The surprise benefits of playing with a dude
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Posted:May 11, 2024 7:47 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2024 1:07 pm 134 Views
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Now before my blog sounds like an advert for gaytown..
I'm not omg..converting anyone
..this blog post really isn't about sex..it's about the lifestyle
Instead I'm trying to open some eyes ..
and suggest a couple,a straight guy,an elderly couple that is having trouble finding a female slave...
May actually consider a male slave instead..
I'm crafting this blog because I ran across a personal ad from a local straight married Dom looking for a male slave..
And yeah it's more common than you'd think
Hopefully that didn't blow your mind...
Cause there actually are ALOT of benefits that you might not have thought of..
1. For starters..male slaves come with less barriers.
Now this is just an over all generalization,stereotype ....
But Female slaves usually are looking for that relationship component,not looking to share with another slave or wife..
And can be quite choosy when meeting potential Dominants..
Male slaves? Are more play driven...
They don't necessarily need a relationship..don't need to be the hubby,bf
or even a wink wink..what we tell the neighbors..he's a " friend"..
Males are here to full fill a role..
They can be used,treated,seen as
Well...an actual slave.
.instead of say..bob..mistresses katies sub hub that your know from that bdsm bbq last month
So I feel a male eliminates the need for jealously...the slave isn't there to replace your hubby/ wife...isn't there to sleep with your wife..isn't there to be a part of your existing relationship..Or interfere in it..
He's literally there to clean the house,enjoy disciplining,enjoy controlling,etc...
So I feel a Male makes a better fit for anyone that ever entertained the thought of owning a slave.
2. Men are up front with their desire to serve and don't constantly judge you or make you jump through all those hoops. They don't have tons of qualifiers
. They don't expect you to be prince charming( 6 foot tall,6 figure income, 6 pack abs,...blah,blah,blah..)
They don't expect you to even be this experienced Dominant with 10 grand in toys
You literally could be a 90 yr old straight couple. Or a gay postman,or santa clause ..and it d oesnt matter. You can be 300lbs...and it doesn't matter..
What matters is your desire ..
Your honest desire to own,discipline,control a male..
It's what you desire
It's what he needs in his life.
Men also don't beat around the bush..it's easy to have them over,even easier to get them naked and tied to a spanking bench or cleaning your house,etc..
Without a thousand emails sent,without a thousand get togethers,without many months of getting to know one another or being vetted or even belonging to various local bdsm .
3. Sex?
The interesting thing is sex literally doesn't have to enter the equation.
Cause your literally replacing his need for sex with his need for service.
So it isn't odd in spanking groups to see straight men spanking gay,bi men or vice verse sans any sorta sex.
Yes it really happens..lol
Yet oddly enough..
Sex can be on the table...without really being on the table..
And I honest think it's different when one is Dominating a Female vs Male slave..it's like there are different societal rules
If a Dominant grabs a Woman's body...it's sex/ sexual..And it's just viewed differently, it may really offend her...she may even see it as...a criminal act
It has to be 100 percent consensual
Meanwhile..just be honest...a Dominant can grope my penis without any notice/ permission ..happens ALL the time..
And nobody bats an eye
And yeah this actually happens
..she/ he can just finger me..
Without giving it a second though....literally had Domme just slide in fingers...like...hellllllllloooooooo nurse!!!!!!!!!
I'm not making light of the need for permission....
But people are just more casual with a male,his body.
And I feel males are more casual with being touched,prodded,poked
Its Different with a male slave...
A grab of his nipple,a jerk of his cock,a toy entering his ass is viewed as playful,an element of control,it's a power exchange..
And being real..stereotypically speaking ..most male slaves aren't offended in the least..
Not saying bdsm shouldn't be consensual...but I think..in general male slaves are more casual than females when it comes to being touched in a sexual manner
Now let's look at that one straight local Dom that wanted a male slave...in the ad he mentioned that he might also want oral..and using toys on your backside
Yet most likely the straight Dom doesn't see it as a gay..or even bi thing..
And honestly me sucking a cock really is no different than say licking his boot..it's another form of control
I don't process this as ..something negative,abusive..or even sexual..
I don't see it in sexual orientation terms either..it's not a gay thing.
Finally yes you can use the male slave sexually
you might like fucking his ass or having him fuck you,your wife..hell fuck the gardener...whatever
I just think male slaves in general are more " open" to various scenarios and may fit in better with your current relationship,marriage.
4. play...hate to say it but
I feel generally....male slaves are just more open to various styles of play,fetishes vs female slaves...esp right out of the gate
I feel if you have a particular fetish you wish to explore...
You,your wife...are going to have a better chance of finding that with a male slave..
Say you want to do golden shower,do puppy play,explore bondage,are into feet..
I think one is more bold when approaching a male vs a Female slave with such fetishes..one can be more forward..
And your more likely to find a slave into it...
In the men's department.
Don't like to stereotype..but I also feel like males are more drawn to discipline,being disciplined ..we are geared for it
And from a newbie Dominant standpoint..
There is that impression that males are bigger,stronger,harder to injure...so a male may seem like a better option to learn on
And there are a lot of male slave only styles of play that one only gets with a male slave..
Like feminization, sissy maid,chastity,cbt,etc.
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Saying..your pretty is a double edged sword
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Posted:May 9, 2024 5:06 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 8:36 am 797 Views
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Ironically in this..me too age...
Men will not complement women in the workplace..
And through the Ilk of social media/ tiktok...men find themselves not even looking at or approaching women..
With the fear that they are being filmed and made out to be a creep..
And even over the internet I'm hesitant to use the term " pretty " because it is a double edged sword..
I could tell my ex Domme that she is pretty
And I would get the anger from all those men in her past that said she was too..old,ugly,fat..
I could literally tell her that bdsm d oesnt matter...just as a male friend I'd enjoy orally pleasuring you..I find her attractive..
And yes my honest heart felt intentions are judged..
Not on me
But on her past..
So do you even use the term pretty...do you still complement people.
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The lab? What did you really think of that as a possible story
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Posted:May 9, 2024 4:54 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 9:11 pm 805 Views
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Like I wrote previously...
I like taking the surreal and then making it real..readily available and accessible to an audience..
I feel the biggest real life fail for most people is there isn't some service that readily connects those that desire male slaves and the " supposed" abundance of males available
I tend to be bold and more open with these story ideas because I find those in the gay community to be more..
Well open..it isn't odd for a gay dude to contact me and start talking about feet..or some other kink
And really wish I could bring that casual reaction to the lifestyle to the vanilla side of things..
Sooo yeah....driving up to an old bank that is now a lab..
And then having an authority figure/ scientist make you a offer to " volunteer "...
Maybe the fuel for fever dreams or even wet dreams
But have you asked yourself..
Why isn't that the norm???
And is it really that big of a deal..
Could you walk between one of those two doors....male or female scientist...
Be stripped naked and ???
Experimented on..
What your thoughts about this story idea??
And once again..
I think the story's strength lies in the reality of its characters..
The authority figure isn't brad pitt...doesnt live at the gym..is just a guy..he is as real as real can be.
But for those brief moments ( in real life) I felt a lot of " chemistry" between us..
I did feel him give off a lot of Dom energy..
The purpose of the story is to enlighten the audience..
Anyone can have a male adult slave.
It's not based on looks,body image,age ( adults),weight,income..here's a biggy...sexual orientation..yes a straight guy/ couple can own a male adult slave
It's more about personality,experience,desire, the energy one gives off
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From the men's file....what's your favorite bondage fantasy
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Posted:May 8, 2024 4:10 am
Last Updated:May 8, 2024 3:49 pm 1109 Views
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Like I stated in my previous blog..
I'm on that odd " chat" personal site..
Where apparently I'm the only one that list any sort of profile..
And yeah I did list I enjoy kink..so dudes come out of the woodwork with their fetishes,kinks when they write me.
So yesterday I got asked today's topic( right off the bat)....what is your favorite bondage fantasy..
So I thought I'd ask the peanut gallery..
Mine included in the reply..
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A chat orientated personal site...is kinda odd
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Posted:May 6, 2024 4:55 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 2:43 am 1857 Views
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So yeah no sticker shock that I prefer men..
And was looking to either go deeper into the lifestyle with one or just leave it behind.
And go vanilla
So I tried some dating apps..
One was literally chat based...
Meaning they gave you so free coins
But to really chat you needed to buy more..
But if I'm gonna spend money I need to know the men are legit etc.
Where as the site does offer me access to men that I normally prefer...I tend to like older men..
None...
And I mean none
Have any sort of profile..
Which usually means
They are married,fucking on the side..
Since I'm single I do get A lot of attention on the site
Which can be a huge ego boost..
But men leave the oddest opening messages..
It's either something flowery,romantic
Or quick to the point with a fetish reference..
The most common revolve around cum,pee drinking or feet in general.
Which honestly doesn't phase or repulse me..
I just think it's odd that one would lead with that line.
And oddly enough..few actually talk about penetration..
I find more of these guys identifying themselves as " women"???
The kicker??? A lot of these guys act like asshat if you omg don't reply to their message..
Like omg I'm getting like 20 message a day...I'm assuming a lot are bots..
And I'm not spending any freebie coins to reply to just anyone..
I just find that site sooo odd...
I mean if I'm writing to you I'm gonna a least introduce ,myself. I'm not gonna talk about a fetish of mine and I'm certainly not gonna pout if I don't get a reply..
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The shocking blog
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Posted:May 4, 2024 7:59 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 11:00 am 2532 Views
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I've been going through a bit of late..
Finally starting to get back into that bdsm groove.
So I thought I'd talk some about shocking devices and why I think they are a good addition to any couples toybag..no matter their level
Now I'm experienced in the lifestyle.
But I've come across so many people..so many couples..just sitting on the sidelines without even a basic enjoyment of a power exchange..
I would never call these people " wannabees"..I'm not here to judge someone's definition or level of the lifestyle
But there are tons of people living vicariously and their own basic fears are holding them back.
I've run into sooo many Dommes afraid to even swat someone
It's like they are just sorta frozen in place..don't wish to explore or advance..
I'd like to suggest a couple look to a shocking device.
I think way too many people see it was something advanced,something painful.
I see a shocking device as something basic and feel it should be part of the initial training of one's husband, bf,male slave..
Why? Cause I want to stress this isn't about pain...it's about a person getting to experience real control over a male..with little to no effort on their part.
And without tons of expense or training.
Any adult can now literally be a Dominant..doesn't matter how old you are,how small you are,how big you are..
It's now easy to just click a button on the remote and the male quickly obeys.
So an elderly couple,a wife,grandma,etc can now physically control a bigger,heavier,muscular male slave
Nobody expects you to pick up a whip,paddle or flog for hours..
There literally is no need. Hell there literally is no need for other lifestyle gear..
One can literally control a male with a remote control.
Shocking devices are relatively cheap...can be attached to the testicles,the penis,up his arse,in a prostate buttplug..
Etc..
The best thing is there isn't that " fear" of " hurting" the male...like one would feel with say canning,paddling,whipping or just disciplining him.
It literally is a small jolt to his most sensative areas.
The " pain" isn't even " pain".. it more like unexpected,quick,overwhelming for a second..
Then gone...
But very effective..
Without any damage done,no marks,no soreness,
The remote has many levels of shock...from..this feels nice
To him surrendering..
And knowing the device most likely is only turned up half way..
Plus it gives a Dominant real options for control...She still has 4 or 5 higher settings to honestly overwhelm the male physically if she choses to use it.
And yes those higher setting can put a male on his knees before you.
Such a device allows a Dominant to experience control...
Without going overboard, experience it on their comfort level
And without the fear of really harming the male..
But also leaving her the options of exploring deeper.
I don't see shocking devices as a finisher,advanced device..
I see it as something as a starting device..a learning device that might aid a lot of people on that bdsm fence
The Dominant gets to instantly experience control with no real effort,money,time,experience or energy involved..
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A good laugh for Harry potter fans and those that lift
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Posted:May 4, 2024 6:45 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 4:46 am 2502 Views
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Sorry I'm not big on linkage..
But if you want a good laugh
I came across the
Harry squatter
Lord of the gym vids on youtube..
Someone is using AI to make the whole cast of Harry potter or LOTR buff AF..
So if you luv Harry or luv to work out..
Then you need to check them out..
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Fuck you Peter..you got banned
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Posted:Apr 29, 2024 5:06 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2024 12:23 pm 4186 Views
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Rarely do I ban someone..
I actually appreciate opposing views and real discussions.
Rarely do I out people on the big boards...
But this is the only way I can communicate with a fuck tard that earned a ban..
Come on my blog and tell me I know nothing about nothing..
Motherfucker...really??
Notice how it's never really a fellow blogger being rude..
Sure we clash...vote for different parties...but it's rare for us to pop on each other's blogs and claim your an ignorant c.
It's always that lurker that jumps the blogger with their ignorance and insults
And even that could maybe be forgiven if we were alt employees..
But for those that don't blog....we get nothing from alt....no freebie membership..no perks..no points..
We blog cause we blog..
And to have some asshat blast my blog so earily in the morning...
I just say Fuck you Peter..you POS...you earned your ban..
I hope other bloggers follow me and totally cockblock this idiot.
Hell I propose bloggers unite..put our past behind us..
Someone insults you..they insult me...and vice versa...get the word out...come for you...they come for all of us
And we start group banning certain readers from the blogs.
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Can we really elect a politican that makes up stories and then
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Posted:Apr 28, 2024 7:35 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 4:17 am 4428 Views
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And this isn't me getting political..
But can we really elect any public official that makes up stories,repeats them and then actually believes it occurred.
If I said my uncle got shot down in the war and eaten by cannibals...you'd tell me to " stop the cap".
You'd think I'm trollin or just stupid.
It's one thing to embellish a story...
It's another to have delusions where you believe your own lie actually happened..
My point today is someone as old as Diane Feinstein or barb boxer or trump,sanders,biden,etc...be allowed on a ballot..
I mean we make the elderly take a road test to prove they can still drive a car passed a certain age...
Shouldn't there be a mental test for those passed a certain age to run for office..
Or are we literally gonna just give a pass to a man falling asleep at his own trial,a man that thinks his uncle got eaten by cannibals
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Equality for all..esp at times of conflict...the Ukraine situation
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Posted:Apr 28, 2024 7:15 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 4:20 am 4392 Views
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I find it interesting that the dictator of Ukraine...
Yes your buddy Z that your elected officials bravely clapped for when he spoke before congress..is
A dictator...he suspended elections during this " conflict"
Now demands men who fled Ukraine to avoid fighting..
Simply return or else...you literally owe it to a country that gave you so much..
Well Z got " paid", has all these new fancy weapons of destruction ...yet not enough " meat" for the front line grinder..
And give no doubt...
Any man stupid enough to return to fight for the " glory" of ukraine...
Will be put on that front line.
Personally I'm very pro military...
But I'd flee the country too if given the option of a " short life".. or running away and driving for uber in poland..
So many men have fled Ukraine that Z is asking p oland and other countries to ship these men back..
?? Huh like how...arent they literally refugees from a war torn country that now fears being xXxX if they return
Cause without men...
Well z cant profit from this war.
Don't think Z is profiting from the war...then have him give precise details where the us taxpayer funds went.
I think you'll find a good portion got laundered or stolen
And I don't wish to go down this road...but
Where are the Women of ukraine? Are their lives more important then men's? Why are men disposable?
If men are in such short supply then where is the call for women ages 18-30 - to step up
Can women not fire w#!0ns,fly drones,hold down the front lines..
Why do we sacrifice so many young men's lives...esp for a war in which U kraine c ant win...a war alot of ukraine men dont wish to fight for.
In my day great men actually lead the charge....
Z and his wife?? are busy shopping for clothes in NYC.
If the front lines are sparce....why isn't z and company manning a g*n...both him and his wife...
This is 2024..where just being a male can get you conscripted into an army and you could easy diet without the t.
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