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My Blog

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Lunar New Year Play Party
Posted:Feb 24, 2024 11:14 am
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2024 11:45 pm
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i don't have fantasies. i have goals.
Posted:Feb 22, 2024 11:28 am
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2024 11:45 pm
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Don't Discount Something, Even if it was "Just a Minor Thing"
Posted:Feb 21, 2024 2:04 pm
Last Updated:Feb 21, 2024 4:07 pm
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thanks for reading!
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What Happens After A Safeword is Used?
Posted:Feb 17, 2024 1:29 pm
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2024 11:45 am
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So much is taught about safewords. We are taught the standard ones and encouraged to use them. Some articles even talk about Doms or Tops using them (which is great---Doms and Tops have, and need, boundaries too).

But in my eight years of exploring and learning about BDSM, i have seen little to no information, discussion or education on what should, could, or may happen when a safeword is used.

For those of you reading this who engage in BDSM play: i encourage you to think about what happens when, and after, a safeword is used. Think about it clearly, drawing both on your past experiences and your ideal experiences.

Then, be sure to include this information in your negotiations, especially with new partners or in pick up play scenarios.

Sincerely, a person who has been extremely damaged from using a safeword and having unexpected things happen.
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you win.
Posted:Feb 12, 2024 3:36 pm
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2024 10:29 am
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so very tired of the hateful, aggressive, lewd, rude, wildly inappropriate and disgusting comments, messages and IMs regarding the photos i chose to share on this site.

most of my photos are now taken down.

congratulations, you win.
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a threat.
Posted:Feb 12, 2024 11:15 am
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2024 10:34 am
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A High Protocol BDSM Dinner Party
Posted:Feb 10, 2024 3:00 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2024 9:08 pm
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vessel.
Posted:Feb 7, 2024 12:29 pm
Last Updated:Feb 7, 2024 5:05 pm
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Why go to a Munch? You can get to know other Kinksters as Whole People.
Posted:Feb 7, 2024 11:21 am
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2024 6:43 pm
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Context: A Munch is a Social Event, usually held at a restaurant, cafe, bar or pub. It is NOT a play party, sex party, orgy, speed dating or hook up event.

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a unique opportunity to give back.
Posted:Feb 5, 2024 5:37 pm
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2024 10:05 am
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