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The shocking blog
Posted:May 4, 2024 7:59 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 11:00 am
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I've been going through a bit of late..
Finally starting to get back into that bdsm groove.

So I thought I'd talk some about shocking devices and why I think they are a good addition to any couples toybag..no matter their level

Now I'm experienced in the lifestyle.
But I've come across so many people..so many couples..just sitting on the sidelines without even a basic enjoyment of a power exchange..

I would never call these people " wannabees"..I'm not here to judge someone's definition or level of the lifestyle

But there are tons of people living vicariously and their own basic fears are holding them back.

I've run into sooo many Dommes afraid to even swat someone

It's like they are just sorta frozen in place..don't wish to explore or advance..

I'd like to suggest a couple look to a shocking device.

I think way too many people see it was something advanced,something painful.

I see a shocking device as something basic and feel it should be part of the initial training of one's husband, bf,male slave..

Why? Cause I want to stress this isn't about pain...it's about a person getting to experience real control over a male..with little to no effort on their part.
And without tons of expense or training.

Any adult can now literally be a Dominant..doesn't matter how old you are,how small you are,how big you are..
It's now easy to just click a button on the remote and the male quickly obeys.

So an elderly couple,a wife,grandma,etc can now physically control a bigger,heavier,muscular male slave

Nobody expects you to pick up a whip,paddle or flog for hours..

There literally is no need. Hell there literally is no need for other lifestyle gear..

One can literally control a male with a remote control.

Shocking devices are relatively cheap...can be attached to the testicles,the penis,up his arse,in a prostate buttplug..
Etc..

The best thing is there isn't that " fear" of " hurting" the male...like one would feel with say canning,paddling,whipping or just disciplining him.

It literally is a small jolt to his most sensative areas.

The " pain" isn't even " pain".. it more like unexpected,quick,overwhelming for a second..

Then gone...

But very effective..

Without any damage done,no marks,no soreness,

The remote has many levels of shock...from..this feels nice
To him surrendering..

And knowing the device most likely is only turned up half way..

Plus it gives a Dominant real options for control...She still has 4 or 5 higher settings to honestly overwhelm the male physically if she choses to use it.

And yes those higher setting can put a male on his knees before you.

Such a device allows a Dominant to experience control...
Without going overboard, experience it on their comfort level
And without the fear of really harming the male..

But also leaving her the options of exploring deeper.

I don't see shocking devices as a finisher,advanced device..

I see it as something as a starting device..a learning device that might aid a lot of people on that bdsm fence

The Dominant gets to instantly experience control with no real effort,money,time,experience or energy involved..
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A good laugh for Harry potter fans and those that lift
Posted:May 4, 2024 6:45 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 8:21 am
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Sorry I'm not big on linkage..

But if you want a good laugh

I came across the

Harry squatter
Lord of the gym vids on youtube..

Someone is using AI to make the whole cast of Harry potter or LOTR buff AF..

So if you luv Harry or luv to work out..

Then you need to check them out..
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Fuck you Peter..you got banned
Posted:Apr 29, 2024 5:06 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2024 12:23 pm
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Rarely do I ban someone..

I actually appreciate opposing views and real discussions.

Rarely do I out people on the big boards...

But this is the only way I can communicate with a fuck tard that earned a ban..

Come on my blog and tell me I know nothing about nothing..

Motherfucker...really??

Notice how it's never really a fellow blogger being rude..
Sure we clash...vote for different parties...but it's rare for us to pop on each other's blogs and claim your an ignorant c.

It's always that lurker that jumps the blogger with their ignorance and insults

And even that could maybe be forgiven if we were alt employees..

But for those that don't blog....we get nothing from alt....no freebie membership..no perks..no points..

We blog cause we blog..

And to have some asshat blast my blog so earily in the morning...

I just say Fuck you Peter..you POS...you earned your ban..

I hope other bloggers follow me and totally cockblock this idiot.

Hell I propose bloggers unite..put our past behind us..

Someone insults you..they insult me...and vice versa...get the word out...come for you...they come for all of us

And we start group banning certain readers from the blogs.
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Can we really elect a politican that makes up stories and then
Posted:Apr 28, 2024 7:35 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 4:17 am
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And this isn't me getting political..

But can we really elect any public official that makes up stories,repeats them and then actually believes it occurred.

If I said my uncle got shot down in the war and eaten by cannibals...you'd tell me to " stop the cap".

You'd think I'm trollin or just stupid.

It's one thing to embellish a story...

It's another to have delusions where you believe your own lie actually happened..

My point today is someone as old as Diane Feinstein or barb boxer or trump,sanders,biden,etc...be allowed on a ballot..
I mean we make the elderly take a road test to prove they can still drive a car passed a certain age...

Shouldn't there be a mental test for those passed a certain age to run for office..

Or are we literally gonna just give a pass to a man falling asleep at his own trial,a man that thinks his uncle got eaten by cannibals
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Equality for all..esp at times of conflict...the Ukraine situation
Posted:Apr 28, 2024 7:15 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 4:20 am
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I find it interesting that the dictator of Ukraine...
Yes your buddy Z that your elected officials bravely clapped for when he spoke before congress..is

A dictator...he suspended elections during this " conflict"

Now demands men who fled Ukraine to avoid fighting..

Simply return or else...you literally owe it to a country that gave you so much..

Well Z got " paid", has all these new fancy weapons of destruction ...yet not enough " meat" for the front line grinder..

And give no doubt...

Any man stupid enough to return to fight for the " glory" of ukraine...
Will be put on that front line.

Personally I'm very pro military...

But I'd flee the country too if given the option of a " short life".. or running away and driving for uber in poland..

So many men have fled Ukraine that Z is asking p oland and other countries to ship these men back..

?? Huh like how...arent they literally refugees from a war torn country that now fears being xXxX if they return

Cause without men...

Well z cant profit from this war.

Don't think Z is profiting from the war...then have him give precise details where the us taxpayer funds went.
I think you'll find a good portion got laundered or stolen

And I don't wish to go down this road...but

Where are the Women of ukraine? Are their lives more important then men's? Why are men disposable?
If men are in such short supply then where is the call for women ages 18-30 - to step up

Can women not fire w#!0ns,fly drones,hold down the front lines..

Why do we sacrifice so many young men's lives...esp for a war in which U kraine c ant win...a war alot of ukraine men dont wish to fight for.

In my day great men actually lead the charge....

Z and his wife?? are busy shopping for clothes in NYC.

If the front lines are sparce....why isn't z and company manning a g*n...both him and his wife...

This is 2024..where just being a male can get you conscripted into an army and you could easy diet without the t.
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Just curious..do you like shocking toys
Posted:Apr 20, 2024 6:15 am
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2024 11:55 am
3905 Views

I plan on writing a long and detailed blog on why I enjoy them.
And why I believe they should be part of any couples toy bag..no matter if they are vanilla or heavily into the lifestyle

So what's your thoughts...does the idea of an electrical device on/ in a male's cock,balls,ass get a tingle out of you.
Would you enjoy slowly turning it on and increasing the voltage.
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The denial of your own pleasure
Posted:Apr 13, 2024 6:33 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2024 4:55 am
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I find it funny how we still conform to societal norms..

Sex to a lot of men is still..

Tab A into slot B...

And as much as I'll bash men for living in the 1800s when it comes to sex,sensations,physical touch

Women aren't alot better....

Are you still just a pump and dump

Have you really explored your body and the wonderful sensations it can produce..

It's funny how a lot of people seek out others to

Deny them pleasure

When they

Are already doing it

To themselves..
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The beginning of the soft men era
Posted:Apr 13, 2024 5:39 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2024 4:56 am
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Now I know this isn't everyone's cup of tea..

Nor have I drunk the koolaid..

But I do appreciate the humor found in these.." soft guy era" vids on tiktok..

It basically is men outright mirroring the outrageous demands women put on men in the dating world.

Such as he must be 6 foot tall and make six figures..

The men fire right back with..

They have entered their " soft men phase " and realise they deserve better..they are top shelf men...they now will only date women 5'9 and up that make 6 figures,etc..
Now add on ridiculous requirements like..

One dude went to his cabinets and pulled out his skin care routine...claiming he was a high value man and any woman that wishes to date him now must pay for...his hair,his lotions,etc.

( basically parodying women found in other tiktok vids that demand men pay for their hair,their nails, their grooming products just to go out on a date.

I bring up the soft guy era because I do believe some of this has bleed over into the lifestyle..

My ex Domme is the perfect example of an independant boss woman that doesn't need no man..

To which I am not mocking..

But unfortunately this lifestyle,this boss girl attitude lead to a lot of isolation..not wanting help,not wanting someone in their bed.

This attitude also leads to the person being super picky and inflating their own self worth..

Basically demanding such a " super" man....that no man could fill the role...not even a chad like your boy

In her case..your 68 yrs old...I think if prince charming was coming down the road,he'd be here by now

I'm not bitter..I'm trying to make the point...

That soft women,soft men do exist...and aren't a parody.

It is a fact that on dating sites like bumble, 90 perhumble, women go after 10 percent of the men.

And I do believe this is also reflected in the lifestyle.

Anyway to wrap this up..

There are grains of truth in these soft guy era parodies...

Like no person is worth simping over
Appreciate your own self worth
And focus on you..build your empire
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So do you have a coming to Jesus meeting w co workers...when your alone
Posted:Apr 1, 2024 5:55 pm
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2024 6:13 pm
6832 Views

I ask this because tomorrow

Our office manager wants to do a ride along with me so she gets a better understanding how I scan in the product.

???? And she has really been pushing for this???

Bigger question..

Do you use the opportunity to guage their real feelings....

Right now there is no camera in the truck.

I'm curious as to what she really thinks of this company..

Your thoughts
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Is being a " girl boss" a good thing..you opinion
Posted:Mar 30, 2024 8:32 am
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2024 7:16 am
7016 Views

Now don't get me wrong..

I'm completely comfortable with the ideal that a woman doesn't need a man,can be completely self sufficient..

Just like society has finally caught up and realised...there is nothing wrong with a single man passed the age of 30.
It doesn't make him.omg." gay"..it doesn't make him a man baby..
Or a bar creeper..and it certainly doesn't mean he can't be an effective manager..
Like he needs a wife so he " settles down".
( c ant have perves in the office..meanwhile the married CEO is sleeping around)

But in saying so I've seen videos where women will admit that they've been self sufficient for so long..

That they literally don't want anyone helping them..they see it as an insult..
And they literally don't want anyone in her bed..
The one woman literally said..." ick" to that thought..

Now I know these sorta videos can be sorta incell..

But I also see some grains of truth and somethings my exe Domme did that now make sense..

Like hello I'm a slave..we do things..yet she was such the girl boss type that she outright refused my offer to do anything.

And yeah I never got in her bed after 2 months of emails..

My question is do you think some people take being a " girl boss" too literally..
And doesn't it cockblock your chance to really..

Find?
Hell let's just say put in an effort to look for someone.

Your thoughts...If your that independent...do you really desire anyone..

If anything I think you want a relationship because everyone else has one..

And you feel you deserve one..

But on your terms
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