Why does everything female(adult) morph into $$$
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Posted:Dec 20, 2023 10:35 am
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2023 5:07 pm 3786 Views
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Just a quick rant...and an rhetorical question..
But why does anything female ( adults I'm talking about)in nature suddenly shifts to sex for..views,clicks,revenue..
Like twitch..it's a gaming platform..it was fun to see women getting into the field,playing the games...
And then twitch..
Well allowed them to dress in short skirts,show breast
Or costumes..
Or just wear..yeah just body paint while playing..
Which morphed into hot tub streaming..
The less they wore the more income they made
The more sexual their content..the more Money they made
Huh??? Now they are gonna allow out right nudity
But hey that's just twitch try to be only f..
Why am I complaining..
Cause I now see this same stuff happening on YouTube.
I mentioned before about v tubers..virtual reality host..
At first I praised the idea and thought it was an awesome for someone shy to express themselves (without having to put their body/ their face online..).
You talk through an anime character..you move in real life..the figure moves on screen
And yeah it was mostly Asian women hosting these channels..voicing these characters
It was cool,entertaining...and a few got a little risque..
But a lot of adults watched them..
So within 3 yr v tubbing exploded and grew by leaps and bounds
And everyone now wants to be one..
So yeah how do you now to you go from small potatoes to a big fish..
Well you not only get leud,you talk about body function, you talk about fantasies, you talk about sex
The women ( who are mostly straight) then start crushing on one another..
And a lot of them did face reveals..so now they will literally post real life fetish stuff like..
No cap..the one woman( tricky) is photographed talking the other woman ( numi) on a leash on the street, the other day tricky made numi wear this super short revealing skirt ( in real life)..
And yeah their popularity is growing..
So they took something that basically was female driven,female created,the on air talent was female,for basically a female audience..
Where these women goofed around,played games etc..
And yeah it's quickly sliding into only f terrority..
And I'm not a prude..and I understand sex sells..
But holy f people..your not gay..the women I just mentioned admitted so..gaybaiting is just so bad..
But so is lifestyle baiting...the pseudo Dommy mommy stuff is cringe
Do we really need to hear you just took a pic of your v and sent it to the other v tubber
So it's frustrating to see something so positive,so female driven,so creative .
Suddenly slide into an only f swamp..
And yeah it pissed me off
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Ideally how would you dress a bdsm couple
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Posted:Dec 20, 2023 5:55 am
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2023 9:59 am 2786 Views
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I wanted to have some fun
And let's get surreal for a moment..
Say you could take your favorite couple and play " dress up"..
And have them go out in public..
With no one batting an eye
Ideally what combo of attire are they wearing?
Say are they in leather,naked,a suit..etc
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Recon for men and what I found there
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Posted:Dec 20, 2023 5:10 am
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2023 5:05 pm 2695 Views
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Well I will say I was pleasantly suprised..
If dudes are you thing,then there were a good number on there.
Unlike ALOT of sites I was amazed at the amount of profiles I could view as a standard member..I think it was 10 a day..
But more orgasmic...they let me email multiple users
For free..
Sooo yeah that business model had me coming back..
Their big restriction are things like you can do multiple detailed searches or you can be featured...petty stuff..unless you become a prem member..
But I can understand someone paying for a membership.
Just wished something like this existed for the vanilla folk.
I'll continue in the comments
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The " got junk" trash pick up co. Are fucking you over
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Posted:Dec 19, 2023 3:30 pm
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2023 5:00 am 2645 Views
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So yeah that happened.
Put out all my stuff on the curb for the city to come by and pick up in bulk..
I found a note saying...nope...you dared to put a few items in a trah bag.
So now I have like a ton of c in my front and the city can't do another scheduled pick up till
Feb 21st. My tax dollars hard at work..
And before anyone complains...I'd gladly drive a trash truck for the city.
So like everyone else now a days you call...1800...junk guy or whomever..
And they will literally charge you like 75 bucks to dispose of a matress..
My load?? Might have been 500 to 600 bucks.
Got a rental uhaul..40 bucks plus mileage...the garbage dump..charged 90
Only 90 bucks to dump 1 ton of garbage..
Let's go..
The irony..
The 1800 junk guy dumps your load at the same place..
He was parked right next to me..
So like for 140 bucks...my problem solved..
I guesstimate those 1800 guys must be clearing 200 a load easily.
Anyway it's basically a rip off
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How bdsm is like glove shopping
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Posted:Dec 19, 2023 8:23 am
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2023 8:37 am 2628 Views
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Simply put..
Found a bdsm site with some local possibilities.
But for now? I'm just out shopping around.
I know it's cold out and I want some gloves..
But I'm finding there are ALOT of different styles..
I know it doesn't have to be an ideal fit..
I just want it to have 4 fingers and a thumb
Hole.
Lol..
No really...that is the odd thing about gay men...they can be paired up/ married and you'll always see ads for them looking..
So I don't even know if I need a 1 v 1 situation..
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Why am I a submissive? What am I really needing from a Dominant
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Posted:Dec 19, 2023 5:41 am
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2023 8:48 pm 3584 Views
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Part 1.
Why am I submissive,
If you knew me in real life you might say?
Your not submissive...if anything your quite the chad. The guy that doesn't give a fuck,walks around with big balls,loud,funny AF,the type of guy that lights up the room and rallies the troops..
I think people tend to stereotype the lifestyle..
They think slaves are either shy,reserved,mousey types or they are some extrovert in their 9 to 5 and a gimp to some Dominatrix at night.
And that's just wrong....ALOT of Dom/mes want strong slaves..
ALOT of Dominant people aren't " Billy badass".
We're just people..
Submission is very natural to me. I've always been the apple polisher in school,the teachers pet. I find I respond wonderfully to someone of authority in the vanilla world like nurses,doctors,the police..
Around these types I find myself going into subspace. I feel compelled to follow,be directed,etc
So you can't imagine how I react to someone truly dominant in the lifestyle.
2. So I ask myself as I look for a Dom ...what do I want out of a Dominant person?
What have I been missing?
And like most subs I find myself looking for the same scenario in different people..
Soooo...I thought I'd put pen to paper and just get it out...you might actually enjoy it..
1. Hierarchy...I'm very "Anne rice" writing sleeping beauty..lol...I need a clear distinction between Dominant and slave. I'm not here to be your bud or your boyfriend. I feel the slave is inferior,beneath the Dominant. Much like a serf compared to royality.
I found way too many Dominant want/ have that sub hub. Ironically the Charlie or Joe or tom we see in the office is the same we see in at group events,play parties. Etc.
And to me that isn't a slave..
And trust me I'm not an old guard bdsm guy...but I drawn to things that outwardly show a slave his place...like boot licking.
To some that may seem wrong,icky,stupid.
But it really triggers something in me and makes sense...I mean I was an apple polisher in school. So I get the same wonderful feeling being naked and on all fours greeting a Dominant in this fashion.
2. Discipline...I think Dominant people enjoy discipline as much as slaves do.
But I feel it can't be just a one off or just a punishment thing.
If anything I feel discipline is like weight lifting. You need that guide to constantly push you,get you over plateaus, work with you to endure more..
If a slave is to really grow..he needs to be disciplined .
And yeahhhh...I think it needs to be harsh.
Discipline should be discipline...I don't see a distinction between say play vs punishment.
Cause the only way to get him seasoned to endure more, is to start being harsh with him now..
3. Being a bottom bottom
To me it's important to not only important to be a slave..but be used sexually as one..
So strap ons,dicks,toys,fingers,fist etc
4. Trinkets....
Unlike a lot of slaves I'm very open minded when it comes to the Dominants particular style of bdsm..
But ideally I love the idea of a strict authorative aunt type for a Domme..
And yeah a gay grandpa type for a Dom....basically commanding yet warm and fuzzy as opposed to a drill sargent type.
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Now for the guys..why are straight dudes interested in m2m
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Posted:Dec 18, 2023 7:35 am
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2023 4:40 am 2913 Views
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Okay i did the ladies portion in the previous blog.
So I thought I'd now take on the dudes..
What is it about m2m,gay porn,literature,art,etc that could attract a straight or curious guy.
Like I said before..just cause you watch/ enjoy it doesn't make you gay..
I watch mtf...and I don't wish to be a woman.
I watch lesbians...and last I looked I'm not a lesbian.
I think the initial thing that attracts straight men to gay porn..
Is ( drum roll)
..being honest...the thing that initially attracted me back in the day.
I was straight,grew up straight..bought the porno mags like hustler back in the day..
Butttt I liked the men in the sex ads in the back..well build body,muscles,big hard dick..
I think straight guys turn" curious "through hero worship..
Saying that "this is the type of body I want,that is what I aspire to be,if I had that big dick imagine the women I could get..
I don't think most men process that as being...gay..
Cause it's not..
2. I think guys like m2m stories,erotics,P orn because
They can have some form of gay experience and then quickly dismiss it.
It's a safe space for them to process this interest...to dabble..and then delete
Sidebar: it doesn't make you gay
3. Straight men,curious may be attracted to the gay stereotyped lifestyle..
Fast,no hassle sex...a different partner every night...no need for a marriage or ,..
It's like that movie..old school..it allows men to get back their bachlorhood,to be that dumb 20 something bar guy again.
Its just that your bringing back a guy instead of a woman every night..
But..your still getting sucked,your still fucking.
So is it really that big of a deal..
It's just fucking..your not marrying the guys.
Your frat guy again
Sidebar...yeah sex can be quite easy without any sorta commitment.
So a gay P orn vid may entice a dude because it mimics his carefree days..
And I think a lot of guys could leave their baggage behind and watch a gay porn..
Cause..they aren't gay..and even if they were..they would top..
4. Your not gay..but he is..
Another good point is the straight guy is watching the vid and seeing himself as the top..he's laying the pipe,he's the man
Unlike straight videos where his attention is focused on the woman and her reaction to his cock.
You/ the top in this case aren't gay..in the film
You don't process your top role in this as gay
But damn that bottom guy is such a lil ( f).. look at him take your dick.
He's such a b
And for some guys it can be exciting to have this seperation meanwhile still enjoying the m2m content..they can enjoy the bottom really getting plowed because..
Well yeah the bottom is sus...a b...it's almost a weird b ullying effect
I
I think some straight guys enjoy the though of some dude wanting to bend over..be a b
And then getting that m2m experience/ getting his dick sucked..and the straight guy still maintaining that " mancard".
I think m2m P orn provided this experience for some men.
4. How easy it is to pull guys..
And sure in dopey straight videos the pizza guy shows up and fucks..
But a straight guy knows that is so fake and what a hassle it is to pull women in real life.
So they may wonder...do gay fuck as fast as they do in a P orn vid..is it really that easy to pull guys..
Can I be with a dude without the annoying tinder,without the numerous emails,without the numerous dates and putting myself out..
Do gay guys just fuck ..like the videos??
I think gay erotica is interesting because it explores that question
Is the grass really greener on the otherside..
And your not gonna really know until you try..
Sidebar: spoiler alert but you had your whole adult life to find out..
But yeah..it is..
I think m2m might attract straight guys because it gives them a relief valve from well straight life..
It lets them see what an " option" may look like..
And yeah without really having to change
It's not like your going to turn into a gay stereotype..
Your still you..
in this alternate life..chances are you see yourself as the top..
And your gonna do pretty much what you did previously with a woman.
I think a gay videos allow men to ponder,to wonder and perhaps dream.
5. Finally you might just enjoy watching,reading m2m for the outright real sex.
Straight P orn is
...boring,fake,some chick with fake boobs getting plowed by a troll w a big dick..then to hear those fake moans,fake orgasms..
Stop the cap..
It's even worse with lesbian porn..
Somehow double the girls is boring cause they are all faking..
And none of them are good at it..
With gay porn...the guys are just better looking...the guys can't fake..they are both aroused
The noises the guys make real..cause try putting something in your backdoor..yeah your gonna make noises too..lol..
And you get double the real orgasms,cum shots..
Maybe you like m2m because your tired of all fake moans in regular P orn.
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What attracts woment/straight guys to m2m..it might suprise you
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Posted:Dec 18, 2023 5:54 am
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2023 6:07 am 3169 Views
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First of all I think there is nothing wrong with any adult watching/ enjoying m2m porn.
It doesn't make you this or that.
I watch lesbian porn..last I looked I'm not a lesbian.
So I thought I'd take a few moments to explain why non lgbtq people enjoy these types of vids,stories, etc..
Let's start off with women..
1. I think there is always that subtle fear that.....she doesn't know,isn't sure if she is doing it right,should she stick a finger up..
Yeah that general fear that she doesn't know how to turn a guy on.
guys can be confusing because
most have no idea what turns them on..they've never explored their own bodies
I think there is this idea that women are watching gay P orn because they are looking for tips,techniques,they want to see if men really do it better.
Sidebar for the peanut gallery: from my experiences, yes they do.
But I don't think women are watching gay P orn so much for technique as..
Well for the bottom guy..
They know what a top guy can do.
Now they finally get to see what one can do sexually with a guy.
Does a finger go...
Sidebar: yes it does..and honestly it's not the pinky. I'm talking like 2 or 3 fingers in the hole
I'll elaborate later what sexual things do turn men on
2. I think most women luv a good " bottice " ripping romance novel..
A hard headed beefy dude that can't control his lust and " takes her" in the bedroom..
Sidebar: and as a bottom I totally get a man wanting to strip you naked and pound you silly...lol.. that stubborn good looking chad with..yeah he probably even has a big cock to complement that big smile
..and he's now in you deep..😁
Yes the hero of the novel is a prick..but omg can he..
Yeah..
I get animalistic male passion in the bedroom
I think society in general likes the beauty falling for the " sexual" beast..narrative
And if 1 is hottt...a lot of women wonder..???
What would 2 be like..would it be soft or would they pound away like a bunch of animals
3. Women usually get introduced to m2m/ gays through tv shows or something like Japanese romance comics..
Where the dudes aren't burly...but more dandy,petite,pretty..
Yet the one universal thing that crosses their mind
Does this guy top or bottom?
And Despite it being a tv show or comic..
Women really want to know and demand to see the sex for themselves..
So these Japanese romance comic do contain hardcore art..the mostly female audience demands it.
The women not only need confirmation the character they swoon over is actually..
Gay
They need to see the fucking..
They need to know who tops and who bottoms
And your not getting that on American tv..
But you do get to see that in gay porn..
And yes ladies they are different types of m2m porn..
It ranges from rough to very sensual and affectionate.
One can be pure penetration and others can contain various fun things like kissing,grinding,sucking nipples..and more.
Don't assume it's all the same or gay guys are just into fucking.
4. My final point..not every gay man,not every gay film features a stereotypical gay man..either flaming Elton John type or some rough dude that looks like he just got out of prison..
There are some very masculine,hunky bubble butt dudes that straight women can really invest their time and energy into..
And honestly not care that he likes dudes..
If anything he may be a " better" option/ dude because..
Duh.. gay men tend to be affectionate,luv to touch,cuddle,and understand their bodies..
With a gay dude you could actually pull on his nips,kiss his neck,go up that back door,suck on his fingers..
Stuff that would freak the fuck out of a straight bf..lol
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Can you do the mental shift around different groups
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Posted:Dec 17, 2023 4:59 pm
Last Updated:Dec 17, 2023 6:20 pm 2206 Views
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I was curious as to how many people would admit..
They could do the mental shift from working with bros..
To a dude coming up,touching you and kissing your lips..
I think even with bdsm...we still live in a messed up society..
Nobody needs to know your orientation..
But then again why shy away from what may seem natural..
I could be with a woman..
But I fear they are just friends..
And it's better that way..
So I be trucking and shifting gears and trying to find a nice guy.
It's kinda ironic that we have enough trouble shifting gears and admitting...yeah I want to be your ,your slave,your painslut,your dog,your pony,etc..
No imagine wanting to be that for a dude..
Like double shift and grind it out
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Alt is now on a timer
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Posted:Dec 11, 2023 6:57 pm
Last Updated:Dec 13, 2023 7:25 pm 4038 Views
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To those that want to read
They will have 1 hr..
And then delete delete delete ..
Alt will no longer profit from me.
They don't deserve the bloggers..
My blogs will be on from 7 am to 8 am..csm
And then i will hide them
The bloggers need to take a stand..
7 am to 8 am..and then
No new content
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