Fulfillment
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Posted:May 4, 2024 9:35 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 8:41 pm 218 Views
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Well it's been a good while since writing here, from the count it seems people read -but still no comments or replies. Thought i would try again.
Changed status on profile tonight and thought I would expand on it some. I seek a sub with a true need to be of service to her Master- in all ways. One that finds fulfillment in serving, it is something that comes from their core. In doing so, and in presenting her submission to her Master, a reasonable expectation is that her submission will not only be accepted but cherished and protected by her Master. This is the basis for a truly successful M/s relationship, one in which the two form a cohesive whole -a ying yang completeness as it were. Which is why I do not see M/s relationships based on violence and fear to work for any length of time -although I know some do, really depends on the participants. Discipline is an integral part of any M/s scenario, the sub must be reminded periodically of her place. As is an appreciation of the sacrifice the sub makes. I have wondered and still do, if I will ever find " the perfect sub " -I have experienced different elements of this in other relationships but to find everything that just fits -well that is truly special -and I think what we all look for. Often I guess there is settling for the next best thing. I really don't want to settle again -guess I'm greedy -I want it all
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A couple unrelated thoughts
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Posted:Oct 16, 2023 11:38 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 7:31 am 1510 Views
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First, Have been thinking about the submissive's ability to submit or lack there of. What I mean is while there may be the true desire to submit, due to upbringing, life experience or maybe DNA, the sub finds themself, when in a situation where submission is a possibility -they are unable to let go and place themself in submission to the the Master. I have encountered this more than once, and it can be extremely frustrating for both. I believe it is at least one cause for topping from the bottom -which is something I do not tolerate. Just a thought I had that I felt might be worth sharing.
Second, What is it on the site with women just putting a gmail address out there for contact? I do understand not being a paid member and wanting a way to communicate but with no other information on their profile, are there really guys just contacting every woman they can? compatible or not? I suppose so -sad really sad. Like the supposed Dommes that are constantly looking. II would think that some measure of compatibility would be in order first -but that's just me I guess.
Still looking for responses-lots of looking and I have written on a variety of topics and no reply -I find this curious. But it is what it is. Until later
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Submission and Covid vaccines
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Posted:Sep 7, 2023 7:35 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 7:31 am 1941 Views
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Since they are pushing a "new vaxx" and wearing masks for election year thought I would muse a bit on the subject. While I understand people don't really know what to do, they want to listen to "medical authorities" and "do the right thing" but after all the information that continues to come out about the last fiasco and their vaccines, some common sense should be used before proceeding. I know submissives tend to just do as they are told -well the good ones anyway. But in this case, maybe considering the long term effects would be worthwhile instead of being frightened by the media into destroying your health. As a Master I certainly do not want to see all the subs disappear due to a mistake in judgement.
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going to start this again
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Posted:Jun 13, 2023 2:01 pm
Last Updated:Jun 23, 2023 12:58 pm 2173 Views
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Took down my other posts - lots of looking but seemingly nothing anyone wanted to talk about. One reader had a comment to one of my first posts but then nothing, That;s fine- if I said nothing you wanted to communicate about then it is what it is. I will start this again though in case there is a sub that would like a way to contact that is not able to through messages,
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Total Submission
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Posted:May 4, 2023 2:05 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2023 1:10 pm 2415 Views
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I have had subs in the past tell me they want to submit totally -except for anal. This is unacceptable -you either submit or you don't. As I said in a previous post, it is the Master that decides -NOT the sub! Just as in cock sucking, just because the sub is the one sucking doesn't mean they decide HOW they do it. If Master wants to face fuck -Master will face fuck it's that simple. Now I don't mean I would be cruel about it -some are I know. I believe plenty of training and warmup is required for anal but you WILL give it up!
About 20 years ago when I was just getting into D/s, met a young woman about 15 years younger than me, who went to college that had daddy issues (always fun) When we would get together, she would come dressed in a school girl outfit she made just for our playtime. Upon arriving she would whisper to me "I'm all clean just like you taught me Daddy" Meaning she had already had 3 full enemas and had shaved her little treasure front and back. After a good period of playtime she would say Let's go flying -that was her expression for anal - when I would be pounding her back door she would start crying that she felt like she was flying as she came repeatedly. Always have incorporated anal in play since then. A real shame she went to grad school in another state
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An example- Repost
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Posted:Apr 12, 2023 8:11 am
Last Updated:Sep 2, 2023 9:49 pm 4125 Views
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As I thought about the post I wrote last night, I was reminded of a sub I had in the past and thought it a good example. I met a mature woman, in everyday life -nothing to do with the lifestyle. She had a very responsible position in a government office. As I got to know her and we talked more, I realized she was eager to submit and find a new side of herself. She was a tall woman with massive sagging breasts and I proposed she would make an excellent hucow -after we had revealed more of ourselves to each other. At first she was very reluctant, but as time went on became more and more interested. I constructed a milking stand and ordered a goat milking machine. When we finally had a chance to play, once she was restrained to the stand, and the milker attached, I slowly began to introduce her cow cunt to my arm. This sent fer into ecstasy. Sometimes i would place a Hitachi to be in contact with her clit -sometimes not. It got to the point where she would call me and BEG to come over and be milked. I had to put plastic sheeting down she squirted so much. So this is one example of a situation where I thought this scenario would be humiliating, and turned out to be quite the addiction for my sub. I found I love hucow play also
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Trials-Repost
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Posted:Apr 11, 2023 9:05 pm
Last Updated:Sep 2, 2023 9:45 pm 3888 Views
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After the "get to know each other period", there will be at least with me, a series of trials or tests to determine the subs sincerity. So many subs will state they are submissive and willing to serve when that is not the case. Since I know about you from the get to know you period, the trials will involve things that you may find unpleasant or uncomfortable, nothing really painful -we can explore that later. More along the lines of humiliation. Something that might put you off balance. I feel this is important to remind the sub of their place and prove their genuine desire to submit.
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