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Posted:Apr 16, 2008 12:01 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2008 11:57 am 9234 Views
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So I was laying in bed this morning and started thinking of blow-jobs. Having been fortunate to be on the receiving end of countless numbers of blow-jobs, I think that I know by now what works for me and what doesn't. First of all..you sluts..hehehe...it's not a race to see how fast I can orgasm. It's more like a nice glass of wine that I want to savor and enjoy. I love the sensations that I experience so take your time. I don't really know why they are called blow-jobs to begin with. I've never had anyone blow on my cock.. There are some good books out there of course on proper technique like "How to Tickle His Pickle" for example. Personally I like much more tongue action to actual sucking time. It's the sensation. and then you don't have to worry about someone having a small mouth and being subject to the grinding of the teeth..not a good feeling most of the time.. The only place I want to feel teeth is on my nipples and only as I direct them.. Yes I'm a nipple . Well.. a few nibbles here and there feels good too..but I digress..I love to be teased..again it's the sensations so take your time. Run your tongue from top to bottom. Pretend that what you are holding is an ice cream cone that is melting. Wet your lips..and do the same thing. Use different temperatures hot to cold and vice versa. Foods work real well also. Imagination goes a long way. Let's not even discuss the controversy of to swallow or not to swallow.. You gals like for your clit to be licked along with all the accompanying juices.. Nuff said. Just open your mouth and say AAAHAHHHHHHHH!!!!
And she blew me........kisses.... Have kinky day.
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Unforgiveness
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Posted:Apr 11, 2008 9:53 am
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2008 7:58 am 9083 Views
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So I was perusing the blogs this week. Some I read for educational reasons. Some because they are friends and their blog lets me know what going on with them to a degree..others I read just to humor myself. One that I read this week had me laughing at first and then that grin turned to sadness.. This particular blog is usually humorous because the blogger is clueless and is usually spouting off at the mouth about one thing or another. The blog this time was her complaining because the world does not revolve around her and her schedule. And therefore she is pissed. But this person is always complaining about something. ALWAYS. You see there is a new MAsT chapter starting in NC and the group had to pick a place to hold regular meetings and a scheduled time for each month. Well neither the time or place suits this ONE individual. So she is resentful. She also implies she will not be attending because of some unnamed reason or person. Oh grow up please. This is about control.. Whoever or what ever the reason is, they are the one in control of her every breath. Except that it's not the good kind of control. Though it is consensual. When you harbor un-forgiveness toward someone, that person in effect controls your emotions and your thoughts. Think about it for a minute. You have been offended whether real or imagined (and in this case her offense is mainly self imagined}, that offense controls how you react and think for the time period spent dwelling on it. You may even snap at a friend or loved one all because you are still pissed about something else. What's the cliche? "Don't sweat the small stuff.. It's all small stuff" Think about anger and how you react when angry. That emotion controls everything you do until you chill. Equally un-forgiveness, { a subset of anger} controls everything you do and by extension the person that you hold un-forgiveness towards ...CONTROLS YOU. Like I stated earlier, in this case, at first her vomit was humorous until I started thinking of the un-forgiveness that this person holds towards many people. That is why it became sad. She is a prisoner and slave to her own emotions and by extension to these people. But she doesn't realize it. I feel sorry for her. Every time these feelings of un-forgiveness rise you can just hear the auctioneer screaming...SOLD.
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April for Leo's
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Posted:Apr 2, 2008 2:54 pm
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2008 8:54 am 8933 Views
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Leo: Ace of Cups
You're in love with love and nothing wrong with that. A hopeless romantic, you have the attention span of a gnat. Enjoy this lusty time while you can. Go to a cottage or someplace by a lake and watch the pond come to life. Use a nearby tree to tie each other up, whipping each other with willow switches or spanking each other on the ass and tits. Going skinny-dipping will lead to wild times.
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I'm a Leo
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Posted:Mar 19, 2008 11:45 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2008 8:38 am 9248 Views
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LEO: is the second fire sign, and loves sex nearly as much as Aries does. There's one important difference, however - they're fussy. Leos are sticklers for luxury and comfort, and won't be found bouncing around in bushes for anyone! Being a fixed sign they can also be extraordinarily self-contained, and would rather not make love at all than feel in any way emotionally unsure about it. Dignity is also important, so they don't find the, ahem, more 'complicated' positions nearly as much fun as some other signs might. The Leo woman makes love with more than just her genitals, making full use of her hair, her eyes and her voice. The Leo man is many women's idea of a perfect lover - slow, sensual and appreciative, and he even knows where the less obvious erogenous zones are without having to find a map first.
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Originally Posted by Master Arcane
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Posted:Mar 19, 2008 9:04 am
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2008 11:37 am 9005 Views
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Please visit Master Arcane's website crowacademy
12 Rules Of Domination
by Master Arcane
1) Domination is First and Foremost about RESPONSIBILITY. If one is not comfortable with being truly RESPONSIBLE for the well-being of another they should steer clear of the path of Domination. It is NOT about how tough you can be or how well you swing a whip or how well you tie a knot. It is all about what you do with that most precious of souls -- the submissive -- when they place themselves in your hands. You must be like the artist who seeks the highest vision possible in every brush stroke.
2) You must never lose sight that your sub is a Real Person with Real Human needs, as are you yourself. Never become 2-dimensional in your Domination, never let your sub become 2-dimensional in her submission.
3) You must be prepared to work on yourself TWICE as hard as you ever work on any sub -- how else can you truly claim to be worthy of being your sub's leader?
4) Good Communication is beyond "key," beyond critical. Strive for it like the Holy Grail. Learn to listen, teach your sub how to listen. Always seek the highest levels of communication possible.
5) There is MUCH to be said for something as simple as a soft touch on the cheek and the words "Good Girl" when your sub does even the tiniest thing correctly.
6) Having More subs is NOT necessarily better -- your energy can get badly diluted and all the subs can get short-changed. There is MUCH to be said for a dedicated, devoted, one-on-one Master-slave Relationship.
7) Start Off Light. Even if a sub tells you she is "O" straight out of "The Story Of...," assume she is embellishing and start off slowly and lightly. Then you can build gradually and test her along the way until you ascertain where she really is at and come to a level that seems to be the best place to begin deeper work.
 BE A REAL PERSON to your sub as well -- tell jokes, talk about your favorite places in the world, laugh together, watch movies, share popcorn, etc.
9) Remember that No Two Subs are exactly alike! Embrace their differences. Do not try to turn a Rose into a Tulip, nor a Tulip into an Orchid, nor an Orchid into a Rose. Appreciate each for who they are, their own skills, their own beauty.
10) True D/s is very personal. Your deepest moments will almost always happen in private. Never feel like you have to perform in public (at dungeon parties or the like).
11) Know The Difference between S&M and D/s. S&M is ALL the PHYSICAL stuff (ropes, whips, toys, clamps, etc) -- it is about the BODY's experiences and sensations. D/s is ALL the PSYCHOLOGICAL stuff -- it is all about the state of MIND. Yes, it does all get lumped together under the more general term "BDSM." You can have hours of Good D/s without any S&M, and you can have hours of Good S&M without any D/s. Of course you can certainly mix the two, which is quite often the case.
12) No matter how beautiful a sub may be, no matter how much they physically turn you on, if you truly want to pursue the highest levels of what Domination is all about, you must never be afraid to Walk Away from a sub who just will not come around (constantly behaves badly, etc). Of course that should be a last resort, and you can try every other tool and trick in your bag to try and help your sub see the light of what you are trying to teach her. However, if that fateful day comes that all your attempts prove fruitless, then walk away. If it comes to that, then always make a polite exit even if your sub does not want to make it so for you.
And of course be safe, clean your toys, and get tested regularly. 
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Zen and the Smart Man
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Posted:Mar 6, 2008 2:10 pm
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2008 2:21 pm 9060 Views
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The Zen master and the Very Smart Man
A very intelligent man, extremely well educated, highly respected from the West heard about the great Zen master in Japan and traveled all the way to japan to meet this Zen master. He wanted to see what all this Zen nonsense was all about, because he was highly educated and knew many things about many subjects, yet he had never personally seen this Zen stuff.
After a great deal of travel he finally came to the Zen monastery high up in the mountains in Japan and was told to wait while the master finished meditating. "Don't you know who I am??" he said. "I am Highly Respected and major corporations consult with me for my knowledge on many things! Time is money here!"
Still he was told he would have to wait.
After several hours the smart man from the West was practically fuming at being made to wait so long. At last the attending monk told him he could come in and see the Zen master. The smart man walked into the room to see the master sitting before a small wood table and a tea set. The smart man walked into the room and loudly proclaimed, "I am highly respected and know many things and major corporations consult me! I have never see this Zen you speak about and want you to show it to me!"
The Zen master, unperturbed by the smart man's insistence, calmly looked up at him and said, "please sit. We will have tea first." The smart man's jaw practically dropped at what appeared to be yet another delay, but he acquiesced and sat opposite the Zen master.
The smart man shuffled and fidgeted, thinking about how much he knew and about how time was money, and waiting for his answers to start coming.
The Zen master picked up the teapot and began to pour his own tea. He filled his own cup very slowly, a tiny streamlet of tea pouring from the tea pot. Slowly the Zen master's cup filled.....1/4....1/3....1/2...3/4...7/8...to the brim. The Zen master stopped pouring his own tea.
The smart man was ready to scream at all the delays but he folded his arms across his chest and tolerated this time wasting ceremony.
The Zen master then turned to the smart man's tea cup and began to pour as the smart man watched, expectantly awaiting the culmination of this ridiculous tea ceremony so he could get his questions answered.
The Zen master poured another slow stream of tea into the smart man's tea cup, filling it just as slowly as he had his own.....1/4....1/3....1/2...3/4...7/8...to the brim....
then just slightly over the brim....the Zen master still kept pouring as the tea flowed completely over the edge of the tea cup....
filling the saucer beneath the smart man's tea cup....
overflowing over the saucer and on to the table...
The Zen master continued to pour as the smart man sat aghast, the tea now going straight from the cup over into the saucer and onto the table....
and finally straight into the smart man's lap.
At this point the smart man jumped up.
Loudly the smart man shouted, "Stop! Stop! Can't you see that My Cup Is Full ?!?!?"
Upon the smart man saying those words the Zen master stopped pouring, put down the tea pot, looked the smart man in the eye, and said, "Exactly, and first you must empty your cup before I will be able to put anything new in there."
In that moment the smart man understood
Zen.
Taken from the book Zen Flesh Zen Bones originally posted here - http://alt.com=blog.ListAll&friendID=76317910
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Sticks and Stones May Break My Bones
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Posted:Mar 6, 2008 9:10 am
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2008 8:54 am 9182 Views
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You know the old ditty. Someone gets their feelings hurt, so they resort to calling names. Childish and infantile. A very good friend to me, says that the biggest slave in the world is the service top who goes around playing with the bottoms trying to get them into subspace or an orgasm. I am a Dominant Male. Some Dominant Males and some submissives/slaves refer to Me as a Master. I will not ever kowtow to the demands of some bottom wanna be submissive/slave and what they want or desire. This is a basic leather protocol and measure of respect. Another basic protocol is that you never specifically name a person or place. A bottom/submissive requests something and then patiently waits. I am here for My pleasure. you exist.. for My pleasure. I live by Mozart's rules and do things according to my timing, not someone else's. I live My life. If someone else wants me or needs me, If I have time I will try to accommodate. But you all know that sometimes life gets in the way. We've all made promises that for some reason we were unable to keep. We didn't mean for things to be that way, but sometimes that is just the way things happen because sometimes, things are beyond our control. I have a mentor. Same mentor since I came into the public aspect of the lifestyle. Is this person always available when I want? Never! There have been times when there were weeks that we never talked or even IM'd each other. God Forbid!! LOL. Life happens. Do I sit and pout and have a childish temper tantrum? ROFLMAO!! Good way to lose the best mentor I could have. I have a bad habit. If someone tries to back me into a corner, I go the opposite way. If you have a good friend who is in the hospital, like happened to me recently, you go. I dropped everything because it was an emergency. If something is going on that involves my , nothing else matters. But if someone just wants to sit around and shoot the bull, you find time when you can. To then start calling someone names because life happens, in some misguided effort to malign their reputation shows some serious cerebral deliquency issues. Reading comprehension is a very important skill to have. You can read every book that exists. You can scour every website that exists. But if you lack the ability to comprehend the words formulated into sentences and what the context is and what the author means, then you are CLUELESS!!!!
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Submission and Authority - Introduction
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Posted:Feb 21, 2008 12:24 pm
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2008 8:41 am 9036 Views
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Submission is a gift. A gift that is to be received. And I think that is where many Masters may err. What exactly is being received? Submission. All that the slave is. All that the slave can be. Total power exchange. I'm not going to get into the tit for tat arguments over whether TPE is actually possible or the legalities of slavery. Receiving gifts from someone is difficult for most people..other than christmas gifts. lol. I have always had difficulty when someone wants to give me something. Receiving requires humility. And that is where I think the real issue lies. Submission or IE puts the Master on the spot to receive a gift that is priceless. It's not like someone is trying to give you a pair of socks or a new flogger. The Master is standing. The slave is in front of Him..on her knees, bowed head, body shaking, quivering, hands outstretched, offering all she is. With Hope that she will be found acceptable to the One she loves with all her being. Offering to give all with no reservations. The Master reaches down with His hand and with a finger lifts her head till their eyes meet in embrace. He receives her and she falls at His feet to kiss His boots and worship him as her Lord and Master. This has biblical roots as even Sara fell at Abrahams feet and called Him Lord. Submitting herself to Him. I cannot nor will I even feign to know exactly what is going through the slave's mind, heart and emotions during this ritual. There are plenty of people on alt that do. I am only focusing here on receiving the gift that is being offered. The responsibility that is accepted in this exchange is probably the biggest that one takes on in their entire life other than that of a . The similarities are striking. The slave is saying, "you are my Lord and Master, your wish is my command!" Slaves. Make your search for a Master careful. Take your time and be patient. I know your need is great and compelling. Get to know that Master. Is He a good one that will take care of His property, or will He treat you as yesterday's news. Look for compassion, integrity, and patience. This is a person that you are giving authority over your decisions. Someone who will be making decisions for you. Is this someone that is responsible with His finances? Where does He live? In a rat hole or a nice apartment or house. What kind of vehicle does He drive? What kind of job does He have and how long has He worked there. Stability. All of this will indicate how He will treat and receive the most precious gift you have. With the respect it deserves or with jealousy and possessiveness? Like I stated, receiving a gift puts the receiver on the spot. Watch out of the corner of your eye the facial expression of that Master. Are you received with a smirk and a grin or with a warm smile and tenderness. Sometimes you have to be careful what you wish for. You may end up with what you wanted but then not want what you get.
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Bratty submissives
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Posted:Feb 19, 2008 2:13 pm
Last Updated:Mar 6, 2008 8:31 am 8751 Views
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I have been putting this off for sometime, recent issues demand a response. There are several issues that I am going to address. Take a deep breath and truly listen to what I have to say. Someone asked me to be a mentor. A mentor is exactly how I approached things. But a mentor is not a trainer, teacher or anything else resembling a closer relationship than that. A mentor is there to help the mentee contemplate when you get in a jam and can’t figure things out on your own. I asked the mentee to read. Which was done and some good blogs were written on what was read.. There was no need for me to elaborate any further. That would be relegated to someone who is a teacher. A mentor isn’t supposed to give you the answer, just facilitate the mentee in finding it on your own; point you in a direction and let you go. A world of self discovery. And it seems that I was very successful in that. But the bottom line is no one wants to be around someone who bitches and complains all the time - Neither can you constantly complain about the lack of a real mentor in some veiled way to get the mentor to respond to some things that the mentee wants, the way the mentee wants them. A mentor - trainer - Dom - Master does not respond to the mentee - sub - slave. It's the other way around. But until the mentee grows up and matures, no real Dom or Master is going to want them. Don't get confused. If you want it your way go to Burger King. Sometimes mentor and mentee just don't fit. A mentor is someone who is there on a less frequent basis - the mentee seeks them out when perplexed and in need of counsel. (Mentor is from Greek Mythology and was Odysseus' trusted counselor). Counselors and mentors are not here to push, prod or give you reason to "do good". You must have that desire on your own. But to then get angry at the Mentor and make accusations that respect has been lost because the mentor didn't give the mentee what the mentee wanted is childish and infantile. The mentee needs to examine their own motives as to why they wanted a mentor in the first place.
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The Soap Box or this is for you LB..
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Posted:Feb 6, 2008 12:15 pm
Last Updated:Mar 11, 2008 10:08 am 9948 Views
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Increasingly every week it seems that the people that truely live the lifestyle 24/7 are coming under attack. The attack is subtle. Slaves are degraded by those that will tell them.."Slavery Does Not Exist" or "Slavery is Illegal".. Or the worst is, "there is no such thing as no limits" This slander comes from those weekend warriors..the rack'em and whack'em crowd. The swingers that go to socials and dungeons and then want to say they are lifestyle BDSM'ers. They have no clue what TPE is or what IE is. Most of these people are using the lifestyle to get sex because so many of them can't get it elsewhere. We had a saying when I was part of a motorcycle club.."$20,000 and a leather jacket does not make you a biker". Well, $150 for a flogger, $30.00 for a set of nipple clamps, $450.00 for a violet wand, some leather and a fetish outfit does not make you a D/s M/s lifestyler.. Neither does the fact that you decide to buy and read a few books. Don't get me wrong, the socials and the local dungeons are an integral part of the lifestyle. I greatly appreciate them and am especially indebted to the local dungeon where I live. They offer a social just about every weekend where kinksters can go play. And that is what they do..They go play. But where they are missing it is that is all they are doing. Playing the lifestyle..They are not living it. And then they chastise those that are living it. Most of these people are "living it" online via chatrooms and IM. These are the dreamers and the wannabes. I had a wannabe "slave" ask me to be her Master. So I invited her to my home to see and experience R/T. She quickly had to turn her tail and run home to MOMO. There are a billion ways to live a D/s, M/s 24/7 TPE lifestyle relationship. Don't judge others how they live it but neither call your weekend warrior online fantasy world lifestyle.
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