Questions, answers? Answers, questions!
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Posted:Apr 6, 2024 6:22 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 1:46 pm 495 Views
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I know it’s a shamelessly stolen song title but slightly rearranged (anyone know who by?)
I’ve recently had quite a few questions about what I do and can offer on Instant Messenger, despite months of stating I can’t reply on there through lack of points. I am always happy to chat about what I do, what it feels like, and offer any help, but can only do on direct messages or via this blog.
So the floor is yours, feel free to ask, especially if you’ve already tried on IM. Questions / comments will be previewed for anyone who wishes to remain anonymous.
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Did lockdown unlock us?
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Posted:Nov 2, 2021 3:51 pm
Last Updated:Feb 9, 2024 3:34 am 2887 Views
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's been a while since I last posted here. So long actually that Covid didn't exist back then. was a time when chats and enquiries were few and far between, and I always put that down the extreme nature of what my and pictures suggest. didn't come as a surprise and never bothered me. The times I was ghosted did initially, but it became part and parcel of the site, in the way scammers tried numerous ways get or personal details. In the way IM would crash mid chat, disappear from your list of chats, then the nerve you again resume the chat with the person. These reasons are why I'll never be anything more than a standard member on here, but I'm digressing now.
Leading up Covid, I'd had two or three serious discussions regarding saline over quite a few years. One led a meet and subsequent sessions. Others been on hold because of lockdowns and distance and/or circumstances also been a factor. were some other chats that quickly became obvious were after ideas fantasise over, and had no intention of actually physically wanting undertake anything. If that is the case, please just say so. I've always said I'm happy discuss and offer advice, that is still the case today.
Lockdown came, and I spent much of away from kink as meets were going be impossible. Work demands in the transport sector grew and this kept me busier too. I'd occasionally in see what had changed, and was usually further restrictions in communicating on here. Messages could no longer be replied (unless you knew a backdoor), IM messages suddenly cost ten times more start/reply . During this time, I started a profile on Fetlife as an alternative this ever restrictive site. It was as quiet over the successive lockdowns as was here.
Jump forward this summer. People are starting see their freedoms returned after what seemed like an eternity. Lockdowns were gone, the vaccines were in full flow, bubbles were popped, socialising was reborn. The world was returning normality slowly wasn't it?
It was, but something strange was also happening. Inhibitions weren't as before. What was once a hard limit was now a soft limit. What was unknown of before was now a curiosity. What was a far flung fantasy was now an reality, and you ask yourself why? Why were people suddenly thinking, following, practising far more than they ever did pre lockdown?
I believe is the realisation that our freedoms are far more precious than we ever thought imaginable. The sudden inability even socialise on the scale we were always used . Couple this the fact Covid was as ruthless as comes, and took away from us even the healthiest of people, we suddenly saw how fragile both life and freedom is. People now want to experience life at its fullest, freedom at its greatest, kink at its extremes.
It can't be a coincidence then that in the past three months I've had more chats and enquiries specifically about saline than I did in the many years leading up to lockdown. One has already had a first 'medical' and is ready for a second appointment, are others keen follow, and others that wished they lived several thousand miles closer the UK.
For all the trials and tribulations that Covid has brought us, been some positives too. Not many admittedly, but some.
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