It is sooo bad..... and sad too....:-(
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Posted:May 18, 2017 1:45 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 2:15 pm 4006 Views
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There is a distinct way in wich a Genuine/ by heart Dominant contacts you....
Or how a player/kinkster-bedroomonly sexplay-act-dominant contacts you....
Believe me, there is!
I have met a whole lot of *playerdomskinksters*....
Their ammo is always the same, it may vary in rudeness, assumption, but the modus operandi is the same.
One of the things they are capable of doing is "kissing you" online, what the fuck that may mean?!
Also, inappropiate kissing, "spanking" of body parts seems one of the thing they really, really like to do.. ONLINE.... In a mailcontact..... 
There is not even any sign that you have something in common yet, but, he is already spanking and kissing you...(without any consent at all!)
PLAYING THE GAME OF SEXSM...
i get sick to the stomach!
This is only for their own hornyness, to stroke their EGO, it has nothing to do, with who you are, what you need.
Nothing at all!
It is such a sick behaviour.
If you say something about it, they get very, very upset, angry, out of controle,
it was just for fun!
If you dont accept thát, then you are not A TRWUE SUB...
right!, as in he is not a dom kind of way...?
You should not think soo much of it...
PÁRDON!
So you have to accept sexual haressment? because that man is able to make a choice in a lists of roles he thinks he can perform?
and calls himselfs A dom?
An other thing; they almost never ever show some real human interest in YOU.
they demand to know what you like... your sexual preference... your hard limits...
All sex orientated! Not person orientated.
Objectify the person... make her a thing, a cunt & anus with boobs.....
This is about playing the game of "dominance".... the sex driven game...
the one and only goal is orgasm.
His.
By using your bodyopenings.. = kinky sex, swinger, player.
When you want to know more about him, as a person, what he is like, in real life, if he likes his job, his parents, his co-workers....?
They are very reluctant to open up, it is all very surly... you have to drag those fact out of them....
A genuine dominant, by heart, has patience, knows that he must let the sub/slave get to know him, give her the time... answer all her questions, give freely info about himself and his grow.... into this all so strange needs and feelings...
want to get to know YOU, as a person, what your dislikes and likes are in life.
What makes you happy, what makes you sad, wants to know your emotional stability,
your whole back ground....
A GENUINE, BY HEART, DOMINANT is interested in YOU, as a whole....person...
So, when i meet a someone new, online first... mostly, ofcourse, and he acts in this manner...
only into the kinky- fantasy- play... act...?
Only all about HIS wants....? Dont ask me 1 personal question and show genuine interest...?
i know enough.
The players mode is; checking facts, comparing lists, starts of with kinky horny talk, 'getting her in the mood'.... talk.... and gó! for it.
sex, sex, sex,......
A genuine, by heart dominant, is much more playfull, he will try to build some kind of bond, friendship....
Will in a playfull manner find more about the who you are.
Talk tó, with you, not at you.
...... Just, again, some other loser, [pardon me], player/kinkster, horny dog!....
pretending to be, something he will never ever be able to.
waste of time, waste of space, waste of energy...
If a socalled "dom", is not even able to control himself online?
How can i ever trust him to control himself in any other kind of situation...?
If he let me lead the conversation, if he goes with mý flow, instead of stay in his own flow? and let me be myself.....?
Who, the fuck is leading who then?
discusting little crawling creepers..... 
I am very, very sorry, but my patience is about to run out.
All those horny dogs- players!! sick to the stomach i get from them..
pretending to be something they are not ever able to pull off and out of their way mad if i confront them with their lack on all levels....
starting by lack of ethical human behaviour...
Not the behaviour you should expect for so called grown ups.. adults...
Such a pity.... i feel sad for them....
Sites like this and FETLIFE and COLLARSPACE/COLLARME can only survive because all those lurkers.... fakers, players... 
otherwise, there might be just a handfull of people who really understand what this is all about....
So sad..... so deeply saddening.
cry me a river.... Joe Cocker.....
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i cant help myself... it is soooo bad...... and sad too...
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Posted:May 18, 2017 1:34 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 2:15 pm 4002 Views
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There is a distinct way in wich a Genuine/ by heart Dominant contacts you....
Or how a player/kinkster-bedroomonly sexplay-act-dominant contacts you....
Believe me, there is!
I have met a whole lot of *playerdomskinksters*....
Their ammo is always the same, it may vary in rudeness, assumption, but the modus operandi is the same.
One of the things they are capable of doing is "kissing you" online, what the fuck that may mean?!
Also, inappropiate kissing, "spanking" of body parts seems one of the thing they really, really like to do.. ONLINE.... In a mailcontact.....
There is not even any sign that you have something in common but,, he is already spanking and kissing you...(without any consent at all!)
PLAYING THE GAME OF SEXSM...
i get sick at the stomach!
This is only for their own hornyness, to stroke their EGO, it has nothing to do, with who you are, what you need.
Nothing at all!
It is such a sick behaviour.
If you say something about it, they are very, very upset, angry, out of controle,
it was just for fun!
If you dont accept thát, then you are not A TRWUE SUB... right, as in he is not a dom kind of way...?
You should not think soo much of it...
PÁRDON!
So you have to accept sexual haressment? because that man is able to make a choice in a lists of roles he thinks he can perform?
and calls himselfs A dom?
An other thing; they almost never ever show some real human interest in YOU.
they demand to know what you like... your sexual preference... your hard limits...
All sex orientated! Not person orientated.
Objectify the person... make her a thing, a cunt & anus with boobs.....
This is about playing the game of "dominance".... the sex driven game...
the one and only goal is orgasm.
His.
By using your bodyopenings.. = kinky sex, swinger, player.
When you want to know more about him, as a person, what he is like, in real life, if he likes his job, his parents, his co-workers....?
They are very reluctant to open up, it is all very surly... you have to drag those fact out of them....
A genuine dominant, by heart, has patience, knows that he must let the sub/slave get to know him, give her the time... answer all her questions, give freely info about himself and his grow.... into this all so strange needs and feelings...
want to get to know YOU, as a person, what your dislikes and likes are in life.
What makes you happy, what makes you sad, wants to know your emotional stability,
your whole back ground....
A GENUINE, BY HEART, DOMINANT is interested in YOU, as a whole....person...
So, when i meet a someone new, online first... mostly, ofcourse, and he acts in this manner...
only into the kinky- fantasy- play... act...?
Only all about HIS wants....? Dont ask me 1 personal question and show genuine interest...?
i know enough.
The players mode is; checking facts, comparing lists, starts of with kinky horny talk, 'getting her in the mood'.... talk....
sex, sex, sex,......
A genuine, by heart dominant, is much more playfull, he will try to build some kind of bond, friendship....
Will in a playfull manner find more about the who you are.
Talk tó, with you, not at you.
Just some other loser, [pardon me], player/kinkster, horny dog!....
pretending to be, something he will never ever be able to.
waste of time, waste of space, waste of energy...
If a socalled "dom", is not even able to control himself online?
How can i ever trust him to control himself in any other kind of situation...?
If he let me lead the conversation, if he goes with mý flow, instead of stay in his own flow? and let me be myself.....?
Who, the fuck is leading who then?
discusting little crawling creepers.....
I am very, very sorry, but my patience is about run out.
All those horny dogs- players!! sick to the stomach i get from them..
pretending to be something they are not able to pull off and out of their way mad if i confront them with their lack on all levels.
starting by lack of ethical human behaviour...
Such a pity.... i feel sad for them....
Sites like this and FETLIFE and COLLARSPACE/COLLARME can only survive because all those lurkers.... fakers, players...
otherwise, there might be just a handfull of people who really understand what this is all about....
So sad..... so deeply saddening.
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i cant help myself... it is soooo bad...... and sad too...
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Posted:May 18, 2017 1:33 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 2:15 pm 4154 Views
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There is a distinct way in wich a Genuine/ by heart Dominant contacts you....
Or how a player/kinkster-bedroomonly sexplay-act-dominant contacts you....
Believe me, there is!
I have met a whole lot of *playerdomskinksters*....
Their ammo is always the same, it may vary in rudeness, assumption, but the modus operandi is the same.
One of the things they are capable of doing is "kissing you" online, what the fuck that may mean?!
Also, inappropiate kissing, "spanking" of body parts seems one of the thing they really, really like to do.. ONLINE.... In a mailcontact.....
There is not even any sign that you have something in common but,, he is already spanking and kissing you...(without any consent at all!)
PLAYING THE GAME OF SEXSM...
i get sick at the stomach!
This is only for their own hornyness, to stroke their EGO, it has nothing to do, with who you are, what you need.
Nothing at all!
It is such a sick behaviour.
If you say something about it, they are very, very upset, angry, out of controle,
it was just for fun!
If you dont accept thát, then you are not A TRWUE SUB... right, as in he is not a dom kind of way...?
You should not think soo much of it...
PÁRDON!
So you have to accept sexual haressment? because that man is able to make a choice in a lists of roles he thinks he can perform?
and calls himselfs A dom?
An other thing; they almost never ever show some real human interest in YOU.
they demand to know what you like... your sexual preference... your hard limits...
All sex orientated! Not person orientated.
Objectify the person... make her a thing, a cunt & anus with boobs.....
This is about playing the game of "dominance".... the sex driven game...
the one and only goal is orgasm.
His.
By using your bodyopenings.. = kinky sex, swinger, player.
When you want to know more about him, as a person, what he is like, in real life, if he likes his job, his parents, his co-workers....?
They are very reluctant to open up, it is all very surly... you have to drag those fact out of them....
A genuine dominant, by heart, has patience, knows that he must let the sub/slave get to know him, give her the time... answer all her questions, give freely info about himself and his grow.... into this all so strange needs and feelings...
want to get to know YOU, as a person, what your dislikes and likes are in life.
What makes you happy, what makes you sad, wants to know your emotional stability,
your whole back ground....
A GENUINE, BY HEART, DOMINANT is interested in YOU, as a whole....person...
So, when i meet a someone new, online first... mostly, ofcourse, and he acts in this manner...
only into the kinky- fantasy- play... act...?
Only all about HIS wants....? Dont ask me 1 personal question and show genuine interest...?
i know enough.
The players mode is; checking facts, comparing lists, starts of with kinky horny talk, 'getting her in the mood'.... talk....
sex, sex, sex,......
A genuine, by heart dominant, is much more playfull, he will try to build some kind of bond, friendship....
Will in a playfull manner find more about the who you are.
Talk tó, with you, not at you.
Just some other loser, [pardon me], player/kinkster, horny dog!....
pretending to be, something he will never ever be able to.
waste of time, waste of space, waste of energy...
If a socalled "dom", is not even able to control himself online?
How can i ever trust him to control himself in any other kind of situation...?
If he let me lead the conversation, if he goes with mý flow, instead of stay in his own flow? and let me be myself.....?
Who, the fuck is leading who then?
discusting little crawling creepers.....
I am very, very sorry, but my patience is about run out.
All those horny dogs- players!! sick to the stomach i get from them..
pretending to be something they are not able to pull off and out of their way mad if i confront them with their lack on all levels.
starting by lack of ethical human behaviour...
Such a pity.... i feel sad for them....
Sites like this and FETLIFE and COLLARSPACE/COLLARME can only survive because all those lurkers.... fakers, players...
otherwise, there might be just a handfull of people who really understand what this is all about....
So sad..... so deeply saddening.
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i cant help myself... it is soooo bad......
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Posted:May 18, 2017 1:31 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 2:15 pm 4118 Views
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There is a distinct way in wich a Genuine/ by heart Dominant contacts you....
Or how a player/kinkster-bedroomonly sexplay-act-dominant contacts you....
Believe me, there is!
I have met a whole lot of *playerdomskinksters*....
Their ammo is always the same, it may vary in rudeness, assumption, but the modus operandi is the same.
One of the things they are capable of doing is "kissing you" online, what the fuck that may mean?!
Also, inappropiate kissing, "spanking" of body parts seems one of the thing they really, really like to do.. ONLINE.... In a mailcontact.....
There is not even any sign that you have something in common but,, he is already spanking and kissing you...(without any consent at all!)
PLAYING THE GAME OF SEXSM...
i get sick at the stomach!
This is only for their own hornyness, to stroke their EGO, it has nothing to do, with who you are, what you need.
Nothing at all!
It is such a sick behaviour.
If you say something about it, they are very, very upset, angry, out of controle,
it was just for fun!
If you dont accept thát, then you are not A TRWUE SUB... right, as in he is not a dom kind of way...?
You should not think soo much of it...
PÁRDON!
So you have to accept sexual haressment? because that man is able to make a choice in a lists of roles he thinks he can perform?
and calls himselfs A dom?
An other thing; they almost never ever show some real human interest in YOU.
they demand to know what you like... your sexual preference... your hard limits...
All sex orientated! Not person orientated.
Objectify the person... make her a thing, a cunt & anus with boobs.....
This is about playing the game of "dominance".... the sex driven game...
the one and only goal is orgasm.
His.
By using your bodyopenings.. = kinky sex, swinger, player.
When you want to know more about him, as a person, what he is like, in real life, if he likes his job, his parents, his co-workers....?
They are very reluctant to open up, it is all very surly... you have to drag those fact out of them....
A genuine dominant, by heart, has patience, knows that he must let the sub/slave get to know him, give her the time... answer all her questions, give freely info about himself and his grow.... into this all so strange needs and feelings...
want to get to know YOU, as a person, what your dislikes and likes are in life.
What makes you happy, what makes you sad, wants to know your emotional stability,
your whole back ground....
A GENUINE, BY HEART, DOMINANT is interested in YOU, as a whole....person...
So, when i meet a someone new, online first... mostly, ofcourse, and he acts in this manner...
only into the kinky- fantasy- play... act...?
Only all about HIS wants....? Dont ask me 1 personal question and show genuine interest...?
i know enough.
The players mode is; checking facts, comparing lists, starts of with kinky horny talk, 'getting her in the mood'.... talk....
sex, sex, sex,......
A genuine, by heart dominant, is much more playfull, he will try to build some kind of bond, friendship....
Will in a playfull manner find more about the who you are.
Talk tó, with you, not at you.
Just some other loser, [pardon me], player/kinkster, horny dog!....
pretending to be, something he will never ever be able to.
waste of time, waste of space, waste of energy...
If a socalled "dom", is not even able to control himself online?
How can i ever trust him to control himself in any other kind of situation...?
If he let me lead the conversation, if he goes with mý flow, instead of stay in his own flow? and let me be myself.....?
Who, the fuck is leading who then?
discusting little crawling creepers.....
I am very, very sorry, but my patience is about run out.
All those horny dogs- players!! sick to the stomach i get from them..
pretending to be something they are not able to pull off and out of their way mad if i confront them with their lack on all levels.
starting by lack of ethical human behaviour...
Such a pity.... i feel sad for them....
Sites like this and FETLIFE and COLLARSPACE/COLLARME can only survive because all those lurkers.... fakers, players...
otherwise, there might be just a handfull of people who really understand what this is all about....
So sad..... so deeply saddening.
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the bad habbit......
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Posted:May 1, 2017 3:24 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2017 2:27 pm 4428 Views
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No! this is not about plucking your nose... and eating it too!
Yes, i have been a smoker, for years!
i started rather young, age 12.. uhu...
Wanted to impress the neighbor boy.... aah... young "love"... hahaha
What did i know?
So, coughing and almost choking, i smoked..
it never worked out with that boy..... anyway...
It is a dirty habbit, really is!
So, after some years i wanted to stop...
that was not as easy as starting, let me tell you!
So, i did some research about all the things they put in tabacco, cigarette.
That was not really a very nice research!
if you know thát!
what hey put into your tabacco? you run for the hills!
Knowing all that, did not make it any easier to stop smoking.
I tried 3 times, and everytime again i had some lame excuse to start smoking again.... i know how it works.....
I was disgusted by it all, wanted so hard to stop!
So, somewhere in 2004, i believe it was, i lost my job, that was a really very nasty game they played with me, got a burn-out on that....
i lost my partner, by cheating on my with, ofcourse, a girlfriend...
i can go on and on...
I was nearly drowning.... my whole life was falling apart...
so i quit smoking and drinking at the hight of that very stressful period in my life....
I am sooo happy to not smoke, at all!
some years ago, i was visiting a friend, she is smoking of and on......
so i asked her; give me your cigarette, i just wan to check this.
She was mad at me!
NO, you dont get started again!
are you mad!!!
so, i took one inhale .... it was horrible! dirty, lungs shredding.
It hurt like hell!
That was it, i am done smoking.
I work for a elderly woman, and she is a cigar smoker, chain smoker....
i get really sick, when i am at her place.....
I have to talk about this with the manager....
I became very sensitive about smoking around me,
last weekend i visited my , and they were smoking too, just in the livingroom...
so i get sick... coughing, pain in my eyes, nose, throat too...
I also really, really dont like the smell of it, in all my clothes, hair, skin, handbag, i can strip naked, when i am home again, to take a shower, wash my hair.
spray vinegar on all my clothes, and keep them hanging outside for some days, before i wash them...
There is NO FUN in that, at all.
Also, when a guy is a smoker, his sperm tastes like smoked cigarette, an ash-tray?...
Sooo terrible nasty, dirty!!!
very, very, puke nasty!
It is really a very bad habbit, an addiction
Un healty too.
I like it to be clean, to try to live as clean as possible, no addictions here.. only for some chocolate.. once in a while.....
There is a dutch cabaretier, stand-up comedian, who says about smoking;
Strange? isnt it?
You put something burning in you mouth and you get sick?
What did you expect?
whahahah!
he is really good! (forgot his name...)
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Compatibility..?
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Posted:Apr 26, 2017 12:59 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2017 2:27 pm 4421 Views
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It seems to be a very difficult word to grasp.....
Lately i was visited online by a bloke from Sweden, "" á dominant"" ofcourse.... sighs.....
I talked with him before, he could not remember our former conversation... doesnt matter much...
So, he says/ asks; You are a sub?
(so totally tiredsome to have to explain the difference between a sub and a slave, in real life, real time... again, and again....)
so i said yes.....
He told me he was á dom, so we should meet and do sm... sex someting...
i dont know....
I told him, calling yourself a dominant does not mean you can fuck anything what calls herself sub..?
There is more, to be able to actually BÉ, that desired person....
He just wanted sex.....
The strangest thing always happen, after some men get a rejection...
They become angry... nasty, foul language....
The same happens when i tell them what it means to ME, calling myself a slave.
As soon as most men hear that word, they go crazy, totall madness comes over them, really.
Their brain make overtime, drive on full speed, all porn... sex related.....
The word compatibility is too much for them to grasp
They truely dont understand that there is more needed in a SM contact, then just his penis and her vagina......
It is about trust, first!
It is NOT about sex, at all.
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musica!
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Posted:Apr 21, 2017 12:57 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 2:15 pm 4238 Views
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in my former appartment i did not connect my stereo, because the walls were so thin, i could almost hear my neighbor breath if it was very quiet.....
So i just bought a little soundmachine/ blaster, just all plastic made in China junk... hahahah.
I got music, that was important. the quality of the sound?? hmm, well.. you know... bad!!
Now, i have moved to a bigger, better isolated walls and ceiling house.
i put my stereo in working order again!
oh my, ! i totally forgot what i nice good sound it has!
I put the Bass en tebre down, so the neighbors wont complain...
But my god! i can blast them out off their seats! It is a lovely sound!!!
Soo powerfull! i really like it!!
i only put it on full blast when i like some music, not just all the time.
I still have some vinyl, some lps....
so the day will come, that i will put on some of my favorite albums,
and the neighborhood will know!!
 all the windows open and go, go go!! hahahaha
I have some pretty rough music! love it!
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my kind of romance....
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Posted:Apr 21, 2017 6:29 am
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2017 1:11 pm 4344 Views
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The dream machine....
When i met this one man, who is capable of showing his emotions, his feelings, who is articulate, who enjoys exchange of ideas and thoughts....
Just as a proces of the get to know each other... to learn how that others persons mind works....
We talk, we learn to read that other person, understand his drive and his desires...
He from her, she from HIM...
We talk about what i want or need out of a Authority Transfer Relation....
What my hard limits are, my soft limits.... my likes..... PROTOCOL, NEGOTIATION, COMPATIBILTIY.
On the relation level as well as on the BDSM level.....
He tells me what his desires are, what he needs from his slave-woman....
we talk things through.....
About health issues, food preference, fashion, shoes, you name it...
We talk about our lifes, our dreams....
what we want out of a 24/7 Totall Authority/Power/ Transfer....
How high or low our desire is for PROTOCOL, rules to life by, the matter of control and how deep that goes... for both of us... If things work in the outside word, or not...
He asks me, what i need, on wich level i long for his guidance, controle, rules,
in wich amount.....
On wich parts of my life.... and so on......
He tells me, in wich manner he needs to feel that AUTHORITY over me...
we negotiate about all of that....
we agree that it is a living, growing experience, there is always the possibility to start to negotiate again, about what works and what not....
He grants her the right to re-start a negotiation
We meet, we talk, we share our dreams, fears, we have fun.
we esthablish a trust a bond between each other....
we like each other, as friends, as a human being, with all his/her flaws....
we care for each other... deeply....
Slowly, slowly our dynamic is taking on form, we are growing into each other, s needs too...
The one thing we constantly do; is talk.
The whole dynamic is build on open, honest and sincere communication.
and the transfer of the Authority...
Him, being the decision maker, and she the one who follow him, because she has learned to trust him, because he is a stable fine person....
Always taken her safety and health in consideration, by his desicion making.
We laugh, make fun of each other, tease and feel joy.
That does not make the dynamic change.
it is always ON,
Even when i disagree with him, he IS still my MASTER-DOMINANT- MAN- LOVER-SADIST.
And i will obey him.
We made the conscious decision to commit to each other, 24/7.
Waking each and every day to the knowledge that i belong to him, makes me full of joy and happiness, centred and whole.
Waking every day, and realise that he has the full power/authority to do with me, my body as he see fit... makes me feel very, very loved, and humble....
My surrender has no bounderies.
Although we both have bounderies.
You could call this some sort of devotion.
As she is devoted to him, HE is in some other way, devoted to her, too
You recognise in the other, some part of you.... i recognise his dominance, his strength, energy, guidance, his care... his demanding drive to make me his.
he recognise the soft tender submissiveness, the will and power to surrender her self totally devotedly to him...
Exploring each others mind, strength, and endurance....
You explore with each other the likes and dislikes, in life and in bdsm taste...
You keep experimenting on all levels!
Always exploring new borders.....
In this kind of SM romance, there is no place for punishment.
(that is a fetish, a role play act.. fantasy...)
When things dont go as you hoped it should, you both talk about it,
and learn from it.
we grow into our special kind of love.
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menstruation/ pains..? labour cramps..
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Posted:Apr 21, 2017 5:25 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 2:15 pm 4203 Views
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For some women the menses is a very hard time, always moodswings, uncontrolable desires about some food or candy...
Breast that swell like ballons, so tender so
And the pain! to some it is really hell!
They are out of order for some days, every single month again!
Till meno pauze sets in....
Here is Holland some people made a device to let the guys feel what women actually feel during the menses.../ and or labour... childbirth
This apparatus make the low stomach muscle cramp, on a scale from -1 till 10..
without any control to stop or change the cramps.....
So, this is put on the man his stomach and he gets the cramps... just as we, or some of we do....
It seems even to have been on the Telie too...!?
So, this guy gets really sick, has a lot of pain.. a helll of a lot of pain!
so much so, that he demands to get that device off him!!
Claiming he will never want to put his girlfriend/partner through this again!
He could not stand the pain!!
He was very, very impressed by the amount of pain, most women have to endure during their menses, for years and years, or during childbirth...
I found it a revilation to see those men handle (not) the pain...
of childbirth.... or the menses... the moon cycle, the menstruationpains...
The only time i had menses pain was the very first time i bleeded...
After that, i had never had any pains, or not that much, anyway, to have to stay at home, not being able to participate in normal social encounters...
I think it is a good thing, that men, finally learn, can experience the amount of pain some women handle in their life.. from their menses, or childbirth.....
Just so, they learn to be more empathic to women...
I think this should be incorporated in to their upbringing.... mutual understanding....
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