BDSM and Free People; Does it free you?
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Posted:Jul 12, 2010 8:47 am
Last Updated:May 8, 2024 4:47 am 3285 Views
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I have seen interviews on television and, in a couple of these interviews, it was said to the interviewer that BDSM is all about freedom.
Hmmmm, well why don't we think about it! For those of us who love the BDSM it really is freedom.
* The Freedom of BDSM: Is the freedom to do your own BDSM and not be concerned about being judged by others in the community or other wise.
* Many submissives want somebody else to be in charge of their life, sometimes for a couple of hours and sometimes forever (24/7 relationship). Whatever you agree upon and enjoy helps make you free. We are all different people with different needs & desires.
Everyone is unique and the way you practice or live BDSM is your own. While there are some basic across the board guidelines. There is no one set rule, or set of rules, it is whatever works for you & your partner.
For example some people flog in public, some do not.
Do you flog your sub (or are flogged) like everybody else in your community? Do you use the same rope in the same type of bondage like everybody else? Or are you a free person and try to explore your own ways?
I have seen many different role plays, and, sometimes I see a role play that is the same but very different and very beautiful, done by safe people. I love to watch free people play because they always show me something new!
What are free people? "people who do their ownn thing with respect and safety in minds, and who don't simply do what the community expects them to do!"
Why do I love free people? They teach me so much each time I look at their play.
BDSM is obviously about a need that we share, but for me, BDSM is not about freedom because - BDSM IS freedom!
What is your take on it?
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