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When is a switch not a switch?
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Posted:Feb 11, 2020 11:38 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2020 11:30 am 3401 Views
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I have learned that the best way stop the ALT editor from screwing up these posts, is to post the blog in an initial comment...
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Why do we like a school girl outfit? After all, we're just people who like kinky play, not perverts!
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Posted:Feb 10, 2020 9:51 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2020 11:31 am 4232 Views
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For so many of us, an adult woman dressed in a school girl uniform is a huge turn on, but why is this? After all, I am not sexually attracted genuine school girls, as I would hope is the same for everyone else on here, but I find a woman in one of these costumes so seductive, so what's going on?
Personally I think it is for 3 reasons, but if anyone else has a view on this, I would love hear it.
1. A uniform, any uniform, be it a bar maid, french maid, police woman, or a nurse, is a way of forcing a sub wear a particular type of clothing, and if that outfit is tight and revealing, then it makes her look sexy, without looking like she meant . Because she was required wear these clothes, she can retain her air of innocence, wile also looking fabulous at the same time, and a school uniform is just another example of a set of clothing that she has been instructed wear.
2. When an adult woman puts on a school uniform, she is screaming out one simple message - I am expecting get a spanking (or worse!), and I am completely ok with it. And we all here like a bit of that!
3. Role in our scene is all about the characters accepting their role associated with what they are wearing, and the dominant or submissive nature that comes with that role, and as a school girl, the role is perfectly suited the sub side of . Whether your preference is for the /, wicked uncle/niece, or the more common teacher/student roles, they all lend themselves the 'girl' being dominated by the master figure, and is perhaps the most perfect kind of role for the type of fun that most of us here enjoy.
Those are just my thoughts. If you have another perspective on this, or if you think that another type of role is even more perfect for spanking games, then please share your thoughts - I read them all.
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Warm up before a caning - should it be allowed?
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Posted:Feb 9, 2020 5:36 am
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2020 2:43 am 4200 Views
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I have a question regarding the preparation for a good caning, and would welcome your thoughts...
Those of us who enjoy receiving a sound caning while restrained in position, know that it is much easier take if our bottom has been warmed up first with something a little less severe to start with. This can be anything from a long hard hand spanking to a good dose of a thick leather belt or cat style whip, or perhaps even a wooden paddle. The only trouble with a paddle is that it toughens the skin up very quickly, so that you don't really feel the effects of a cane after that, so I tend to prefer something which does a good job of warming up the bum, without actually reducing the effect of the pending caning.
I definitely prefer to receive a severe caning after I have already had my bum warmed up first, rather than receiving a 'cold caning',but I would of course always do as I am told.
So my question is this...
If a mistress told me to report for a caning, and she informed me in advance that it was going to be administered without any warm up, what should she do if, when I arrived and presented my bare bottom, she discovered that I had already warmed it up myself in advance, and my bottom was a dull red from a beating I had given myself, perhaps an hour before?
After all, the promise of additional strokes wouldn't really have much effect. My bottom has already been prepped for this, and so the additional punishment is relatively meaningless. The whole point of a cold caning is that those first couple of dozen or so strokes are the most painful, and the opportunity to deliver those particularly evil ones to me has now passed.
So what should she do?
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The last stroke is the deepest
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Posted:Feb 8, 2020 12:14 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2020 7:07 pm 3405 Views
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I wanted to share my story of the last caning I received, which was the best I have ever had, delivered by a lady with superb accuracy and outstanding power behind each stroke.
She had worked through a selection of her favourite implements, and settled to finish me off with a fantastic long, thin and very whippy, but also very dense, dark coloured dragon cane. This thing was exceptional, and with her expertise holding the crooked end, delivered the most perfect caning imaginable.
Each stroke landed like a streak of fire, blazing perfectly across my bum from one side to the other. I definitely prefer thin canes that sting ferociously, leaving a lovely puffy welt on the buttocks with each stroke, rather than thick solid ones that thud deep into the muscle tissue, and this thin dragon cane left it's calling mark each time it landed with a crack. The blaze of fire would last about 10 seconds each go, during which time I would be struggling to bear the pain, and it would then start to diminish to a crackling hot tingle that would last about another 30 seconds. The trouble was, she was delivering the strokes about every 30 seconds, and so I was still feeling the effects from the previous stroke, as the next one landed. This made it even harder to take, and I think she was deliberately timing the strokes perfectly, so as to take me right to the edge of what I could just about cope with. I have to thank her for her expertise in this regard, because being taken right to the edge is what I crave, and she gave me the best experience I have ever endured. I will remember this amazing caning for a long time to come, and wish to one day find someone who can repeat it.
However, she did not end with this, as there was still one more thing to come...
I foolishly showed an interest in a long, wide, and very heavy, thick leather prison strap, similar to the one in the classic old Robert Redford movie, Brubaker. She did tell me that, based on how I had coped with the rest of my beating, she didn't think it would actually hurt very much, and I have always found leather straps and belts to be less painful than a cane, although delicious in their own slappy and stingy way.
So I lay there, tightly restrained in position, for an initial wallop with this large strap. I heard it whistle through the air, and then the whole room sounded like a banger had been let off, as the sound reverberated around the room. What a little liar she was! My god! The pain was off the scale. My whole body bucked and jerked, as I strained against all the leather straps holding me firmly in place, trying for what seemed like an eternity to fight the explosion that had erupted across my poor bum. I would have used my safety word (something I would hate to do) if it would have done any good, but there was no point. She was only giving me one strike with it, and that had already happened! There was nothing I could do but to endure the pain that I had no idea I was going to experience. Eventually, after about 15 seconds of thrashing about beneath my straps, it finally started to diminish to what I could cope with, and I relaxed my body, as the fire continued to rage though my butt cheeks. In all, about 90 seconds must have passed before it finally died down to a gentle throb, and my breathing slowed to something more normal. This was an implement like I had never experienced before, and I never imagined that something leather could be so severe.
She then asked me if it was too much, and like a coward, I agreed that it was, letting me off any further delivery without having to use my despised safety word, and I have regretted that decision ever since. It came as such a shock, that I was glad to be let off easily, but I now yearn to experience that dreaded and evil prison strap again, being forced to go way beyond my tolerance level once more, into a realm where I cannot bear the pain at the time, but will have a memory to last me a lifetime. After all, it is only pain, and a leather strap, no matter how thick or heavy, cannot cause any permanent harm, and so this is an implement that can hurt me beyond my wildest imagination, while at the same time poses no physical danger to me - it's perfect. Perhaps one day, I will suffer a similar experience, and I hope that when that day comes, I will be braver than I was on this occasion. I have never used a safety word yet, and I wish to keep that record unblemished.
If you're still reading this, then well done, and I hoped you enjoyed it.
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Still searching for my cruel mistress...
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Posted:Jan 25, 2020 5:21 am
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2020 6:27 am 3101 Views
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Are there no women out there who would simply enjoy tying a willing slave down to take all the punishment and beating she wants to give, just for her own fun, with the promise of giving her orgasms to die for afterwards, as a way of saying thank you?
I'm still in search of that perfect Mistress to punish me the way I deserve, and crave. Looks, physical appearance, and age are absolutely not important to me. A good sense of erotic fun and a desire to explore your kinkiest fantasies are. You could be as cruel and mean to me as you like - I can take it! Living in Oxfordshire, but willing to travel a reasonable distance for the right lady.
Strictly not interested in anyone seeking payment for services. If this is you, please don't waste either of our time. I will not part with any money for this, not because I am tight, but because I want to find someone who wishes to do this for their own enjoyment - that is the most important thing to me. Some women have tried to scam me by offering to be my mistress for their own fun, but then requiring me to pay for the use of a dungeon facility, which they obviously have a financial arrangement with, and one even tried to make me pay to book a session in a dungeon, that did not exist. I will not fall for any of these scams, so please don't waste both of our time trying.
If you're genuine, and would like a man with a sexually adventurous mind to beat, whip, paddle and cane to your heart's desire, then please contact me.
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200 strokes of self administered caning
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Posted:Jan 4, 2019 8:38 am
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2020 6:27 am 3607 Views
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I have just had to give myself as good a caning as I can, because I have not yet found myself a mistress on this site who is not interested in either financial gain or some kind of scam.
Unfortunately it is impossible to get a decent swing at the right angle to really have an effect, and so my bottom is not nearly as sore as I would like it to be, but it does now have a nice warm tingle to it.
I wish I could find myself a nice stern mistress, within reasonable distance of Oxfordshire, who could give me the harsh thrashing that I really deserve, and desperately crave.
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Does no-one else here like nettle play?
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Posted:Dec 22, 2018 1:28 pm
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2020 6:28 am 3684 Views
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I know it's the wrong time of year to bring it up as there aren't any around right now, but I the only one here who loves playing with stinging nettles?
I have never seen anyone else refer to it, and it's not even an option in the 'Kinks' list.
I know it's a bit obscure, but come-on, what's this site for?
If you've never had your ass whipped or genitals brushed and rubbed with them, I urge you to give it a go - you don't know what your missing!
I've just had to give my own ass a damn good caning because right now, I have no friend who will do it for me. Hopefully by joining this site, that will change soon and I can get the caning I really deserve, but I can't wait for spring to come and the new fresh plants start to grow. I have a special patch in my garden of some particularly vicious ones, as there are many variations and some are definitely more severe than others.
The sensation starts with a sharp sting that is perfect for zero noise chastisement, and then with further application, develops into the most incredibly sexy tingling sensation that will last as a reward for hours.
There's even a name for this particular fetish called 'Urtification' , from the technical name for nettles, Urtica. I tried buying some Roman Nettles once called Urtica Pulifera as these are meant to be much more intense than the standard UK types, but couldn't get the rotten things to grow in this country.
I would love to hear of anyone else's experience with this type of fun.
Just one word of warning:
A very small number of people could experience an anaphylactic shock reaction to excessive contact with nettles, so please try it with caution if it is your first time, until you can be sure of no adverse side effects.
Blog nettleman1978
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