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Why not bi...final post in this category
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Posted:Oct 11, 2023 5:13 am
Last Updated:Oct 12, 2023 4:51 am 4305 Views
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First off of like to thank those that actually read or enjoyed this topic. I know it's not everyone's cup of tea..
The final installment...
1. History...I'm not sure why there is such a negative stance towards gay people..more or less gay men.
I really wish to blame Hollywood for it's constant stereotyping of gay men as " Elton john",over the top, two snaps up,effeminate, etc..
When in reality..yeah...the toughest and roughest men to ever walk the planet had gay sex..
Sorry if that blows your mind
Ohhhh dear lordy,..did Leo just say history is loaded with brokeback moments?
Er..yeah...anyplace, anytime there has been an lower number of Women ..
Yeah you had m2m..
And let's be honest guys having male to male relations probably weren't the odd " dandy" from back east like the western movies would like to suggest..
It was more likely real cowboys...on long cattle drives
Men at war like the samauri or even ww1..fyi homosexuality wasn't a big deal in the German army
Men at sea,sailors,pirates,
And historically m2m was no big deal..
Look to Japan...if your greatest warriors happened to have male lovers ( cause it was the norm)...
Then it's hard to really criticise homosexuality..
It would be like us looking negative at Batman cause dc comics finally made him gay..he's batman...
My point is historically m2m is the norm..
Ask yourself...what is the number of available women...in your area,at your age,that ,match your desires..
Half of the problem is you may be 30,40,50,60 or even 70 and still want to fuck..your most likely divorced and share custody
You don't fit into the bar scene,20 year olds don't want you unless you have $$$.
Women your age have ,bad past relationships/ issues
So where can you turn..and this is where you ,might consider going bi.
2. Gone is the tiktok creeper ,mentality...
Men are afraid to approach women,look at women at a gym cause no one wants to end up on some tiktok video and be labeled a " creep"..
For bring basically a man...looking at a pretty woman,offering to help etc..
Men have been labeled as toxic....
And there is nothing wrong with men or male sexuality...
The problem is women wanting to exploit men for views,likes,$$$ and sympathy via these videos..
But in guy land it's different...
As a guy if I'm lifting at the gym...I like an audience😄.. I like the thought that others are attracted to me, I'm cool with someone desiring me sexually..
And unlike women...hell if a dude rolls up and wants to offer help, give advice or even to chat me up...
I'm not offended in the least..
I've been hit on before by guys...and it really is no big deal..
Being a male,having male desires and male sexual energy..
Doesn't make you toxic...
3. People really have to grasp the concept that being bi really is a sliding scale...
Unlike being with a woman...you don't have to even be in a relationship..you can have a hook up,a friend,a companion,a boyfriend and a hubby..if you choose..
Men do what their comfortable doing....some bi guys won't touch,won't kiss..but will suck a dick like a champ..
And that works for them..
And the beauty of bi men is you don't even have to explore your backside...you can easily remain your toppy self
There are plenty of normal,masculent guys like myself that like to lift,watch football,fish,camp,work on cars etc..
But at the same time like sex and have no problem getting naked and letting you top..
Cause..er...I'm a bottom..
And yeah I want your dick..
So if your having a rough go out there in the dating world or even the bdsm world..and even though for a moment about...maybe guys???
Then maybe you might give guys a try...
Last thought...and even m2m can be empowering...women tend to clamp down on sex..
Dictating what kind,how much,with whom, etc,,
With guys it's different...you could wake up with me in bed..horny and want sex..
And yeah..I'm a guy..I'm always horny..
Why wouldn't I want sex..
Oh wait you wanna do what...
Oh cool let's try that🥒
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Why not bi? For those curious..it can make alot of sense
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Posted:Oct 10, 2023 5:11 am
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2023 12:38 pm 4574 Views
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First off I truly believe women are from mars..
And dudes are from penis..er..venus..
We are two different entities with different drives,goals,needs..
Women: are more group orientated,multitask,are better communicating, are more emotional and mentally developed.
They stayed at camp,gathered,socialized,took care of the sick, grew crops back in the day..
Men: are more individualistic, we think with only 1 side of out brains at a time, we need that rest period to just shut down ( whether that is after work or in the bedroom,we neeed " me" time..
So it was good that the men left the village to hunt.
Women are also very relationship orientated,use sex as a means to get that relationship and love the drama of someone dating.
Men? Want sex...and if that builds into relationship ..cool. we could care less about drama and who is dating who.
Women also tend to be selective...and will seek out the most desirable men...they all do.
They also won't date beneath their station,their degree,their standards like how tall a man needs to be.
Men: we like to fuck..and hope that turns into a relationship.
Women: sex is easy to get and therefore put it down the list..
Men: did someone mention sex
Sooo what does this have to do with being curious..
I'm making the case that men just happen to be more compatible with men..
If you remove the stigma of being gay or seeing gay men as a negative..
Youd realise..it's just sex..
And yes in alot of cultures the men ( manly dudes)..did go broback mountain with each other...whether on the hunt,at war or just away from their wives..
And it wasn't viewed as a negative thing...nor an unmanly act.
People have to grasp the concept that a sexual act alone doesn't make you..whatever..
Your wife kissed a girl at the bar...is she now a lesbian..
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No cap..a lesbian strapped it on and fucked my ass...
Am I now a lesbian..
If I spank a sub woman...does that make me a Dom..
No..
Briefly also consider the culture,.
Most guys are straight and get curious about 30,40,50 etc..
Maybe they just went through a divorce..
They try to hit the bar scene and hit on 20 yr old women..
And unless your $$$..
And women their own age tend to be single with ..
It is literally like stepping back into that same trap...
Cause despite being divorced..they are still tethered to their ex and ..
And if they wanted that..perhaps they would have stayed married.
I'm not saying the grass is greener with men....Men expect orgies for some odd reason.
But someone like myself isn't looking to be wined and dined...not looking for heavy relationship
And yeah we both have sex on our minds..
It easy for guys to just hangout..watch football..
And yeah it can easily lead to sex..🥒
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Funny we can give tech/$$$ to Ukraine..why not give our best to Israel
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Posted:Oct 9, 2023 8:43 pm
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2023 9:20 am 4321 Views
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and I welcome comments and opposing views on this issue..
Funny Biden wants to give Ukraine 100 billion dollars..
Can I ask Biden to ask congress for the same for Isreal.
How is russia the " evil" empire but iran,iran,Saudi Arabia
Given a pass..fuck Biden just let Iran receive 6 billion dollars of it's assets..
And you don't think it won't fund these terrorist groups??? Talk about a complete dumbass.
I find it funny how members of the " crew" literally supported Palestinian who have taken hostages..some american.
Funny how white guys are evil...we should h word putin..
But Muslim terrorist? The media tries to turn the other cheek..
I'm an american...I fully support Israel. I stand with Israel.
Our friends..our allies.
I want to see Biden give Abram tanks, advanced helicopters,anti tank weapons...and billions to those in Israel
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Adult conversation 3 why bi..or what to consider if you never thought of that option
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Posted:Oct 9, 2023 5:08 am
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2023 11:04 am 4636 Views
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Hope your enjoying the series so far.
Obviously I'm not gonna be able to go deep with this topic since I have limited time before I have to go to the slave mines ( work).
But I thought I would bang out a quick blogs for those people that never even considered being bi..
And what I feel you may be missing out.
This blog is more so for the straight people that may be on that edge..may have considered or have been fed up with men or women..
Now I'm not a woman..nor a bi/ lesbian..
So I can't talk from their P ov ( perhaps they can chime in)..
Sooo let's get to it...
I get your not attracted to " dudes".. you protest that you like women..
But if you ever entertained the thought..
Men..esp most straight dudes that go bi..
Aren't..omg..gay...yes there is a huge difference
Most bi guys w erent " born" that way..don't have rainbow flags on their houses or cars,most were or are married w ..
I'd say alot come out later in life..but not really " out".
What do you get out by opening your circle to men..
1. You get your mirror image...most likely another 40 yr old dude..that you can watch football with hang out with,do stuff with..
And anything sexual between you doesn't weird up the friendship.
2. With alot of bi dudes there isn't a " relationship".. he isn't looking to break up a marriage or become your wife..
It's mostly likely just sexual...a bj..a quick fuck..sucking your dick
3. He most likely will have the same high sex drive..
Where as your wife may not or may simply not like things like sucking your cock or want..omg anal.
4. You don't have to have " feelings" for the other guy and can just enjoy casual " safe" sex with your new friend.
5. Your wife may be into it....and think..Well at least he isn't sleeping with other women,doesn't have feelings..
It's just a sexual release..
6. You may be 40,50..divorced and back into the dating scene..
And finding your too old for the bar scene or surprise 20 yr old women aren't interested..
Bi guys are in the same situation...
It's just they turn to other guys
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Adult conversations..let's talk about sensual domination..is it real..is it satisfying
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Posted:Oct 8, 2023 8:48 am
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2023 2:26 pm 5297 Views
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I decided to take sometime today to blog about sensual Domination.
I feel like it gets lost in the shuffle,isn't talked about and is pushed in the corner.
Those practicing as sensual Dominants may not even be seen as "Dominant" by others in the community.
I know I was guilty of that.
But I've come full circle on that and see things differently now.
To me the roll of a slave isn't to engage in my desires,do what I want to do kinkwise.
Rather my job is to enable others so they can actively live out their kinky desires.
So yeah there really is no need now for whips,pain,objectification..
Once one realizes this really is about control and a power exchange..
And that comes in alot of wonderful flavors..
Including sensual Domination..
So what is sensual Domination.,?
Some may assume it's "bedroom play.".fuzzy cuffs and cheap toys from an adult book store..
To me a sensual Domme is someone that enjoys various elements of the lifestyle..
But really is turned off by others...such as harsh discipline,humiliation, etc
To them this really isn't about pain...it is about control.
And just because a person labeled themselves as " soft" or sensual Domme doesn't mean they aren't strong,a take charge,empowered Women.
Let's be honest guys..we can be pushy...whether in the vanilla world or even in the lifestyle...we want sex..we want kink...and if we don't get some
Then we look for someonelse..women are faced with the choice to put out or go back to their cats and tiktok
The lifestyle sorta turns that dynamic on its head and puts the Woman in control.
Sensual Domination is so cool because it allows a Woman to dictate the relationship..
Without forcing her to take on his kinks or enter into roles that would make her feel uncomfortable.
She gets to define her role as Dominant instead of letting the lifestyle or even men..
Define it
Sensual Domination let's the Woman mold the male to her particular needs..
For example..show me any other personals site where a Woman desires a man..
But then list she doesn't want,need his penis..penetration..as some older woman dont
Yet? She doesnt hestitate and proudly types she would luv a " pussyboy" to service her orally..
Let that sink in...guys no sex but you get all the pussy you can lick..
Where else can a Woman be so bold as to list exactly what she needs from a man..
And then to get one and keep him just for that..
Without having to put out
Without him whining,demanding or walking away to some other woman..
The lifestyle is the only place that gives women these options and the power to enforce them.
And let's be honest...not every woman is brash and bold..
Domination is about control...
And being in control of a certain male.
Sensual Domination allows a Woman to take a step back from the lifestyle and just breathe..go at a slower pace
Maybe she likes a guy from work or some guy online or even enjoys reading his blog..
For some it's a huge leap from contacting him,talking with him,even meeting up..
To..yeah..lol..
Him now undressing as she stands before him with cuffs in her hands..
With a simply click of the bracelets he is now nude and helpless before her
To some something so simple as the male now naked and in her charge is...
Empowering and life changing...a game changer..perhaps even a life saver ( maybe there is more to life than cats,complaining on tiktok).
Maybe there is a " different" type of male out there..one she can use,control and get what she needs...
So yeah maybe she thought the idea of finding a bf was impossible..
But now? Maybe she can consider a slave instead...and have a relationship where she is in charge,defining what she needs from him
Quick real life example..writing Domme is shy,sensual..
She wrote a chapter in her book about the Domme tieing up the slave in the shower..
And I'm pretty bold..why not I said..
And for someone shy to now have a fantasy become a reality was jaw dropping...
A naked guy now actually in her shower..his hands bound as the water cascades down his back.
She holds a sponge and has access to his whole body.
And yeah going into every area..
that was quite the power exchange..
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Crazy drunk uncle joe wants a 1 time gift of 100 billion dollars to Ukraine
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Posted:Oct 8, 2023 7:07 am
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2023 4:24 am 4228 Views
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And no
I didn't embellish that ridiculous amount of money to further my point..
Joe thinks if he asks for a huge sum then he won't have to ask again till after the election..
And no I'm not making that up..
Meanwhile the story said the US already gave Ukraine like 37 billion already...
My point today: we are trillion dollars in debt,Ukraine has the world's most corrupt politicians..where is the accountability for the money we already gave
Ukraine not only lacks the literal " man power" to fight a war with russia..they may have to bring outside forces in...so this is an unwinable war and a money pit,
Ukraine forces lack the knowledge and experience to use the tanks and firepower Biden gave them..such tech no doubt will end up in the hands of the Russian forces..billions of dollars worth just like Afghanistan
And yeah..pick your poison..
America needs that money for America...
Whether for fighting the homeless crisis
Building a border wall,
Eliminating student debt
My fav. Pet peeve...I was against universal healthcare because we were in such debt to China...I asked where would the money come from..
Now? Apparently money doesn't matter,debt doesn't matter...Joe wants a 100 billion for Ukraine..
Fuck I now want universal healthcare for america..
And what's worse...Joe actually believes..in this economy..with rising gas and grocery prices...that all he has to do is give a speech...
To convince your dumb broke American ass living paycheck to paycheck...
Why Ukraine needs our tax dollars..
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