so no wear or tear on the Domme and it gets a slave a good workout..
Another great bit is the male is grounded..the shock goes into him and not her.
So she is free to torture other parts of his body or do things to him as he constantly gets waves of electricity into his penis/ balls
In my opinion it's a good way to control a male if bigger toys,whips,discipline,pain really don't interest you.
Yet it is also a fun way to build up his pain tolerance
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Men and spankings..grab your coffee for this one
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Posted:Nov 15, 2023 7:17 am
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2023 7:42 am 3107 Views
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The irony of my blog is I lose probably 10 to 20 percent of my readership as soon as I talk about anything gay..some immediately click off
BUT oddly enough...I may have found that weird bridge between straight men and the lgbtq..
And it's not bingo..
It's spankings..
And yeah I had to do a double take myself ..
Huh???
I've long pondered why do people really care what the gender of a slave is..esp if your having a hard time finding someone or someone to play with.
I get sex is a huge factor for some.
But for others like myself it is moreso about control,the power exchange.
I could serve a Master or Mistress or couple.
Anyway..getting back to spankings..
Jump on a spankings personal site and your gonna find what you'd expect..either its a hetero site or it's gay..
Unlike women..it's rare for men to cross the streams.
Until apparently now..
And one might think..well these straight guys are really bi or closeted gay men..
But no
And that is an odd dynamic to wrap your mind around..
Straight guy spanker on a chair with a paddle..with a naked dude wrapped over his lap..
And apparently it's all about spankings..period.
At first I just wanted to brush it off as a fetish..
Like someone into feet..sex,other things aren't required because they are getting to indulge in this behavior..
But oddly I'm thinking spanking is like a form of guy bonding..
A release...maybe like having brandy and cigars in the old days
I've never met a straight spanker. But I'll have that opportunity coming up in december..a guy puts on a guy spanking party..no sex..just spankings..
So I'll have to report back.
I have a theory though..
I've always said sub guys abuse the lifestyle and use it as a shield..
Like yeah I just got fucked by that strap on or sucked that slave c ock.
But I was " channeling my submission".
They use play as a way to explore their sexuality.
I feel like spankings may be a way for men to bond..without " bonding"...it becoming sexual.
It might be a way for men to just feel comfortable together,comfortable with male nudity..
And yeah enjoy a touch...without the panic
A top might have to touch the spankee,might have the spankee across his leg,
After the spanking there might be some form of aftercare..a hug,a cuddle..
It's not a broke back mountain moment people..
But for men..it's a huge step..
Funny how no one reader into a woman hugging or touching one another..
I think spankings gives men that sorta thing..allows they to be caring
It allows one to interact with another male...while still being straight.
I also think spankings are cheat code for A lot of guys..
It is portrayed as uber masculine ,there is that spartan/ military vibe to it..
And some ( adults I'm talking about)..enjoy an adult father/ dynamic..
So straight grandpa honestly doesn't see this as a Gay thing..
He grew up in the discipline era,he is getting a chance to relive it..
And the naked male in the corner..is seen as a friend
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Kinda funny we can't have adult conversation on here..did it turn you on
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Posted:Nov 13, 2023 3:58 am
Last Updated:Nov 13, 2023 7:13 pm 3661 Views
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I'm literally surprised 220 some people actually clicked on,read portions of or all that rambling...
And can't even have the common courtesy to say if it they had interest in the story...
Which doesn't make you...well anything..
I can enjoy a fun female sub getting spanked at a play party...i can freely admit that I enjoyed it....but it doesn't make me a Dom nor straight..
Like I wrote earlier..I need to tighten the story up...so it can be a nice tight one
And sell to some website...
So someone can get off.
This isn't Shakespeare..hell it isn't even the marvels
I was mearily " freeballing" with alt and hoping to get some sort of feedback.
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The story part 2
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Posted:Nov 12, 2023 7:10 am
Last Updated:Nov 13, 2023 7:26 am 4654 Views
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Even though I gave a lot of m2m action..
Which probably turned people off..
This might turn you on.
Unlike a lot of authors, my stories don't feature Victoria secret ,models or dudes that live at the gym.
They will feature ordinary folks...so where I described the Masters as old and fat..in my last post
I didn't mean that as a diss..
I was trying to describe m2m sexuality as more animalistic,simple..gutteral..
Brad ( like me..) isn't repulsed..isn't doing this for group approval or channeling it into his submission..
He is enjoying being fucked..he loves these bigger,older,authority figures..both men and women.
He is a natural " server"..
But I mentioned Women...and the part that always bites me in the ass is I can't just beat off a quick..well beat off story.. I want to add more..
I created Mistress Diana...an older, real sized Domme that first glances younger brad when she pulls up to the party.
But ironically Mistress isn't a part of the servers story..
I first created her for a femdom tea party story...which may seem similar.
The tea party
..brad is naked once again...but is tasked with parking the cars and carrying in the D ommes bags/ gear..
He is naked,good build..strong looking.
And here comes the surreal part...Mistress Diana has a thing..
For pony boys...but wonders if the the lifestyle has passed her by and if she'll find a pony of her own..
As brad is carrying her bag to the house she imagines his nude body in full gear..a saddle across his back..
Mistresses thighs digging in as her pony boy rides them off into the night..
Kinda interesting the information you can find on fetlife...everything from how to throw a femdom tea party.. to what is usually served to what happens afterwards..
The games they might play with the male servers etc.
Anyway...
Obviously during the tea party..I want to show D ommes aren't Dominatrixes..
They are all unique,on different levels and are more than just bdsm.
It might have taken the women some courage just to attend a party with naked male slaves.
But I also want Diana to take her shot and find out more about this slave..test the waters..see how he looks as a pony..
And attempts to mount him....see the slave take her weight..feel his bare skin against her thights..her clit pressed into his back
And ultimately I'd like to see Mistress Diana ride her pony into the fields that night where they make passionate love..
Now I'm NOT promising...
The Women in my stories won't strap it on
But my stories don't have to be uber..omg gay..
There is a lot for everyone..
It's just your author..duh is a slave bottom..
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Story idea...does it turn you on
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Posted:Nov 12, 2023 6:07 am
Last Updated:Nov 12, 2023 9:57 am 4875 Views
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I
Of course have story ideas rambling around in my head..
That's what I get driving for a living and having no radio in the truck.
And of course as readers you can flip the gender if this doesn't appeal to you..
But I was thinking about writing a story about a 30 something year old me..and just getting started in the lifestyle.
Someone desperate to be in the lifestyle and wants to get out there and mingle..
And yeah being a dude..our dicks get us into a lot of trouble..
I was thinking the lead character ( let's just call him brad) joins a group...like the real group in kc that host formal parties for Dominants
And the group leader is desperate for servers..begging the members for help
And yeah when I was 30 I would have blindly jumped at this chance..lol.
Brad volunteers..but has never been to a group function and most likely has no clue what he volunteered for.
He thinks he will just be serving drinks etc
But the fun begins when noob slave brad arrives at the group leader's household.
There he will meet the Mistress of the household..let's just call her Beth and her husband/ slave/ chef steve..Steve is naked except for his chefs hat and large apron
This is the point where Beth will inform brad of his slave rights within the group...nobody owns him,he doesn't have to obey,he is free to leave anytime..
But if he is to stay and serve...then Beth needs him to work,obey and do his job.
She needs a server..those are her rules,her household.
With brad fully understanding his situation.
Beth says good and tells brad to now disrobe.
You are now a slave in a Mistresses household and need to be dressed like one
Brad quickly obeys and now is standing naked before both Beth and Steve.
Beth informs brad that even though Steve is her slave,you will call him Master and obey without question.
For the head chef needs his staff to follow orders without fail if tonight's dinner service to go off without a flaw.
Beth even brings out the kitchen paddle...and playfully gives Steve a spanking.
She explains this is what naughty servers get if they mess up tonight.
Brad finds the words " yes Ma'am,yes Master" effortlessly coming from his lips..
(Sidebar...with the reader...at 30 I was also exploring men...so i figured any older man in authority would be an instant turn on to me..
And I will make it obvious that Steve is very attracted to the younger server.
And yes..if i was 30 again..in this situation..yeah completely naked,serving and people were attracted to me..
I would engage in sexual acts...
But like I said if m2m isn't a turn on..you can switch genders of the characters..
Plus there will be more than just m2m stuff.
But like in the real life kc group....the servers get to eat last..
I figured instead of a real meal...this is more of a metaphor and the male servers will now be used for entertainment,for sport,for sex etc..
Steve promised brad the richest dessert at the end of the night..
And that is " the cream pie ".
Brad must now lay back naked on the dining table
And service the Masters in attendance as they fill him up with their wonderful cream..
Older men with their pants now pulled off waiting in line. One filling brads hole while others waves their floppy cocks in front of him hoping for a suck.
All hoping to breed the new server and welcome him into the group.
The ladies sit in their smart attire, sipping wine taking in the sight..and giggling..
Just waiting to see that wonderful creme pie the chef promised his guest.
Astonished to see the young server take such old cock...it was like an assembly line..
As soon as one Master would let out a satisfying pig like grunt and blow his load into the server
Another older,even fatter Master would waddle up and quickly take his place.
The breeding would start again.. and the cream pie grew in size as the server started to fill up nicely
Grunt after grunt...thrust after thrust..the old masters face growing ever so red..
The servers moans blending in harmony.
Till finally the Master gave a one hard buck and finished the symphony
They waited with baited breath for Mistress Diana's turn and the huge dildo she now sported. Purple and angry looking..10 inches in length
She intended to use it all
Even the other male servers lined up for a turn and were permitted a release from their owners.
One slave had been in chastity for months and his Domme proudly promised the crowd the biggest,thickest load you ever seen
She stood behind her slave with her cane as he quickly inserted his cock..
Quickly he started to thrust ..not wanting to miss his one opportunity to release.
His strokes were hard and fast. The slave slammed himself into the server over and over.
The servers toes even began to curl in arousal.
The slave let out a guttural grunt as his dick exploded deep insider the server..
Draining his pent up balls
The Domme rose up on her tippy toes and deeply kissed her slave..
She was so proud of her boy..
The dessert was nearly complete...they just were waiting on the chef.
Anyway this is just a brief view.,.obviously this isn't going to be just m2m.
I will continue on the next blog...
And obviously this was quickly written
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Writing about cbt..is cbt still in the closet??
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Posted:Nov 11, 2023 1:00 pm
Last Updated:Nov 12, 2023 9:13 am 4795 Views
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Let be honest..cbt is really the red headed step of bdsm land.
If dudes didn't bring it up...
Would it just die off..
I mention yesterday that I still like the surreal meeting the real in a story..
Well what could be more surreal to most people
Cbt is the surreal element...the hook I need to attract readers..
Cause everyone would enjoy reading about it..
Even if they didn't want to do it or have it done to them..
And we all experienced this at say a convention..
A Domme will be demoing cbt..people will gather out of curiosity..
People will stay for the entertainment.
For the wonder of seeing the Domme actually busting his balls..
Only to scurry back to the comfort of their hotel beds at night..
My job I figure..is to drag this sorta play out of the darkness and make it more relatable..
Make it more accessable..make it less scary and more erotic???
Make the audience understand...whether through my blog or a story..
That cbt isn't a pain thing...you not actually trying to harm/ damage the male..
It's a control thing..
...cbt probably the easiest,most natural way for someone to experience what it's like to have complete control over a male
One doesn't need expensive toys,one doesn't need years of experience, one doesn't need to be in the lifestyle or join the local dungeon.
Cbt is such a unique type of play
Because ball pain is so different than any other sorta discipline.
Here's an example.,,
you can swing a heavy paddle hard and may even bruise my ass.
But you may not get that instant satisfaction you crave.
Chances are I may not flinch,I may not even let out a sound.
Most likely it will take a series of blows to wear me out physically and emotionally break me down..just to
Get me to that responsive stage you desire..
Let's be honest..you want to see the slave jump,make those wonder groans and moans with every good lick of that paddle..you get pleasure out of seeing him react to your stimuli..it makes you feel powerful
But more so...you want him to surrender to it...you want him to realise who is in charge
Which is wonderful for both parties...but you might feel tired after tanning that ass..
And chances are you probably left some deep marks..
No harm done..sometimes to make an omelette you have to break some eggs..sometimes to get what you need out of a slave you might have to put a lot of yourself into it..
And I'm not bashing those that do enjoy pushing a male while disciplining him.
I'm actually cool with being bruised etc.
But your probably done for the night and won't go back for another round.
Cbt is different because the slightest blow..say from a wooden spoon to the testicles..
Gives this instant gratifying response out of the male..he instantly reacts.
If i had to describe the pain?...
It isn't like whipping or paddling...it's more like electoshock..
It's brief,it's overwhelming, its very little effort on her part..
Oddly enough the pain associated with the balls tends to be more mental of a process.
Paddle my ass and the pain is focused there.
Tap my balls and instantly the pain is registered in my brain..
It tells me instinctively to " surrender"..collapse into a ball at her feet and try to protect the testicles.
So one gets this instant emotional rush from quickly defeating the bigger,strong male.
It's wonderful to see him instantly humbled so...
Do a few rounds of cbt and the male become very obedient and quick to obey any command.
The same reaction that might take you 10,20,30??? Blows with a paddle..
And even if she does wish to be more aggressive or get in a good hard shot that floors the male..
Like we all enjoyed on America's funniest home videos..dad gets a whiffle ball to his nuts..
The pain isnt long lasting..maybe a minute? or injury causing...it's more like knocking the wind out of his sails...his first reaction is to crumble into a ball..
But..give the male a second to catch his breathe..and she can see he is perfectly fine
And he gladly resumes the position..
So she continue cbt through out the night..
AND I'll add that I'm not suggesting you can't injure a guy..through cbt
But then again there is absolute no reason to literally bust his balls.
Use common sense,get to know the male and how he reacts..
And gauge your play accordingly.
Remember cbt is not meant to be a wham,bamm,thank you Ma'am sorta play..
It is more of a long satisfying drawn out torture on the male...make him willingly get back into position for yet another tap,slap,punch to his balls
It's more of a control type of play....keeping the Dominant in complete control and luving him under your control.
I just feel cbt gets a bad ..so many people wait years before trying it.
When I say it most likely should be their first experience when it comes to control,power exchanges,one gender controlling the other, exploring options like a Female Lead Relationships.
Like I said..it's easy,it's cheap,it's powerful,if done by reasonable sane people..there are no marks,No harm,No damage..
And the play is quite universal..it can be just playful..
It can be embraced by soft Dommes..
And it can be enjoyed by sadist
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Then it occurred to me...what I really need to write about
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Posted:Nov 10, 2023 5:06 am
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2023 8:42 am 4489 Views
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I first wanted to craft erotic stories like Anne rice..
But I didn't want those princess,castles,island of paradise..stuff..
I wanted to bring the surreal into a realistic setting.
Marge,aunt bettie..even the lady down the street might own an objectified male.
Which is fun...
But I think I really need to refine my concept of surreal realism.
I talked with this woman on fet that claimed to be a sex therapist and asked the FLR group members if they would share their cbt stories,experiences with her.
Apparently she writes some sorta column???
And wanted cbt to be the topic..
Only one dude replied???
And I thought that ironic..
Men luv to talk about their junk,men luv talking about discipline and fetishes..
So why the silence...
Then it occurred to me...
Maybe the problem
Is me..lol...and despite cbt being a lifestyle staple...
It's like that bland potatoe salad that aunt Marge brings to every party.
It's there..but no one is digging in.
Maybe I'm the only one that enjoys cbt..
So I thought it would be hard for someone like a sex therapist to write an article to a vanilla audience on cbt.
Because you have to understand how,why of cbt.
Most people see a kick to the balls as...just pain.
Maybe my niche in erotic writing could be stories...that feature ordinary folks going through these experiences and giving the reader the opportunity to be there,feel it..
From the safety of their own bed..
Maybe that is surreal realism..
Cbt in on that potluck table...I'm wondering if anyone is digging in..
And would you read stories of say an ordinary woman having fantasies..
Of what it would be like to
Say have a male balls under her feet..
And what would she do if she met someone like me..
That could easily let her have that experience....someone to literally walk her through the process of trampling a male...
And that experience would be shared with the reader..
Such fun
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I finally am " hard "
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Posted:Nov 7, 2023 6:56 pm
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2023 7:00 pm 4067 Views
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No im not talking sexually..
Over the past few years I have become a complete...
Well asshat..a chad
And refused to let anyone boss me around..
And now this new company that bought us out is
Dicking me around..
And I literally out argued the head of HR..made her look like an idiot
I said what the company is doing is really shitty..
In front of all the stores employees...in an hr insurance meeting
And I honestly let that shit fly..
Without an ounce of fear..
I'm leo..duh..maybe you heard of me
What part of being a chad..
Don't you get...
When I no longer care..yet am the best you got..or will ever get..
Then there is that disconnect.
Fire me,keep me on..
Whatever..
But I am leo..
And you'll never find someone like me.
Worked for the same company for 20 yrs..never took a vacation..was sick like 4 days in 20 yrs..
And made you money.
Nobody out works me..
I make you money..
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My advice..get it in writing.. as an employee
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Posted:Nov 5, 2023 6:04 am
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2023 8:08 am 4426 Views
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I wanted to take a moment and address your power as an employee or a potential employee for a new company.
First I'd say look at your state laws..
In good ole bumfuck Missouri...
Employers ...isn't this 2023?..are not required to even give you a lunch break.
Any benefit you are promised is between you and your employer..
And you better get it in writing..
Cause your state probably doesn't care.
I was promised x amount of paid time off..
Missouri says..fuck you...
If I quit/ get fired...I don't get paid for unused pto
If I don't use it...Missouri is gonna let you lose it..
And if the company doesn't want to give you your requested pto off..
Missouri says..fuck you...
The company literally doesn't have to give you squat..
And this is me just reading about the fun labor laws in my state for like 10 minutes..
I'm guessing there are tons more..
I've never been pro unions...esp at places like starbucks...
But..perhaps unions or any employee that wishes to start one..
Needs to bring these facts to light..
Would a union protect my pto..
Would a union have fought back against voluntary wellness programs...which are neither voluntary nor a wellness program.
Would a union actually protect an employee that had real concerns at work..
At my job we have literally under 500 employees..and like 2 HR people..
That will never return your phone calls..
And even if you do get a job perk in writing..
Do you have the resources to fight the company..
My advice...and oddly I'm starting to sound like a gen z person..
Or Peter from the office space movie..
Don't give a company your loyalty,your time ( overtime is not worth it) or your passion..
Never get comfortable and always look for something better.
And remember...people bash gen z..call them laxy,don't wanna work..
Meanwhile their starting wage
May be closer to yours..
So yeah I most likely will get fucked out of 22 days of pto,my insurance will go up 960 dollars etc..
And yes I will get a job somewhere else..
Cause your state don't care,your employer doesn't care..
And if you thought I checked out years ago..
Meet the new gen z employee in me
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Please explain the censorship on this site
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Posted:Nov 5, 2023 5:23 am
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2023 8:35 pm 4335 Views
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In my last blog I talked about our spineless government and how they allowed big business to implement " wellness" programs.
My current employer wanted a blood draw..
I refused...they put an 80 dollar a month..penalty...960 dollars a year increase in my insurance.
Mind you..it's not a " penalty"..it's a " surcharge"
And for daring to talk about such things..
All 3 of my comments got denied..
Yet none of them violated TOS..
So how is this game played?..
Is there really admin on here...
Or is it like youtube,Yahoo etc..where anyone
that disagrees..can report/flag or Karen you.
And your hard work is now removed.
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