Ate,iolence,under a???...banning my blog..who makes these decisions
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Posted:May 26, 2024 11:33 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 12:46 pm 62 Views
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First off I warmly welcome the person,the staff...the bot that denies my blog for...
??? What exactly?
I fully understand that alt isn't a western hemisphere based company and English may not be their first go to language..
But come on..let's have a conversation.
You obviously are clueless to the terms
Atred,iolence and under A..
I'd normally assume your running the blogs through some sort of filter screen software...
But did it have to come from the 90's ..much like your main screen.
I should know...I was on alt...
Your using the same intro screen
So why deny my post....did I use a term that in a 60 degrees seperation of Kevin bacon sorta way....may have inferred a similar sorta kinda not even close on a friday...banned term..way
It ridiculous that adults can't have adult conversations or post..
But one can produce or post an adult vid to upload ...one can just flop out their weiner
In no way did I violate tos
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Be honest..your real reaction to gay men,gay sex
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Posted:May 26, 2024 10:42 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 10:58 am 38 Views
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A black y tube content creator posted this question on his channel..
He asked....would you rather your offspring ( using that word cause alt won't let me say the k word in a post)...
Be a tot ( over sexualized usually female,onlyfans type for profit,sugarbaby) or your be gay..
And I realize in some communities it is still " okay" to be homophobic...no homo
But then this creator's online sidekick added this part...
If he gay...he could be a top...or...Omg bottom..
Something more for them to ponder..and making for a tougher decision.
Like a top is...still cool...sorta..in their cultural etc..he might get a pass
But a bottom????
And the creator went on to make the inference that bottom men are feminine,flamboyant,...the usual Hollywood stereotype.
I did not report his channel...
But I thought I'd take the moment to educate these gentlemen.
I bottom
...I lift weights,drive a truck for a living,repair cars,using tools,i drink beer,whisky,vodka,I luv football, im into sports,my wardrobe isn't designer..it's Wal-Mart, I like hunting,fishing,camping,I'm a huge gamer
I'm probably more country than some rednecks
I'm not flamboyant,am not feminine..I don't wish to be a woman.
I am man
..im your " co worker", your bro..the guy at the end of the bar..
There is no need for stereotypes or making assumptions
No need for the no homo
After the one handed bro embrace...
We good..
Trust me..I get
Your not gay
Kinda funny to see a video where someone would rather have a sugarbaby offspring than a gay one..
And your opinion is your opinion..
There is no right or wrong...
I won't blast or ban you for expressing yourself..
I'm curious as to what people think..
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What ever happened to " slave training"???
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Posted:May 26, 2024 6:16 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 11:08 am 203 Views
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I find it funny...
Here we sit..
A forum filled with Dominants,switches and submissives..
Yet I can't recall...( and yes I do read a lot of your blogs
And remember I'm ALT OG...been on here for 20 plus years..
Anyone really talking about their methods of slave training ..
Is it a lost art..is old guard dead...is it just fantasy???
I posted this blog today because I wonder if maybe
We are doing bdsm baclwards...
We..esp men ( not bashing men...but if it's true..it's true)...
Are quick to jump into sex,fetish, kink...
Women are equally quick to jump into bdsm relationships.
I ponder..
What if..
What if there was formal training,education for Both the Dominant and slave...perhaps even in a group setting
Before we even go down the road with sex,kink,exploring fetishes...or even entertaining an adult lifestyle relationship with someone..
This idea came to me after looking at the local groups and someone suggested " tea parties"..where the male servers would be trained..
Would it be great to do trial runs with a potential Dominant,switch,slave and see if there really is that synergy..
Before you invest your heart,energy,feelings into someone..
And I honestly not even suggesting something kinky...
It could be something as simple as a slave doing simple chores fully clothed..get you both used to the new power dynamic
Perhaps have the potential slave simply wait on you/ your lifestyle friends and see how they react..
Put that buffer zone between you..see if he just balks or if he really is serious about his submission
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My workout theory I'd like to share
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Posted:May 25, 2024 5:40 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 9:50 am 620 Views
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It's been a while since I blogged about exercise,diet,
So I thought I'd share this theory and hopefully it helps.
I honestly think lifting weights is complete bs...or at least the advice that we have been told through out the years
We are told we must consume so much protein,stay in a certain rep range,need expensive equipment...blah,blah,blah..
Which in theory is nice...but then how do we explain muscular prisioners..
Whose diet is ..well garbage..processed foods, baloney,.high calories,high carbs...and honey buns,Roman noodles,chips etc..
Probably no cardio..eating only 3 meals a day plus snacks
Without a 5 lb jug of protein powder to be had
Using crappy weights,no straps or weight lifting belts..
Now if you or I ate garbage,didn't run,didn't consume high amounts of protein..
Say it all together...we'd be fat...at best what is called..fat jacked..looking more like a power lifter with a belly.
So what gives...???
Oh wait this is the point where someone will say prisioners are always exercising, doing high reps,using body weight exercises like pullups,pushup..
If that is true...
Then we too can
Just skip the gym,eat junk food and do some high rep pushups???
Praise be Jesus and pass the honeybuns
A lot of fitness influencers talk about a mind muscle connection,getting a big stretch,rest pausing,going to failure,etc..And all these fun buzz words..
I think..hence my theory....these jailhouse work outs are effective because...
Wait for it..
You end up doing a lot of reps with bad form..
Take a push up...chances are you can do x amount in correct form...
But the majority of people sorta fall off after a rep or two...we stop locking out,we stop going to the correct bottom of the exercise..
And the real magic that makes prisioners jacked...are those incorrect reps..
Why? Something called constant tension...
At 55yrs old I can bench 225lb...hardly mind blowing...but you'd think I'd at least have an impressive chest...but nope..
I actually get more,a better pec stimulation from pushups..
But but...isnt the bench basically the same motion as a pushup???..and roughly the same weight..I weight 214lb..
Nope..cause people tend to lock out or rest pause while doing reps while benching..
Thus taking tension off the muscle..
When we " do half ass reps"/ bad form reps..the tension is constantly on.
Now try to stop short of locking out at the top or bottom of a weighted exercise..you'll see it works you harder and you can't lift as much..
Now when I'm at the gym I do " partial" reps...well not partial..but close..like 85 percent of the motion....I see where the muscle starts and stops being under tension...and then only do that portion of the exercise..take lat raises..I only do part of the traditional motion...the bottom portion is useless.
Don't believe me?? Do a barbell,dumbbell bicep curl...
Now do it on a cable machine..hopefully you'll see the difference..one keeps the muscle under constant tension through out the lift.
What I'm trying to demostrate is..
As we try for higher and higher reps in a body weight exercise..our correct form slips..we don't get our chin over the bar in a pull up..
But that is good because we are now staying in that zone of constant tension..there is no resting at the top or bottom
Which leads to complete muscle exhaustion...
Which leads to
Being jacked
I used this theory when I now bench press..I stop short of locking out and bottoming out...maintaining that tension..
And find it greatly improved my chest growth..
It mimmics the results I was getting from a pushup..
An added bonus I experienced was one doesn't always have to now use lighter weights..with my theory
If I'm now only doing say 85 percent of the bench press motion..I don't have to lower the bar to my chest..I can use heavier weight..
Which increase my strength
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Do you believe the lifestyle is oversexualized? If so how do you rebrand the lifestyle
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Posted:May 24, 2024 4:34 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2024 3:10 pm 941 Views
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I'm curious if you believe the lifestyle is too sexualized..
When I first started my lifestyle journey..what? 30 yrs ago...we blamed this ( mostly) male bad behavior on...
Well porn..
Men would watch it...
Assume bdsm was about orgies,getting laid..
So we would approach women/ Dommes with this mind set. Penis first thinking
But internet porn now??? Seems to be a part of our daily lives and the vids have improved.
So how do we explain the rise of " do me" boys...
Where sex is bigger than ever and males now press Dominants for kink..
Is this a good thing for the lifestyle..
I ask....as the log on screen for alt features a computer generated woman being plowed by some dude..
I'd like to hear your thoughts on the issue...and how/ should the lifestyle change.
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Why aren't you understanding...that isn't being Dominant
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Posted:May 23, 2024 4:58 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 12:11 pm 1248 Views
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Lol..
I don't know if this happens to the ladies..
But if one mentions kink in a profile...on various other sites
Then suddenly
My mailbox is flooded by men
Who don't want an honest discussion about the lifestyle..
They either instantly blurt out their fetish..
Like ..Will you pee on me...or I like cum...
Or want to hear about my kinks..in detail..like very detailed..lol..I could say I want to literally be milked and kept as a cow..or something extreme
And then these guys go...
Cool?..how do we proceed
??? Like bro...you most likely have no clue on how to proceed and are viewing this purely in sexual terms
That isn't being Dominant..
That is why I find myself shifting mental gears away from the overt sexual element of the lifestyle..
Sex to me right now?..chastity? Buttplug...and I'm good..
And looking more to the ,mental aspects..focusing more on play,discipline,service side
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Women run in packs
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Posted:May 23, 2024 4:28 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 9:33 am 1230 Views
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Having a relationship with a Domme is sorta like dating someone in the office..
For a time you say...hey this is great
Until it goes sour
And you realise every other local Domme belongs to the same groups,knows one another...
Which makes meeting other Dommes sorta ackward..
And actually attending group events even odder.
Even weirder...be like me and just answer a couples ad...
And then realise..
yep she belongs to the group..
I not even saying I left on " bad terms"..
But I can't imagine a dude that ghosted one of these women and then showing up to serve a tea party.
And don't get me wrong..I'm not using the group as my personal dating site..
But yeah all these women belong to the same or similar groups..
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Service...
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Posted:May 21, 2024 9:00 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 4:16 am 1577 Views
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When I use the term " service"...
I'm not specifically talking about being a server.
Rather I mean finding joy,pleasure in making someone else happy.
So in turn it shouldn't matter what use the wife,the gf,the Domme has for the male..
He should be happy that it gives her pleasure..
I'll profess that I'm not a service orientated slave..
If anything my talent lies more in the pegging rhelm.
But...and this is a big butttt...
I am okay if Domme decides my best usage is..omg...a sissy maid...no offense...but I'm hardly a pretty boy and would be worse as a Woman.
Because a male has to grow up,put away his toys and realise this really is about control...
So what..I won't be on the cover of " peggers monthly"..
Why argue..why fight? Doesn't the Dominant know what is best..
The male must realise control and pleasure comes in many forms..
Including mowing a Woman's grass.
There was talk about wanting someone to bring out their bags,be waited in etc.
Ironically I consider myself a natural slave...and being honest..I probably was happier making less at toys r us than I do driving a truck..
I sorta miss waiting on the mostly female customers,hauling stuff out to their cars...
Cause that was my natural outlet for my submissive nature
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My approach to bdsm...the empty vessel ..let me know your opinion
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Posted:May 18, 2024 10:05 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 8:30 pm 2717 Views
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I posted on that other channel that starts w an F
jungleboy6996..my theory before...
But I think it is worth a rehash...esp if one runs into a certain type of Dominant..
The empty vessel theory is just that...
I feel way too many males approach Dominants with fetishes,sex on their minds..
And it becomes a point where it wears the Dominant out.
So I proposed male slaves simple come as themselves with no desires or specific kinks.
He simply gets pleasure from being a slave...that is all he should want
Therefore he simply obeys and engages in the fetishes,desires that the Dominant wishes to explore.
I feel that cuts way down on the pressure,the topping from the bottom...
And as long as the slave isn't being used,abused or whatever..
He should be content doing...whatever..
It shouldn't matter what use the Dominant has for you..
It shouldn't matter that the relationship is sexless..
His sexual needs,his kink needs ...really need to be pitched into the dumpster..
And he needs to adopted a small house,minimalist approach to bdsm..
In the long run I think both will be happier..
And this is the point in the conversation where the Dominant states they don't want a doormat...so they scoff at the empty vessel theory
??? Er hello...???
You want to order,command,whip a male..
But him being easy to walk over,a wimp...isn't desirable
??? They want a strong sub
Shaking my head
Yet these are the same Dominants that feel burnt out,feel like they are just a facilitator for the males fetish needs.
A lot of people will disagree with the theory...insisting he needs to have a say in all of this..
But didn't he have that say when he put up his profile..didn't he list every fetish that crossed his mind..
Isn't that enough?
And a Dominant isn't stupid..s/he/ they aren't forcing a square peg into a round hole..
If they have a sissy maid in mind..then they are looking for that..
Should I be sticker shocked if a Dominant locks me now in chastity and uses me as her oral slave.
Shouldn't I just be content with providing service..
Your thoughts..would it prevent fights,burnout,constant topping from the bottom
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If life was a tv show/ movie..what character most resembles you
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Posted:May 14, 2024 4:44 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2024 4:16 am 4195 Views
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I'm not talking so much appearance wise as I mean...you wise.
For me it's kinda easy..
I'm winger...either bill Murray from the movie strips or Jeff winger..from the tv show community..
I'm not necessarily the most handsome guy..
But I'm charasmatic...so people are attracted to me.
I'm the anti hero..
I'm the guy stuck with you in that crappy job,in the army,in that community college..
That hates to be there so he goofs on the boss,makes the employees laugh..
But secretly you wonder how such a smart guy ended up in a hell hole like this.
It's like he doesn't belong...but your glad he is there.
I am...winger
How about you
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