a look inside pashy

people wonder how they got where they are in life and i`m no different. after 9 years in this lifestyle, i`m still making mistakes and learning from them (sometimes slowly)
i once thought myself a slave and found myself seriously lacking.. what makes a "slave" fail? lack of guidance from the One that claims to be the One to show her how to be what her heart craves to be.
If a Dom claims to have all the answers, ten to one, He doesn`t have most of them and therefore can not possibly properly guide a slave on how to be the slave He wants and needs.
The slave in question would then constently wonder what she`s doing wrong and therefore, doubts her own self worth and responsibilities as a slave in general.
So, in Hindsight of all of this, this one can only advise to slaves looking for "The One"
make sure that the Dom You seek DOES have the answers,patience and ability to guide you on your journey. Don`t fall for all the romancing words that tend to flow easily from certain people and look at the real picture. it will save you alot of doubt and heartache in the long run.